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Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by doris4u(f): 11:41pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
Why would an ex unblock one after so much drama then wouldn't speak to the me, then seeing his status annoys me but I just try not to notice that he unblocked me. Am finding it so hard to let go, it's really painful 3 Likes |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by CokeBar(f): 11:44pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
It is very painful... Delete his number, have peace of mind! 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by doris4u(f): 11:45pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
CokeBar:I will just do that bcoz am suprised he still has my contact and wat for. 1 Like |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by internationalman(m): 11:47pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
Because you didn't orgasm the last time we had sex.. Just come back and get your orgasm and see how easy it'd be for you to move on. 2 Likes |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by CokeBar(f): 11:48pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
doris4u: Yes, don't think about it. Just do it! After you heal, you can save his number if at all he calls you but please put no one above your peace of mind. Btw, what caused the breakup? 1 Like |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by doris4u(f): 11:55pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
CokeBar:He said he was trying to make things work his former gf while I was still with him and I never cheated on him once. He said that after so much pressure on why his attitude changed. The funny thing is that he still wanted us to continue being romantic while with the other lady |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by CokeBar(f): 11:58pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
doris4u: Awwn! I can only imagine how you feel. Let yourself feel and pass through the pain, you'd heal. |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by doris4u(f): 11:58pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
CokeBar:Thanks |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by Vyzz: 12:23am On Jun 19, 2020 |
Why is it painful Didn't u guys agree to let go... Just block him back before u arrange boys to kill somebody's son all because he doesn't like u no more 3 Likes |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by doris4u(f): 12:50am On Jun 19, 2020 |
Vyzz:Did u read the post at all, which guys agreed to let go. I can never arrange to kill anyone, no one is worth staining my hands, over what sef. 3 Likes |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by 4crownfortress(m): 12:58am On Jun 19, 2020 |
When your heart says stay but your head says go, you can try to explain it but it’s just something that you know. Don’t be sad that it’s over, just be happy that it was |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by Vyzz: 1:03am On Jun 19, 2020 |
doris4u: Okey, sorry... Toughen up... Block him or mute him. But it wouldn't solve it unless u accept the reality and truth..... U guys have broken up... Don't try to false ur self to hate him or lie to ur self that he isn't cute no more.... Just accept that it is truly over get over it as he has gotten over it.... Try to chat him up maybe and become normal friends. Truth wouldn't hurt u if u accept it... U guys are matured now 1 Like |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by yomi007k(m): 1:04am On Jun 19, 2020 |
You were in a relationship with a guy that has a gf and you knew. You were used, thats why it's hard to let go. You have no reason being around such people and you really need to talk to yourself. Be a good girl. 1 Like |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by doris4u(f): 7:22am On Jun 19, 2020 |
Vyzz:Ok thanks |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by doris4u(f): 7:37am On Jun 19, 2020 |
yomi007k:Well am not gonna say anything about u saying that I was in a relationship with a guy that has gf because u don't know the whole story but am will try harder to forgive and let go for my own peace of mind |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by mrsteel: 7:45am On Jun 19, 2020 |
doris4u:Then block him! It's simple 1 Like |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by Blackmann001: 7:46am On Jun 19, 2020 |
Doris those are first steps of a comeback... He will later Holla you if you continue to pretend not to see him online...... He is even missing you more... But don't ping him at all... And don't check his status cuz he will know u did..... Just very much ignore him. He will Com around. Trust me! 1 Like |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by doris4u(f): 7:57am On Jun 19, 2020 |
Blackmann001:I will just do dat, will stop viewing his status |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by Samysearch(m): 7:59am On Jun 19, 2020 |
doris4u: He wants u to be his side chick! Very convenient to him. Imaging u have a daughter who is going through same, what would be ur advice to her? I presume u will tell her to leave the lover boy right? Do same! He doesn't love u. U are only a tool in his eyes to satisfy his lust. Such men should be treated as plague. What nonsense. He wants u for a romantic affair and at the same time he is nursing his old relationship. Sister, be bold to delete his number and move on. U will meet somebody wonderful in life InShaAllah. Wish u all the best. |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by mrsteel: 8:08am On Jun 19, 2020 |
doris4u:Why can't u just block him?? That way u get to see nothing about him |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by mrsteel: 8:14am On Jun 19, 2020 |
doris4u:Then block him!!! Jealousy is the mother of evil, there are certain things u may see in his status that may build jealousy & prompt u to start planning evil against him. Obviously from your post, u still have feeling for him, it is best u block him & delete his number. That way u can easily heal & forget about him. Don't say I didn't warn u! 1 Like |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by Nobody: 8:20am On Jun 19, 2020 |
doris4u:person treat you with such disrespect and you still kept his phone number? Na wa for you sha |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by doris4u(f): 8:42am On Jun 19, 2020 |
Samysearch:Thanks |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by paulolee(m): 8:43am On Jun 19, 2020 |
jus try to forget him...no matter how hard it is...i kno it would be more difficult if u both are sexually active for a long time but jus try n forget him asif he traveled or his dead and try find a new guy to love. |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by doris4u(f): 8:45am On Jun 19, 2020 |
[quote author=paulolee post=90831444]jus try to forget him...no matter how hard it is...i kno it would be more difficult if u both are sexually active for a long time but jus try n forget him asif he traveled or his dead and try find a new guy to love.[/quote Yea true talk |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by DenreleDave(m): 8:45am On Jun 19, 2020 |
doris4u: He rather settle for a Virgin coz he is not ur 4th of 5th boyfriend.. Mayb sumwhere 7th.. No guy wants to settle with a borehole |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by doris4u(f): 8:48am On Jun 19, 2020 |
DenreleDave:Silence is the best answer for a fool like you, people like you are worse in relationships, it isn't a must you comment 2 Likes |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by DenreleDave(m): 8:48am On Jun 19, 2020 |
doris4u: Honestly to the guy, it's a win win for me.. Notin so special about ur body again... He has fvcked and fvcked you more and more than ever.. He knows he need to change, he dumped u for another.. Meanwhile, he is certain about fvckin u again anytime he needs u bcox once fvck can always be re-fvck but for ur case, thousands fvcked can be refvcked with ease.. Tbh, u av no value to him.... |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by DenreleDave(m): 8:49am On Jun 19, 2020 |
doris4u: Notin special abt u again.... He has lashed u times without number... Truth is u av no value again, to him... Pray u r lucky that another guy finds u with little value sha |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by June15(m): 8:52am On Jun 19, 2020 |
DenreleDave: Lol.. God forgive you |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by yomi007k(m): 8:53am On Jun 19, 2020 |
doris4u: Good. That's all we need. |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by DenreleDave(m): 8:55am On Jun 19, 2020 |
June15: Don't mind the lady.. She wants us to encourage her and blame the guy.... But truth is she is just like a sex doll to the guy.. He can fvck her anytime he wants... The lady is not even over him yet, his status still moves her.. If the guy place a call to her, she will run to him sharpaly... After Giving her serious fvck n dump her, she will stil come to nairaland and seek for sympathy.. Doris4u, u av been fvcked n over fuvked by the guy.... Seek ur comfort elsewhere... U r no good to that particular guy again... Re build ursef n seek further.. U may be lucky another Mumu guy will find u sha.... But this time, be wise.. Don't lose 2 Likes 1 Share
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