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Dating For A Long Time, Does That Guarantee A Happy Marriage? by presid: 3:43pm On Jun 13, 2020
Am asking this question because I heard that without dating a girl/boy for a long time that the marriage won't last.

Am currently married for a year now and we are having issues, we got married after dating for a year. I want do know if the reason we are having issues is because we did not get to know each other more before taking our vows.



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Re: Dating For A Long Time, Does That Guarantee A Happy Marriage? by ettaetta(m): 3:44pm On Jun 13, 2020
not how long but how well, you can know someone in few months and it will feel, like you have known them forever because of the role the play and the value they add to your life. you can also know someone for years yet something will still be missing.

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Re: Dating For A Long Time, Does That Guarantee A Happy Marriage? by Goldenkrezi: 3:44pm On Jun 13, 2020
Maybe... dating for long helps u to understand ur partner so well,u know each other flaws and knows wat u both can't keep up with,u know the do's and don't of each other...

So in essence I think it does.. provided the two partners are not flaunting and living fake lives while dating, their marriage is good to go.

Krezi's view tho..

No rude capping please. cool
Re: Dating For A Long Time, Does That Guarantee A Happy Marriage? by presid: 3:46pm On Jun 13, 2020
ettaetta:
not how long but how well

I believe time also have a role that play on how well you get to know some one... Because people normal hide their true self from others
Re: Dating For A Long Time, Does That Guarantee A Happy Marriage? by ettaetta(m): 3:48pm On Jun 13, 2020
presid:


I believe time also have a role that play on how well you get to know some one... Because people normal hide their true self from others
to some extent becos only love will stand the test of time
Re: Dating For A Long Time, Does That Guarantee A Happy Marriage? by Bola146(f): 4:06pm On Jun 13, 2020
A long or short courting does not mean a good marriage, it's only the grace of God
Re: Dating For A Long Time, Does That Guarantee A Happy Marriage? by Nobody: 4:12pm On Jun 13, 2020
Marriage statistics says at least 98.10% of Nigerian ladies get married to who's ready (financially endowed) rather than who they love


That's the first step to a miserable marriage life
Re: Dating For A Long Time, Does That Guarantee A Happy Marriage? by presid: 4:52pm On Jun 13, 2020
Dicktion:
Marriage statistics says at least 98.10% of Nigerian ladies get married to who's ready (financially endowed) rather than who they love


That's the first step to a miserable marriage life

So true
Re: Dating For A Long Time, Does That Guarantee A Happy Marriage? by ichidodo: 5:47pm On Jun 13, 2020
but...
Re: Dating For A Long Time, Does That Guarantee A Happy Marriage? by Edyice: 6:17pm On Jun 13, 2020
Dicktion:
Marriage statistics says at least 98.10% of Nigerian ladies get married to who's ready (financially endowed) rather than who they love


That's the first step to a miserable marriage life

Re: Dating For A Long Time, Does That Guarantee A Happy Marriage? by Zabiboy: 6:19pm On Jun 13, 2020

OP whether you date for 100 years or 2 days, Marry your best friend or best enemy, RESEARCH HAS SHOWN THAT LOVE LAST FOR ONLY A MAXIMUM OF 3-5 YEARS..After the 3-5 years, what keeps the two of them together is either the children or the love for the marriage...
Thats why men are told to love their marriage cz their wife's beauty would surely fade and love would eventually die....
I'm not in the anti-marriage crew tho...but MARRIAGES NOWADAYS ARE NOT WORTH IT....THESE GENERATION OF GIRLS ARE NOT WORTH BEING COMMITTED TO..
Funny enough, even in the bible ( Romans) Paul said its far better to be single.
GL cool

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