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Re: The Danger Of Minding Your Own Business. by Acidosis(m): 9:02pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
bukatyne: Very true ^^ 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Danger Of Minding Your Own Business. by Kollami007: 2:03am On Jun 08, 2020 |
bukatyne:If the girl died in his shop due to some complications she had during abortion, to be honest with you, OP go taste kirikiri oo. Nigeria police won't say he's minding his business, so we are not going to arrest him. No one will even talk about how OP has been minding his business by not interfering with his sales girl private's life. Funniest part is "the mind your business" crew may be the first to call him ritualist or pervert that can't control his d!ck; he impregnates his sales girl, he aborted it blah blah blah. No one will probably know the true story on how the girl has been having sex with 5 different men. And I like Nigeria police because their only form of investigation is beating. Dem go beat craze comot for OP body. Look at what happened to Clarence Peter that a video vixen died in his house and he was arrested because of it. Just imagine Clarence Peter was just a regular guy like OP, he will rot in jail for the offense he didn't commit because so many people are in jail for similar scenario. Naija police only do thorough investigation when a crime involves a rich and influential person, but for a common man, "Na only God fit help me in this situation" is your motto. |
Re: The Danger Of Minding Your Own Business. by Hathor5(f): 6:29am On Jun 08, 2020 |
Cocoyamu: If you care about productivity then you will have to monitor your workers' eating habits, sleeping habits, drinking habits, workout routine and medical records. Don't make me laugh with this your productivity argument. As long as they get their work done, you have no business poking your nose in their private lives. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Danger Of Minding Your Own Business. by Kyom20(m): 7:43am On Jun 08, 2020 |
cococandy:I totally agree with you. Nigeria is the home of hypocrites. We have had multiple threads were men were the ones doing crazy things e.g. the guy who was sleeping with his cousin and the brother was thinking of telling on him. Men kept screaming mind your business n dat was dat. Bt suddenly because this is about a woman itsl not "personal". Who are we deceiving? When a man says he sleeps with multiple women who do think these women are? Ghosts? They are your daughters, sisters, mothers etc. The fact that you dont know doesnt mean its nt happening. When a girl has an abortion is it for herself? Isnt it a man who impregnated her? N she shud also keep and suffer because its what she deserves. Wat a backward society. In most foreign countries abortion is not a crime, because women deserve to have the opportunity to learn from mistakes and move on. Not having to give birth to a child whom she cant take care of. If men were being forced to take responsibility for impregnating women or forced to pay child support. I would see reason for no abortion but for this part of the world were men think the can do as they wish, I PITY ANY WOMAN who doesnt take her future in her hands and do whats best for herself. 3 Likes |
Re: The Danger Of Minding Your Own Business. by Kyom20(m): 7:47am On Jun 08, 2020 |
Kollami007:We love to use this talk of "what if she dies from the abortion" line. Pls tell me how many women you know who died from an abortion. There are a thousand and one things more likely to kill a woman than an abortion. The world is changing and its high time our thinking does too. Its even more likely to die from childbirth than abortion. If anything that man can simply advice and give her reasons why she should work on herself because there is nothing men will give her that she cant give herself. Not him trying to judge her or sack her because he doesn't know what his own daughters are doing 3 Likes |
Re: The Danger Of Minding Your Own Business. by ieemmanuel(m): 7:55am On Jun 08, 2020 |
bdchange: Well said |
Re: The Danger Of Minding Your Own Business. by Liposure: 10:40pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
ibkayee:Its a man's world dey will say. nobody cares about how a girl/woman survives which i tink is very unfair 1 Like |
Re: The Danger Of Minding Your Own Business. by kazyhm(m): 9:00am On Jun 10, 2020 |
Kyom20: Sometime I really don't understand how people separate cause and effect from situations......its better not to talk than affirmative give an opinion that will further complicate a situation... The number of guy touts are a reflection of how bad a society is The number of girl touts is a reflection of how terrible a society is.........so also teenage pregnant Portraying men and women as the same and equal at all level of life and situation is what make this thread this long.......In a sexual relationship, its the women that get pregnant, do abortion/give birth etc. So women need sexual training and caution than men.........in reality men don't get pity from human generally unlike women.....that why most touts, criminals et al are men and people don't get emotional about it but a girl tout always raise question and sympathy. When a girl abort, its entirely not true that she did it for the boyfriend/sexual partner.....that Statement portrays women as if they have no choice, no mind of their own, can't think and not capable to live without man influencing their choice/actions. Those foreign countries you mentioned are are more confused and backward than you portray them A countries that have bias for genders, country that values furniture than than human that make them.......a country that legalized abortion yet men's life are ruin for women choice to keep a baby she can't carter for You people don't want women to be train and caution for their own good and benefits but you want to blame everyone else when their choice didn't work out in their favor. The summary of this you opinion I guess is because men seem to do as the wish so women also should do as they wishes..........things don't work like that in reality.....life us not fair And in every situation, someone usually have an upper hand........that should be the basis for consideration when discussion like this ensue. 1 Like |
Re: The Danger Of Minding Your Own Business. by Kyom20(m): 10:54am On Jun 10, 2020 |
kazyhm:What I was saying is dat who is responsible for a woman's pregnancy? Isnt it a man? Definitely, the woman is capable of making her decisions whether she keeps it or not and that may or may not be based on the man. Life is not fair but we can create a sense of equity. By ensuring that everyone bears consequences for their actions whether male or female. A woman should not solely face the consequence of her action when she got into it with a man. The world is changing whether you like it or not. Its left to you to also move or stay in the past. Women are standing up more than ever before and slowly changing the narrative. |
Re: The Danger Of Minding Your Own Business. by kazyhm(m): 2:10pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Kyom20: What I'm saying is that situations affect one more than the other.......is such a case the person/gender with the lower advantage should be thread carefully. Then you shouldn't shield such person/gender from proper training as the case of the original thread. Change is constant We Change the world in a better way Its not every change that is positive Not this biased and disjointed change lopsided Equality change is not even helping in those developed world you want to emulate; even they know.....but man will always be a man....we live it whichever crap they turn the world into.....through female happiness brings peace to the world agitation.....and by extension.......its to female detriment in the long run. |
Re: The Danger Of Minding Your Own Business. by BigBashiru: 11:21am On Jun 28 |
Bj5all: Having multiple girlfriends is natural selection. Its a biological process. |
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