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Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by amba2017: 10:16pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
invite her to your house, let her know that you unintentionally saw her Facebook posts in the office line and then let your wife talk sense into her foolish brain. may be God want to use you as a vessel to save that girl. sacking her is to the best option also if you choose to keep quitd , your attitude towards her will definitely change. pls help a dying soul and be blessed! 1 Like |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Bleiz(m): 10:17pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
An UNAPOLOGETIC lesbian, in your own words is having sex with multiple men? The UNAPOLOGETIC lesbian also has two kids from different men? Ok nah. Let me be going. annford: |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by abdsamad(m): 10:17pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
OritaIbadan: Uhuhn! You read her private messages. Isn't there a special place in hell for people who do that? As far as I'm concerned, you're no better than she is. Fire her if it will help you sleep better at night but pls pls pls, get off your high horse. On the other hand, maybe you're really not that bad and you're just trying to help. If you want to help her, don't compound her problems by taking her job. 1 Like |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by danhans(m): 10:19pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
It is wrong for you checking her account but however there is a purpose for everything,counsel her you might save someone |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by BizBayo: 10:19pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
izzou: The heart of man is full of wickedness. A case study of those people telling the OP to mind his business. Some, their life is already spoilt, so they don't mind to see more people with them in their misfortune. 4 Likes |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by skimena: 10:20pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
sir my advice is that u should call her and advice her as a father and as a brother. But in as much as she doesn't steal your money or play with your biz then don't sack her. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by stanliwise(m): 10:20pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
OritaIbadan:Let business be business. But it is not a bad thing to help this girl correct her ways but always think of how it could affect your business relationship. Now you know who she is just keep on doing what you do and don’t fall for her cheap antics anymore. Just ensure she does your business well and if you must advise her on her ways let it be when opportunity present itself. You sneaking to her inbox is an unethical approach and that will truncate how you advice her. Infact you may need to pretend you don’t know much about her to advice her. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Nobody: 10:20pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
IamPlato:Divert that your madness to you and your family alone, me and my families are not included |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by adanny01(m): 10:20pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
OritaIbadan: You that judge her will still stand beside her at the gate of heaven to be judged. You invaded her privacy and should refrain from blackmail else you will be worst than she is. Its her cross to carry. If you don't agree with her secret lifestyle keep it to yourself if it has nothing to do with work. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by stormborn28(m): 10:21pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
izzou:that is her business... She chose her lifestyle |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Nephilim: 10:21pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
OritaIbadan:Advise her as a father, and let her know where she's heading to if she continue her wayward lifestyle. And what exactly is she gaining from the Bible that she's reading or is she just interested in being an hypocrite? Attimes these people wants to break from that chain the devil hooks them in but they have no will nor strength to break free, so whatever advice or help you may have, give her. 1 Like |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by stanliwise(m): 10:21pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
amba2017:Is there any reason to sack her? Has her personal life affected his business in anyway? Please don’t mix emotion with business. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by BizBayo: 10:22pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Michelle55: That would be 'what if'. But now that's not the case, because he did found out, which is the reality on ground. 2 Likes |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Emrixx(f): 10:22pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Just sit her and advice her Let her know the danger involve in the kind of life she has chosen for herself Relieving her of her duty isn't the best thing to do as you'll make her more vulnerable If she's a cool headed person u might be able to change her way, but next time don't invade her privacy b4 she go shout rape for ur head |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Yinkagbo(m): 10:23pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
OritaIbadan: My pastor daughter used my phone to make a call not knowing that I have recording app which record incoming and outgoing calls....after she gave me the phone I listened to call recorded.thru the call I discovered that she has aborted five times and she is on another one which she want to abort but need some cash to do it....this is just a girl of 16years...me just do like I don't know anything till now....wetin concern me... 3 Likes |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by BlueAir: 10:23pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
get in line ,boy.many have tried and have failed.still trying and failing MajorOvakporaye: |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Olafisoyem: 10:23pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
You cannot sack her on the basis of her private life. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Chachangi: 10:24pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
You should strike a balance between minding your business and keeping a sane and safe world. We were minding our business until corona came from China to everyone and the story changed. The world is a global village. As Africans we live a communal life, though that is being mordernized. We need to think of the knock on effects of our actions. If the girl becomes frustrated and misbehaves and does something drastic. I doubt if anyone here on Nairaland will be affected but you will be affected to some extent. Please, do what you can to help her but be sure you and your family are safe. Pray to God to guide you. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Alaganature(m): 10:24pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Bro at 21 you shouldn't be surprised..we have many of this kind of a girl on this forum..who claims they know nothing about sex..and had sex every Sunday.. Never judge a book by its cover. 1 Like |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by realray(m): 10:25pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
the Bible says we should be our brothers keeper so its a good thing you found out about her because who knows God might want to use you to talk to her, advise her if she'll change, just imagine if she's your daughter or sister will you let her be?? when you see someone following the wrong road won't you tell the person? we should live a life of love, she's not your enemy or even if she's your enemy CHRIST SAID WE SHOULD PRAY FOR OUR ENEMIES AND EVEN GIVE THEM FOOD AND WATER IF THEY ARE IN NEED....SO MY ADVICE IS TALK TO HER LIKE SHE'S YOUR DAUGHTER OR SISTER DO THE BEST YOU CAN.... |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Chachangi: 10:26pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Yinkagbo: This is wickedness. I thought we call ourselves brother and sisters in church. If your pastor is truly your brother, you need to inform him. But be wise. Make sure you are sure of what you are saying. Just so you know, it is not gossip. It is exposing evil. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by sosospence(m): 10:26pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
izzou:You did well.'Mind your business'sometimes destroys laid down good values. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by LordShiva97(m): 10:26pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Does her immoral lifestyle in any way affect your business or her work performance? If the answer is no, then kindly let her be. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by stanliwise(m): 10:27pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
stormborn28:Just because he is her employer doesn’t mean he can’t advice her. It could anyone, friend, daughter , sister. When you can help do as much as the help you’re trying to render will on a long run have a positive impact then there is no harm in trying. He should just ensure he don’t judge her by her way of life, he should just help her open her senses to how things could turn badly in life later on for her. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by OyinO: 10:27pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
The Devil you know is better than the Angel you have never seen before. Call her and give her advice. She will change. Then she'll become morally upright. As for the sacking, it's a no no because she hasn't done anything to deserve it. It's like trying to disown your biological daughter for doing sh!t like this. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by joelbooks: 10:27pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by ogorwyne(f): 10:28pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
A lot of people are asking the op to mind his business because the girl is not a member of their family. Op, you and your wife should have a talk with her. She can still change her ways if she wants to. Please counsel her. The church girl acts also shows that she is deceitful. I don't like this part at all at all. Let her know what you have seen so she can drop that her sister-mary behavior around you. 1 Like |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by vickybantin(m): 10:28pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
shes not interfering with ur biznez let her be abeg. dont judge it's her life.. and yes u said ure thinking like a father...but ure nt her father the best u can do is advice her.but when she ask u how u knew about them then I dont knw what ud tell her. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Nobody: 10:28pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
OritaIbadan:Jaw dropping!!! |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by aspirebig: 10:29pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
There are many like that outside. Many have now turned to church after years of grooving. Don't be deceived. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Nobody: 10:30pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
LikeAking:5 different guys+ Abortions, Mr Woke |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Bennysam: 10:30pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
BlueAir:What I’m saying is for him to find a way and talk to her that’s all my friend, because I believe there’s a reason why he see that message |
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