Zita55:
Wetin concern me


I can come anytime whether I informed you or not

madamori9:
If you cannot go over to the house of someone you are dating, then something is probably wrong. The subject of privacy cannot be used to justify such sentiments.

Tonymegabush1:
Come unannounced go unannounced.

Davash222:
In this modern age, only an illiterate will visit someone without prior notice.
One girl tried that rubbish with me back then in school days. I opened the door for her, just for her to see I'm not with anyone, then, I sent her home immediately. Told her to call me when she gets to her hostel.

She left.. I continued with my precious sleep.

legba1:
What are we even debating here... If the lady in question is the one I have made up ma mind to marry, then she could come in anytime...not when she even have a copy of the key

While courting my wife, she does that severally and I made no fuse about it because there's no big deal about it.. I worked in Lokoja while she lives in Abuja... They are both kids

GboyegaD:


Does this mean the other party in the relationship doesn't have a life because s/he is in a relationship? In the current world we live in, courtesy is key and boundaries need be respected.

MajorOvakporaye:
only people who are doing things that are illegal or unacceptable would find it offensive if they aren't notified of a lover's visit.

I don talk finish

kolade560:
continue visiting unannounced until you see what you are looking for. but wait oo this story looks unreal. if they are about to marry as you claim, they would have been visiting each other since, y d sudden change?

emiika:


and what if the person is not at home and the partner comes from afar?

pansophist:
It depends on the intent, an the situation that warrants such.

For example, if my partner visits me unannounced because her phone was lost and there was no means of communication, then that is understandable. Or other scenarios such as showing up because she was around my neighborhood, or as a surprise (a one-off thing) especially when it is accompanied by gifts, then yea, she is welcome.

But if her intent was to expose her suspicious infidelity of me, or to uncover an imaginary crime she has concocted in her head, then I will not accept that and how I shall handle the situation will depend on the situation at hand. its all about intent.

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Zita55:
Wetin concern me


I can come anytime whether I informed you or not

Sermwell:
We had to settle a serious quarrel in my compound today between a lady and the guy she's dating! It's actually a serious relationship because if not for the covid-19 pandemic, they would have been married!

The guy claimed that his woman came to visit him without pre-informing him and the lady was screaming at the top of her voice that she doesn't have to call him before coming.

Some of my neighbors were in support of the guy and I feel it's not right because I'm also dating someone, and we visit each other anytime we like without prior notice!!

Some of my neighbors think otherwise!!
please I need your opinion. Do you think it's wrong to visit someone you are dating without prior notice??

Sermwell:
We had to settle a serious quarrel in my compound today between a lady and the guy she's dating! It's actually a serious relationship because if not for the covid-19 pandemic, they would have been married!

The guy claimed that his woman came to visit him without pre-informing him and the lady was screaming at the top of her voice that she doesn't have to call him before coming.

Some of my neighbors were in support of the guy and I feel it's not right because I'm also dating someone, and we visit each other anytime we like without prior notice!!

Some of my neighbors think otherwise!!
please I need your opinion. Do you think it's wrong to visit someone you are dating without prior notice??