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Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by tomdon(m): 11:54pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Amotolongbo: Is any employee not entitled to some time to attend to personal things once a while?? The man should learn to look away and focus on his business. She is not a child and should be allowed autonomy. At that age my mum had done church marriage and had her first child |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Care4: 11:54pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
OritaIbadan: You're trespassing. If she's not failing on her job, her private life is not enough a reason to sacknher. She might even end worse. Find a good opportunity to talk to her. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by gowonmaharajah(m): 11:54pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
why are nairalanders so concerned about the girl work delivery in op's business and not her life? this tells a lot about us. let's be our brother's keeper,please. 1 Like |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by bluefilm: 11:55pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
hollywater: Don't mind them. They think they are smart. But they only end up showing how stupid and useless and hopeless and wasted they really are. Nonsense. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by safarigirl(f): 11:57pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
eni4real: Yes, 100. If it was a man that he had seen incriminating messages to twenty women on his phone, would the OP be this concerned? Why do Nigerian men feel the need to police women's bodies? If a woman says she doesn't want to have sex, they complain, the one that is having sex, complain too. OP can talk to her of the dangers of abortion and advice her to have safe sex, but ultimately, it is up to the lady. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Nobody: 11:58pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Does her wayward life affect her duties and services to you as a salesgirl? If no, oga biko mind your business. At 21, she is a full adult and should be responsible for her actions and lifestyle. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by tomdon(m): 11:59pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Nezzjnr: Minor?? Are you dreaming?? |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Amanda4life: 11:59pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
NO PRIVACY IN THIS LIFE. WHY WOULD YOU PRETEND U SISNT SEE ANYTHING. There's nothing private about about this life. ONCE WE DIE ANYBODY CAN SEE OUR unclothedness. SO TELL ME WHAT IS PRIVATE ABOUT LIFE. PLEASE CALL HER AND CAUTION HER ABOUT USING OFFICE PHONE FOR HER PRIVATE STUFF. AND ALSO DISCUSS WHAT YOU SAW ON HER FACEBOOK MGS. AND ADVISE HER PLEASE. YOU ARE EVEN A DISCIPLINE MAN, SOME PEOPLE IN THIS FORUM WOULD HAVE TURNED HER INTO SEX OBJECT SINNNNCE |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by dchem(m): 12:00am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Amotolongbo: I disagree with this advice. Please if you are a Christian you cannot allow evil to surround your environment. Abortion is a big crime. If you want to stay out of it please let her go. However, for me I will find a way to ensure she is turned away from that lifestyle and into a better one. As a community we need to look out for one another, there is a reason people come into our circle. This selfish way of living is destroying the world. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by MrBONE2(m): 12:00am On Jun 07, 2020 |
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Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by gowonmaharajah(m): 12:02am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Muyiwamary:original poster. anybody that creates a thread or topic 1 Like |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by ibkayee(f): 12:03am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Acidosis:You are so weird ![]() He said himself he has a phone in the office that he allows them access to incase their phone is off, we don't know that she used his phone to talk to any of her 'useless boyfriends', are you telling me that you don't know that the contents of her inbox will be the same no matter what device is used to log in? It is none of his business, why do some of you morality soldiers always have to impose your 'values' on everyone when whatever the person is doing could have absolutely no impact on you? He's concerned about the dangers she's putting herself in at her age yet wants to take her source of livelihood from her over something that's none of his business lol smh 1 Like |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Nobody: 12:04am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Nezzjnr: how is a 21 year old a minor? go back to secondary school you dumbass |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by emmaodet: 12:04am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Acidosis: Bro, that statement ''Mind your business'' is one of the statements i find irritating on this forum. I believe they mostly use it to shut people up so as to continue with their bad and irritating behaviours. A woman is virtually walking naked - mind your business A yahoo boy scamming people - mind your business A lady into runs - mind your business A politician looting - mind your business A married woman sleeping around and you as a neighbor knows - mind your business And the list goes on and on until it personally happens to them or family or children, then all hell will be let loose e.g when their own daughter starts sleeping around or parents being scammed by yahooboys. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Liliantalks: 12:04am On Jun 07, 2020 |
OritaIbadan:mehn it’s non of ur business, that babe is an adult . Focus on ur business |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by bolrew: 12:04am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Please talk to her like a father will talk to his daughter. Let her know you know her secrets and advise her to desist from such lifestyle. God bless you |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by davien(m): 12:07am On Jun 07, 2020 |
In what way were you permitted to stalk her chats? As the boss you don't have that privilege. It's a serious crime, you're lucky you're in Nigeria. If not, you'd cough out so much money for impingement of privacy you'll have to close that shop of yours. And the so-called fatherly advice you're trying to give her is called "overreaching". This is an adult, after advicing her you'll start asking other personal questions.. And laying down rules that you would like her to follow. My advice is if you badly want to tell her to tell her you saw her chats and you don't think lowly of her, tell her she should try sticking to one partner and engage in safer sex as abortions being illegal in Nigeria means she won't be in safe hands, and then let her know you won't talk on the matter again. 1 Like |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by jonneljonn(m): 12:08am On Jun 07, 2020 |
confront her immediately and report her toher parents and returnher back immediately she is already spoilt if u habour her she will put into avery big problems 1 Like |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Fragility6: 12:08am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Nezzjnr:Majority jst dey shout mind ur business. They are economical with the truth |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Taribizy(m): 12:09am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Hello OP. It doesn't matter how you obtained the information of the promiscuity of your sales girl, please send her away. If she is lying to her boyfriends she is probably deceiving you too in one way or another in that shop. Speak to her parents if they recommended her to you and thank your lucky stars she isn't pinning her pregnancy on you.( if you made the unfortunate mistake of touching her) |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Judybash93(m): 12:10am On Jun 07, 2020 |
It's her life. Let her be. As long as she's doing her job well, i think you should just let her work with you. Yes, she's wayward but no one knows her story. Sometimes people like that just need a bit of help for them to get their sh*t together |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Ify9090(m): 12:10am On Jun 07, 2020 |
You got it wrong by opening her fb, but since you have found out. Just call her like a father and advice her. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Unrated900(m): 12:14am On Jun 07, 2020 |
OritaIbadan: Don’t think as a father cos if she open the door you will rush there Just Leave her and stop showing too much concern Focus on how you will make millions in your shop |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by bluefilm: 12:15am On Jun 07, 2020 |
davien: Shame on you. Spare the rod and spoil the child. Have you ever heard of that saying? Nonsense. ![]() |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Liliantalks: 12:17am On Jun 07, 2020 |
safarigirl:he should just mind his business, doesn’t she know the danger of abortion , ? doesn’t she know what she’s doing is wrong ? She does, bottom line is u won’t change her with any talk , till she’s ready , cause she knows the truth. Best is let her live . |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Metalsmith(m): 12:20am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Don't leave the girl to self destructive life style. Tell her politely how you stumbled on her Facebook page and the information unearthed about her promiscuous life.let her know the risks and preach to her to stop the immoral acts. You may be surprised she can have a complete turn around and a change from her reckless sex life style plse be her saving angel and God will reward you for being righteous |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by gbadeyinka: 12:21am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Please counsel her as a concerned individual. Be blunt that her wayward lifestyle is dangerous & her life & future is in danger. If you can't live with the information at your disposal, you may advice her to leave & pay her off in lieu of notice. Just be fair to her. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by EngrchidiG25(m): 12:22am On Jun 07, 2020 |
This matter strong o |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Sweeetheart(m): 12:23am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Richardonald: The Op is naive na church girls and all this hijab girls Bleep pass One dey my area wey dey wear hijab dey deceived people, all the married men and young guys in the street don fúck her tire. They always make jest of one mumu wey dey carry out to do shopping for her Some men dumbness na talent. that's why I don't date for dating sake, I evaluate your emotional principle before going on a date with you Any lady you meet and fúck same day are worse part of it, all decent ladies are expected to have emotional principle, if you don't have it then you don't worth going into the marriage |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Liliantalks: 12:23am On Jun 07, 2020 |
ndidibabe: ![]() ![]() |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Nobody: 12:24am On Jun 07, 2020 |
izzou:bro, nice question !!! |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Acidosis(m): 12:24am On Jun 07, 2020 |
ibkayee: I call her boyfriends useless because no one can play that trick on me. Why? Because I don't mind my business when it comes to matters that affect my heart, my emotions, wellbeing, health and my immediate environment. And, oh, it's the same reason I would not spend a second night with anyone that tells me "I want it raw" ![]() As per the contents of her chats, I didn't know it's possible to view my messages even after I must have logged out on Facebook. Did you read where he said the lady presents herself as a faithful/religious person? Now that OP knows her for what she truly is, do you want him to have the same positive perception about his sales girl? Whether you call me moralist or not, fact remains that double dating is wrong, unprotected sex is wrong, lying and deceiving men with another man's pregnancy is wrong. Abortion is illegal in Nigeria. So what aspect exactly do you find commendable? 1 Like |
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