Few days ago i was with a medical doctor friend of mine who happens to be a gyna. We have been friends way back high school. He schooled in the US and had returned back to Nigeria since 2018. We were somewhat gisting about how Nigerian girls seems to be stigmatising their fellow girls that are single mum's who got pregnant out of wedlock.

He strongly condemned this very silly act by ladies and he further affirmed as a matter of fact to me that, 90% of every Sexually Active lady had at one point or the other aborted an issue before. Some have even done it more than 10 times without any complications or whatsoever. The fact that a particular decided to keep hers doesn't make her a forbidden fruit in the society.

He as well opened to me that it is very abnormal for a sexually active lady not to at some point get pregnant. That if you have a lady you constantly have unsafe sex with and she has never for one day missed her period, then there must be something seriously wrong somewhere. It calls for a quick attention.

In his words "any girl that is fertile and complete [b][/b]will always get pregnant, it's is left for her to decide if she wants to keep it or not"

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Naked truth

Not everyone is reckless though. It's only that the abominable has become d normal. We've replaced morals&correction with "Don't judge, are u a saint? He who has no sin..., etc".
Whereas deep within, everyone knows what is right.

been dating my girl for 5yrs plus, we've had unprotected sex, should I even be worried when I marry her?

mignone:
Not everyone is reckless though. It's only that the abominable has become d normal. We've replaced morals&correction with "Don't judge, are u a saint? He who has no sin..., etc".
Where as deep within, everyone knows what is right.

The abominable? And what makes it abominable?

nuggarito:
been dating my girl for 5yrs plus, we've had unprotected sex, should I even be worried when I marry her?

Worried about what? I think it depends on how often you have unprotected sex, might be that she allows you on times she's less likely to be pregnant and if not, then she must be taking pregnancy prevention pills considering how long you've been dating her.

unmask:
The abominable? And what makes it abominable?

Don't feign ignorance, like he said, ' deep within everyone knows what is right.

nuggarito:
been dating my girl for 5yrs plus, we've had unprotected sex, should I even be worried when I marry her?

She's probably a fan of postinor2

phr33man:
Naked truth

It can't be true. 90% is too high.

Hmmmmmm.. Thanks for the information OP.

IAmRoot:
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I'm proud of you son

nuggarito:
been dating my girl for 5yrs plus, we've had unprotected sex, should I even be worried when I marry her?

She should be worried

phemmyfour:
She's probably a fan of postinor2

Sure but that thing makes the flow irregular... That same week but two days ahead

nuggarito:
been dating my girl for 5yrs plus, we've had unprotected sex, should I even be worried when I marry her?

If your pullout game is lit, you don't need to worry...

And you needed actually to tell you this before you know it? Every young and old man out there know it.

unmask:
The abominable? And what makes it abominable?

the bible

Hmmmmm..

Well, some ladies are just more careful than others, it doesn't mean they are not fertile.

DNA9:
Few days ago i was with a medical doctor friend of mine who happens to be a gyna. We have been friends way back high school. He schooled in the US and had returned back to Nigeria since 2018. We were somewhat gisting about how Nigerian girls seems to be stigmatising their fellow girls that are single mum's who got pregnant out of wedlock.

He strongly condemned this very silly act by ladies and he further affirmed as a matter of fact to me that, 90% of every Sexually Active lady had at one point or the other aborted an issue before. Some have even done it more than 10 times without any complications or whatsoever. The fact that a particular decided to keep hers doesn't make her a forbidden fruit in the society.

He as well opened to me that it is very abnormal for a sexually active lady not to at some point get pregnant. That if you have a lady you constantly have unsafe sex with and she has never for one day missed her period, then there must be something seriously wrong somewhere. It calls for a quick attention.

In his words "any girl that is fertile and complete [b][/b]will always get pregnant, it's is left for her to decide if she wants to keep it or not"

Any girl old enough to have sex should know how to protect herself. Or is he saying girls should get pregnant just to prove fertility?
There is nothing to prove to anyone. People should go for comprehensive tests if they have concerns.

P.S I don’t judge single mothers, or those that aborted. They will live wth the consequences, not me.

I'm a girl too.. take it or leave it...this is the raw truth.. people usually hate to hear the truth.... aaahhh.. you can jump into the lagoon if this hurts you.

Sugarpearlry:
Don't feign ignorance, like he said, ' deep within everyone knows what is right.

sex between consenting adults is not one of them. What is wrong that you know deep within are those things you do that hurt others. Sex is not one of them

TheSourcerer:
the bible

and for those that don't adopt the Bible?

mignone:
Not everyone is reckless though. It's only that the abominable has become d normal. We've replaced morals&correction with "Don't judge, are u a saint? He who has no sin..., etc".
Where as deep within, everyone knows what is right.

Nevertheless. The very careful ones are not much, perhaps they belong to the remaining 10 percent.. And then no one said aborting is a legendary act. Everything contrary to the creatirs plans is considered abominable. Even the use of birth control pills by legally married couples is also seen as a very big sin to some.

Margy:
I'm a girl too.. take it or leave it...this is the raw truth.. people usually hate to hear the truth.... aaahhh.. you can jump into the lagoon if this hurts you.

A lot your girls just don't like accepting the truth. Everyone comes here to pretend careful n Stringent. My happiness is, at the end of the day, there is only one person u can't deceived and that person is yourself.

DNA9:
Few days ago i was with a medical doctor friend of mine who happens to be a gyna. We have been friends way back high school. He schooled in the US and had returned back to Nigeria since 2018. We were somewhat gisting about how Nigerian girls seems to be stigmatising their fellow girls that are single mum's who got pregnant out of wedlock.

He strongly condemned this very silly act by ladies and he further affirmed as a matter of fact to me that, 90% of every Sexually Active lady had at one point or the other aborted an issue before. Some have even done it more than 10 times without any complications or whatsoever. The fact that a particular decided to keep hers doesn't make her a forbidden fruit in the society.

He as well opened to me that it is very abnormal for a sexually active lady not to at some point get pregnant. That if you have a lady you constantly have unsafe sex with and she has never for one day missed her period, then there must be something seriously wrong somewhere. It calls for a quick attention.

In his words "any girl that is fertile and complete [/b]will always get pregnant, it's is left for her to decide if she wants to keep it or not"

Your friend came back to Nigeria, so his 90% of sexually active ladies, is [b]maybe American statistics not Nigerian. 90% or 1000% ni.

I say no to abortion....
I can't wait to have a baby, gawd....

We all know that,and not because you are telling us he is a Doctor from the USA.

Its a known fact

chai...av bin with a bea for 2 yrs and its constant unprotected sex bcoz am a big fan of raw and she's not the cheating type bt the issue is dt my withdrawal game is on point bt i don pour inside numerous times and but they have not been any missing of period or pregnancy story, d least she do say is delaying of period..hope am safe with wifeing her?

every lady has a w.hore tendency. women are whores, men are polygamous in nature.