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So Many Men Are Dating Women Who Don’t Like Them / Majority Of Girl's Seeking For Relationship Here Are Either Ugly Or Old / I Love Them Young, please advice. (2) (3) (4)
What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by OBelz(f): 3:06pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Am I the only one who prefers dating older man? Well my friends will always say , Constance why can’t you date someone in your peers and I guess I don’t even have a good reason. Or it is the fact that they experience life differently or it is the fact that I love people who have wisdom to share or give out, or is it the fact that they wear trousers up to there waist line not under there bottoms? The truth is, as much as many people would want to question why I enjoy dating someone 20 years or 15 years older than me? The fact still remain that these men are sensitive in nature, passionate lover , they give you the best advice about life and when you confront problems and most importantly they are ready to be a lover and a father at the same time, they just have this beautiful instinct of protecting you(which I find quite romantic) And by the way, I and have dated older people all by life. What about you, do you like them young or old? 3 Likes |
Re: What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by ClitRaider: 3:06pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
all of them. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by neonly: 3:14pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
I loved those with excitement package 3 Likes |
Re: What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by majamajic(m): 3:14pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Can u be 20 and dating 22 yrs old boy before ? 20yrs old girl is more adult than a 22yrs old boy 13 Likes |
Re: What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by thatsleepboy1: 3:18pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
OBelz: But u were complaining of your igbo guy. You're confused. Onye uchu 7 Likes |
Re: What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by OBelz(f): 3:24pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
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Re: What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by Leezah(f): 3:31pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Have dated younger men before - I felt like babysitting. Majority of guys around my age are still in their self-searching, life-striving stage. They just started working for 5 years, perhaps had a few achievements in career. They have a vision/goal to purchase a property or build a start-up, and are working towards the goal. You see women discriminate based on age a lot. Women prefer her own age for long term commitment. Women preferring someone older/younger for long term relationship is not common. The average age gap is 2.5 years for marriage, and men were older 64% of the time, mainly between 1–5 years. Although its not 50–50, the number of women marrying men younger than isn’t far from the opposite, though they remain within 1–5 years age range most of the time. If you mean for causual dating then women don’t generally care and will date older/younger simultaneously. Men in their 30s-40s have achieved something in life already. They are more confident, they know what they are doing and where they are heading to. They are mature to do some soul-searching and form a better connection with me. They have experienced more life than me and often can teach me a life lesson or two. So I’m certainly more drawn to talk to these men, to learn from them, more attracted by their brains.. perhaps romantically involved as well. Gentlemen in their 50s onwards… don’t think so. Mainly physical reasons. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by SpicyMimi(f): 3:36pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
I once dated an older man years back, it was brief though as i freaked out! He was 13 years older...whew! Clearance sales for men's wear...50% discount off! Check my profile Need a car? Tell me about your budget...let's talk ![]() |
Re: What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by Ningen(m): 3:57pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
I'm attracted to younger women. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by OBelz(f): 8:56am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Ningen:How old are you? 1 Like |
Re: What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by PoliticallyInco: 9:25am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Your choice depends on your priority at that time. And your priorities are informed by many factors including how you were raised, your personal experiences and how the society (custom,religion,etc.) influenced you. For those who dont mind dating someone older, the question is are you ready to settle down with one partner or are you still trying out multiple? There is no right or wrong here. Usually for platonic friendship women start with their mates, then for dating when women start out with some older guys. By the time they are ready to marry it will depend on their personal preferences and peer pressure. By instinct, a woman wants a strong virile man who is also wise and smart. Unfortunately wisdom usually (not every time) comes with age. So for marriage instinct is there. Which is get a man who is strong and wise/smart enough to cater for you and your offspring and to keep you alive. But reason kicks in based on experiences and societal pressures and influences. Some women reason/feel that the man should not be 2 to 3 years older so they can grow old together and have the potential of being lovers for longer. To them, living with this person for long overides the desire for a mature minded man. Some women however, feel/reason that they want an older man. One who is well established and can offer all the support they also need as they go through life. It is however interesting to find that a major denominator is that ALL WOMEN WISH AND HOPE THAT THE MAN IS WEALTHY/COMFORTABLE AND HAS ACHIEVED MUCH, REGARDLESS OF THE AGE DIFFERENCES. Unlike men who usually do not view this as a must. So long story short is BE WISE/SMART, BE PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE AND BE COMFORTABLE. The age thing will most likely be reasoned by the woman as not a big factor. For me, it wouldn't matter. For various reasons, I shall date a younger lady as long as she is within the age of consent. For instance in Nebraska I will comfortably date a 16 year old. I remember even in Hawaii. It isn't against the law. If I discover things I don't like, fancy or accept, I'll break up. And I will also date an older lady as long as she is physically attractive and active and if I see things I can't stand I'll call off the relationship as well. I was never influenced to consider age difference as a big factor. I was raised to consider the law and to not be hypocritical about my physical desires, needs and preferences. 2 Likes |
Re: What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by paulolee(m): 9:26am On Jun 09, 2020 |
it depends |
Re: What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 9:51am On Jun 09, 2020 |
OP you are attracted to older men? Na so okpo tey dey start. Kawntinue o, we dey observe you My own I no care so far the yansh set wether she senior my grandmama or our last born senior am, we must do the do @leezah & politicallyInco Simple question wey OP ask, na ona write full essay for there, dem dey worry ona. Make ona stop rough play o 7 Likes |
Re: What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by Allaboutkatiee(f): 10:45am On Jun 09, 2020 |
OBelz: I actually feel it's normal. I personally cant date someone in same age bracket with me. I kind of find them less matured. 1 Like |
Re: What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by OBelz(f): 11:15am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Allaboutkatiee:Not even love, bu tmost atimes we ladies just want to show our friends we dont roll with kids ![]() |
Re: What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by johnkey: 5:35am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Leezah:Come let me give it to you like a gangster 2 Likes |
Re: What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by Frankicent(m): 12:15pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Shut up! with your cheap lies. The only reason you love oolder men is because 1: They're easy to manipulate 2: You can't stop cashing out 3: They're desperate for s*x and attention 4: You enjoy the high premium lifestyle 5: You don't want to feel less. African Queen. 6: It's difficult to control guys of your peer. what can you offer 1: S*x 2: S*x 3: Cheating 4: Dress flashing with too much makeup 5: Go broke and repeat say thing 6: @nal 7: You're Yoruba. Yoruba ladies can't do without cheating and flirting lifestyle 8: You just 20 and you look 28. it's just like me saying I love older women. why? because of good s*x, mature, outspoken and good at spoiling there pet. Don't come here and open your bleach mouth. That you just love older men for no reason. Go tell small pikin that one. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by Biodun1929(m): 12:24pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
OLDESTWARRIBOY: Exactly! I don't know why people always feel the need to type textbooks as responses. A few paragraphs is always okay to express yourself. 3 Likes |
Re: What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by Chenko001(m): 12:45pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Leezah: Dont get it twisted young lady, it depends. I know a guy of 23 who has a company he runs and worth over 200 million naira. Now tell me if you are 20 and guys like this want to have a relationship with you, will you reject them? 3 Likes |
Re: What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by Nobody: 1:25pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
I like women more older than me There's even one in our street I like her but to go meet her na problem supposing na young girl now no pro To me they're more mature other than these young girls I dated one back then in school she's just doing like my mom lol ![]() Whereas the young one I was also dating that time she will just come and be showing me condom na fúck full her brain They're very much different I prefer the older ones |
Re: What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by Sacchi1162(m): 1:51pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Older women come with more experience 2 Likes |
Re: What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by AmIaYahooGirl(f): 2:10pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
The older the better please..for your sanity, younger guys are just stress, they dunno what they want 3 Likes |
Re: What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by OBelz(f): 6:54pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Biodun1929:oga if you can't read keep quiet 1 Like |
Re: What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by OBelz(f): 6:54pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
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Re: What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by Biodun1929(m): 6:55pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
OBelz: I wasn't talking to you mrs yellow fever. |
Re: What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by luminouz(m): 6:58pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
OBelz: Hmmmm...no preference so long I like you. Have dated younger(more than 10 years) and older(by some 10 years) and from my experience, women remain women. Just understand what makes them tick and your clock will run smoothly...at least for a while till time,chance and fate intervenes as they usually do. 2 Likes |
Re: What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by OBelz(f): 11:11am On Jun 12, 2020 |
luminouz:You have tasted both side. |
Re: What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by luminouz(m): 11:39am On Jun 12, 2020 |
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Re: What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by OBelz(f): 9:39am On Jun 15, 2020 |
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Re: What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by pomide(m): 8:28am On Jun 21, 2020 |
You really do not look 20 o Obelz 1 Like |
Re: What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by OBelz(f): 3:59pm On Jun 21, 2020 |
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Re: What About You, Do You Like Them Young Or Old? by pomide(m): 1:27am On Jun 23, 2020 |
OBelz: Hello ma, it was a complement... 1 Like |
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