SQLmastar:
If the maid is 18+ and gives her consent, then he's not a pervert.
Besides, don't you think it is tiring and boring having to only straff one hole (wife's) your entire life?

so marriage na all about shaggin' abi

Before I employ any maid,I must do her HIV test. I need to be sure my kids are safe and incase.

SQLmastar:
If the maid is 18+ and gives her consent, then he's not a pervert.
Besides, don't you think it is tiring and boring having to only straff one hole (wife's) your entire life?

It is boring, but the fact is, your children will thank you for not dishonoring their mother. Infact , they would be happy with you, and they would trust you.

(Unless you want to do open marriage, which you and your wife have agreed to before you sign the dotted line)

You also run the risk of infections after infection after infection (and there are many kinds of STI's, inlcuding one that can leave your organ looking like a raw piece of meat. And let's not talk about complications like urethral stricture).

callmeRichie:
I wonder how these men do it. Imagine under/on their matrimonial roof and bed! That's a highest level of betrayal

Betrayal is a normal day to day thing. Christ was betrayed to be killed talk more of one yeye issue

All this about sex here and there is becoming too much. Sex is too overrated and given unnecessary importance, leaving the fundamental problems that needs time and attention to solve.

Is common with most men even to some guys that's pretending above. but I wonder d reason a wife will keep a grown up lady as a maid. if u want to avoid devil and his agents just stay far away from them, we're mostly cause of our predicaments

Roman7:
if u check an well na d maid dey cook food way d man dey chop for house.......
men have tendencies of developing feelings for the woman that cooks their food

Hmm, you must be full of experience. Wisdom!

If the maid is an adult, quite understandable.

The ones that sleep with minors are the problem.

First a case of child labour, then they add it child abuse. Madam may even add maltreatment.

GOFRONT:
If you ve ever straff your maid........ Anytime your maid be like: Aunty, there is something i want to tell you, Na so your mind go want to jump out through your mouth

you sound like an abuser... raping your maid is the right term not "straffing"

SMH! This is the only thing we are good at discussing. Sex sex sex, marriage , is ur bf/ gf good in bed, my bf is cheating on me bla bla bla. All of us ( youth) will be alright in this country . sha!

This kind of cheating is not for poor people, as soon as madam catch you,when you can afford it, give house girl 250k to move out straight away, collect her number so you go check on her and make sure she do that thing that's going to cost you millions, before madam call family distribute 200k each to her mama and papa, then most importantly change her car to something she can show off to her friends, but if you really have money just send her and the kids shopping in Dubai, at least you get extra time with that young 19year old girl, that can handle in a way you can't tell anybody lmao!!!!

It is only Animal that will do that

Of all the pussie in this world na ur house girl pussie u fit do

Opp this thing is in both ways, have u not heard of madam sleeping with house boy

pocohantas:
If the maid is an adult, quite understandable.

The ones that sleep with minors are the problem.

First a case of child labour, then they add it child abuse. Madam may even add maltreatment.

It is wrong period. Adult or minir... nobody should be subjected to the sexual whims of a man. Her job was to be the maid not a sex thing. Nigeria is unsafe for girls

Richie77:
Before I employ any maid,I must do her HIV test. I need to be sure my kids are safe and incase.

Hmm, incase what

Stolen meat tastes better than normal meat. The thrill and the suspense excites some.

Roman7:
if u check an well na d maid dey cook food way d man dey chop for house.......
men have tendencies of developing feelings for the woman that cooks their food

Well, I have eaten foods prepared by different women over my life (as a student I used to eat at a certain resturant where a woman was the chief cook and owner) and I didn't develop feelings for them (mama was old enough to be my grandmother even!)

If a man is running after other women while married, chances are he was doing so before he married. Food has nothing to do with it.A leopard does not change its spots.

3kay945:

Hmm, you must be full of experience. Wisdom!

Lmao.....haba guy

rosy1992:
This is the highest level of betrayal, a man who does this heinous act, can easily kill his wife.

And the woman who will politely refuse sex her hubby is capable of killing her hubby...
#case close

av seen maids and av seen maids..... this is how it starts

initially there are 2 kinds : the skinny unkept ones u brought from village but when they start eating ur food, yansh go shoot out, boobies go blow, oga eye go dey like yeepa! nor be Joy be this

solution: madam quickly send her packing once she don dey ripe.

No2: the oga food these ones will wear dirty clothes and look unkept when madam is arround but when the coast is clear they will bath, wear clothes no pant but wear bra sha, begin to disturb oga with " oga u call me" ?

these ones will make friends with d next door maid and they usually av association, in that asso, na there dem go plan how to eat ur Amala. funny enuf, they are perfect pretenders and can hide elephant inside pocket.

they know oga code and under 2mins they will arrange the Bleep

madam nor dey find out untill she run away or one boy in d next street give am belle.

N. B. the ones that claim rape are exempted and not discussed here.

solution: madam must be a detective to catch the fucker and d fuckee.

the sister thing, let me tell you, it is chemistry : both will know they will sleep with each other the day they meet or av eye contact

lots of times, it is quick ... unplanned and lead to serial sex. but the man may at one time overdo and result to unprotected sex leading to pregnancy and multiple abortions.

solution: madam must avoid mature unmarried esp student sisters stay home with hubby or contact hubby directly

every contact n comm must go through madam

finally : am not promoting promiscuity, am enunciating the circumstances for cause and detection

enjoy

Edyice:


They done complain

You can easily asses the workshop without hearing am tired

And most importantly they fvck pass house wife

You sound like a rapist

Zoie22:

Bloody pervert. Tomorrow when they say "all men are potential rapists" you'll come crying buckets of crocodile tears.

can we not just have a sane conversation without insults.

Not too hard if you ask me

Amebo!
You know wetin madam too dey doo.
Abeg leave all this painting men bad, women, even married women are worse. If you know you know.
The only difference is that it is easier for men and the society to discuss the case of men bleeping all bleepables while the society don't want to talk about the case of women doing the same. If you ask the right persons they will tell you that married women dey bleep shege and still too dey form self-righteous.

Abeg, na unaself sef u sabi.

robosky02:
Married men sleeping with their wife sister or maid: let's talk about it.

I was shocked what I heard my neighbours maid telling someone behind my window how my neighbour refused to settle her and what she is planning to do to him.

From the gist the maid said since she came over to live with my neighbour she has never had rest.
My neighbour just say Mr John (I have to change the name for safety) lives with his wife and two little kids. And he is a contractor while his wife works as an accountant in a thriving company. So she leaves very early to work leaving the two little kids at home. Initially her mum was staying withe the kids till she left.

So now the man and the wife goes out together leaving the kids with the maid.

The issue now is, very early the man will dress up with the wife and escort her to the junction sometimes even enter car before her on their way to work.

But in less than 30 minutes he will be back home. By then the maid has drop the kids in school.

The next thing straight to the maids room and ...... Till he is done.

She said this has been going on for weeks. And the issue now she too want to gain or else we will make sure madam finds out. If he refuse to settle her.

Let's talk about it. Some case is the wife sister. Or even worse case

Na the madam dey worry the house keepers (boys)...


Abeg lets deal with this how to safe the relationship

I remember my old friend who told me we should exchange maids.. he had a boy maid i had a girl maid...

So when he saw her and discovered i wasn't doing anything with her.. to my surprise he started begging me to let her come work for him.. it is weird to me though..

How will I be eating goat they ask me to watch over... Godforbid.. I rather go very far even if atall i want to do nonsense.. even for the sake of respecting yourself and your wife please never do your maid... please see it as a taboo.

It is only Animal that will do that

Ingriid:
SMH! This is the only thing we are good at discussing. Sex sex sex, marriage , is ur bf/ gf good in bed, my bf is cheating on me bla bla bla. All of us ( youth) will be alright in this country . sha!

that doesn't take away the fact that you are gorgeous

GOFRONT:
If you ve ever straff your maid........ Anytime your maid be like: Aunty, there is something i want to tell you, Na so your mind go want to jump out through your mouth

It seems you're talking from experience

Fuvking maid dey sweet ooh but be ready to dance to the music.

Am not married but I fuvk the maid my uncle wife employed to be helping her so much until she claims she's pregnant. My brothers my whole life that time was upside down.

I have to spend 55k to save my life and believe me anytime I see her call my heart Skip.

Please married men here if konji hold you biko try find ashawo or someone else to. No even think of fuvking your maid....

PinkHealthGroup:


It is wrong period. Adult or minir... nobody should be subjected to the sexual whims of a man. Her job was to be the maid not a sex thing. Nigeria is unsafe for girls

If it is an adult and the sex was CONSENSUAL, then I take it as two people fcking!! I don’t see how that makes her a sex thing. Kids are my major concern.

robosky02:



But why leave the madam... A woman you are legally married to, a woman you can do without fear or tension


For few minutes with a maid or or sister?

younger blood n a different hole

I came to read comments..