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Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Lawsimon(m): 12:28am On Jun 07, 2020 |
MajorOvakporaye: What exactly is your case? What is making you uncomfortable? What exactly are you defending? Is it the op's unauthorized invasion of her privacy or the immorality? You must condemn one of the two |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by sheyitokz(m): 12:29am On Jun 07, 2020 |
naso dem dey form one kain yeye holy mary buh deir toto don wide pass garawa |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Grateful02(m): 12:29am On Jun 07, 2020 |
who else is observing all the advisers in the house? �� 1 Like |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Coronavirus1: 12:30am On Jun 07, 2020 |
And so what is your business about her private life are you not worse than her do you tell your wife about your side check or the woman you ask to commit abortion stupid man. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Acidosis(m): 12:31am On Jun 07, 2020 |
emmaodet: Lol Na to siddon for one corner dey observe o. The emboldened seems true. See how the females quickly came in to defend one of their own on the first page? We know as e dey go. I 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Liliantalks: 12:31am On Jun 07, 2020 |
abdullkabar:flying colar to this is totally different 1 Like |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by AllenSpencer: 12:31am On Jun 07, 2020 |
LikeAking: Are you holy? Tell me you have not killed before or prostituted before? |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by wildernessVoice: 12:33am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Those of you shouting private life are irresponsible, sorry to say. A Young girl in a shattered life you discovered can't you correct her. If she is your daughter and someone discovered and kept silence until she is ruined will you be happy. You can't tell if she will survive the next abortion and even if she survived what of the damage to her reproductive system..? . An open rebuke is better than secret love (of privacy protection). Please sir, counsel her on the danger of unprotected sex and multiple partners and God will bless you in Jesus name. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by jaxxy(m): 12:34am On Jun 07, 2020 |
OritaIbadan: If I were u I would boldly bt calmly confront her and tell her what kind of a mess is she living with her life. She is obviously heading down a wrong path and needs guidance. U can offer her that help. Hopefully she is willing to help herself. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Holuwasegun1(m): 12:34am On Jun 07, 2020 |
you don't need to stress yourself over the issue let her live her life the way it pleases her..... |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Depressedkidd: 12:37am On Jun 07, 2020 |
OritaIbadan:First of all what you did was a crime. You've just invaded her privacy. What she does is none of your business. As long as she's doing the job you paid her for. Nigerian employers just like behaving like someone's parents. Idk why you would read her chats, you had no right to do that. You should be the one to apologize to her. 1 Like |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Nobody: 12:39am On Jun 07, 2020 |
safarigirl:Please pity the man that will pay the 'bride price' na ![]() ![]() ![]() Should we wish such girls' secret to be exposed to their future husbands?? Would they be able to defend it with your premises?? ![]() ![]() Being sexually deceitful shows how irresponsible she is ![]() She is a Chameleon ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by OmarEl(m): 12:39am On Jun 07, 2020 |
The Question should be,Why are you intruding in someone's Privacy? It's high time we Start Learning how to mind our Business! I think MIND YOUR BUSINESS should be introduced as a Discipline (Course) in various Higher Institutions. Because this alone has done more harm to good in our society today! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Liliantalks: 12:43am On Jun 07, 2020 |
PeachtreeReside:I am seriously disgusting by these mad people, what’s ur business with how many guys she fuckks? How many abortion she has done ? So damn annoying , can’t u just mind ur business? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by vioment: 12:44am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Rapist employer spotted. Na joke I dey o.. Try not snooping and minding your business. Thank you Mr decent. I wonder if na ugly girl email whether you for send. Or if your wife was snooping on a male or males employee emails, I wonder how you for feel. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by MansoryMX(m): 12:44am On Jun 07, 2020 |
OritaIbadan: Bro I advice you sack her. Make e nor come be say na the day she go do second abortion or 8th, come your office, collapse and die. Sack her ASAP. Some girls are disgrace to womanhood.
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Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by toboy: 12:45am On Jun 07, 2020 |
OP, I think it is very unprofessional for you to look into her private messages. Nevertheless, I think you have a good heart for caring! I think it's a good gesture when managers look after thier emplyees and support them . However, this must strictly be in such a way that the you're not infringing or disrespectimg your employee's privacy esp giving she is an adult of her own. The fact the sales is getting "unwanted pregnancies" and aborting means she is not properly protecting her self. She may also catch other disease that can impact her life heavily. OP, I think what you can do is try to come a bit closer to your employees, invite her for a family dinner, get to know her background, make her comfortable and then assure her if she needs anything at all from you and your wife you are more happy to assist. You can continue to support her untill that TRUST is established in such a way she is able open up to in her own. Remember to empathise and NOT judgemental. 1 Like |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by mencer(m): 12:45am On Jun 07, 2020 |
The human rights people .. Dobson43: |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by jaxxy(m): 12:47am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Amotolongbo: So he shudnt correct her to keep her private life in check and sane bt rather wait for her 2nd abortion which from the looks of things and from her recent conversations seems to already on the way then fire her. ![]() What kind of dumb advices am I reading here and to imagine u got so many likes for this piece of trash like advice speaks volumes of the skewed mentality of people on here. I will always be greatful to frnds, bosses, and even strangers who gave me guidance and knowledge in any little way even tho I am very independent minded. Imagine the trash I’m reading here. Look if u have a maid who indulges in such sack her or she will either attract unscrupulous elements to ur home when ur away or influence ur wards. Just imagine! ![]() |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by One4me: 12:52am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Dont mind all these people telling you "Its non of your Business", if they were in your shoes, they will think exactly as you are thinking. The Madman is easy to watch in the Market and laugh but nobody wants him to be their Child". ![]() ![]() I am certain that it is just a matter of time before her behaviour starts reflecting in her performance, l hope she has not start 'manipulating' your Sales sef. IMO, relieve her of that job. If she wants to be Olosho, let her go and do it elsewhere. If you see something wrong and you pretend that you are not concerned, you are guilty by association and conspiracy. If you need an excuse (which l dont think you need because it is your Business; l hope all those people saying mind your Business will now agree that you can sack anyone in your Business! ![]() BTW, you did not pry into her privacy, she was the one who was careless to leave her facebook open ON YOUR PHONE. Dont let all these people guilt-trip you into submission. Sack the LovePeddler and employ someone who is not stupid enough to leave their account unlocked, next time it will be your bank account password she will forget to take good care of. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by One4me: 12:55am On Jun 07, 2020 |
jaxxy: What are you expecting from people of the same mindset? Likes will always suppprt Likes The world has become one big Perverse globe and things like Morals and values dont count anymore. Now, everything, no matter how gross, is permitted, all they say is "Mind your business, its her body". 2 Likes |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Tutorwhiz(m): 12:58am On Jun 07, 2020 |
OritaIbadan: Op please talk to that girl. She is too young for that. Maybe she doesn't have someone like you who is oppotuned to know what she is into. What if she dies? Can you bear the guilt? You owe it to her to point out her wrongs and show her the right thing to do. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Nobody: 12:59am On Jun 07, 2020 |
What business of your is it with her private life. Please deactivate your account or you will inspire other men to act without shame. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Mawex(m): 1:01am On Jun 07, 2020 |
I'm here to read comments abeg, shift for me na |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by thesmallgod(m): 1:06am On Jun 07, 2020 |
toboy:So if you own a house and recruit an house help, you want to tell me it is wrong for you to enter and check her room |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Dybala11(m): 1:06am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Nezzjnr:You're calling a 21years old girl a minor, when some of her age mates are married sef. The point is that as long as her lifestyle doesn't affect OP's business in any negative way, there's no problem. The only thing the OP can do to her the lady is to advice her and try to show her the right way, otherwise there's little he could do to help her. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Dybala11(m): 1:08am On Jun 07, 2020 |
thesmallgod:You can enter and check the room since you owned the house, but you don't own the house help sir. OP has little next to no right over controlling the lady's privacy. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by c2far: 1:10am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Do not try this. Never do this with a young person. She will detest you for the rest of her life. And besides your calling her parent will not help. Parents these days also know little. They will shout, abuse her and then move on. Let me hint at what you need to do. You need to square up to the fact that this is what several girls her age do today. I know because I have had to deal with cases like this. She did not learn how to get abortion herself. She learnt from friends. Those friends also did from others. Did you see that girl in that Punch video that went viral? That is what happens when you try to force a girl to leave a pregnancy she badly does not want. There are safe procedures that will ensure nothing happens to her if that is what she wants. From what I know, when a girl wants an abortion, nothing can stop her. They will get it done at all cost irrespective of the price and implication to their health. Most importantly is what she does after now. Let her get on a family planning method. There are fitting ones for young people that will ensure for the next 3 years she will only be worried about sexually transmitted diseases and not pregnancy. After these, you can then begin to engage her to see how to move her to secondary abstinence. If you can reach out, I am more than happy to discuss with you on phone. But whatever you do, ensure you do not get her parents involved. And do not look away as well either. You can't unsee what you have seen. She may not be lucky this time with the abortion if her first was with a quack. That's when regrets will set in for you.... if she dies due to complications. Be her messiah. Do something meaningful. Best wishes as you try to solve this problem. Let's talk please. OritaIbadan: 2 Likes |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by showafrica(m): 1:10am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Ningen: Women see through other women... The wife already dont trust the girl hence she had always changed her topic... Very clever and smart woman. I dont trust the OP and the wife too , sorry about that. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Sterope(f): 1:12am On Jun 07, 2020 |
You can't fire her, that would be wrong. You can pass a flier or something on sexual health, contraceptives and all. OritaIbadan: |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by toboy: 1:13am On Jun 07, 2020 |
cochexky:I have a question for you where was God in the first place before she got pregnant? Why are you calling God now? Tell her parents? Do you know if she is orphan? If she had good parenting, then they should have raised her in such she able get proper sex education? You people that keep attributing everything to God is major problem we have in Nigeria cuz you can't use your common sense to think again. 1 Like |
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