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Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by BillKapri96: 4:29pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Ladycewhy: Stop been emotional, be logical rather. It will help you from now on, thanks and Good Day |
Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by ajl: 4:29pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
NwaNimo1: You will soon be a victim, and guess what, the perpetrators would be 3 gay men. Sad no one would believe you. And that your buthole will need to be stitched. 1 Like |
Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by Ladycewhy(f): 4:29pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Justbehave:Normal or not ,I want a safer environment to raise my children ,na beg I dey beg o. |
Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by Nobody: 4:30pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
sukhothai: Lalasticlala, here's another one. Kindly do justice |
Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by Ladycewhy(f): 4:30pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
BillKapri96:the logical thing here is that there is a victim and a perpetrator . |
Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by lastpage: 4:31pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
EMOTION Vs. LOGIC in Rape Cases The problem we have with RAPE as a menace is that some women with underlying problems, want to use RAPE to solve all their underlying problems, they want to use it as a WEAPON, the same way Women use Domestic Violence as a weapon against Men, as if it is only Men that perpetuates DV. In my own view, l think we need to separate RAPE into TWO categories, if we want to get a handle on it and really prescribe very harsh punishment (like Castration or even the Death Penalty) for it. The (intentional) Rape and the (Unintentional) 'Carnal Knowledge' If we generalise rape, then we will be punishing too harshly, some undeserving people. Let me explain. RAPE IS ALL ABOUT CONSENT: NOT GIVEN, GIVEN OR GIVEN AND THEN WITHDRAWN legally, If you have sex with someone WITHOUT their CONSENT, you have committed Rape. So, we need to examine the various scenarios where Consent is "Not Given", "Given" or "Given and then Withdrawn Midway". Let me make some hypothetical scenarios: - In some Countries, a legally married man has been accused of raping his wife because he demanded for sex and she was using it as a weapon to draw-out undeserved requests, from him. he had sex with her anyway, afetral, she was hi slegal wife and he was not expected to satisfy his sexual urge anywhere else outside his marriage! Is he guilty or not guilty of Rape? - In another scenario, a Married man's wife allowed pre-intimacy and when the sex was ongoing, she introduced a request/question and insist the man must agree/anwer, for the sex to continue. The Man refused to agree/answer and insisted on finishing the on-going sex and afterwards, she said he has raped her because at the point he refused to answer her request, she WITHDREW her CONSENT midway. Is this Rape or not? - Two young people were befriending each other, they both went to the Club, drank themselves to stupor, took a taxi home and had sex in a drunken state. Lady woke up next morning and alleged that she did not give her consent to sex and therefore the Boyfriend has raped her! IS she right or wrong? - Two people had been talking sex and agreed to have sex on a date. lady left her house and went to guy's house, guy was already expecting to have sex with her and when she came-in, they both went to bath together, went to bed nakedly and started exploring their bodies. Both were aroused, guy mounted lady and was inserting his rod when Lady decided this was the time to ask him for that "Iphone 11". Guy was not too interested in that, at that point, while Lady was insisting that he should stop penetrating her (withdrawal of consent) if he wont promise to buy her the phone, guy was focused on finishig the sex business they already started. After the exercise, the lady alledged she was raped by the guy! IS this accusation fair or not? - Aunty Nina works in a Nursery school looking after children. She regularly grops the little boys till they develop a hard on at such early age and she will then give the Boys a blow-job! ofcourse the little Boys were confused and dont knwo what is going on. Was she committing Rape and should she be sentenced to death or her Breast castrated off her chest? - A few guys decided that a lady was always forming "above our class" in the neighbourhood, she wont greet them and even when they greet her, she wont answer! They therefore decided to sieze her and have sex with her. They monitored her and took her to an unfinished building and had sex with her, all of them, one after the other. Should they all be sentenced to death for Rape or not? - Mother left her four Children with her friend while she was hospitalised, her eldest son was 19yrs and the second was 15yrs. Her 39yr old friend went to the room the 19yr old was sleeping at night and started gropping the Boy, making him hard, she then proceeded to suck him and while the Boy was protesting, she mounted him and wanted to 'ride Okada"' on the Boy! The boy protested because she told her that 'you are like my mother' but she said dont worry and had her way anyway. The boy ejaculated though . Was the Boy raped or did he just enjoy it and was pretending? Should the woman be charged for Rape and sentenced to death? - This beautiful girl was having difficulty get a Bus home from school. She approached this starnger with a vehicle if he can assist her with transport, he promised to assist but instead, took her on a long detour and eventually, says he cant proceed on the journey anymore. he asked her to stay in his hosue overnight and he would take her home the next morning. He started toasting her and she actually took a liking to him along the line. She agreed to lay-low in his apartment and in the night, he forced his way into having sex with her. Should he be sentenced for Rape or not? There are many more scenarios l could have painted but let me limit it to these. Now, in all the cases, the Ladies involved have at one point or the other, alleged RAPE because she has NOT GIVEN ro GIVEN and WITHDREW CONSENT. If the punishement for Rape was say the Death Penalty, should we all agree that all the Men and Women involved above NEED AND DESERVE TO DIE? The reason l painted these different scenario is that l want allof us to reflect on the issue of RAPE and the various circumstances and possibilities and to know that Rape Cases need proper investigation into the CIRCUMSTANCES surrounding it, to avoid miscarriage of Justice. It cannot be done with emotions or sentiments but with LOGIC, not with pent-up anger or grudge against a particular gender and when laws are to be passed, they cannot be used as a weapon against a particular gender or skewed to favor another gender. Men and Women commit Rape. [b]I leave the analysis to intelliegent people here to dissect. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by Justbehave(m): 4:31pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Ladycewhy:No where in the world is safe.If you re a Christian,better port to heaven. |
Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by safarigirl(f): 4:32pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
sunshineV: It should, but it doesn't a lot of times. It is related to the story, but it doesn't always give the right perspective. Like I have further explained in a consequent post, a headline can be misleading. 2 Likes |
Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by BillKapri96: 4:33pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Ladycewhy: But in this case, the madam and her sales girl are big fat liars 1 Like |
Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by sunshineV(f): 4:35pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
safarigirl: Wo leave story Leipzig don killy pesin |
Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by safarigirl(f): 4:35pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
bukatyne: LOL. Did the dispatch company tell you they were not called? Or, you think rapists are foolish enough to just continue in their old jobs? You don't live in Nigeria, clearly. I like how you have concluded that LUTH's version has cancelled out everything, because hospitals always tell the truth and never absolve themselves of blame. 3 Likes |
Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by BillKapri96: 4:35pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
safarigirl: That's why folks should be reading the details and not the headlines drawing their conclusion from there. And bloggers should stop posting confusing headlines 1 Like |
Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by safarigirl(f): 4:35pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
sunshineV: K. 1 Like |
Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by safarigirl(f): 4:36pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
BillKapri96:Most Nigerians do not read before forming opinions. They depend heavily on headlines, this site has proven that multiple times. 4 Likes |
Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by Billyddude: 4:37pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
oluwamile: Failed luth ,failed health sector failed country .,failed system 1 Like |
Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by Ladycewhy(f): 4:37pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
BillKapri96:nah, the boss didn't want to pay as she wanted everything be be free as per nor be her pikin na . That still doesn't change the fact that there is a victim here. |
Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by haywhy80: 4:39pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
BillKapri96: 1 Like |
Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by SATANIIST: 4:39pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Ladycewhy:i know your type na. u toto must smell from all these dog licking |
Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by pek(m): 4:39pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
BillKapri96:So you believe their narrative? |
Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by salford1: 4:39pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
The bureaucracy just to get PEP administered. Shytehole country. |
Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by FlordFlorez(m): 4:44pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Ladycewhy:Lolz! U know, i have been enjoying ur company until now that u decided to cut it short. Anyways, i hope u aren't a rape victim nor an unapologetic feminist cos u sounded like one. Forgive me all my outbursts, will u? |
Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by Gordieshegz(m): 4:46pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
fof1: My dear, If we understand how unempowered the nigerian hospitals are, we wont blame powerless doctors. A number of the facilities in use in many hospitals today are sourced by the departments themselves through alumni or departmental levies on members and not from federal government, just to facilitate smooth running of clinics and wards. And the only way to ensure those facilities are in place is by making presenting patients replace anything used. But so many patients would abscond after treatment and put the attending doctor or the nurse into debts if treated before payment is asked for. So it makes sense if clinicians dont have anything to do with money but account section. So if a patient can get the PEP by herself supposing none is available through NGOs, a doctor can then administer after holistic approach had been employed in managing her. Treatment is not free, and if we want from treatment in hospitals, we should address our government, not hospital management, to make it possible. 2 Likes |
Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by ToyBoyAaron(m): 4:49pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Ladycewhy:Stop your stereotype, rape is found in every race, nationality, state, culture, religion and even gender. Just because it is common to the male gender doesn't make all men rapist and you pointing it at Nigerian men is bullcrap. 1 Like |
Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by bmdmixer: 4:50pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Akachai2030:really? ritualist n terrorist will b placed in what rank? |
Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by Ladycewhy(f): 4:50pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
SATANIIST:change your ways, women full outside,stop raping
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Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by Ladycewhy(f): 4:53pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
FlordFlorez:I don't have to be a rape victim to speak against it ,any sane human being should speak out against it ,how ever I think why guys here feel one has to be a rape victim to speak against rape is because they fear one of their victims might be out for revenge, its all part of the guilty conscience that is making guys holla at me on this thread . 3 Likes |
Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by BillKapri96: 4:56pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
@haywhy80 and @pek Thanks, I've corrected it 1 Like |
Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by SATANIIST: 4:56pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Ladycewhy:change your ways, preek of various sizes full outside,stop raping stop animal sex abuse and stop pedophilia |
Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by BillKapri96: 4:57pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
safarigirl: They are doing themselves |
Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by BillKapri96: 4:59pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Ladycewhy: You've been wailing all over this thread. Well, pay for her na, let them do their work 1 Like |
Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by Rilwayne001: 5:00pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
thundafire: What's my business with that ZOMBIEEE? |
Re: LUTH Reacts To 18-Year-Old Sales Girl Raped By Dispatcher by FlordFlorez(m): 5:04pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Ladycewhy:Nobody up there as far as i know have spoken/typed ingainst it. We've all condemn and went against it. I agree with u but u know, ur first post is wrong. U shouldn't have generalize it. It was the reason why many guyz up there and myself attacked u cos we were trying to defend ourselves that we aren't rapists. I suggest u should modify it. Thanks. |
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