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Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Jjohnson777: 4:16am On Jun 07, 2020
HAVE you ever known someone who was very sick?— Did you wish you could do something to help him?— What if he was from a different country or of a different religion? Would you still want to help him get well?— A young girl who lived in the land of Israel nearly 3,000 years ago did. Let’s talk about what happened then.

There is often fighting between ancient Israel, where the girl lives, and the nearby country of Syria. (1 Kings 22:1) One day the Syrians come to Israel and capture the little girl. She is taken to Syria, where she becomes the servant of the wife of Naaman, the Syrian army chief. Naaman has a bad disease called leprosy, which can cause some of a person’s flesh to fall off.

A servant girl talking to Naaman’s wife
The servant girl tells Naaman’s wife how her husband can be healed. She says: ‘If Naaman were in Samaria, Jehovah’s prophet Elisha could make his leprosy go away.’ Well, the way the servant girl talks about Elisha makes Naaman believe that the prophet really might be able to make him well. So with the approval of Ben-hadad, the king of Syria, Naaman and some attendants make the long trip of about a hundred miles [about 150 km] to find Elisha.
When Naaman arrives at Elisha’s house with his horses and chariots, Elisha sends out a messenger to tell him: ‘You must bathe seven times in the Jordan River, and you will be healed.’ Naaman is angry. He expects Elisha to come out and wave his hand over the leprosy to make it go away. Instead, he sees only this messenger! So Naaman turns away in a rage and begins to go back home.​—2 Kings 5:9-12.

What would you have done if you were one of Naaman’s servants?— Well, the servants ask him: ‘If it was some hard thing Elisha asked you to do, would you not do it? So why not do this simple thing​—just bathe and be clean?’ Naaman listens to them. He goes “down and [begins] to plunge into the Jordan seven times . . . , after which his flesh [comes] back like the flesh of a little boy.”

Naaman returns to Elisha and says: “Here, now, I certainly know that there is no God anywhere in the earth but in Israel.” He promises Elisha that he will never again “render up a burnt offering or a sacrifice to any other gods but to Jehovah.”​—2 Kings 5:13-17.

Would you like to help someone to learn about Jehovah and about what he can do, as that little girl did?— When Jesus was on earth, a man who had leprosy believed in him and said: ‘If you really want to help me, you can.’ Do you know what Jesus replied?— “I want to.” And Jesus healed him, just as Jehovah had healed Naaman.​—Matthew 8:2, 3.

This little girl was just a slave to this household, but as a servant of God, she was concerned about her master's sickness, she courageously told them were help can come from, he took the step and was healed.
As long as we are christains, it is our responsibilty to help anyone who is spiritualy sick to recover, it is only if he or she adamantly refuses to accept to make changes. An individual life style can affect ones business, more descent people who are more trusted, run businesses better than undescent ones, good qualities matters a lot in everything we do. Please, if we are in the position to help ourselves, we should do it, don't forget that we also have young ones in schools, work places, market, or any other place, they may be displaying some other wrong kind of conduct over there, how will you feel if those who see them do this have the capacity of correcting them, but feel, they won't, render help in any way you can, God will bless you, and the one you have changed

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Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Kingspin(m): 4:17am On Jun 07, 2020
OritaIbadan:
I employed this 21years old lady last year as a sales rep. At resumption to work she appeard so decent and godly always With her Bible and Sunday school manual. I was really impressed by her spiritual and respectful nature. This made me treat her different from others. I buy her things and sometimes gives her money and always discuss her good life style with my wife. But what amazed me was that my wife was so indifferent about her each time I discuss her my wife will quickly change the topic. I thought, well woman with their naughty behavior towards other women.

Fast forward to June first this year her phone was stolen and I have a phone in office that I allow them access to incase their phone is off I can easily reach them through it. This faithful day, I tried to access my Facebook account using the office phone and found out that this same lady had used it but forget to logout. Well, I knew it was wrong to check her inbox but all the same I did.

After checking her inbox I couldn't sleep all night. I found out that she is having unprotected sex with 5 guys each guy per Sunday and she just did an abortion March this year the very day she told me that she was sick and can't make it to work and she wasn't sure who among the guys that impregnated her. I also found out that she had missed her period again and trying to hang it on one of the boys. The amazing thing is that non of these guys suspects her, they all believe she is a faithful girl friend.

I have thought of relieving her of her job, but my wife is asking me what should I give as reasons. But the truth is that I had never winessed such a wayward life before. If I pretend as though I know nothing she will eventually commit another abortion and continue with such life which is very dangerous at her age. What if she is my own daughter?

Please I want the mode to push this to the front page. I want to seek others opnion about it
Bro there is a way you talk to someone without reviewing his/her dirty secret. I think you should do that don't mind many people advising you to leave that poor girl because it her personal life. If that girl is your daughter think about it.

Find a way to discuss that topic you can even make it a group briefing among your staff. Say Things indirectly if you wish.

That girl may be looking for hope someone to speak to her.

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Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by WeRblessed(f): 4:20am On Jun 07, 2020
You are very disrespectful by going through her personal. She is neither your sister nor girlfriend. She is your employee for crying out loud. Whatever she does with her personal life is non of your business. But if she is not meeting up to her job description you can fire her.

You are not her father, so mind your business.

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Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Ifyike: 4:24am On Jun 07, 2020
Well, I wouldn't want to start blaming you for invading the girls privacy after all she used your phone. The fact remains that there's a reason for that perhaps, God wants to save the life of the girl through you. I will advise you to get your wife involved in this case to talk to her as woman to woman on the danger of what she's putting her life into but if she remains adamant and continues with her lifestyle you may let her be since it doesn't affect your business negatively, at least you've played a fatherly role on her through your advise. Mind you she's still a minor and might be looking for a way out of such wayward life but haven't been bold enough to let it out to anyone cos of fear of condemnation therefore, I suggest is divine you ask your wife to advise her and not to judge her pls.
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Antichristus: 4:31am On Jun 07, 2020
It’s her life not yours. MIND YOUR BUSINESS.
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Kingspin(m): 4:36am On Jun 07, 2020
Nezzjnr:
You guys are saying OP should mind his business... For what exactly??
Didn't you see where OP stated that he's like a Fatherly figure to her and she's different from the othersundecided

This girl is still a minor working as a sales rep... If something bad happens to her... All fingers will be pointing towards OP.
The social media have turned bad media.

Imagine many advising the OP to mind his business. I am shocked!

That girl may be looking for help.

I have a similar experience with my close relative back then and she late had a baby on the process without a father. I remember she was even ashamed to carry her baby about.

I can tell you that experience is her worst mistake in life to date.
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by sambrow(m): 4:37am On Jun 07, 2020
Michelle55:

What if he never gets to find out something like that at the first place if only he didn't snoop?
I'm not sure the young lady will appreciate her boss encroaching on her privacy like that..
So he should assume he didn't know anything and let her be
yes but he found out, it might be for a purpose. It might be to save her life. Godmight want to use him for her.
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Boyooosa(m): 4:38am On Jun 07, 2020
BlueAir:
Leave the wayward girl be. It's herself she's doing not you or your business.keep using her for sales.you can sack her when she's turning ur shop to brothel or hookup centre
And there is 613 likes on this, we are in mess. That means 613 would act this way so far too...this generation. Damn!

Well @op if you are still reading.
Make sure u get closer to that girl, either direcrly, through your wife or her relatives.
She has problem, yeah, everybody does but help her solve this, who knows, it might be a reason for your children too, to benefit from others in the future.
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Ifyike: 4:43am On Jun 07, 2020
Kingspin:
The social media have turned bad media.

Imagine many advising the OP to mind his business. I am shocked!

That girl may be looking for help.

I have a similar experience with my close relative back then and she late had a baby on the process without a father. I remember she was even ashamed to carry her baby about.

I can tell you that experience is her worst mistake in life to date.
You get the point
.
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Sergioaguero: 4:44am On Jun 07, 2020
All those saying she didnt under perform in his business nawa o. Her attitude already affected his bizness cos, she already lied and was absent to work, assuming the man dont ve anoda sales girl n not arround, Do you know hw much he will loose that day she lied n didnt come to work? If she can lie and be absent, she can steal ur money and lie too. Not coming to work wen she suppose to come on d pretence of being sick is already affecting ur business.

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Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Ifyike: 4:46am On Jun 07, 2020
GodisFirst:
Op, you have a moral obligation to council her. On a good day, sit her down with your wife and tell her that you observed that some things are wrong with her. You need not tell her the source of your findings but let her know that you found out that she has been sleeping with different men and has carried out abortion.
Tell her that you are not condemning her but you only want her to know how it ruin her future, her life and negatively affect her job or even her relationship with your family if she continues with it. let her know
Reassure her that it will remain a secret between you, your wife and her. Encourage her to desist from such life style and if she wants, let her choose one of those guy as a life partner and work towards marriage. You can ask her to invite anyone she likes and you talk to the guy and advise and encourage him to get married if you asses him and found him matured enough to marry. Sometimes these guys are matured to marry but due to fear of unknown, they will still be delaying and messing around only to regret later.
Your stumbling into her privacy sometimes is the revelation you needed to intervene and impact positively in her life and that of the men misbehaving with her. In as much as you never had any bad intention about it. We shouldn't expect God to always come down from heaven and give or show us something as revelation.
You have a life to save and God will bless and reward you if you do.
Don't mind the our contemporary society that will tell you to mind your business and when it is late and things must have gotten out of hand, they will turn around to blame God or devil.
What if you minded you business and didn't have the privileged to know and one of the abortions failed or becomes complicated, and if she could dies in you shop, you become Suspect #1. You will write statement for Nigerian police.

You've said it all
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by arma: 4:47am On Jun 07, 2020
So at what age is such life style safe?
Is like fornication and u pple down there are like 5 and 6.
Marry your daughters early u will not, and u will be worried when they sleep with 5 different men per Sunday.
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Teeeestone(m): 4:48am On Jun 07, 2020
Do I hear people saying mind your business? Chai... what a wicked and dried-eyes generation. Will you pray anyone who found your daughter, your younger sister in this mess, dungeon, deprivaty should look off till your daughter's life is ruined ? Do we really have mothers here ? What a generation !
See, OP all these guys shouting "mind your business" are the kind ruining the girls life. And all these girls shouting mind your business have also lost the count of their aborted pregnancies ! So they can't afford to say anything better or see any life helped. OP, please, do anything you can to help the poor girl. Don't mind this wicked and dried-eyes ones.
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by toprealman: 4:51am On Jun 07, 2020
Sir Alex Ferguson: I try not to bother myself so much with what the lads do outside.the pitch.

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Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Urchmahn(m): 4:52am On Jun 07, 2020
its definately not his business quite alright, we all have a responsibility in this life, sometimes in life even at a certain age we are not in control some don't know how to go about their daily lives. sometimes we all need that special angel in our lives to help us find our path. at least give it a try and help her, you don't have to lay the cards on the table.. there are several ways to go about it

....may the force be with you
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Teeeestone(m): 4:55am On Jun 07, 2020
Boyooosa:

And there is 613 likes on this, we are in mess. That means 613 would act this way so far too...this generation. Damn!

Well @op if you are still reading.
Make sure u get closer to that girl, either direcrly, through your wife or her relatives.
She has problem, yeah, everybody does but help her solve this, who knows, it might be a reason for your children too, to benefit from others in the future.
As in, big mess ! Chai ! I fear! What a generation! The fabric of our moral and humanity has turned to rag ! Wicked and dried-eyes generation !

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Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by amba2017: 5:05am On Jun 07, 2020
i meant that sacking her is not the best optionquote author=stanliwise post=90388622]Is there any reason to sack her? Has her personal life affected his business in anyway?
Please don’t mix emotion with business.[/quote]
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by JBoss25(m): 5:07am On Jun 07, 2020
Infinixs5:






fear any girl that forms too churchy.
I have one presently where i live;she is a worker in the age and also advanced in age but if u see how small small boys dey Bleep her eeeeeeeeeeeeee..sometimes this gets me angry even though its none of my business..
fear any girl that forms too churchy.
I have one presently where i live;she is a worker in the age and also advanced in age but if u see how small small boys dey Bleep her eeeeeeeeeeeeee..sometimes this gets me angry even though its none of my business..
drop her phone number for my mail let me shoot my shot
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by xxxkubexxx: 5:09am On Jun 07, 2020
MIND YOUR BUSINESS is what has put the Black Race where it is today.

Sleeping with 5 men and already getting pregnant twice with no clue of who the father is, it’s obvious that she needs guidance.

The OP snooping into her phone is a divine intervention from God.

OP after apologizing for her Facebook revelation, please get fully involved and provide all required proper guidance. It takes a village to raise a child. Her will thank you in future.

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Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by JBoss25(m): 5:10am On Jun 07, 2020
Preshieben:
Op
Ignore all those ones asking you to mind your business
You need to know who you are dealing with
Sacking her will be a very good riddance
She might end up implicating you
What if she dies trying to abort again?
You will definitely be blamed too
Wisen up before it's too late.
fine girl wink
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Delonn(m): 5:13am On Jun 07, 2020
OritaIbadan:
I employed this 21years old lady last year as a sales rep. At resumption to work she appeard so decent and godly always With her Bible and Sunday school manual. I was really impressed by her spiritual and respectful nature. This made me treat her different from others. I buy her things and sometimes gives her money and always discuss her good life style with my wife. But what amazed me was that my wife was so indifferent about her each time I discuss her my wife will quickly change the topic. I thought, well woman with their naughty behavior towards other women.

Fast forward to June first this year her phone was stolen and I have a phone in office that I allow them access to incase their phone is off I can easily reach them through it. This faithful day, I tried to access my Facebook account using the office phone and found out that this same lady had used it but forget to logout. Well, I knew it was wrong to check her inbox but all the same I did.


Why are you so co concerned about her personal life? What is your business with how many men she sleeps with unprotected? And why do you feel she is trying to hang pregnancy on a boy? Arr you the one who impregnate her? Is she trying to give your pregnancy to another man? You better mind your business, before you get yourself into a matrimonial troubles.

After checking her inbox I couldn't sleep all night. I found out that she is having unprotected sex with 5 guys each guy per Sunday and she just did an abortion March this year the very day she told me that she was sick and can't make it to work and she wasn't sure who among the guys that impregnated her. I also found out that she had missed her period again and trying to hang it on one of the boys. The amazing thing is that non of these guys suspects her, they all believe she is a faithful girl friend.

I have thought of relieving her of her job, but my wife is asking me what should I give as reasons. But the truth is that I had never winessed such a wayward life before. If I pretend as though I know nothing she will eventually commit another abortion and continue with such life which is very dangerous at her age. What if she is my own daughter?

Please I want the mode to push this to the front page. I want to seek others opnion about it
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by cocolacec(m): 5:18am On Jun 07, 2020
OritaIbadan:


You see because of her good attitude toward work and her costmated godly lifestyle we had make an attempt of assisting her to further her education before the lockdown. So I was seriously discouraged.

You can still support her education.She could be sleeping with these men for extra cash to help her family.
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Dobson43: 5:24am On Jun 07, 2020
faridpac2:

this is not good advise always think if she is your daughter will u happy to let her continue adultery?




There is something really you should understand.
You don't invade people privacy without invitation. If you want to be helpful. Get the contact of the lady and go help. Even better set up a foundation for such endeavor.

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Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by JBoss25(m): 5:25am On Jun 07, 2020
LadySarah:


Pls mind ur biz
Mrs Mind your Business when will u have sense
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by bigpastor(m): 5:26am On Jun 07, 2020
So Real as it seems, there's a possibility that someone is writing a scene in African Magic
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by JBoss25(m): 5:26am On Jun 07, 2020
xxxkubexxx:
MIND YOUR BUSINESS is what has put the Black Race where it is today.

Sleeping with 5 men and already getting pregnant twice with no clue of who the father is, it’s obvious that she needs guidance.

The OP snooping into her phone is a divine intervention from God.

OP after apologizing for her Facebook revelation, please get fully involved and provide all required proper guidance. It takes a village to raise a child. Her will thank you in future.

The white race mind their business more than blacks so that can't be the reason
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Abas2224(m): 5:31am On Jun 07, 2020
Call her sit her down and talk to her
U can't sack her na cuz that her only means of feeding her self
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Tunoris: 5:32am On Jun 07, 2020
Pls. Kindly talk to her as a father. Tell her you know everything let her repent. Save her from the fire. Shalom
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by juman(m): 5:46am On Jun 07, 2020
Advice her to live better life.

Five boyfriends are considered not too many for girls in todays world.
Some boyfriends to provide her extra money, some to give good sex, some are for good companionship, etc.
Some girls have more than ten boyfriend.
Check the video online asking girls how many boyfriends a lady suppose to have.

Nigeria is a destroyed country the situation is difficult, it has turned most girls to homebased prostitute.

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Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Richie77: 5:47am On Jun 07, 2020
Face your business is very easy to say. Call her , talk to her like a daughter, she might not appreciate it now but one day , she will.
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by bluebay(m): 5:48am On Jun 07, 2020
Bros, there’s something about life, people we meet seems to be good until we finally see the bad side of them, which I believe everyone has . It’s kind of disappointing and hurting to find out but it’s best we stay between limit and stop looking for what’s not looking for us. Oga, Mind your business.
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Nobody: 5:54am On Jun 07, 2020
Uncle if you cant think of a sensible way to help that girl with what you've discovered, leave her alone!!!!!
Why exactly did you tell your wife? So she'll tell other people who will shame her You are in no place to judge that girl's choices.
You should rather be concerned about how her actions affect your business!
If you really care about her, you would have called her, and let her know what you saw and talked to her like a concerned brother! Yes!
A girl who would do what you described here is emotionally disturbed and needs help. She needs rescue, but you are too blind with emotions and false concern to see this.
You sound really judgemental and ridiculously childish, and it sucks!

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