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Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by Janeberryy: 10:18pm On Jun 01, 2020 |
Ningen: Help whr? I really care, I can't handle emotional stress at this moment. I'm not usually this tender. Dunno jor. |
Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by Janeberryy: 10:20pm On Jun 01, 2020 |
MedicH: Thank you doc |
Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by Janeberryy: 10:22pm On Jun 01, 2020 |
tesseract: But I'm just with one person, and it's that my friend. I'm not double dating na.. don't mind the way I talk, it doesn't give my actual age out.( I have left the other relationship) |
Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by Angelacruz: 10:22pm On Jun 01, 2020 |
Weird thread |
Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by Blitz888(m): 10:42pm On Jun 01, 2020 |
Walking out of that r/ship may just be your best chance at self redemption/self rediscovery but you seem to be moving too fast... Friendship is a good place to start a relationship and I think you've started well except that I consider it too soon especially knowing that you're yet to properly heal from the impact of the last r/ship to start dating. This is the reason for those awkward moments... Apply the 90 day rule and you'll be just fine. 1-Take some time to rediscover yourself so you're sure this is not just a rebound. 2-Determine what your r/ship goals are. 3-Evaluate your values so you're sure you don't move in to a new r/ship with the needless baggage from the last. Keep the new r/ship as just that and you can move it to the next phase after some time...say 90 days ( it's called the 90 day rule). 3 Likes |
Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by Nobody: 11:02pm On Jun 01, 2020 |
So u kept a dick in waiting just incase ur main fuckup abi? Now because after fault finding main u finally decided to release the waiting dick but unlike what u fantasized about its not as exciting. Instead of making ur relationship work ur jumping quickly to the already waiting dick. When we caution u about keeping dicks in waiting u think we don't like u. The time u would use to love urself u dey use am hustle the next available guy who has been praying n fasting for u to have irredeemable issues with ur guy so he can run game on u.. You have made ur bed, go sleep on it ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by Trupz: 11:57pm On Jun 01, 2020 |
OP, please are you up to 20 years? |
Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by Darkzayn: 12:08am On Jun 02, 2020 |
Jane if I were u I do take break now lemme tell u u are not with this guy cause you love him it's cause you my is scared of been alone. you won't even love this your current guy cause you mind is somewhere else. My take give yourself a good break and enjoy doing what you love doing. |
Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by Darkzayn: 12:11am On Jun 02, 2020 |
dairykidd:the issue is with guys who knows someone is dating and keep disturbing them and most girls don't know that even their besties are looking for opportunities ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by SweetCunt97(f): 12:23am On Jun 02, 2020 |
Janeberryy:When you start ghosting and quitting relationships, omo you go continue o. Just try to make things work. Baby steps |
Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by Nobody: 12:29am On Jun 02, 2020 |
Darkzayn:Dont mind them. They know exactly what they're doing. Especially with that besties ish... girls are very tricky and fast when it comes to such matters. Dont ever believe they don't know what they're up to. Its a well laid backup plan for situations that might arise |
Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by Darkzayn: 12:44am On Jun 02, 2020 |
dairykidd:and in the end it ends in premium tears....but still Sha some guys are not trying but u see that bestie ba na God go punish who bring am ![]() |
Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by Janeberryy: 5:51am On Jun 02, 2020 |
Blitz888: Yes I think I moved too fast, I shouldn't have. Will bear this in mind(90 days rule) 1 Like |
Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by Janeberryy: 5:53am On Jun 02, 2020 |
dairykidd: I'm not sleeping on this one. Sure I made a mistake I don't have to live by it. Thanks |
Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by Janeberryy: 5:53am On Jun 02, 2020 |
Trupz:I'm 24 |
Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by Janeberryy: 5:55am On Jun 02, 2020 |
Darkzayn: Maybe I'm scared of being alone, but my mind is not sonewhr else. I will do wat I love doing. |
Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by Janeberryy: 5:56am On Jun 02, 2020 |
Darkzayn: I fell for it |
Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by Janeberryy: 6:00am On Jun 02, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: I dont think I have the energy to start explaining to him that we can work, that I would be better. I am usually very sure of what I want. I am so unsure, that it's affecting now I think even outside relationship and I have bore that feeling since I broke up with my first relationship. Maybe I need time to grief, even though I was sad that I left the other guy(I don't want to go back o) I couldn't be sad because I was in a new relationship. Thank you anyway |
Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by Janeberryy: 6:06am On Jun 02, 2020 |
Offpoint: Offpoint, you know I'm confused already, you can even call my middle name confusion. You sound like you always know what to do all the time( if the answer is yes, you either doesn't make the choices or you don't engage your self in tasking activities) |
Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by Offpoint: 6:41am On Jun 02, 2020 |
Janeberryy:Relationship na tasking activity to you bah?
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Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by Darkzayn: 7:13am On Jun 02, 2020 |
Janeberryy:are you saying you are already in a new relationship? That's too quick ma'am |
Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by Darkzayn: 7:22am On Jun 02, 2020 |
Janeberryy:see any guy who knew you were in a relationship and still wants you never love you take it or leave it..... you need time to grief not a damn new relationship cause you little one you are vulnerable now ![]() |
Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by placeofallure(f): 7:31am On Jun 02, 2020 |
Janeberryy: Maybe, he's just meant to be a friend and nothing more. I remember when I was still in those games.... See, if the two of you have chemistry, even on the first date, you'll lose track of time. Now, I don't mean anything sexual, though it's the endgame eventually. But if you can't hit it off with that person, .... I don't know. For starters, there'll be plenty things to gist about......many things so the atmosphere shouldn't be tense. You should feel comfortable in your skin when you're with him, you should be able to lose your person and not care when you are with him, you should be down-to-earth and own it! If it's not like that with him, I don't know. Just be wise. I know an opinion has already formed in your head. Shake it off, keep your mind open to options and be sure you're making an informed choice even if it's similar with what's in your head at least you can double check. Good luck girl. |
Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by Nobody: 8:52am On Jun 02, 2020 |
Darkzayn: Lool.. that bestie na another code for fwb. So the mumu boyfriend no go suspect the other male friend when dey always dey with him chick. Some girls are stupid and will continue to suffer the consequences of their stupidity.. |
Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by Darkzayn: 8:54am On Jun 02, 2020 |
dairykidd: ![]() ![]() |
Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by Janeberryy: 8:58am On Jun 02, 2020 |
Darkzayn: Yea, almost immediately, haven't done that before. Thought it would work out, we have such good friends. You should see us chat. |
Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by Janeberryy: 8:59am On Jun 02, 2020 |
Darkzayn: I feel raw(tender). Like an open wound and still running. Thanks |
Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by Janeberryy: 9:00am On Jun 02, 2020 |
placeofallure: I would be stiff like a log of wood, even while talking. Everything is work. Thanks sis. 1 Like |
Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by Janeberryy: 9:02am On Jun 02, 2020 |
dairykidd: We never saw, I never cheated or do anything with him. Let me let you continue your discussion sef. |
Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by Nobody: 9:03am On Jun 02, 2020 |
Darkzayn:The truth be say if u no fit be ur babe bestie and lover omor no even reason am say na ur own oo... probably na just help una dey help una selves. She's suppose to enjoy ur company, be fvcking free around u, be able to say and do wtv in ur presence otherwise confirm ur position for the matter ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by Darkzayn: 9:03am On Jun 02, 2020 |
Janeberryy:but have you end the relationship? Yeah it's good you see for yourself that it did not work out that's cause u were not ready and he make use of that opportunity ![]() |
Re: Asking You All Because I Don't Know What To Do Honestly. by Janeberryy: 9:04am On Jun 02, 2020 |
Darkzayn: Know I know o.. he was sharp, I don't blame him too, i should have made a more mature choice of waiting |
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