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What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by OritaIbadan: 10:50am On Jun 06, 2020 |
I employed this 21years old lady last year as a sales rep. At resumption to work she appeard so decent and godly always With her Bible and Sunday school manual. I was really impressed by her spiritual and respectful nature. This made me treat her different from others. I buy her things and sometimes gives her money and always discuss her good life style with my wife. But what amazed me was that my wife was so indifferent about her each time I discuss her my wife will quickly change the topic. I thought, well woman with their naughty behavior towards other women. Fast forward to June first this year her phone was stolen and I have a phone in office that I allow them access to incase their phone is off I can easily reach them through it. This faithful day, I tried to access my Facebook account using the office phone and found out that this same lady had used it but forget to logout. Well, I knew it was wrong to check her inbox but all the same I did. After checking her inbox I couldn't sleep all night. I found out that she is having unprotected sex with 5 guys each guy per Sunday and she just did an abortion March this year the very day she told me that she was sick and can't make it to work and she wasn't sure who among the guys that impregnated her. I also found out that she had missed her period again and trying to hang it on one of the boys. The amazing thing is that non of these guys suspects her, they all believe she is a faithful girl friend. I have thought of relieving her of her job, but my wife is asking me what should I give as reasons. But the truth is that I had never winessed such a wayward life before. If I pretend as though I know nothing she will eventually commit another abortion and continue with such life which is very dangerous at her age. What if she is my own daughter? Please I want the mode to push this to the front page. I want to seek others opnion about it 167 Likes 32 Shares |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by BlueAir: 10:54am On Jun 06, 2020 |
Leave the wayward girl be. It's herself she's doing not you or your business.keep using her for sales.you can sack her when she's turning ur shop to brothel or hookup centre 1461 Likes 99 Shares |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by aprilwise(m): 10:58am On Jun 06, 2020 |
Lemme wait for the elders of this forum to settle this matter. 100 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by OritaIbadan: 10:58am On Jun 06, 2020 |
BlueAir:Alright just thinking as a father is it the best 156 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Amotolongbo(f): 10:59am On Jun 06, 2020 |
We should learn how to separate business from personal life. She is your sales girl, relate with her strictly on business and show less concern on her personal life. The way I’m reading your message, there is already a growing emotion in you already towards the girl, the reason you felt so highly disappointed and wanna lay her off, not because she is underperforming but the way she chose to live her life, which should be less of your concern. In as much she is performing her responsibilities to your satisfaction and not using her “wayward” life to affect your business like she did the first time she went for abortion, leave her alone. The only reason why you can lay her off is if she goes on abortion again and that makes her to take a time out of work and underperforming. 1372 Likes 95 Shares |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Dobson43: 11:00am On Jun 06, 2020 |
Quick points here: You were supposed to mind your business. You crossed a line poking your nose in her personal affairs. Being her Boss doesn't give you the right to judge her. She is under contract to serve you in a certain capacity. Stick to that capacity. If her atitude to work affects your business in anyway, then you can let her off. Why should you be bothered as a father? What's the point of drinking paracetamol on another man's headache? If you had used this amount of time in snooping around in pushing your business forward, you would actually enjoy better patronage. You should draw a line as regards your relationship between yourself and your workers. It appears you have feelings for this lady thus your uneasiness that she has underperformed in your own estimation. Kill that feeling. It's her life, let her define it how it suits her This time actually do mind your business. 623 Likes 38 Shares |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by annford: 11:01am On Jun 06, 2020 |
OritaIbadan: It was wrong for you to have gone through her chat because you'd have frowned at it if reverse were the case. Personally, I don't think it is in your place to judge her or treat her any different just because you dug up some stuffs about her. If you must let her go, you might as well sit her down, tell her your findings, get her to see her wrong and just hope she changes. I had a similar experience. My Wife and I had met a girl who was an unapologetic lesbian. We did all we could to change her but she just didn't want to change. We tried all we could but she remained adamant. She even got pregnant and didn't know who's baby it was. She later started sleeping with everything male in our neighbourhood. Well, she presently has two children by two different men that she doesn't even know their whereabouts. After trying for months to change her, we had to let her go because at some point, she started falling in love with me and I will never cheat on my wife. My wife and I always gave her goof money, clothing's and foodstuffs but she was neck-deep into sex ( casual sex). I'd advise you try rehabilitating her but if it doesn't work, cut her loose. 208 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by BlueAir: 11:03am On Jun 06, 2020 |
Just leave her be and act like you didn't see anything.we now live in a perverse generation with perverse youths.dont be surprised people online here and at ur place will tell you you aren't her parent .that girl has been on it for a long time,and for her to be dating 5 guys expertly,shes nearly a pro in the game,you can hardly change a pro OritaIbadan: 52 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Nobody: 11:04am On Jun 06, 2020 |
You may counsel her if you so much care but the truth is you invaded her privacy by checking her inbox.Thats very unprofessional! BTW are you sure you have no feelings for this girl? This one you can't sleep over her mata? ![]() 198 Likes 19 Shares |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by LikeAking: 11:05am On Jun 06, 2020 |
You are surprised a 21 years old girl is banging guys. The holier they claim,the faker they are. 296 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Richardonald(m): 11:05am On Jun 06, 2020 |
5 guys eeh!!! some ladies life don finish. different prick per every Sunday, after they will say no husband to marry them, when they have f..ck their future husband away. 114 Likes 11 Shares
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Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Nobody: 11:06am On Jun 06, 2020 |
She'll appreciate you if you mind your business. 60 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by OritaIbadan: 11:07am On Jun 06, 2020 |
annford: Thank you sir, yes I knew it was wrong to check her messages but having sighted some of the I was tempted to dig further. Point noted 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by LastProphet: 11:12am On Jun 06, 2020 |
OritaIbadan: Is none of your business because she has not invited you into her private life you only violated it. Did you employ her to be daddy's daughter or sales girl? I suspect you are interested in her 124 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by OritaIbadan: 11:15am On Jun 06, 2020 |
Ariza:Funny you, I was shocked at that level of immorality right at my nose 33 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Chidonc(m): 11:15am On Jun 06, 2020 |
OritaIbadan:The world would have been a better place if men like you mind your own business. Keep your Christian Life to yourself. Apart from been your sales girl, she has her private life to live as long as it doesn't affect your business fine and good. Has she been entertaining male visitors during office hours, I'm sure you will say no, has she been stealing from you, no, has she not been punctual, you will still say no. Why not mind your fuckiing business. 102 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Justbehave(m): 11:15am On Jun 06, 2020 |
annford:NICE ONE. All this people saying the op is interested in her ,you all are fools.Once again,thank you for this wonderful and matured response. 132 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by OritaIbadan: 11:16am On Jun 06, 2020 |
LastProphet:Ok thank you 1 Like |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Neimar: 11:17am On Jun 06, 2020 |
Guyman wan taste the kitten 24 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Nezzjnr: 11:17am On Jun 06, 2020 |
You guys are saying OP should mind his business... For what exactly?? Didn't you see where OP stated that he's like a Fatherly figure to her and she's different from the others ![]() This girl is still a minor working as a sales rep... If something bad happens to her... All fingers will be pointing towards OP. 225 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Nobody: 11:17am On Jun 06, 2020 |
Na wah oo what's ur business with her private life na? 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Ugaboy: 11:20am On Jun 06, 2020 |
U cant unseen what u had, save the poor girl life...dont say or talk too much ...she might be enjoying what she is doing, but cant save herself from unwanted pregnancy ...trying to give her load of advice, may turn u into an enemy or intruder ...since u care for her life, just do what is right 28 Likes |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Ningen(m): 11:20am On Jun 06, 2020 |
We all have a responsibility towards building a sane society. As her employer, don't turn a blind eye to her promiscuous lifestyle. She's just 21. As such, sacking her wouldn't solve anything. What she badly need right now is sex education. Your wife can take that responsibility. It's a step forward if she learns from a woman about the dangers of promiscuity & unprotected sex. Please do that for the sake of humanity. 338 Likes 34 Shares |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Nobody: 11:21am On Jun 06, 2020 |
OritaIbadan:Lol... You may counsel her but know when to cut ties so you don't get dragged. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Michelle55: 11:22am On Jun 06, 2020 |
The earlier we learn to mind our business, the better it would be for us all.. Op, simply turn a blind eye like nothing happened, you don't have any right to snoop around her like that.. You are only her boss not her parents 13 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by izzou(m): 11:23am On Jun 06, 2020 |
That girl is too young to start ruining herself I don't think I'll be able to mind my business, if it was me 178 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by izzou(m): 11:24am On Jun 06, 2020 |
Michelle55: And then if she dies from the next abortion nko? 121 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by IamPlato(m): 11:25am On Jun 06, 2020 |
Girls See Sex As Fun, they Bang Whenever They Like. Many Are Prostitutes who Hide Under The Name Of Relationship And fake Love. The Children That Are Suppose To Be Virgins, rapists don Dis virgin Them. We Are All Mad In The Planet 39 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by OritaIbadan: 11:25am On Jun 06, 2020 |
Ningen:I have discussed that already with my wife, she said she would talk with her provided she cooperate 75 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Justbehave(m): 11:27am On Jun 06, 2020 |
izzou:Don't mind all these people tell ING op to mind his business. Hope they will all mind their business if she dies trying to have another abortion? 74 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Michelle55: 11:29am On Jun 06, 2020 |
izzou:What if he never gets to find out something like that at the first place if only he didn't snoop? I'm not sure the young lady will appreciate her boss encroaching on her privacy like that.. So he should assume he didn't know anything and let her be 15 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by OritaIbadan: 11:29am On Jun 06, 2020 |
izzou:I had even tried to ignore but am not finding it very easy thats why I informed my wife and brought it up here just to be sure I do the right thing 28 Likes 2 Shares |
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