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Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by doris4u(f): 8:55am On Jun 19, 2020 |
yomi007k:Yea true |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by Nobody: 8:58am On Jun 19, 2020 |
DenreleDave:just tell me what it will benefit you to make her feel bad. ![]() At times I wonder why people can not be positive in this forum. Trynna form sadistic tough guy but you're just plain stupid 2 Likes |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by DenreleDave(m): 9:00am On Jun 19, 2020 |
Descortes: Story 4d gods...... Why does she still have the guy's number on her contact? Why does she feels bad anytime she sees his status. Dt lady is dangerous for any of her prospective Bf...she is nt over her ex n she might find herself cheating on the Bf with the ex.... 2 Likes |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by Nobody: 9:02am On Jun 19, 2020 |
DenreleDave:seriously I don't even understand why she still kept such a guy's contact after how he treated her. Doris4u you lack self worth |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by DenreleDave(m): 9:04am On Jun 19, 2020 |
Descortes: So now ur sense av come back... Thank God u reason with me.. She lacks self worth She is a potential danger n cheat to any guy that date her now.... She still feels sumtin for him.. She is not over yet... She views his status and feels bad... Now tell me. How will she focus on moving on if she still feels for an Ex that have rejected u openly and has another GF?? Pls tell me. I spoke in a way that'. Hurts but it's the truth Doris4u check This https://www.nairaland.com/5933261/ladies-learn-respect-yourself-want |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by Nobody: 9:08am On Jun 19, 2020 |
DenreleDave:@bolded...sharap bro. It doesn't justify you making her feel terrible about herself. You should have told her exactly like this instead of making her lose more self esteem and feel she doesn't deserve better. It's not as if she has a decent self esteem though 1 Like |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by DenreleDave(m): 9:09am On Jun 19, 2020 |
Descortes: Bros.. If I didn't strike her hard.. She may not notice the truth... I needed to get her attention by striking her with the truth.. As u can see, I still gave her an advice Las las but I needed to panel beat her sense to normal b4 she hear word ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by DenreleDave(m): 9:11am On Jun 19, 2020 |
Doris4u u deserve better.. My words may hurt u but it is for ur good.. Pick ursef up, don't get dragged back by a guy who does not care abt u |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by doris4u(f): 9:20am On Jun 19, 2020 |
Descortes:I still have contact because we were friends after the break up before he started with his romantic talks of which I found out he was still with the other gal, but something happened that made us quarrel and stopped talking to each other. I even realized I still had his contact when I woke up one morning and saw his status to realize he unblocked me, didn't even reason the contact issue. Having his contact and not having it isn't determined that I move on easily, it's trying to forgive and letting go that matters now |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by Nobody: 9:21am On Jun 19, 2020 |
doris4u:Shey no be you dey come here now dey complain say you can't let go? Letting go will be hard for you if you keep seeing his status and pictures on WhatsApp. Madam if you really want to move on with your life and meet better people who value you, delete his contact. |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by Maxxim: 9:26am On Jun 19, 2020 |
Op how old are you?? Just went through ur previous thread smh. |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by Nobody: 9:29am On Jun 19, 2020 |
Maxxim:I swear. she lives in a world where guys use and treat girls like shit and the girls are ok with it even though they get heartbroken ![]() |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by doris4u(f): 9:34am On Jun 19, 2020 |
Descortes:Besides he kept coming back and that was we're I made a mistake. Will delete his contact |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by callmeRichie(m): 9:35am On Jun 19, 2020 |
doris4u, they were telling you the truth and you're still tryna justify yourself! Don't be so stupid to still be attached to a guy who literally has nothing for you again and trying to keep you around just to be fvcking you for free! You shouldn't have his number again in the first place, and if u really want peace of mind, block him and delete his number! Well if you still enjoy his company and don't mind being fvcked and used and dump again, continue, you should even thank him for unblocking you sef. Wake up sis! |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by doris4u(f): 9:36am On Jun 19, 2020 |
Maxxim:Age has nothing to do with my post so focus on the post |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by doris4u(f): 9:47am On Jun 19, 2020 |
callmeRichie:Am not trying to justify anything because I told him the day he unblockes me that shame would be his own ,and I planned to block him any day he unblockes me but I just didn't find it useful , trying to ignore him and act like I didn't notice. |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by mrsteel: 9:54am On Jun 19, 2020 |
DenreleDave:@ doris4u can u answer the bold question? |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by DenreleDave(m): 9:57am On Jun 19, 2020 |
Maxxim:That lady is a time bomb... Sensible guys will avoid her.. Read her past post |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by BrainArk(m): 9:58am On Jun 19, 2020 |
DenreleDave:you might appear as a wicked person to this girl but I know you are a good person just trying to help her. With this your statement she will be angry with herself for still having any feelings for the guy, and it will make it easier for her to let go. |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by DenreleDave(m): 9:58am On Jun 19, 2020 |
Descortes: Trust me, she is a time bomb problem for any good guy looking for a good lady 1 Like |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by mrsteel: 10:00am On Jun 19, 2020 |
doris4u:@bold it is a very big determinant! How will u move on when u keep checking his status & profile pic through his contact? Haven't u heard of out of sight is out of mind? U are not being truthful to yourself... |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by DenreleDave(m): 10:02am On Jun 19, 2020 |
BrainArk: Thank u very much sir... Exactly, I want her to be angry with herself so that anytime this guy comes back, when she remembers my word, she will take a good decision.... Doris, it's left to u oo.. U own ur pussy and decides who gets to stick their dick in it ![]() ![]() ![]() Doris4u thinks I am bad guy but I am not.... |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by mrsteel: 10:02am On Jun 19, 2020 |
doris4u:@bold have u done that now? |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by BrainArk(m): 10:04am On Jun 19, 2020 |
DenreleDave:Maybe she will get the message, but you know you are spoiling show for the guy sha ![]() DenreleDave:Maybe she will get the message, but you know you are spoiling show for the guy sha |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by doris4u(f): 10:06am On Jun 19, 2020 |
mrsteel:Yes I have |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by DenreleDave(m): 10:07am On Jun 19, 2020 |
BrainArk: Yes I know but she is a dear sis.. She might be your next gf or my next gf. Both of us wunt want an ex to keep fvcking and refvcking our potential ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Am fighting for us bro ![]() |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by DenreleDave(m): 10:08am On Jun 19, 2020 |
doris4u: Keep cool... Pretty lady 1 Like |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by BrainArk(m): 10:10am On Jun 19, 2020 |
DenreleDave:Hmmmmmm, You hit me hard with this, It is pain in the ass having a girlfriend who is still attached to her ex..... Thank you brother. |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by DenreleDave(m): 10:11am On Jun 19, 2020 |
BrainArk: Trust me, big pain U r blessed bro... 1 Like |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by gowonmaharajah(m): 10:13am On Jun 19, 2020 |
DenreleDave:you again?you no dey tired? same way you were hurling insults at a guy on the other thread there, simply because he needed advice. well,continue. a to yee. |
Re: Am Finding It So Hard To Let Go by Raeheemwayne: 11:32am On Jun 19, 2020 |
I know one Doris girl passing through this same phrase. She even had an abortion for the said guy - meanwhile the guy was a Casanova banging three friend all from the same compound and neighborhood without none of them suspecting anything for a longtime - guess what, she can't just let go of this guy no matter how she pretends to. It's really pathetic when you see some girls going through all this nonsense all in the name of "He used Me". See you'll still be Used and Re-used if you don't wise up and let go now. |
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