Ok

WYSIWYG. As for me I will cane you and ensure you return with speed. If you want to monitor my progress you gat inform me

This is the first time I have thought a lover might be offended about been visited 'uninvited'.

If it is another state, maybe.

But if communication is on point, you should be able to plan your surprise visit around their schedule.

If I can't visit you without preinforming you, then there's no us. Like seriously why should I? The only reason I'll call is if I need to see you urgently and need to be sure if you're home or at a friends so I can meet you up. Otherwise, I'll storm for my cabal as ah like. No shaking

The man is having a skeleton in his cupboard thats why he's angry. The Lady should reconsider. No time.

What are we even debating here... If the lady in question is the one I have made up ma mind to marry, then she could come in anytime...not when she even have a copy of the key

While courting my wife, she does that severally and I made no fuse about it because there's no big deal about it.. I worked in Lokoja while she lives in Abuja... They are both kids

Depends the partners understanding

I don't see anything wrong with it, my man can visit me anytime he wishes without informing me.

monaPhilz:
She can visit anytime and that's totally ok

I agree with you

If you try that with me, I will not allow you enter my house. Na me and you get the house?

Country and time has changed, no be small. You cannot visit anyone without notice anymore.

Chai, we used to demand food unannounced. Dis iPhone generation na waa.

Hian why not? Even get ur spare key sef...
Me I go to my boyfriends house, chop all his food and run back to school..

Date/marry ur best friend, there won't be any rules and protocols in the r/ship...trust me

Its normal, the guy is immature or he is just a cheat, a lady that is abt to be ur wife (fiance), you are giving rules, to me my gal can visit me anytime she wants, my house is her house

Sermwell:
We had to settle a serious quarrel in my compound today between a lady and the guy she's dating! It's actually a serious relationship because if not for the covid-19 pandemic, they would have been married!

The guy claimed that his woman came to visit him without pre-informing him and the lady was screaming at the top of her voice that she doesn't have to call him before coming.

Some of my neighbors were in support of the guy and I feel it's not right because I'm also dating someone, and we visit each other anytime we like without prior notice!!

Some of my neighbors think otherwise!!
please I need your opinion. Do you think it's wrong to visit someone you are dating without prior notice??

It shouldn't have resorted to a quarrel. It just shows how shallow the foundation of their relationship is like many other sham situationships.

Every relationship is different.

Sermwell:
We had to settle a serious quarrel in my compound today between a lady and the guy she's dating! It's actually a serious relationship because if not for the covid-19 pandemic, they would have been married!

The guy claimed that his woman came to visit him without pre-informing him and the lady was screaming at the top of her voice that she doesn't have to call him before coming.

Some of my neighbors were in support of the guy and I feel it's not right because I'm also dating someone, and we visit each other anytime we like without prior notice!!

Some of my neighbors think otherwise!!
please I need your opinion. Do you think it's wrong to visit someone you are dating without prior notice??

If the guy has given you his spare key,then i guess you can come unannounced. Having that key makes you also a co-owner or resident of that house. But if he hasnt,why would you come unannounced??its just logic mehn, it doesnt mean he is cheating or anything but do you date someone who doesnt have a job? Or someone wit nowhere to go? If you come and dont meet him at home nko? Who u go blame?

Only an unrepentant cheat will ask his/her lover not to visit without prior information. Ashawo alert grade 1

Davash222:
In this modern age, only an illiterate will visit someone without prior notice.
One girl tried that rubbish with me back then in school days. I opened the door for her, just for her to see I'm not with anyone, then, I sent her home immediately. Told her to call me when she gets to her hostel.

She left.. I continued with my precious sleep.

No time guy

This is a factor of individual differences. While some may welcome this, others will not. Know your partner before throwing such surprises.

It depends on what they agreed on.

Come unannounced go unannounced.

MajorOvakporaye:
only people who are doing things that are illegal or unacceptable would find it offensive if they aren't notified of a lover's visit.

I don talk finish

Illegal things like?
An example could justify your view.

Its not Ok, I dont like it at all.

Sermwell:
We had to settle a serious quarrel in my compound today between a lady and the guy she's dating! It's actually a serious relationship because if not for the covid-19 pandemic, they would have been married!

The guy claimed that his woman came to visit him without pre-informing him and the lady was screaming at the top of her voice that she doesn't have to call him before coming.

Some of my neighbors were in support of the guy and I feel it's not right because I'm also dating someone, and we visit each other anytime we like without prior notice!!

Some of my neighbors think otherwise!!
please I need your opinion. Do you think it's wrong to visit someone you are dating without prior notice??

If u have skeletons in ur cupboard u obviously don’t want an unannounced visit by ur babe. He’s only being smart by half.

Unless he’s the one paying her Tfair to and fro then she has to pre inform him plsss. Dependent gals don’t have such privileges.

Simple... hello babe, you dey house? No/Yes Now see.

If you cannot go over to the house of someone you are dating, then something is probably wrong. The subject of privacy cannot be used to justify such sentiments.

Sermwell:
We had to settle a serious quarrel in my compound today between a lady and the guy she's dating! It's actually a serious relationship because if not for the covid-19 pandemic, they would have been married!

The guy claimed that his woman came to visit him without pre-informing him and the lady was screaming at the top of her voice that she doesn't have to call him before coming.

Some of my neighbors were in support of the guy and I feel it's not right because I'm also dating someone, and we visit each other anytime we like without prior notice!!

Some of my neighbors think otherwise!!
please I need your opinion. Do you think it's wrong to visit someone you are dating without prior notice??

Op
Truth be told,
Only partners who have negative tots visits without informing their partner and it only mean there's no trust in such relationship..

It depends on the intent, an the situation that warrants such.

For example, if my partner visits me unannounced because her phone was lost and there was no means of communication, then that is understandable. Or other scenarios such as showing up because she was around my neighborhood, or as a surprise (a one-off thing) especially when it is accompanied by gifts, then yea, she is welcome.

But if her intent was to expose her suspicious infidelity of me, or to uncover an imaginary crime she has concocted in her head, then I will not accept that and how I shall handle the situation will depend on the situation at hand. its all about intent.

Nope. Courtesy demands u inform him first...what if he is out of town n u den meet his absence? But then some dude's are worth visiting unannounced. Those who are die-hard players/ liars.

I'd like her to visit unannounced, cus we are so used to each other, it doesn't matter to me
relationship no be secret cult, don't use too many unnecessary rules to spoil it, abi u be cheat?

Sermwell:

I think something is fishy if one of the parties in a relationship doesn't feel comfortable with visitation without prior notice. Don't you think so??

Does this mean the other party in the relationship doesn't have a life because s/he is in a relationship? In the current world we live in, courtesy is key and boundaries need be respected.

Sermwell:
We had to settle a serious quarrel in my compound today between a lady and the guy she's dating! It's actually a serious relationship because if not for the covid-19 pandemic, they would have been married!

The guy claimed that his woman came to visit him without pre-informing him and the lady was screaming at the top of her voice that she doesn't have to call him before coming.

Some of my neighbors were in support of the guy and I feel it's not right because I'm also dating someone, and we visit each other anytime we like without prior notice!!

Some of my neighbors think otherwise!!
please I need your opinion. Do you think it's wrong to visit someone you are dating without prior notice??

Interesting...
So, after all the drama and screaming, did you break up with him or he has dumped you already?

No.

Call first and make sure It's a good time.
It's called courtesy.

It is not okay. If you lay ambush for your partner, you might end up being the one that will be injured...