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Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Sermwell(m): 6:26pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
We had to settle a serious quarrel in my compound today between a lady and the guy she's dating! It's actually a serious relationship because if not for the covid-19 pandemic, they would have been married! The guy claimed that his woman came to visit him without pre-informing him and the lady was screaming at the top of her voice that she doesn't have to call him before coming. Some of my neighbors were in support of the guy and I feel it's not right because I'm also dating someone, and we visit each other anytime we like without prior notice!! Some of my neighbors think otherwise!! please I need your opinion. Do you think it's wrong to visit someone you are dating without prior notice?? 58 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by blackboy(m): 6:29pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
When you are dating someone and you cannot or dont visit unannounced you are a maga or in for a long thing 310 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Davash222(m): 6:30pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
In this modern age, only an illiterate will visit someone without prior notice. One girl tried that rubbish with me back then in school days. I opened the door for her, just for her to see I'm not with anyone, then, I sent her home immediately. Told her to call me when she gets to her hostel. She left.. I continued with my precious sleep. 682 Likes 45 Shares |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by chatinent: 6:34pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
In a twisted world as this where dating is trivialized, anything is possible. What can I say when the true taste of dating is long lost? 36 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by ettaetta(m): 6:39pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Sermwell: she has to trust me na https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F7PLL1bMTb8 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Nobody: 6:40pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
It’s not normal ooo. Even if they give you a copy of their key, please call them before you go. My people say e better make them greet you 2 days than you done come again. ![]() 173 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Nobody: 6:42pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
I would love the heads up yeah, but with the kind of girls I date I dare not mention it. FWBs and side-chicks sure. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by dingbang(m): 6:54pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Well I would like a heads up so I can arrange fuel and food for your coming. 33 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by callmeRichie(m): 6:55pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
[quote author=Sermwell post=90489209 if pesin no dey hide anything, or feeling suspicious I don't think it's a big deal. As much as a relationship is concerned especially. Buh notwithstanding, u can give a prior notice before visiting, to avoid unnecessary insult and tears ![]() 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Sermwell(m): 6:58pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
chiddyok:I think something is fishy if one of the parties in a relationship doesn't feel comfortable with visitation without prior notice. Don't you think so?? 82 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Sermwell(m): 6:59pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
dingbang:but will you be angry if no heads up before the visit? |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Nobody: 7:07pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Wetin concern me ![]() I can come anytime ![]() ![]() 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Nobody: 7:13pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Don’t try that shit with me. I must not be cheating to make that rule. I recall one time I had exams and was seriously reading she came at night without telling me despite me warning her to give me the heads up if she wants to come. I sha didn’t answer her knock on my door. Won’t get no poor grades just because of a lady. 311 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Mayng01(m): 7:21pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
It is wrong and good for the lady or the guy simply because of their safety. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Nobody: 7:28pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Sermwell:Nothing fishy. I love my personal space so I respect other’s own too. 69 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by icenti: 7:37pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
For me I would never condone such 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by dingbang(m): 7:40pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Sermwell:well not per say... I'll not use the word angry sha because na my babe.. I'll just be, oh babe but you should have called so let me be aware. If she says she wants to give me a surprise visit then i'll understand 13 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Budline1(m): 7:40pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Wrong 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Ejenavi18(f): 7:55pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
It's okay but I don't like it. I don't like someone showing up in my home unannounced. 51 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by luminouz(m): 8:11pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
dingbang: She doesn't want fuel and food but to catch your cheating ASS ![]() ![]() 38 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Diijerr(f): 10:00pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
In some sense 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Salako01(m): 10:00pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Yes it is. But you should be ready for the unpalatable soup. He who brings home ant infested firewood should not complain about the visit of lizards....Few times I tried, the gal said I should always tell her while coming so she doesn't keep me waiting. You already know what that means ![]() ![]() 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by EzzyCarter: 10:01pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Courtesy demands you tell your partner upfront before visiting. It shows mutual respect and it also saves you from potentially awkward or embarrassing situations. Imagine your partner's parents travelled over to visit him/her and then you visit out of the blue . would that be the best way/time you'd want to be introduced to them? Nah. Spontaneous visits have a higher possibility of ending in tears ![]() 127 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Dpsychologist: 10:01pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Its not ok... Bt Ladies love Visiting unannounced inorder to catch the guy Cheating lol 40 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by kenzysmith: 10:02pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
as an alhfa male i dey even rub her laps on the ist date carry condom for wallet incase she open the legs for me visiting alone na child play sef i won't say more 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by MajorOvakporaye(f): 10:02pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
only people who are doing things that are illegal or unacceptable would find it offensive if they aren't notified of a lover's visit. I don talk finish 24 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by bayotwice(f): 10:02pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
check my signature 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by mediocre(m): 10:02pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Why not. You'd only find it uncomfortable if you have something to hide like a side chic/nigga.... or if you're a completely different person without makeup on ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Kemimarch16(f): 10:02pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Sure 1 Like 1 Share |
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