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Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by ProdigalSaviour: 7:50am On Jun 12, 2020
I found it bizzare and lack of human respect to lie or even hurt your self just to avoid sex...when a gal visits be nd she lie to avoid sex I don't bother to meet you again. .we should be human enough to speak our mind..if I don't want sex I don't want simple,and I expect the opposite to do so..why should i waste my time lying....

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Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by jeph19(m): 7:56am On Jun 12, 2020
latyph:

Biggest lie. My room mate claims to be a pastor and speaks in tongues for nothing less than one hour every morning while praying. This guy borrowed money from me for over a year and has not paid till date. Anytime I ask for my money, na fight baba go turn am to.

That's his character... Not the anointing

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Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by Yampotatocarrot(m): 8:07am On Jun 12, 2020
[quote author=madridsta007 post=90569026]

Tell him to try it with Apostle Joshua Selman Nimak's messages.
Anyone.[/quote

Sorry to say, my brother, you know nothing. When you listen to Selman's message for too long, you begin to notice a pattern where he leaves the topic being preached and starts talking things not related to the topic at all. When it's almost 20 minutes to the end of a 2 hours message, then he'll come back to the topic and give some points, and tell you he'll continue in the next message.

See, if you are able to listen critically to this messages, you'll get the pattern and trust me, you'll stop feeling any kind of guilt whenever you listen to him

So, trust me, an armed robber or even a prostitute can have his message on loud speaker and still carry on. I noticed the same thing with Chidi Okoroafor

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Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by Nicevalentine(m): 8:27am On Jun 12, 2020
Freetruth:
well actually, we all experience different financial conditions at particular points of our lives that may not be favourable to those expecting from us. Its wrong they didnt pay back, not that they dont want to but just that the current condition doesnt permit(literally did not have), but if dey do and outrightly refuse, then its wickedness and you should call them out.


If there is a will, there will always be a way.
Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by eagleonearth(m): 8:30am On Jun 12, 2020
latyph:

Biggest lie. My room mate claims to be a pastor and speaks in tongues for nothing less than one hour every morning while praying. This guy borrowed money from me for over a year and has not paid till date. Anytime I ask for my money, na fight baba go turn am to.
"speaking in tongues" for one hour every morning doesn't amount to knowing Christ bro. Still waters run deep

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Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by Nobody: 8:40am On Jun 12, 2020
emmaitive:
sex is an access road for evil spirit to access you,so be wise


Apart from sex, do you agree there are other APN for evil spirit to access you & humans. what actually gives the link is SIN not just sex only as you insinuate, we all have our favourite sin, that is the access. next time think broadly

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Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by Obedinho130: 8:41am On Jun 12, 2020
Davash222:

Oga, I do use Evang. John Ukah songs during sex. Makes it orgasmic.
Na so una don spoil reach
Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by luminouz(m): 8:43am On Jun 12, 2020
cucumbae:
you have to snap yourself eating barbecue lizard.
That was you,not me grin
Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by luminouz(m): 8:44am On Jun 12, 2020
joshuaidibia:


They're rapists

Read and understand biko undecided
Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by Damead: 8:44am On Jun 12, 2020
Why so scared?�quote author=paulolee post=90519086]m a guy thou...she was all over me stack naked dt i must sex her bt i told her that i dnt want to have sex with her bcoz am a virgin dude and I jus told her i wana go buy c.d n viagra n dt was how I ran away from her dt day... the reason i refused her was that she was on a revenge mission after catching her guy cheating with another bea and she decide to do same using me as the bait but I jus have to run away because her guy is a cultist and no want make them use me settle matter or count scores oo[/quote]
Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by Waper2(m): 8:49am On Jun 12, 2020
Watin you come gain ���
Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by madridsta007(m): 8:53am On Jun 12, 2020
[quote author=Yampotatocarrot post=90576726][/quote]

OK.

The fact that millions listen to his messages around the world, simply means he’s been helped by God to speak things profound. That his messages, start to finish, is directed by God. You can’t dispute results, can you?

If it’s easy go and put up your own messages and we’ll check the results in 6 months.

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Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by Kokaine(m): 8:55am On Jun 12, 2020
Joycekkh:
Menopause threat dont get to me uncle, I am very much young and have my life to live, at the appointed time, I will find the right one and sex won't keep him.
what's the menopause threat though
Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by goldensoul55: 8:59am On Jun 12, 2020
OBelz:
So ladies & Gentlemen
What's the most extreme measure you've taken just so you could avoid having sex with a guy?..
For which ever reason possible..

Mine was
it was getting all heated up and I could tell he wasn't taking NO for an answer, so pretended I needed a glass of water and headed to his kitchen, got a knife and slightly cut my index finger, I bled and I stylishly told him I was on my period and I needed to use the restroom ..I could see his face

Period cannot stop sex ,some men will still do

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Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by femmyapson(m): 9:01am On Jun 12, 2020
One4me:


You wasted all this energy and life-time just to keep repeating: believe me, believe me, believe me!
Who will beleive such an ignorant post like this?
You dont even know that he was accused of spending a fake $20 note and it was the Till person that called the Police?
You dont even know that Cameras from various street Shops provided the different angles that was stiched together to get the full picture?
You dont even know that defunding the Police means re-directing SOME (not all) of the funds allocated to the Police, to other beneficial programmes, like Conflict Resolution Programs so that the Police dont have to appear with guns, at very minor issue like disagreement between two neighbours voer children's quarrel or simple arguements that dont involve physical violence, between spouses .....where the Police end-up murdering the husband and the wife starts crying 'I did not ask you to kill him'! undecided
Dumb is your middle name.

You know what, they said the worst set of Blacks in America are the useful !di0ts who the white men use against other blacks.
Stop smoking cheap weed boy, Racism is real and even white people acknowledge it.
Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by Nobody: 9:03am On Jun 12, 2020
itzmarvyx:
We were playing rough play and senses were already going, my earphone was in my ear just one ear but not playing anything, when I realised that in the next 5 minutes I may do something I regret, I just played one Man of God's message sharperly, it was Apostle Selman. Immediately I heard his voice, my senses came back and my body relaxed.

When the action wanted to progress further, I just halted it and stood up to take my leave. She stood up and just slapped the earpiece from my ear almost cutting it. She immediately became very surprised at her actions and apologised, said she didn't know what came over her. A gentle lady like her?? I just smiled, told her I understood and that was how I saved myself.

That thing that came over her was a spirit contrary to the Holy Spirit of God. They are all around us looking for bodies to inhabit



How silly can we be as Africans? Anything we don't understand we tag it spiritual.
You activated her system for sex, got her emotions and desires high and then you suddenly cut it off and you are expecting her not to flare up? if you are truly a born again Christian, why did you even start rough play/romance with her in the first place

since you call it an evil spirit, when you are married, try it with your wife and lets see if she will be happy with you. if she flares up, it means that evil spirit is also present in your supposed holy matrimony undecided



Think I'm joking ?? The next time a guy or lady comes and sex wants to happen, just play one Don Moen's song and watch what will happen

When you are married, try this too. try playing don moen or any gospel song and see if the sex will go well between you and your wife.

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Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by vickydevoka(m): 9:07am On Jun 12, 2020
One4me:
From what l have read here so far, it appears Women (Female) have a higher tendency to initiate unwanted Sex and force the other party to comply (RAPE!), yet the same females (and a tint number stupid men) are the ones shouting about Rape the most, when it should have been the other way round.

Mind you, l hate Rape of any kind, whether perpetrated by a Male or a Female.

EVery Rape allegtaion should be properly investigated, not taken at face value and the guilty person properly dealth with.
Women don't use muscles. De use signs n emotions

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Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by Maikel26(m): 9:10am On Jun 12, 2020
Una just dey lie anyhow. Chai!!! God dey ooo

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Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by Madakiss666(m): 9:12am On Jun 12, 2020
[quote author=itzmarvyx post=90528357]We were playing rough play and senses were already going, my earphone was in my ear just one ear but not playing anything, when I realised that in the next 5 minutes I may do something I regret, I just played one Man of God's message sharperly, it was Apostle Selman. Immediately I heard his voice, my senses came back and my body relaxed.

When the action wanted to progress further, I just halted it and stood up to take my leave. She stood up and just slapped the earpiece from my ear almost cutting it. She immediately became very surprised at her actions and apologised, said she didn't know what came over her. A gentle lady like her?? I just smiled, told her I understood and that was how I saved myself.

That thing that came over her was a spirit contrary to the Holy Spirit of God. They are all around us looking for bodies to inhabit.

Think I'm joking ?? The next time a guy or lady comes and sex wants to happen, just play one Don Moen's song and watch what will happen.
Lolz... more than Don Moen is playing while the sex is going on bro. U never jam dos kind girls

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Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by X0012(m): 9:15am On Jun 12, 2020
He may just wanna spend quality time with u in his home where he feels comfortable. Men likes that.
Well you did well since your spirit didn't agree to go upstairs with him.
Luckygurl:
Uni days, I had one fairly big boy hitting on me. We went out a couple of times and I'd eat awoof food grin grin
Whenever he comes visiting, he'd come bearing gifts. I give him a thank you kiss and off I go.
Chaii!! I don too kiss plenty for this life ooo grin grin grin

Then on this day, he came to my hostel and as someone that's been indoor all day I was on a bum short and sleeveless top. I entered his car and boom! Dude was driving voraciously to his place. I was shocked and protested initially but when he didn't bulge, I kept calm. We got to the school gate and as security peeps did their routine checks, I was still calm. Infact when the reflection of their light revealed fresh laps, they started hailing him grin grin as in meat don ready grin he dunno warris happening


We got to his compound, I refused getting down from the car. Told him I wasn't going upstairs with him cos he brought me here without my consent. He went upstairs thinking I'll bulge but for where, my mind was already racking my brain on how I'll get back to school with me not properly dressed.
Truth is I didn't want to follow him upstairs cos I didn't know what plans he got up his sleeves. Its possible I was wrong then tho, who knows? He could have been a gentleman but the then me didn't want to take chances. We've hung out a couple of times and I ate small money so he might want to capitalize on that.

I can't remember how long I stayed back in the car but he came out and drove me back to school in complete silence. I got off the car, banged his door loudly and shook my tiny bum bum back to my room.

The last time we spoke, he still wanted us to date but nahhh!! I'll pass.

At other times, I've been with reasonable people who knows what consent is all about.

Lollll!! This is my story, dunno if it comes close tongue tongue
Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by tomju(m): 9:18am On Jun 12, 2020
Abfinest007:
why will you avoid sex
Because I'm not married.

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Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by Shakathezulu1: 9:21am On Jun 12, 2020
timekeeper1:


U r a kid... A lady I once met love playing Christian songs when the action is going on...


U no notin
My ex will wake up in the morning, force me and her to pray and next thing na nacks b4 she go work. I go just dey laugh inside me.

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Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by itzmarvyx(m): 9:22am On Jun 12, 2020
timekeeper1:


U r a kid... A lady I once met love playing Christian songs when the action is going on...


U no notin
There are songs and there are songs. Songs that are charged with the Holy Spirit rids an atmosphere of the spirit of immorality.

However, what I said and narrated isn't a textbook guideline judging from you and many others that quoted me, it depends on some hosts of factors which I'm not at liberty to discuss in this thread.

I'll be creating a thread that addresses this soon and I hope you'll be interested in reading with an open mind. Cheers.

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Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by mrmachine: 9:24am On Jun 12, 2020
latyph:

Biggest lie. My room mate claims to be a pastor and speaks in tongues for nothing less than one hour every morning while praying. This guy borrowed money from me for over a year and has not paid till date. Anytime I ask for my money, na fight baba go turn am to.

So sorry to hear this. The guy didn't learn that from Christ. The Bible says by their fruits we shall know them

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Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by Yampotatocarrot(m): 9:24am On Jun 12, 2020
madridsta007:


OK.

The fact that millions listen to his messages around the world, simply means he’s been helped by God to speak things profound. That his messages, start to finish, is directed by God. You can’t dispute results, can you?

If it’s easy go and put up your own messages and we’ll check the results in 6 months.

The fact that millions listen to his messages around the world simply means he's been helped by God to speak things profound.

If you actually believe what you wrote up there, then I don't know what else to say.

Don't forget millions listen to ISIS leaders, millions listened to Hitler and co.

Using your logic, that means they were being helped by God. If you refute that, then your logic of him being helped by God cos many listen to his message doesn't hold.

I'm not arguing he is right or wrong, I'm just stating a fact
Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by AdmissionGetEas: 9:25am On Jun 12, 2020
Noone is above temptation but it's better to always be truthful and becareful


Check my signature for IJMB or JUPEB Registration
Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by Crownstar01: 9:26am On Jun 12, 2020
Mine was in a hotel though. I have been avoiding this lady for so long. You know the more you avoid women, the more they get attracted to you.

So, on that faithful day, she called me on phone and asked if I was in town and I said yes. She said she's in the hospital and even if I hated her so much, why couldn't I make out time to see her. At first, I was reluctant, but on a second thought, I was like okay, text me the address of the hospital and I would surely come right away. She said the hospital is very close to the hotel.

After a couple of minutes I arrived at the hotel but she said she isn't longer at the hospital. That she's in the hotel to have lunch with some of her friends, then gave me a room number. I went to the room and saw the girl completely naked when she opened the door. I was like oh my God, what are you trying to do? She begged me to make love to her but I refused. She also asked me to touch her, and I refused. cheesy

I was like why did you lie to me you were in the hospital? I can't do it. You think because you're a very pretty lady and that you can get me easily?

I left the hotel and ever since then, the babe has been speaking highly of me. This babe is hot and she's got a nice shape. cheesy

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Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by tunary(m): 9:29am On Jun 12, 2020
luminouz:



U kidding me? Some go fuq her with her period, whether fake or real!!! cheesy cheesy
Real matter
Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by Nobody: 9:31am On Jun 12, 2020
itzmarvyx:
We were playing rough play and senses were already going, my earphone was in my ear just one ear but not playing anything, when I realised that in the next 5 minutes I may do something I regret, I just played one Man of God's message sharperly, it was Apostle Selman. Immediately I heard his voice, my senses came back and my body relaxed.

When the action wanted to progress further, I just halted it and stood up to take my leave. She stood up and just slapped the earpiece from my ear almost cutting it. She immediately became very surprised at her actions and apologised, said she didn't know what came over her. A gentle lady like her?? I just smiled, told her I understood and that was how I saved myself.

That thing that came over her was a spirit contrary to the Holy Spirit of God. They are all around us looking for bodies to inhabit.

Think I'm joking ?? The next time a guy or lady comes and sex wants to happen, just play one Don Moen's song and watch what will happen.
My very religious friend plays gospel music when having sex. I'm a live witness

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Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by Obedinho130: 9:39am On Jun 12, 2020
alphaNomega:


Yam legs are a total turn off angry
What is yam legs please
Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by MadamExcellency: 9:44am On Jun 12, 2020
DavidEsq:

No mind the fairy. Na their type dey see demon everywhere. Na dem dey shake head upandan inside bus like crase, say dem dey pray.

Na your head? See me, see trouble.

Somebody can't be in the spirit in peace for your side?
Re: What's The Most Extreme Measure You Have Taken So You Could Avoid Having Sex? by paulolee(m): 9:51am On Jun 12, 2020
Damead:
Why so scared?�quote author=paulolee post=90519086]m a guy thou...she was all over me stack naked dt i must sex her bt i told her that i dnt want to have sex with her bcoz am a virgin dude and I jus told her i wana go buy c.d n viagra n dt was how I ran away from her dt day... the reason i refused her was that she was on a revenge mission after catching her guy cheating with another bea and she decide to do same using me as the bait but I jus have to run away because her guy is a cultist and no want make them use me settle matter or count scores oo
dnt want dose guys wahala...no wan enter nairaland f.b..

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