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Should We Tell Our Partners Everything??? by alex4nj(f): 4:34pm On May 31, 2020

Re: Should We Tell Our Partners Everything??? by Hathor5(f): 4:57pm On May 31, 2020
If you want to but be ready for it to be used against you in time. cheesy

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Re: Should We Tell Our Partners Everything??? by Acidosis(m): 5:33pm On May 31, 2020
Yes, we should.
Re: Should We Tell Our Partners Everything??? by ImaIma1(f): 5:57pm On May 31, 2020
Modified

I thought I read parents before

Everyone's case is peculiar to them.in terms of spouses.

For me, I don't keep anything...to how much I earn or anything, especially because we plan together and we have each other's back.
Re: Should We Tell Our Partners Everything??? by Greatzeus(m): 7:22pm On May 31, 2020
Partners could be a sex mate or boyfriend/ girlfriend or fiance/fiancee or husband/wife.
Yes to your husband/wife because you are one
No to all others because you are not one
Re: Should We Tell Our Partners Everything??? by bukatyne(f): 7:29pm On May 31, 2020
ImaIma1:
No.

Especially telling them how much you earn.

Or telling them every detail in your marriage

Reporting your spouse to them.

Etc.

Like you, I read parents.

It is actually partners as per spouses/lovers.
Re: Should We Tell Our Partners Everything??? by DADDY2or3FISHES: 7:43pm On May 31, 2020
Not a good idea if you want peace of mind
Re: Should We Tell Our Partners Everything??? by Nobody: 7:50pm On May 31, 2020
A woman will always have a hidden secret...for a guy to unravel it, he must be an FBI.


Women generally are crafty. Trust woman to your own peril
Re: Should We Tell Our Partners Everything??? by ImaIma1(f): 9:00pm On May 31, 2020
bukatyne:


Like you, I read parents.

It is actually partners as per spouses/lovers.


Oh! Let me modify
Re: Should We Tell Our Partners Everything??? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:21pm On May 31, 2020
Yes, we should. If you can't trust your partner enough to tell them everything or think you have to withhold somethings from them, then you really have no business being with them.

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Re: Should We Tell Our Partners Everything??? by faithfull18(f): 9:28pm On May 31, 2020
Hmmn lipsrsealed
Re: Should We Tell Our Partners Everything??? by eyinjuege: 9:36pm On May 31, 2020
Some information is useless and unnecessary.

Its not everytime you do chochochocho

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Re: Should We Tell Our Partners Everything??? by crackkland: 11:31pm On May 31, 2020
Everything as a choice of word, is too vague. No one can actually know every single thing (past & present) about their partner.

Personally, I operate on the concept of transparency - especially on things that have/will have a direct effect on how we perceive each other, or an effect on the relationship in general.

For transparency to succeed perfectly though, you have to be confident that whoever you're with, loves you enough to overcome that typical knee-jerk judgemental reaction.

I find that people who are weary of being 100% transparent with their partners really do feel some level of emotional insecurity... they're not confident enough in the love their spouse claims to have for them.

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Re: Should We Tell Our Partners Everything??? by nuelyoyo(m): 2:35am On Jun 01, 2020
Somethings are better kept unsaid, somethings are better taken to the grave.
Re: Should We Tell Our Partners Everything??? by Bola146(f): 4:56am On Jun 01, 2020
Hummmm.. to be on a saver side and to have peace of mind, Yes. There is nothing hidden under the sun
Re: Should We Tell Our Partners Everything??? by sisisioge: 5:06am On Jun 01, 2020
Absolutely! All cards on the table papi.
Re: Should We Tell Our Partners Everything??? by backbone503(m): 7:41am On Jun 01, 2020
Yes, but first ascertain his/her level of maturity. Personally, I love to be told everything. As in, EVERYTHING. Some information could temporally hurt, but I'll overcome it, and love her even more.

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Re: Should We Tell Our Partners Everything??? by Nobody: 9:06am On Jun 01, 2020
smiley
Re: Should We Tell Our Partners Everything??? by Nobody: 11:33am On Jun 01, 2020
No. It will end in tears.

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Re: Should We Tell Our Partners Everything??? by LewsTherin: 12:18pm On Jun 01, 2020
I have maintained a transparent relationship with my Lady for 16 years. Even when we were dating.

I have not regreted it.

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Re: Should We Tell Our Partners Everything??? by IamPlato(m): 6:41pm On Jun 01, 2020
UyaiIncomparabl:
Yes, we should. If you can't trust your partner enough to tell them everything or think you have to withhold somethings from them, then you really have no business being with them.
are You Sure You Can Take It If I Tell you The Whole Truth?
Re: Should We Tell Our Partners Everything??? by Candyness(f): 7:23pm On Jun 01, 2020
UyaiIncomparabl:
Yes, we should. If you can't trust your partner enough to tell them everything or think you have to withhold somethings from them, then you really have no business being with them.

Darlin you are ugly.
Re: Should We Tell Our Partners Everything??? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:24pm On Jun 01, 2020
Candyness:


Darlin you are ugly.

Lol. Thanks. cheesy
Re: Should We Tell Our Partners Everything??? by Candyness(f): 7:27pm On Jun 01, 2020
UyaiIncomparabl:


Lol. Thanks. cheesy

Darlin I apologise. I dislike ugly
Re: Should We Tell Our Partners Everything??? by blueivy8: 12:09am On Jun 02, 2020
It will surely be used against you

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