Do Women Who Give Men Their Money Regret It?

Usually, the guy in the relationship is expected to make the first move by giving his babe some money or any valuable gift item to show that “he is the man”. However, we don’t all play by this “rule”.


Quite a number of ladies in relationships do not mind spending an arm and a leg on their boyfriends. For such ladies, it is simply in their nature to give. And is it not the Bible that says, “For God so loved the world, that He gave…”?


While these ladies may not mind “performing the duty of a man” in the relationship as they give because they have good hearts, this behaviour has been criticised by some observers.


Ladies who pay all the bills and generously assist their men financially with very little to no reciprocation from their men are termed by these observers as fools in love who are only headed for disaster. Fools because the observers say that no matter how poor a man might be, if he loves you, he will find a way to give you something precious.

These observers say that a man should never be comfortable with receiving money or other gift items from his babe all the time. They believe that as a man, you should feel a bit of shame if your lady is the one who constantly shoulders the financial responsibilities in the relationship and that if you don’t, you’re not in love with her but only looking for how to chop and clean mouth.


These observers further opine that if you look very well, the guy who is being spent on is taking all the gifts and money and spending it on another lady which could be his side chick or main chick ...

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It's just toxic masculinity.

Akunwafor:
It's just toxic masculinity.

Oh! Just that?

libby01:


Oh! Just that?

What else could it be.

No matter the reason you give, "you are not a MAN" will be in it.

So yes, toxic masculinity.

ingrate isn't gender base.....it both sides.

But in my country it a crime for a lady to spend on a man....I once had a issh with the lady I dated during my service year so somehow d landlord got to know...so he called us to is living room to settle the issh.....his wife made a statement I can never forget "told us only a foolish woman will give her Money to a man" after she stood up her husband told us she the one that give him money to buy the land he built this house on which they are living.....so she wasn't honest just like the observers op mentioned.

Do what you can and don't be selfish in your relationship.....what be will be.

These observers further opine that if you look very well, the guy who is being spent on is taking all the gifts and money and spending it on another lady which could be his side chick or main chick ...

pls where do you guys found out all men's mind is preoccupied with having numerous chicks and all sorts of ridiculous assumptions?

I haven't chased any lady this year as I'm preoccupied with my hustle and my current GF thinks I'm having side chicks just because I have less time for her these days.

that being said, I still haven't jammed a Nigerian girl buoyant with her money on me. all they all want to do is take take take from you. from the guy's shirts to money. ahn ahn, shey won fi sheyin ni

libby01:
Do Women Who Give Men Their Money Regret It?

Usually, the guy in the relationship is expected to make the first move by giving his babe some money or any valuable gift item to show that “he is the man”. However, we don’t all play by this “rule”.


Quite a number of ladies in relationships do not mind spending an arm and a leg on their boyfriends. For such ladies, it is simply in their nature to give. And is it not the Bible that says, “For God so loved the world, that He gave…”?


While these ladies may not mind “performing the duty of a man” in the relationship as they give because they have good hearts, this behaviour has been criticised by some observers.


Ladies who pay all the bills and generously assist their men financially with very little to no reciprocation from their men are termed by these observers as fools in love who are only headed for disaster. Fools because the observers say that no matter how poor a man might be, if he loves you, he will find a way to give you something precious.

These observers say that a man should never be comfortable with receiving money or other gift items from his babe all the time. They believe that as a man, you should feel a bit of shame if your lady is the one who constantly shoulders the financial responsibilities in the relationship and that if you don’t, you’re not in love with her but only looking for how to chop and clean mouth.


These observers further opine that if you look very well, the guy who is being spent on is taking all the gifts and money and spending it on another lady which could be his side chick or main chick ...

Continue reading at https://9jababa.com/women-who-give-men-their-money/

DON’T GIVE ANY MAN WHO ISN’T YOUR HUSBAND MONEY

Godoverevery:
ingrate isn't gender base.....it both sides.

But in my country it a crime for a lady to spend on a man....I once had a issh with the lady I dated during my service year so somehow d landlord got to know...so he called us to is living room to settle the issh.....his wife made a statement I can never forget "told us only a foolish woman will give her Money to a man" after she stood up her husband told us she the one that give him money to buy the land he built this house on which they are living.....so she wasn't honest just like the observers op mentioned.

What an embarrassing situation!

21cents:
These observers further opine that if you look very well, the guy who is being spent on is taking all the gifts and money and spending it on another lady which could be his side chick or main chick ...

pls where do you guys found out all men's mind is preoccupied with having numerous chicks and all sorts of ridiculous assumptions?

I haven't chased any lady this year as I'm preoccupied with my hustle and my current GF thinks I'm having side chicks just because I have less time for her these days.

that being said, I still haven't jammed a Nigerian girl buoyant with her money on me. all they all want to do is take take take from you. from the guy's shirts to money. ahn ahn, shey won fi sheyin ni

Lol

HeavenlyCherub:


DON’T GIVE ANY MAN WHO ISN’T YOUR HUSBAND MONEY

But some husbands too defraud their wives. Stories of how a wife was the breadwinner for years only for the husband to defraud her & marry someone else abound ...

Omo O strong
Cause some niggas no get joy if a lady start doing that now the guy will turn it into something normal
And in a situation like that na tears dey end am Last
Am spilling some real shi

HeavenlyCherub:


DON’T GIVE ANY MAN WHO ISN’T YOUR HUSBAND MONEY

says victim of players.

Ask GEJ or Obama

Why must someone spend an arm and a leg?

Let us promote equality. Men and women have to contribute equitably to all relationships.

This is already the case in many if not most relationships after all is said and done.