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Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by ololo12: 8:14pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
lekki1444: Water will always find it's level |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by Goodzinny: 8:14pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
There will be respect as long as you don't over tax her by pushing all financial needs to her. You still need to be using your little to do what it can carry and not always looking upon her for everything and also be showing gratefulness. If not she will think you are abusing her then she will show you resistance which will lead to disrespect. Meanwhile remember that you don't help her do house chores, cook or take care of the kids, so why must you push all expenses to her. It hurts. 2 Likes |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by lekki1444: 8:15pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
ololo12:yes ooo my brother |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by ThothHermes: 8:16pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
LedRock:Not necessarily, but she must marry someone who has enough money that her $40B becomes a non-factor. |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by Nobody: 8:16pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
mdan: A sound mind does not give so much attention to money. Too much money does not give satisfaction. There is only one requirement for either a man or a woman: to be able to feed himself or herself and the kids (if there are). As long as the man is sound in mind, no matter the amount the lady earns more, she cannot override him (and vice versa). You don't demand respect. You earn them. And part of the issue is to be able to feed the family as a man. It doesn't take so much for two unified people to feed themselves and their kids. Be a man or woman you claim to be. Be sound in mind when tackling challenges, and learn how to manage money. That is all. Your spouse will respect you no matter who earns more. And as a man do not put "respect" in your head like it is a course of study. Where there is love, the word respect does not exist. 8 Likes |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by InvertedHammer: 8:19pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
/ As a man, just earn enough to be comfortable. Your wife will respect that. If she earns because she is an employee, she will know that the salary can go anytime. The problem is when a man is wholly dependent on the wife's income, it puts too much pressure on a woman that most women are not equipped to handle especially if she keeps "showy" friends. / 1 Like |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by MishdaFish: 8:19pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
She hardly gives respect to the man. There are few exceptions; if he is good in bed or he had a hand in building her up. 1 Share
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Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by playapayaski: 8:19pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
A billion likes for you, well said. Fuckingmallam45: |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by sonnie10: 8:23pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
Alexaonfleek: You mean if your job promotes you and it came with double pay you will reject it? Lets say you were earning 500k and your husband's 700k, then all of a sudden because of your value at work they doubled you salary. Does it mean you would go home and divorce you husband? Your submission here is that, the role for house chores would automatically be reversed right? The truth is that he will look for another woman who is willing to manage his small 700k and be submissive at the same time. After all, your now #1M salary would be enough for you to manage yourself and still get a paidhouse maid 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by exever100(f): 8:24pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
Where there is genuine love,you won't even remember what you earn,I earn higher than hubby and I don't even remember. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by ololo12: 8:24pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
[quote author=ThothHermes post=90853964]Not necessarily, but she must marry someone who has enough money that her $40B becomes a non-factor. [/quote The woman in question is divorced. I guess it's true what they say water will always find its level. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by Fuckingmallam45(m): 8:24pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
playapayaski:Thank you boss 1 Like
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Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by captianfreeman(m): 8:25pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
As much as is necessary. |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by akaahs(m): 8:26pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
I think where the woman makes more than her husband shouldn't be a problem but if she rubs that fact in his face, that is where wahala go dey, he ll feel intimidated by her money and her success. |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by SAD007(m): 8:27pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
SHISHI Respect mdan: |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by RedPhoenix: 8:29pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
chiddyok: Banger dey inside your mouth 1 Like |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by emmanuelewumi(m): 8:29pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
Think9ja: Funny you, what if you earn more than her today but tomorrow gets promotion and earns more than you? Will you tell her to resign her appointment. What if you earned more than her, but she inherited commercial property from her parents and the rental income from the property is more than your salary. What if she starts a business and the business gives her more income than what you earn as salary. 5 Likes |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by letitrainnow(m): 8:31pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
larj: Love this. Please are you a marriage counselor? Because you speak volumes in few words. |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by nedekid: 8:33pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
Bola146:Even if there is genuine love over time there will be problems. It is inevitable. 3 Likes |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by oshaosha2014(m): 8:34pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
Wow! I have a follower of CGA cool. That man has opened my eyes to female nature more than I have experienced in my 30-something year of living. I have enough information not to be played like a fiddle. genq: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by oshaosha2014(m): 8:36pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
Submission is submission!!! It means the woman aligning to the man rule. Ariza: 1 Like |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by vickydevoka(m): 8:39pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
chiddyok:Money n looks wic is important in marriage |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by pocohantas(f): 8:43pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
chiddyok: Thanks for this pink pill!!!! Endorsed!!!! 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by Bruno3000(m): 8:44pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
Ariza:Women are wired to misbehave when they earn higher than their men. Its ingrained in their DNA. SIMPLE. 2 Likes |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by suzzyrims: 8:44pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
chiddyok: Well said. Men are egoistic and will still want maximum respect and total submission even when the wife earns more and obviously foot more bills in the home. To help the woman in doing some chores in the home becomes a problem when the woman is burdened with responsibilities that are supposed to be theirs. My take is any man that wants total submission and respect should take full responsibility regardless of if the wife earns more or not. 11 Likes |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by AdeifofGod: 8:49pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
The problem is if only what the man can offer is money. 3 Likes |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by Ryocaj(m): 8:50pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
Getting married to a Nigerian woman earning more than u? It will end in tears bro... 5 Likes |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by TheRedpillguy: 8:54pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
bukatyne:A man with high self esteem that is humble. How dose that work? 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by Antichristus: 8:55pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
Respect is reciprocal. It shouldn't have anything to do with incomes. I know a medical doctor who is married to a chef. They both respect each other. |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by innobarca(m): 8:57pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
Some women are good, its not about respect or submission. I do not value those things, just do what you must do as a man to take care of your family. Husband and wife should be one. 1 Like |
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