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Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by toboy: 2:54pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Carchoice:You've a good point. Lol. I like that. |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Ibime(m): 2:55pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
NoToPile: She was abroad while the Popsie was home alone. He must have given the brother after he fell ill |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by HoliMaree: 3:00pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
oka4mt: The Bible says the gentle inherit and posses the land. Why do you think so? because they remain alive while others are dead. Your advice is very wrong. Don't send that young man and his sibling to early grave. A man of 50+ went briefly to his village to struggle land with old uncle, he didn't return alive. Do you think that man of 50+ didn't go guided by lawyers + police? are you new in this country? @24, he has enough time to leave and acquire his own property which he can live for his children after cutting off his wicked relatives. "Come my young friends and listen to me, and I will teach you to honor the Lord. Would you like to enjoy life? do you want long life and happiness? then hold back from speaking evil and from telling lies, turn away from evil and do good, STRIVE FOR PEACE WITH ALL YOUR HEART" PS 34: 11-14 |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Slynation(m): 3:05pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
MPESA:What is this one even saying, Personally, nobody born of a woman can try such nonsense with me... So if you are the first Son, ur Dad and Mom are no more, you were left with properties and business to take care of, you are in ur Finals in School, above 24yrs.... You will still depend on your uncles to run things for you... And you think when it's time for OP to take over the business if he at least didn't say something now, his Uncles will just hand over everything to him and his siblings abi.... Anyways it's nobody's fault, the Society keeps breeding weak men on daily basis... |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by NoToPile: 3:07pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Ibime: Okay then. |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Lincolnburrows(m): 3:15pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
frozen70: Biko what do you mean that government has reduced burial in anambra? |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by MPESA(m): 3:16pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Slynation: You really need to learn..... Strong man, Abi na Alpha Male.. Weldon Sir... Be careful make you No go learn how to use left hand at old age. 1 Like |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Aizen123: 3:27pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
bizzibodi:1. Both 2. Yes and No 3. It's a warehouse and he bought new goods worth over 4m 4. Yes we were close. I wasn't able to visit but we kept contact on phone and the illness was very very brief 5. A friend who was with him at the time |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Aizen123: 3:31pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
TheArchangel:lol. Please read up ... I've updated the thread |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Slynation(m): 3:40pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
MPESA:Well.... We all have different traits, If @24 you will still allow your uncles to confisticate your fathers properties, take decisions on your fathers business without your knowledge, lock your fathers house without ur notice, then so be it, Just one day they will tell you their brother is not your biological father.... Op doesn't even need to apply battery before achieving this, having a word with them is enough, but once again, your type are always afraid to speak... |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Slynation(m): 3:52pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Aizen123:Bro... The next thing you need to do is too gather all important documents and keep safely, know your dad next of kin in his bank accounts... Most importantly know the kinda plans your uncles have for you and your siblings, from what your uncles are doing now, they'v got other plans, your siblings are looking up to you now, so apply wisdom and trade with caution... #Good luck |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by HoliMaree: 4:01pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
oka4mt: This your bravado, u get spiritual power as well? because those old men and women wey your physical blow fit kill their spiritual slap go end your life spiritually bro. To me you don't sound like someone close to God because if you are, God has already given strategy of patience in such a case |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Aizen123: 4:02pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Slynation:Thanks bro. If they had good intentions at least they would have told me the shop was running. Because initially i was told the shop was closed ...I even asked the sale girl there and she said it was opened few days after my Dad's death 1 Like |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Nobody: 4:16pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Aizen123:You are just too weak I swear |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Aizen123: 4:30pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Jesse25: ![]() |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Chiderad(m): 4:34pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Brother, My sincerest advise to you is this - Get a genuine Prophet of God to stand by you in the place of prayer. Your uncles already have a plan of fight on ground and so, you must tread carefully, be full of prayers and fasting but don't be confrontational. As per your daddy's shop, be bold to take over what belongs to you. Seek counsel of wise ones in the village and report them to Umu nna. |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Aizen123: 4:37pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Chiderad:thanks bro |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by elliotmarshall(m): 5:04pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
My brother just trade with caution ,greater things ahead are about to come . Don't waste ur life fighting for property ,u saby as the tin the end na life's will be lost . Just let it go naturally karma exists bro and it will surely visit them .aje. |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Tusabi: 5:14pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
be careful
but he fixes your's too |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by frozen70(f): 5:34pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Lincolnburrows: Google it pls it was in the news last week |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by shhladyj(f): 6:04pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
I think your uncle have done the right thing by fixing the date because only they and the villagers knows the right date it would be better but have done a wrong thing by not at least informing you. as for your father's house shop and property you and your siblings are the rightful owner and should defend it by all means through prayer and lawyers. |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by prophetfire: 6:37pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Aizen123:Get a lawyer, go to court, get a court order to stop de burial and restraining order to stop them from tampering with your father's properties. In the burial order, make sure to join de management of de morgue where his body is kept to prevent them from releasing de body. Fortify yourself with prayer n fasting bcs ur type of uncles can kpai a person. This type of fight is always dirty n unfortunate but U have to fight it. God help U. |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Afamcy: 6:50pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Are you sure they don't even have hand in his death in order to confiscate everything he has? Just be prayerful cause they must be evil uncles |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Dehrealjoy(f): 8:07pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
My brother pls don't fight uncles they are very mean and wicked |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Afrocentric: 9:40pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Carchoice:COWARD. ITS PEOPLE LIKE YOU THAT MAKES TYE WORLD A DIFFICULT PLACE. |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Nobody: 9:42pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Afrocentric:what is your contribution to this world and Nigeria especially? List your achievements and I’ll list mine let’s see what you have done to make the world a good place. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Afrocentric: 9:49pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Carchoice:you don't have any achievements. Idiot. I'm sure you don't know what COWARD meant. |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Nobody: 9:56pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Afrocentric:coward, someone that shows fears ![]() I don’t entertain fears. I’m years ahead of anything/anyone that will try to use fear against me. Now I’m telling you if I was OP, I’ll act as if my fathers property doesn’t exist and I’ll work for mine. uncles will start to fear me because they plan holds nothing on the boy they tried to instill fear on. ![]() Now you see the difference? You’ll grow old trying to inherit lands your unclessss are hell bent on taking from you. Run along boy. I’m not your mate. I don’t care what mansion is in the village when I can own an estate in lekki ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Afrocentric: 11:55pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Carchoice:I repeat, you are a COWARD |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by toboy: 12:04am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Afrocentric:Your argument lack any substantial point. When you don't have any supporting point to back or clarify your arguments, then, there is no need repeating insults on people. It's childish. Practice this in real life too I like your name Afrocentric tho. What's the inspiration behind the name? |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by toboy: 12:08am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Carchoice:I just emailed via your nairaland email contact. I'd like to connect with you man! � |
Re: My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son by Jeferious: 12:57am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Op, I just want to believe that there are vital facts that you left out in your account. Otherwise, you're not a man, to say the least. When I was around your age, I lost my father too. And I wasn't around too. But immediately I learnt of his death on the day he died, I acknowledged immediately that the mantle of leadership has passed to me. That not one vital decision would be made concerning the affairs of my family without my approval. And even though I wasn't around, I was able to persuade my uncles who were already at our home to wait for me to at least see my dad's body lying in state before they can take him to the mortuary. The convo happened through calls.They refused at first, but later agreed by the special Grace of God. And that was exactly where they started losing the battle against me and my family. When I arrived the next day, I accompanied them to the mortuary, where I was smart enough to enter details as next of kin. I also secured the mortuary tally. They asked me to give them the tally since they lived closer to the city where the mortuary was situated. I politely refused. By now they have not started showing any evil intentions. Not much later, strange things began to happen. They started holding meetings about the burials and making decisions without involving me. I knew, but kept silent. Afterall, na me hold tally. Na when me like na im that burial go hold. Soon, I started having issues with them over a burial date they chose that I wasn't comfortable with. I wasn't even involved in the choice of this date. They sent emissaries that I argued with, all to no avail. With time, other stuffs started to take form. They started accusing my mom of having a hand in the death of my father, and so many other nasties. Time will fail me to mention many other events that followed, but after they have seen that I was too stubborn to yield to their nonsense, they finally called for negotiation. This was after i have involved the Police, Army, Umunna, village elders, the village chief, youths and so many other personnel. My father was finally buried seven months after he died in a befitting manner. The matter nearly sink the community sef ![]() See op, na who God don sign make im die na im go die. Go and face those diabolic uncles in the power and wisdom of God. Don't listen to cowards here. This people are testing you to see if you're submissive enough to be their footmat. Abeg no gree. This is almost two years since my father ceased to exist, and more than one year since he was buried. Everything he left behind, I control ALL. If there's anyone I don't control now, it's because I don't have enough knowledge about it. And about my uncles....all of them have ran away. If I tell you that I'm an only son without any brother and I was able to do this by the power of God, you may find it hard to believe. I had to write this story of mine here to motivate you. God is bigger than juju. My only issue with your account is that you may not be legitimate son, or that your mom may not be regarded in strict legal terms as a wife to your father till his death. Where these doubts are taken care of by corresponding facts, then you should exercise authority as the man of the house. May God be with you |
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