I visited a lady one time.

I initiated romance, and the flow went on till she guided me to he room while kissing and fuddling.

In the heat of the romance, we undressed slowly and gently still maintaining the hormones of our touches.

Out of curiosity i descided to seek conscent, and i wispered if I should go into her(at this point we were both bare and she was ready)...she shook her head in the negative.

Sadly I went in, but lost my hard on due to anxiety as the act wentnon as she was damn so gorgeous. She however knew what to do and went on giving me a handjob and we continued...

On a serious note now, to ladies especially, will this have been a case of rape. Did I violate her wish here? If yes should men not ask next time as it was clear this was going to lead to sex even if I didn't ask? If no, when should a no be taken seriously?

No cannot mean yes. If she says no even in the heat of the passion, stop.

Although any lady that wants to frame you for rape can always do so whether she said yes or no, except you have your own evidence.

No is never YES

Instead of you going straight to the land of Egypt, you were asking questions.

this one is confusion, not rape the details of the story spells it out

thesicilian:
No cannot mean yes. If she says no even in the heat of the passion, stop.

Although any lady that wants to frame you for rape can always do so whether she said yes or no, except you have your own evidence.

You clearly haven't been with a Nigerian lady for you to suggest this.

no cant means yes...i get ur point sha...dts gals are confused and wunt say yes asif na dm d tin de hungrg pass but me i dnt ask such questions b4 sex wit a new bea, as long as we don bare n romance, na to slide in enter d already wet nunu na...Y ask??..d earlier guys knows dt gals loves dis sex d more d better for us..if u want kno, jus engage in hot romance and after all d kissing n touching n u both are bare n shes wet n already drippin n badly expecting ur stick, jus tell her dt u cnt continue because u think its a sin to fornicate n see d pain in her eyes even if ego n pride no go allow her voice am out...she fit strangle u for dream if possible..

WakeNbaked:

You clearly haven't been with a Nigerian lady for you to suggest this.

Who doesn't know that Nigerian ladies pretend? You just have to learn how to handle them. If you're too desperate you end up setting up yourself. So don't let her know you're desperate. Even when she says no after taking off her clothes, accept like a man and stop the process.

If she really needs it she'll give you signs to continue, but you have to get her to say so in clear language for the sake of your bright future.

keenn:
I visited a lady one time.

I initiated romance, and the flow went on till she guided me to he room while kissing and fuddling.

In the heat of the romance, we undressed slowly and gently still maintaining the hormones of our touches.

Out of curiosity i descided to seek conscent, and i wispered if I should go into her(at this point we were both bare and she was ready)...she shook her head in the negative.

Sadly I went in, but lost my hard on due to anxiety as the act wentnon as she was damn so gorgeous. She however knew what to do and went on giving me a handjob and we continued...

On a serious note now, to ladies especially, will this have been a case of rape. Did I violate her wish here? If yes should men not ask next time as it was clear this was going to lead to sex even if I didn't ask? If no, when should a no be taken seriously?

The only moaning she's allowed to moan for me during coitus is I CONSENT, I CONSENT... I don't want to hear anything else, oach, ahhh,harder, yeah..Just be Shouting I CONSENT, I CONSENT...till both of us cum

No is No normally!

Buh Naija babes are 1 kind confused being, sometimes their NO is yes, buh they won't wanna lose virtues to giving in easily.

Buuuhh, when she says NO! It's better you take it as No!! Don't pester, don't seduce or else you would be the next rape celebrity, even after she rode you herself, and even ask for 1 more round

"She shook her head in the negative" yet you didn't heed. What was the point of you "seeking conscent consent" when you ended up dismissing her reply?

thesicilian:

Who doesn't know that Nigerian ladies pretend? You just have to learn how to handle them. If you're too desperate you end up setting up yourself. So don't let her know you're desperate. Even when she says no after taking off her clothes, accept like a man and stop the process.

If she really needs it she'll give you signs to continue, but you have to get her to say so in clear language for the sake of your bright future.

Agreed, what are examples of clear language by Nigerian ladies? Majority of them is by saying NO.

She gave you a negative feedback.
No debate there.

So why didn't you put your trousers back on?

WakeNbaked:

Agreed, what are examples of clear language by Nigerian ladies? Majority of them is by saying NO.

Yes / No
I agree / I don't agree
Okay let's do it / Please don't.

Those are clear languages.

When she say "no jor" it means she want you to initiate it and be more persistent, girls don't
like responsibility, they want to make it as if they are not interested that she was reluctant and you force or convince her in the act ... So if anything goes wrong ie pregnancy or you betray them they can point finger or manipulate you, and secondly some do that because they don't want to look like a slut or promiscuous...

If u know women well & hv studied d female psyche, u'll neva ask her 4permission b4 u kiss, touch or fvck her.

Women perceive any man "askin them 4 permission" as a weak man.

If traffic light dey show u GREEN LIGHT, u go move ur car dey GO abi u go still park ur car dey ask d traffic light yeye question? D traffic light won't even talk 2u. It'll show u yellow then red finally. Hehehe...

A woman expects a man 2take wat HE wants wen SHE wants it. *winks*

Abeg read wat I wrote slowly. I'm not saying men shud rape women in d name of MASCULINITY o! I'm saying men shud learn 2read women & their body language.

Then go & read THE RATIONAL MALE by Rollo Tomassi 4more enlightenment. U go thank me later wallahi.

CAVEAT: But if she says NO (even wen u didn't ask her any yeye question), my broda, pls abeg ejo mbok wear ur boxers, zip ur trousers & compensate urself by masturbating. Her NO is a RAPE TRAP. Don't fall into it like an imbecilic he-goat.

Blackmoran:
When she say "no jor" it means she want you to initiate it and be more persistent,

GIRLS DON'T LIKE RESPONSIBILITY,

they want to make it as if they are not interested that she was reluctant and you force or convince her in the act ... So if anything goes wrong ie pregnancy or you betray them they can point finger or manipulate you, and secondly some do that because they don't want to look like a slut or promiscuous...

Waiter, serve this man 3chilled bottles of beer abeg. He understands d female psyche.

NO is diff from NO JOR. Hehehe...

MoodyQueen:
She gave you a negative feedback.
No debate there.

So why didn't you put your trousers back on?

when was the last time you said YES !

You undressed each other and still asking whether or not to go in, if you were a striker gaskiya you would ask whether or not to score a tap in

keenn:
I visited a lady one time.

I initiated romance, and the flow went on till she guided me to he room while kissing and fuddling.

In the heat of the romance, we undressed slowly and gently still maintaining the hormones of our touches.

Out of curiosity i descided to seek conscent, and i wispered if I should go into her(at this point we were both bare and she was ready)...she shook her head in the negative.

Sadly I went in, but lost my hard on due to anxiety as the act wentnon as she was damn so gorgeous. She however knew what to do and went on giving me a handjob and we continued...

On a serious note now, to ladies especially, will this have been a case of rape. Did I violate her wish here? If yes should men not ask next time as it was clear this was going to lead to sex even if I didn't ask? If no, when should a no be taken seriously?

no lady will say yes at that point. do you know why? she does not want to look cheap. as long as she did not resist you while you are thrusting in and out, there is consent. nor mind all these feminist telling you to ask for verbal consent. she will tell you nope.