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Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by Nobody: 8:58pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
chiddyok: are u sure u are woman....this one that there's too much sense in your comment that has to do with gender issues.. |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by AntiWailer: 9:00pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
As much as the husband have common sense. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by babakb: 9:02pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
A lot of women from poor backgrounds are also not submissive to their husbands and some even cheat so I don't understand the fuse about women who earn more. As a man, if your wife is paying most of the Bills then you have lost your leadership, you are just another fake head of the house, no matter how the woman tries to be totally submissive, inside her heart she knows you are just another worthless man. If you find yourself in such situation just manage it well, some days she will respect you some days she will err, don't judge her just manage her... 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by Vickisha: 9:06pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
Adinije:tell them! Some will even even hand over the responsibilities like its a right. The 21st century woman is not her mother of the past, any slight indication of you taking her for fool in the name of submission and your in for some trouble. The fact to this matter is "respect is earned, not forced" ensure that you do and continue to do what earns your woman's respect and a reasonable woman will see and respect you for it. Stop banking on 'submission' in a bid to disguise your inferiority complex. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by popcykaylah(m): 9:06pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
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Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by meetme01: 9:07pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
It's personality and not females persay. I have seen homes where you rarely know the woman is the breadwinner. Even the kids. And I have the other side which is too good. |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by SmartPolician: 9:07pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
Ariza: I will try so hard not to insult you You know zilch about women 5 Likes |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by AreaFada2: 9:09pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
placeofallure:Sadly marriage market is very congested. Only a tiny minority will marry for love. The rest nko? For the most part in the African clime, women still marry for economic security. So the few rich men are much in demand for example. It's still new that some women have to become breadwinner. But hardly any woman goes into marriage expecting to be breadwinner. Na condition dey make crayfish bend. When she becomes the big earner, it takes the grace of God for her not to forget how the journey started and how the man previously laboured for the family. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by atiku4President(m): 9:10pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
Hathor5:nice 1 Like |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by Jsaviour(f): 9:19pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
spiritedtete: You earn less than a woman and still get mind to cheat? When your whole time should be spent on building yourself to upgrade your income? I don't even know what some Nigerian men want Sha. Anyway, na to just kick the man comot for my house asap. You can't be double useless at the same time. The moment you dishonour your wife or marriage by cheating, you lose all respect due to you. The worst are those who are been fed by their wives and still cheat or beat the woman. They no born you well walai!! Respect is reciprocal. The amount of respect you accord me is what I will give back. Gone are the days women endure trash just to be called virtuous or submissive. If you as a man throw your authority to the dogs through irresponsibility, the woman will help you match it to pieces. 17 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by knowhowk: 9:22pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
Folorunsho Alakija is richer than her Husband ,I don't know what going in her Home .,But don't expect respect from a woman richer than U .But na God make am u too hustle ooo |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by CsRockefeller(m): 9:22pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
Jsaviour: Lol. Calm down. |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by Alexaonfleek: 9:24pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
sonnie10:ah,if that is the case,as long as he is still paying the majority of the bills,we are good to go. Something like that should even motivate him to hustle harder. If it's to start side biz,and he needs money,I will support him with what I have. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by wany(f): 9:25pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
Ariza:Echoe it . |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by Saintinoo(m): 9:26pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
mdan:If you cannot respect your husband 100% then please do not marry. |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by Sarah20A(f): 9:28pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
chiddyok:please loud it for them to hear |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by babakb: 9:29pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
Jsaviour: It's like you don't know that a lot of many are beasts these days, I am a guy and I work with over 22 Male colleagues that are married and 15 of them cheat, how did I know? We hold quarterly Regional meetings in a hotel and you will all of them come with runs girls and fvck them for 3 days. 4 Likes |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by Burgerlomo: 9:29pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
Respect right? I don hear
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Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by poweredcom(m): 9:29pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
Well @womenareapes you gat to seee this No naija woman of this generation will give you total respect the moment she start earning than you This is because many of them have not seen Wealth and when they see it more than their husband they become something else It's only luck that man will have if he has a woman who is loyal 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by dalass(f): 9:30pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
larj: Nice and sound.... No beating about the bush.... Men are speaking, some boys to men will soon come here forming and spewing thrash 1 Like |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by dalass(f): 9:33pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by Jsaviour(f): 9:34pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
The points are: Respect shouldn't be about how much you earn but about how well you do your duties as a man. A woman is not designed to be a bread winner. She can do it for a while but the man have to get up and be a man - the provider and protector The men should build their self esteem so they don't feel threatened or become a wizard that stops the growth of their wives because of fear that she will earn more Be ever committed to growth and personal development so you can upgrade your income should that happen. Be responsible as a man and foot your bills while your woman support. Once you shift your responsibility, you have indirectly sold your right like Esau. When.men complain that women become bread winners for a while and start complaining, I tell them this: When you were the provider, she managed the home. Now she is the provider and you still want her to do your job and do hers (managing the home) This makes you double useless to her. When you provide, she manage the home and when she is providing, take up her own part which is managing the home and you will experience peace. she may not even allow you do the managing but the commitment to be productive in the home is something valuable to her. You can't be poor and a wizard at the same time. The problem is that we all know the right thing to do to make our marriages work but we won't do it. Ask a Nigerian man to define submission or a wife and he will define a slave or slavery. They forget that respect is reciprocal and is earned not forced. Build yourself into a man worthy of respect and your wife will worship the ground you walk on. When everybody do what is expected of them, there will be peace. 11 Likes |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by CsRockefeller(m): 9:36pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
dalass: D guy comment touch her wellla. With d tone she wrote that comment, she fit slap d guy if he dey close. 2 Likes |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by tunjijones(m): 9:37pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
Hathor5: Babe this is pure lie. Are you going to respect me the same way you respect dangote? Let's be sincere if me and dangote are seeking for your attention, you wld attend to dangote first bfor u even reason me. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by Jsaviour(f): 9:39pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
CsRockefeller: Not necessarily. I just hate nonsense and it's ingredients. |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by CsRockefeller(m): 9:42pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
Jsaviour: It's well. If we allow love as Christ preaches, we would all be fine. 2 Likes |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by tunjijones(m): 9:47pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
cooooooks: Am sure u are not married. Get married first and see if you still don't have interest in a submissive wife. And my guy it wld be worse if you marry a domineering wife. I have seen women that always feel that there opinion is always better than their husband opinion... Can you deal with that? 3 Likes |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by Jsaviour(f): 9:50pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
CsRockefeller: Exactly!! Self love first then Selfless love to our spouses and humanity. The Bible said "love your neighbor as you love yourself". It didn't say "love your neighbor more than you love yourself". This means Zero Selfishness (expecting what you can't give or are not willing to give) Zero low self esteem (feeling worthless) Zero self hate ( not caring for your peace and happiness by enduring trash because of...) Most men only remember the Bible when it comes to submission and respect. They tore away the part of "Love your wife like Christ did the church" (selfless love) The measure you give is what you will receive. 6 Likes |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by Jsaviour(f): 9:51pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
tunjijones: Can you please define submission for us from your point of view? |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by dagreat4(f): 9:52pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
A woman's respect for her husband is not determined by how much he earns but how he is able to hold himself wel as the manl and ensure she is secure as a wife.A man with a sence of purpose is a big plus.in our African setting however,some women who are financially better placed by their husbands and are very humble still get fraustrsted by their ego filled husbands who will stop at nothing to make the woma n feel they're the head (as if the headship is in contention).I seriously sometime feel this men feel they do not deserve the kind of respect and loyalty they get from this women .An insecure man will never see a humble,respectful wife as one even if she cut her head and give to him. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by dalass(f): 9:52pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
CsRockefeller: As in, eh |
Re: How Much Respect Can A Woman Who Earns Higher Than Her Husband Give? by DexterousOne(m): 9:55pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
mdan: It depends on the woman I have seen a housewife disrespect her provider husband And also seen a successful businesswoman respect her husband as well. So it really depends 2 Likes |
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