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Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by ajl: 10:46am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Carchoice: You are "talking" nonsense. The only way this can happen is if parents left no Will. So, you simply work away from what's yours by heredity because you are scared to get hurt. What kind of mentality is this? Where is fairness, order, and good judgment. A society that is filled with males like you is bound to be dominated till eternity. |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by mapet: 10:50am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Aizen123: 1. Who is with the death certificate? 2. If you are, involve the authorities (police/Military). Take control |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Tribalism123(m): 10:53am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Omo, if h are comfortable enough, please steer clear. Let them bury their brother and collect his property. It will still finish and they will come back to u and then u don become odogwu. If u want to fight them, u must become diabolical like them because they are ready to kill anytime. So checkout with ur siblings and ur mum and avoid them. But yet, if u want to fight,carry ARMY and flog them out of the burial and them they will know u be Odogwu 2 Likes |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by oka4mt: 10:57am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Carchoice: from all u have been saying, its either u are not educated or your education is a waste, or u are just a pussy ass nigga. how can u say this is a village matter, when the papa dy kill himself dy hustle village contribute? baba u dy Bleep up, dy talk like woman, wen u acquire all you can through out ur life time, wen u die, make ur brothers snatch everything from ur children,na then u go know the impact of all this ur yeye talk. sadly e go b for ur grave, cos na them u sweat for. use ur head man. Mr OP bear in mind that u are already a man at 24, so b a fucking MAN BRO. |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by oka4mt: 11:09am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Do not let people that know nothing about inheritance lead u astray, some of them had nothing while growing up and still have nothing to inherit, your situation is different, do not let them tell u that u should b ur own man by forgetting about ur father's sweat. even if ur father died without a will, u are still his legitimate child, all his descendants are entitled to his assets not him brothers. even the village house is urs automatically. so go on and fight, not with ur fist or ur hands, not even ur mouth, but your brain. do not let them intimidate u, u are a man now, I REPEAT, YOU ARE A MAN NOW in your house hold, u represent your father, in your kindred u represent your father, in your village u represent your father, do not let your relations push you away, if they are offering to assist, do not push them away but set some boundaries. |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by ekevwe(m): 11:10am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Aizen123: Those people are ready for you so, you have to be over ready. Arrest them ASAP. Do not seek for any elders advice in your village. Then get a lawyer and serve the mortuary owner notice of not releasing the corpse to anyone except you. Like I said earlier arrest your uncle ASAP |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Nobody: 11:10am On Jun 09, 2020 |
oka4mt: ![]() Nor put eye for anybody property when you still have two hands, two legs and a life ahead of you, not even my dads property. That’s how I was brought up. My children will be far ahead of any uncle/aunty even if they are just a year old. That’s the plan my friend. I’m no pvssy nigha. I know more than you. If you leave the city and go to the village to claim inheritance, lol. You are the pvssy nigha my friend. 3 Likes |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Nobody: 11:13am On Jun 09, 2020 |
ajl:heredity? ![]() People like you will waste 10 to 20 years fighting for a piece of land that is not worth more than 10m. Go and hustle my friend. Your father will be proud of you. Your uncles will be put to shame. 2 Likes |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by oka4mt: 11:17am On Jun 09, 2020 |
let me share this with u guys. many soldiers and police men out there joined the force because of their financial condition, they have nothing and got nothing from their father, s they enrolled just to survive, mind u, a very dangerous profession, but u have inheritance u are afraid to fight for it. no, when u build your own house, make your brother or one idiot come try snatch am from u na, una two go die for the matter, cause u no go gree for any bastard. make i ask u, why e b say, wen king die, so far him get son, na the son go b d next king, why them no make him brother king. use your head bro. fight your fight and God will fight by your side. if u die fighting, which i doubt, it is worth it. |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Amonijosh1: 11:20am On Jun 09, 2020 |
what are the circumstances surrounding your fathers death? where were you when your father died? who is in charge/ responsible/ authority over the release of your fathers corpse? As the first son of a father there are some vital information you need to know about your fathers burial rights and in most cases it is your father himself and trusted relatives that are supposed to expose you to such. At this stage a lot of mistakes are already done. Call for the good elders of your village/ community! |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Mutaultope(m): 11:28am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Just run for your life oooooo ......... they might go after your life later.... Forget about the money or inheritance ..... your wicked uncles have taken over BUT , did your father do any insurance ? if yes , that is your own money and inheritance If no ...... you are in God's hands that is why I always tell my clients to pack up Insurance savings policy and life policy ...... it makes the future bright for the immediate family . I sell Insurance ooooooo ...... 08133729507 |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by NwaliE01: 11:29am On Jun 09, 2020 |
How I wish the living would learn from the dead. 1 Like |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by oka4mt: 11:30am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Aizen123: https://www.icnl.org/resources/research/ijnl/discriminatory-property-inheritance-under-customary-law-in-nigeria-ngos-to-the-rescue i have taken it upon myself to share this link with u in case you are finding it difficult to get information about intestate inheritance. i wish you goodluck in ur fight. i just hope ur uncles realize their mistake and let this take its normal course. |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Nobody: 11:32am On Jun 09, 2020 |
walkwithgod:My brother u are very right there, so wetin the OP go do na as dem done set trap wait for am? If its me i know exactly what to do that is if anybody go bold try am to me.. I no go even give ear for peace talks. But the OP no get that option that's why he came to NL otherwise him for know what to do. People get oppressed ontop their own properties. No be today. Its a very cold world bro and no one cares. Everybody just gat to strong up any which way u fit otherwise na sorry for u and those that look up to u. As a man u gat to do what u gat to do anyhow u need to survive. People wicked ooo and sometimes it pays to be merciless to those kind of bastards. Who gentle man help. If he can't fight on his own he can get the law on his side that's why i asked of the family lawyer.. or him fit use streets since they want to play dirty. But i believe he wants to play cool hence i gave the first post because u no fit give wetin u no get. I still ask are there no elders in the village outside his family he can relate the issues with? The village no get ruler? Coming to Nairaland sef no join. Na time for action no be shere matter. If u no fit fight for ur right na u go suffer am |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by charles009(m): 11:54am On Jun 09, 2020 |
now answer this, where you close to your father when he was alive?? the answer to this question will determine what gave your uncles the guts to act this way. secondly where are your other siblings and what are they saying? In the Igbo tradition no burial will hold if the Diokpa and the Ada are not present. Finally be wise but firm, lock up the shops,summon an emergency meeting or send word around that your dads burial has been postponed until further notice. you need to weild your influence as the first son, the supposed heir and inheritance. Guy no dey sleep for bicycle, will you agile up. Me for burst people heads, use koboko flog them wella. worst thing they resort to voodoo, some of us are walking deities. Take what rightfully belongs to YOU. |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Amonijosh1: 11:57am On Jun 09, 2020 |
OP no say any thing concerning properties except shop. They all stay in lagos, including all uncles but his father has a shop in the village ![]() na wah.. where were you and your mother when your father died? Is your home a polygamous one? there are many missing lines here. At your age and level of education you dont need rocket science to know that you are your father's chief mourner and should be responsible to document your fathers entry an exit from a mortuary. no body fit bury your papa if na you sign am into a mortuary without your permission, and you can move him whenever and to where ever you like. there are things you may have failed to do either mistakenly or ignorantly in the past that is resulting to your present predicament, and whatever we may say here cannot change it. Attend your fathers burial, forget about these bullshit properties and move on with your life! |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Solatium(m): 12:01pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Aizen123: Act 1 Scene 1 Speak to a lawyer who will help you with a restraining order to prevent them going ahead with the Burial. Act 1 Scene 2. Get another order preventing them from touching any of your Dad's property. Act 1 Scene 3. Go and brace yourself up spiritually, because it's gonna be a long and big battle |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by DennisEche(m): 12:11pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Guy try go get better odeshi. Fire for fire |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Teedah: 12:28pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Abeg. If you know that your uncles na spiritual setting den dey please don't drag anything with them( you have your life ahead of you, don't let them spoil your earthly journey for you, you letting go doesn't mean you're weak ooo) buh if na physical dealings den dey do then face them. Go& pay your last respect to dad. Property will not make your dad's name famous rather it is you & your siblings growing together in peace & love that will make him happy where he is. |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Ayi12: 12:45pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
great one |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by alexsoftwork(m): 12:50pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by lonelydora: 12:56pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Aizen123: Guy, see leave gentleness for now. Wear your armour of war and face them squarely. They are under-rating you, and you need to show your other side. |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Rexology: 12:57pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Aizen123:OP, I have questions to ask you: 1.Where is your mother and was she still married to your father at the time of his death,if yes,what was her relationship with him at the point of his death? 2.The man you called your father, did he call you SON as at the time of his death,if yes,what was your relationship with your father as at the time of his death? You are probably not saying the whole truth. |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by banio: 1:30pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Aizen123: If You have money, You better run to the court and get an injunction, and simultaneously arrest them for opening your Dad's shop (stealing). If you don't have money, then arrest (#5K will do the arresting) your Uncles for fixing date and taking or stealing from your Father. Then be ready for the fight that will follow. If they can bury your Dad without your consent or knowing, then by tradition You are adopted. All properties belong to your uncles. |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Nwiboko26(f): 1:31pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Aizen123:u better leave them.u don't need to drag ur father's property.all u need is to pray for guidance and protection.God will bless you with ur own wealth.let God fight every battle for you.u need to stay alive abeg. 1 Like |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Small080(m): 1:34pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
May his soul rest in perfect peace... But your family are greed o! Ọgá that one na nonsense.... If you don't talk they will treat you and your sister like mumu o... You better act fast now, change it for them ...Abi won ya were ni... Na your papa now, but apply wisdom sha |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Rexology: 1:35pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
oka4mt:What IF at the bolded is where the problem is coming from. Something is definitely wrong somewhere and the OP is certainly carefully avoiding some details. The fact that those his Uncles purportedly fixed his father's burial WITHOUT his Son's input , points to a believe that their Late Brother probably did not recognize Op as his Son when he was alive. |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Nobody: 2:18pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
sorry for ur loss
only trade carefully with dem |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Emepresh(f): 2:22pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Leave them to do everything as they have started. Don't ask questions maka ndu gi. Life first! You live to tell stories. 1 Like |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by NoToPile: 2:27pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Ibime: What I don't understand is why should the deed of her father's property be with the uncle. Is it not suppose to be in the possesion of the children or wife? Until men stop entrusting their brothers with documents of their properties, children will continue to suffer and their properties confisticated by greedy uncles. Parents sometimes cause all these issues . |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Aizen123: 2:37pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
TO CLARIFY Thanks everyone for your advice. My Dad is not staying in Lagos...he's based abroad. When it comes to my Dad and brothers ..he has achieved more than any of them. And the house is his. I said when i got to the village.. my uncle i called said the keys was waybilled to them in Lagos... So i asked myself why wasn't it waybilled to me in aba because that's where i am schooling and was waybilled all the way to Lagos (which i think it's a lie) ... I wasn't the one that put my Dad in the mortuary because i wasn't around then because of the lockdown. It was the day I was gonna come back that's the day he died but we were talking on phone.. was going to hire a taxi so one of his friends in the village was the one that put him in mortuary. My Dad is someone who liked staying in the village anytime he got back from Europe. He is very close to people around and have also helped many of them. Starting out i wasn't very close with him because of some family ish which i wouldn't want to say but for the past 5-7 yrs we've been very close... Also his shop is his alone and he bought goods worth over 4m before his demise. Why say the key is in the house? If not because they don't want to enter the house before them and maybe take some documents? |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Ambassadors: 2:40pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Am a living witness to this. Mine was that they even buried him before I came. As the first born man. They took all the wealth. I didn't see my dad's one coin though he was rich. Today by God's grace I live like a king. I support all my uncles from time to time. I support all that looked down on me during those times. God has been faithful. He is really the father to the fatherless. But you must work hard & be sincere before God and man. God bless us all Carchoice: 3 Likes |
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