Hi Nairalanders..
I don't know how I would start, but let me just begin.
I met this girl in my area, a beautiful, intelligent lady. Each time I saw her passing I always wish to talk to her, make her my friend. Cos I talk to her sis, I used that to start the conversation with her.. Then later I saw her one day, greeted her asked for her name and we started talking, we are good friends now... Days passed and now I'm having another feeling to be with her, probably to even get married to her... There are enough reasons to be with her. I'm not a player, the feelings I'm having for her are not infatuations.... Talking to her about my feelings to her or something like that is not the problem... She even told me she broke up early January...
Wat is then the problem? .... She is graduating this year, but I'm starting.... We're age mates though... But I'm feeling she might look at her class(not class in school o)... Her level... Will she even look at my side... I'm scared of it... I don't want to lose her... She is too precious oo..
Probably she might say I'm still in school stuffs like that... Money is not really a pro.. Me starting school now u know we need our course na.. I bleeped up sha.... That aside...
Please should I go on to ask her out.. Will I be rejected, i'm just so confused.. it's now I'm feeling what they call love.. We re both young.... No bash my age pls. If u see me u won't know I'm that young.. Lol.. I be fine boy sef.. Like I said, I hope to get married to her..
Nairalanders, the big lovers. Big daddies, mummies ... If u were in my situation before.. Please advice me too hw u did yours...
You're loved Nairalanders..

No go dey do pass yourself

Timbers:
No go dey do pass yourself

I don't understand?

What if you told her and she said she wants to get married in two years time,what will you do

Just maintain it at a friendly level for now,with time you can do the right thing

Set your life straight first

SavageBoy:
What if you told her and she said she wants to get married in two years time,what will you do

Just maintain it at a friendly level for now,with time you can do the right thing

Set your life straight first

Is it the fact that I said I was in school...
Setting my life straight, hmm

You are your own obstacle @op. You can't get an answer without popping up a question. Tell her your feelings, if peradventure she says no get ready to fight to win her heart. If you really love her like you claim, love will ultimately triumph. Love attracts love. Goodluck!

Unless she loves you as much as you love her it will end in premium tears. You are still young as you say. Focus on developing yourself as you have planned. Get that degree. If she waits that's good. If you ask her out now and she agrees but you're not ready to marry her immediately you will lose her to a man who's ready. Most young girls nowadays will initially date small boys who are their age or little older than them but eventually outgrow these boys and move to me who are working or more settled financially. But ask her out. I feel you still have a lesson or two to learn about building yourself before chasing love.

Bluntguy:
You are your own obstacle @op. You can't get an answer without popping up a question. Tell her your feelings, if peradventure she says no get ready to fight to win her heart. If you really love her like you claim, love will ultimately triumph. Love attracts love. Goodluck!

Deep

[quote author=DominusPrime post=90716452]Unless she loves you as much as you love her it will end in premium tears. You are still young as you say. Focus on developing yourself as you have planned. Get that degree. If she waits that's good. If you ask her out now and she agrees but you're not ready to marry her immediately you will lose her to a man who's ready. Most young girls nowadays will initially date small boys who are their age or little older than them but eventually outgrow these boys and move to me who are working or more settled financially. But ask her out. I feel you still have a lesson or two to learn about building yourself before chasing love.



I like the last part of having a lesson... Wat if I need to ask her out then if she agrees to wait... I can marry while in school oo

[quote author=Pheurly post=90716508][/quote]
Like I said, ask her out. If she agrees and you are ready then marry her asap. But note that by being ready i mean financially, maturity, sexual compatibility, healthwise, genotype, social acceptance(family), long and short term plans etc. Remove just one from that list and see how troubled your marriage will be. Marriage is not just about finances.

If you really feel the way you said, Just let her know. Even though she doesn't accept you now, (she may feel your plans wouldn't match) atleast you've made your intentions know, if in the future you meet again, (when your plans might match) and she is still single it will be easier for you.

But if all you want is for her to be yours, whether it matches her plans or not, then Oga that is not love.

lalanice:
If you really feel the way you said, Just let her know. Even though she doesn't accept you now, (she may feel your plans wouldn't match) atleast you've made your intentions know, if in the future you meet again, (when your plans might match) and she is still single it will be easier for you.

But if you all you want is for her to be yours, whether it matches her plans or not, then Oga that is not love.

Thanks...

DominusPrime:

Like I said, ask her out. If she agrees and you are ready then marry her asap. But note that by being ready i mean financially, maturity, sexual compatibility, healthwise, genotype, social acceptance(family), long and short term plans etc. Remove just one from that list and see how troubled your marriage will be. Marriage is not just about finances.

I love this

Bro forget that girl. This country ain't dreamwork's animation. You will end up wasting her time as well as yours.

Pheurly:
Hi Nairalanders..
I don't know how I would start, but let me just begin.
I met this girl in my area, a beautiful, intelligent lady. Each time I saw her passing I always wish to talk to her, make her my friend. Cos I talk to her sis, I used I said, I hope to get married to her..
Nairalanders, the big lovers. Big daddies, mummies ... If u were in my situation before.. Please advice me too hw u did yours...
You're loved Nairalanders..

In African China's voice; "If you love somebody walk up to her and tell her you love her, it does no harm, no harm at all".

Go and get that girl boy!

Though, it would indirectly ends in tears You're still coming back to us; D Love is a scam

callmeRichie:


In African China's voice; "If you love somebody walk up to her and tell her you love her, it does no harm, no harm at all".

Go and get that girl boy!

Though, it would indirectly ends in tears You're still coming back to us; D Love is a scam

Tears, how?...
Not scam man

JOACHINpedro:
Bro forget that girl. This country ain't dreamwork's animation. You will end up wasting her time as well as yours.

Pheurly:
Hi Nairalanders..
I don't know how I would start, but let me just begin.
I met this girl in my area, a beautiful, intelligent lady. Each time I saw her passing I always wish to talk to her, make her my friend. Cos I talk to her sis, I used that to start the conversation with her.. Then later I saw her one day, greeted her asked for her name and we started talking, we are good friends now... Days passed and now I'm having another feeling to be with her, probably to even get married to her... There are enough reasons to be with her. I'm not a player, the feelings I'm having for her are not infatuations.... Talking to her about my feelings to her or something like that is not the problem... She even told me she broke up early January...
Wat is then the problem? .... She is graduating this year, but I'm starting.... We're age mates though... But I'm feeling she might look at her class(not class in school o)... Her level... Will she even look at my side... I'm scared of it... I don't want to lose her... She is too precious oo..
Probably she might say I'm still in school stuffs like that... Money is not really a pro.. Me starting school now u know we need our course na.. I bleeped up sha.... That aside...
Please should I go on to ask her out.. Will I be rejected, i'm just so confused.. it's now I'm feeling what they call love.. We re both young.... No bash my age pls. If u see me u won't know I'm that young.. Lol.. I be fine boy sef.. Like I said, I hope to get married to her..
Nairalanders, the big lovers. Big daddies, mummies ... If u were in my situation before.. Please advice me too hw u did yours...
You're loved Nairalanders..

everyone on this platform is a fine boy/girl

KenBen217:

everyone on this platform is a fine boy/girl

Pheurly:

no be so?? I never see person for this platform wey say he no fine...all of Dem na fine boy or fine gurl...upload ya picture na...make we see how much chance you get...and secondly ur account balance...becoz even girls of 19...na lecturers get them

Pheurly:


Tears, how?... Not scam man

My people shuu we tell am

callmeRichie:


My people shuu we tell am

Hmmm

Heistman:
Ask her to b your fhuck buddy ....jokes apart, don't ask her foolishly , doing all dose boring stuff , using those stupid pickup lines...she go look down on u like a foolish fool,yea exactly as u feeling right now...the best way to go about it is to get really close to her and make her feel loved..impress her (not with material things only) just show her actions bro be her best buddy wey b say if she never talk to u in a day,she no go dey alright...and don't b mumu about it cos she go friendzone u and don't be too slow cos she go find a new nigga to fhuck around with
...
If u get sense and execute am right ehn,
before u Kno it, u go dey giver her doggy back to back without uttering one single toasting line.

U made sense small.. But everything nor be s**.... I don't see women as s** object...
They re meant to loved..
Making her my buddy.. Wld try..

Pheurly:




U made sense small.. But everything nor be s**.... I don't see women as s** object...
They re meant to loved
Making her my buddy.. Wld try..

keep on deceiving yourself at the bolded ...btw, when u finally get her ..don't fhuck her like a tiger continue dey do mumu...your eyes go clear when u find out na someone that's not even worth it dey chop d cookie back to back while u dey do foolish loverboy about

Heistman:
keep on deceiving yourself at the bolded ...btw, when u finally get her ..don't fhuck her like a tiger continue dey do mumu...your eyes go clear when u find out na someone that's not even worth it dey chop d cookie back to back while u dey do foolish loverboy about

*Someone should explain to him na*

Pheurly:




*Someone should explain to him na*

explain what?

Premium tears i tell ya, it will rain premium tears (in british accent), btw, ya going to schl, baba you go meet many more impressive coochies. Why not focus on your self development and just negodu?

Pheurly:




U made sense small.. But everything nor be s**.... I don't see women as s** object...
They re meant to loved..
Making her my buddy.. Wld try..

this guy just dey make me laugh. Belike woman neva show you their true color, you think its wise to trust a woman?

Pheurly:
Hi Nairalanders..
I don't know how I would start, but let me just begin.
I met this girl in my area, a beautiful, intelligent lady. Each time I saw her passing I always wish to talk to her, make her my friend. Cos I talk to her sis, I used that to start the conversation with her.. Then later I saw her one day, greeted her asked for her name and we started talking, we are good friends now... Days passed and now I'm having another feeling to be with her, probably to even get married to her... There are enough reasons to be with her. I'm not a player, the feelings I'm having for her are not infatuations.... Talking to her about my feelings to her or something like that is not the problem... She even told me she broke up early January...
Wat is then the problem? .... She is graduating this year, but I'm starting.... We're age mates though... But I'm feeling she might look at her class(not class in school o)... Her level... Will she even look at my side... I'm scared of it... I don't want to lose her... She is too precious oo..
Probably she might say I'm still in school stuffs like that... Money is not really a pro.. Me starting school now u know we need our course na.. I bleeped up sha.... That aside...
Please should I go on to ask her out.. Will I be rejected, i'm just so confused.. it's now I'm feeling what they call love.. We re both young.... No bash my age pls. If u see me u won't know I'm that young.. Lol.. I be fine boy sef.. Like I said, I hope to get married to her..
Nairalanders, the big lovers. Big daddies, mummies ... If u were in my situation before.. Please advice me too hw u did yours...
You're loved Nairalanders..

U think she's precious? Like seriously?

U're jst starting out. You'll meet more precious girls trust me.

Pheurly:




U made sense small.. But everything nor be s**.... I don't see women as s** object...
They re meant to loved..
Making her my buddy.. Wld try..

na the best advice that guy give you but your mumu head no go fit reason am

Heistman:
Ask her to b your fhuck buddy ....jokes apart, don't ask her foolishly , doing all dose boring stuff , using those stupid pickup lines...she go look down on u like a foolish fool,yea exactly as u feeling right now...the best way to go about it is to get really close to her and make her feel loved..impress her (not with material things only) just show her actions bro be her best buddy wey b say if she never talk to u in a day,she no go dey alright...and don't b mumu about it cos she go friendzone u and don't be too slow cos she go find a new nigga to fhuck around with
...
If u get sense and execute am right ehn,
before u Kno it, u go dey giver her doggy back to back without uttering one single toasting line.

Apply this man's advise and thank him later, because definitely you will find out that someone else is enjoying that Koko...
If you know you know. We re in 21st century.