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Re: My Younger Sister And Porn: Is She Addicted Or Just Curious? by Ishaquine(m): 5:56pm On Jun 15, 2020
The porn watching has come to stay whether you talk to her or not, that's teenagers for you. Watching porn doesn't mean she'll turn out bad. I have a lot of guys who hate watching porn and masturbating but they are really bad guys, they have sex like they take water and I have guys who watch porn a lot and are still virgins.
We all watch crazy films that are just like porn. At her age its normal to be curious. Just continue to give her sex education.

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Re: My Younger Sister And Porn: Is She Addicted Or Just Curious? by Ghostmode2two(m): 5:57pm On Jun 15, 2020
Crystalom3:
Hello Everyone

I have a little problem and it's really killing me.

As almost is a custom in our house, you don't get a phone until you're out of secondary school.

Lately, my little sister has been begging me for my phone to use. Sometimes for Facebook, sometimes for assignments or just browsing and stuffs.

But the problem is, she's always searching for porn. She's 17 now. I don't know if it's out of curiosity or if she's addicted to it.

Everytime I get my phone from her and I check the browser history, I'll see Google search for 'porn' 'pornography' and then website clicks.

She also searches for lesbian porns cry with many click through.

I don't know if she's just curious or if I should be concerned. I've stopped giving her my phone even though she do ask for it sometimes.

I've thought about talking to her but I really don't know where to start or how. We lost both of our parents already and are staying with my uncle and his wife and I don't really want to talk to the wife about this.

Please any advice?


Call your little sister and confront her in a gentle and elderly manner, discuss with her and start sex education with her as well. Play that role of big sister

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Re: My Younger Sister And Porn: Is She Addicted Or Just Curious? by Ishaquine(m): 5:58pm On Jun 15, 2020
Johnchyz:
She will get over it. its just exploration. e go soon tire her. thats how we all started.
That's the truth.
Re: My Younger Sister And Porn: Is She Addicted Or Just Curious? by Mraproko1: 5:58pm On Jun 15, 2020
padi94:
OP I will advise you leave her be... allow her satisfy her curiousity. If you try nd deter her it will affect many other people.

If she no spoil how them boys go take see easy naks grin


Crase
Re: My Younger Sister And Porn: Is She Addicted Or Just Curious? by Ishaquine(m): 6:04pm On Jun 15, 2020
Ghostmode2two:


Call your little sister and confront her in a gentle and elderly manner, discuss with her and start sex education with her as well. Play that role of big sister
It seems you never passed through that stage before. Sex education has nothing on porn esp teenagers only your sex life. At this stage they won't listen, they think they know it all. But with time they might lose interest.
Re: My Younger Sister And Porn: Is She Addicted Or Just Curious? by Abcruz(m): 6:13pm On Jun 15, 2020
Crystalom3:
Hello Everyone

I have a little problem and it's really killing me.

As almost is a custom in our house, you don't get a phone until you're out of secondary school.

Lately, my little sister has been begging me for my phone to use. Sometimes for Facebook, sometimes for assignments or just browsing and stuffs.

But the problem is, she's always searching for porn. She's 17 now. I don't know if it's out of curiosity or if she's addicted to it.

Everytime I get my phone from her and I check the browser history, I'll see Google search for 'porn' 'pornography' and then website clicks.

She also searches for lesbian porns cry with many click through.

I don't know if she's just curious or if I should be concerned. I've stopped giving her my phone even though she do ask for it sometimes.

I've thought about talking to her but I really don't know where to start or how. We lost both of our parents already and are staying with my uncle and his wife and I don't really want to talk to the wife about this.

Please any advice?



Call her as an elder bro and sit thereafter, tell her about the dangers of ponography and how it can destroy her life. If you do not know the dangers a simple google search can arm you with what to say.

Catch her young before caution is thrown to the wind cos her regret latter will be that no one talked to her.
Re: My Younger Sister And Porn: Is She Addicted Or Just Curious? by friendl: 6:14pm On Jun 15, 2020
Very normal for her age ,........truth is that most adults even browse porn site
Re: My Younger Sister And Porn: Is She Addicted Or Just Curious? by stormborn28(m): 6:14pm On Jun 15, 2020
Joycekkh:
She is just being curious, we all passed through that stage.
is that so
Re: My Younger Sister And Porn: Is She Addicted Or Just Curious? by EngrChima88: 6:16pm On Jun 15, 2020
There is no implications about watching porn. Since she loves that,and to avoid the unforseen for her, just get her a Love Machine and intimacy gadgets. So she will not be prompted to bleep outside and catch infection after watching it. Once she is on, what she need to do get her Love Machine,use it herself, then afterwards she wash it and keep. Educate her so she will not she with her friends to avoid infection. Thats all she will remain grateful to you
Re: My Younger Sister And Porn: Is She Addicted Or Just Curious? by pemiboy: 6:21pm On Jun 15, 2020
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Crystalom3:
Hello Everyone

I have a little problem and it's really killing me.

As almost is a custom in our house, you don't get a phone until you're out of secondary school.

Lately, my little sister has been begging me for my phone to use. Sometimes for Facebook, sometimes for assignments or just browsing and stuffs.

But the problem is, she's always searching for porn. She's 17 now. I don't know if it's out of curiosity or if she's addicted to it.

Everytime I get my phone from her and I check the browser history, I'll see Google search for 'porn' 'pornography' and then website clicks.

She also searches for lesbian porns cry with many click through.

I don't know if she's just curious or if I should be concerned. I've stopped giving her my phone even though she do ask for it sometimes.

I've thought about talking to her but I really don't know where to start or how. We lost both of our parents already and are staying with my uncle and his wife and I don't really want to talk to the wife about this.

Please any advice?

Re: My Younger Sister And Porn: Is She Addicted Or Just Curious? by PeachtreeReside(f): 6:23pm On Jun 15, 2020
Curious, still ask and educate her.
Re: My Younger Sister And Porn: Is She Addicted Or Just Curious? by Nobody: 6:31pm On Jun 15, 2020
Educate her on sex education..She need enlightenment.Dont be harsh.Just be calm with her
Re: My Younger Sister And Porn: Is She Addicted Or Just Curious? by HARDDON: 6:33pm On Jun 15, 2020
@Crystalom3

It is most advised you talk to her.
But
Kindly don't approach this directly. Nor let her know that you are aware of the things you discovered. she would be embarrassed, then go into auto hide and defensive modes.
And you would lose your grip over this totally.

make sure the atmosphere is right and she is in her right frame of mind. Get her a gift and as you present it,
Start with; babe, I know you are 17 now but you haven't introduced me to your boyfriend....

trust you can take it from there
Re: My Younger Sister And Porn: Is She Addicted Or Just Curious? by WaterWalker5(m): 6:42pm On Jun 15, 2020
[quote author=padi94 post=90674225]OP I will advise you leave her be... allow her satisfy her curiousity. If you try nd deter her it will affect many other people.

If she no spoil how them boys go take see easy naks grin[/qoute]
Why should you give such stupid advice. Please get a life and stop spitting rubbish. What if she was your sister? Is this what your decision woulda been?
Re: My Younger Sister And Porn: Is She Addicted Or Just Curious? by NiCurious: 6:43pm On Jun 15, 2020
themaestro08:
Sex education is of utmost importance in her life at the moment. IMO she is doing out of curiosity and maybe sometimes she when she feel aroused, to me its Normal and fine.

You should talk to her in her in a kind, matured and logical manner regarding porn and sex education. Don't judo or intimidate her, it will just worsen an already bartered situation.
Re: My Younger Sister And Porn: Is She Addicted Or Just Curious? by emperorlaqrin: 6:46pm On Jun 15, 2020
To be candid with you at her age up to like 22 or there about. I watched alot of porn. Infact I knew all sex styles due to my exposures to porn but mind you my first experience was when I was 26. My first experience was a bomb cos the lady no believe it was my first.

So depending on the individual not all people that watches porn practice what they watch or mean they have started having sex some might be out of curiosity and some might be for fun and the feeling

Back to your question I will advise you talk to her and no if she is already practicing it also let her see reasons to be patient
Re: My Younger Sister And Porn: Is She Addicted Or Just Curious? by Turata101: 6:49pm On Jun 15, 2020
Crystalom3:
Hello Everyone

I have a little problem and it's really killing me.

As almost is a custom in our house, you don't get a phone until you're out of secondary school.

Lately, my little sister has been begging me for my phone to use. Sometimes for Facebook, sometimes for assignments or just browsing and stuffs.

But the problem is, she's always searching for porn. She's 17 now. I don't know if it's out of curiosity or if she's addicted to it.

Everytime I get my phone from her and I check the browser history, I'll see Google search for 'porn' 'pornography' and then website clicks.

She also searches for lesbian porns cry with many click through.

I don't know if she's just curious or if I should be concerned. I've stopped giving her my phone even though she do ask for it sometimes.

I've thought about talking to her but I really don't know where to start or how. We lost both of our parents already and are staying with my uncle and his wife and I don't really want to talk to the wife about this.

Please any advice?

Toto don dey scratch her. Give her my number.
Re: My Younger Sister And Porn: Is She Addicted Or Just Curious? by stormborn28(m): 6:53pm On Jun 15, 2020
Lovelyn451:
Slap hell fire commot for her body, confront her friends in school cos I'm sure they're into lesbianism. stop giving her your phone, if she wants to browse let her go to the cyber cafe
the most useless advice so far... You just want to worsen the matter

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Re: My Younger Sister And Porn: Is She Addicted Or Just Curious? by nurain150(m): 7:00pm On Jun 15, 2020
Crystalom3:
Hello Everyone

I have a little problem and it's really killing me.

As almost is a custom in our house, you don't get a phone until you're out of secondary school.

Lately, my little sister has been begging me for my phone to use. Sometimes for Facebook, sometimes for assignments or just browsing and stuffs.

But the problem is, she's always searching for porn. She's 17 now. I don't know if it's out of curiosity or if she's addicted to it.

Everytime I get my phone from her and I check the browser history, I'll see Google search for 'porn' 'pornography' and then website clicks.

She also searches for lesbian porns cry with many click through.

I don't know if she's just curious or if I should be concerned. I've stopped giving her my phone even though she do ask for it sometimes.

I've thought about talking to her but I really don't know where to start or how. We lost both of our parents already and are staying with my uncle and his wife and I don't really want to talk to the wife about this.

Please any advice?
Thanks
Na your parent spoil her life..No phone till after secondary.phew....She go go dry beg all those bother make she too feel what phone be like.Hope say they Neva shack her pkekus so...U better talk sense into your dad and mom and her all together..porn kwa

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Re: My Younger Sister And Porn: Is She Addicted Or Just Curious? by badman007(m): 7:07pm On Jun 15, 2020
Drkiki:
It's your responsibility to call her and talk sense into her , as a big bro....
It may as a result of peer pressure influence,but please don't be quiet about it.Talk to her....


Hormones go crazy at that age, it is only natural
Re: My Younger Sister And Porn: Is She Addicted Or Just Curious? by biggy26: 7:09pm On Jun 15, 2020
padi94:
OP I will advise you leave her be... allow her satisfy her curiousity. If you try nd deter her it will affect many other people.

If she no spoil how them boys go take see easy naks grin
Would you like your daughter to be displayed for easy naks? Why can't she learn it the normal way? Some people never recover after being damaged psychologically.
Just think about it.

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Re: My Younger Sister And Porn: Is She Addicted Or Just Curious? by toprealman: 7:15pm On Jun 15, 2020
GOFRONT:
Na wao......The way preeq and Towto dey sweet youth of this generation ehn!!!
Guess it is bitter to your generation.....
Re: My Younger Sister And Porn: Is She Addicted Or Just Curious? by biggy26: 7:17pm On Jun 15, 2020
Crystalom3:
Hello Everyone

I have a little problem and it's really killing me.

As almost is a custom in our house, you don't get a phone until you're out of secondary school.

Lately, my little sister has been begging me for my phone to use. Sometimes for Facebook, sometimes for assignments or just browsing and stuffs.

But the problem is, she's always searching for porn. She's 17 now. I don't know if it's out of curiosity or if she's addicted to it.

Everytime I get my phone from her and I check the browser history, I'll see Google search for 'porn' 'pornography' and then website clicks.

She also searches for lesbian porns cry with many click through.

I don't know if she's just curious or if I should be concerned. I've stopped giving her my phone even though she do ask for it sometimes.

I've thought about talking to her but I really don't know where to start or how. We lost both of our parents already and are staying with my uncle and his wife and I don't really want to talk to the wife about this.

Please any advice?

Lots of dangers in what she's doing. Some people get damaged psychologically. Sometimes she might find herself getting abused, cos she's attracting the people into her life unconsciously.
Teenagers are usually curious, but please guide her curiosity and teach her what she needs to know from the right sources and in the right way.
May God give you wisdom.
Re: My Younger Sister And Porn: Is She Addicted Or Just Curious? by Temysteve(m): 7:17pm On Jun 15, 2020
I must say it's very difficult to stop her @ the moment, what you can do is to educate about what sex is all about, she may find it difficult to listen to you being a guy, so you have to liniet with her with your advice.
Re: My Younger Sister And Porn: Is She Addicted Or Just Curious? by Nobody: 7:18pm On Jun 15, 2020
At 17 she probably knows more than you think because she is 21 mentally compare to a guy her age. Just leave a link or video on safe sex, morality on your phone for her to see.
Re: My Younger Sister And Porn: Is She Addicted Or Just Curious? by SirBunky85(m): 7:21pm On Jun 15, 2020
vickydankal:
If you have an elder sister, an aunty or your mum that’s their job. You may not do the counseling very well and it may end up making her distant herself from you, thinking you may be judging or condemning her.

Major I think she is lacking sex enlightenment
didn't u read where he stated dat dey've lost both parents?mum ko,granny ni
Re: My Younger Sister And Porn: Is She Addicted Or Just Curious? by wizod(m): 7:25pm On Jun 15, 2020
youngest85:
What do ladies even gain from porn?
they gain alot, like getting their itching clit scratched
Re: My Younger Sister And Porn: Is She Addicted Or Just Curious? by wizod(m): 7:29pm On Jun 15, 2020
She's having an itchy clit, and she is looking for a way to scratch it a little grin
Re: My Younger Sister And Porn: Is She Addicted Or Just Curious? by tintingz(m): 7:32pm On Jun 15, 2020
Reex12:
pls ignore this advice its the worst advice ever,unless u want ur sis too strt bleeping and jerkin off

Actually the movie is actually educative. You can't take sex away from teens, you can't stop them, they can rebel!

Now to the OP

Don't tell her sex is bad nor watching porn is bad. Focus on the consequences in sex, the pregnancy, STDs etc, tell her she can be addicted to porn, porn itself is not bad, it's the addiction. Almost everyone passed through this curiosity stage during their teen, it's very normal for teens even to masturbate!

What she's going through is just normal, very normal, don't make her look bad, just tell her it's normal for her stage but she needs to understand some things, tell her she can ask your brother's wife any question concerning sex, I think a female relative is best to educate her on some part. She might not feel comfortable with you talking about sex, but you can do your own part too.
Re: My Younger Sister And Porn: Is She Addicted Or Just Curious? by stormborn28(m): 7:33pm On Jun 15, 2020
Angelinastto:
Do not expose her to an outsider (your uncle's wife) it might not stand well with them and words can fly round before you know it. Just talk to her and gain her trust.
hmmmmm

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