Dear Nairalanders,

I trust we are doing well and keeping safe.
Lets come together and share minds and views on this topic.

I am yet to be married and planning to do so before am 33.

I understand to get married for a guy or lady is not easy, so many things must be in place, like your emotions, cash, house, car, job etc.

Without most of these, getting married is not easy for a guy.

The purpose of this topic is for us to share experiences and also motivate people into how good or things to expect or avoid during marriage.

Moreso, things to put in place before you work down the aisle.

Thank you and I expect your wonderful comments.

#stay safe #family #life

Ugmama:
Dear Nairalanders,

I trust we are doing well and keeping safe.
Lets come together and share minds and views on this topic.

I am yet to be married and planning to do so before am 33.

I understand to get married for a guy or lady is not easy, so many things must be in place, like your emotions, cash, house, car, job etc.

Without most of these, getting married is not easy for a guy.

The purpose of this topic is for us to share experiences and also motivate people into how good or things to expect or avoid during marriage.

Moreso, things to put in place before you work down the aisle.

Thank you and I expect your wonderful comments.

#stay safe #family #life

My dad married at d age of 35 so calm down, get your priorities right.

I first got married at the age of 7 under our staircase with my beautiful bride, Chidera.


Playing mummy and daddy under the staircase is one of my memorable moments.

SweetCunt97:
My dad married at d age of 35 so calm down, get your priorities right.

The OP is asking us not our parents.

Kriss216:
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Pls Come back and give me your view bro.

No book space comot o

SweetCunt97:
My dad married at d age of 35 so calm down, get your priorities right.

My dear, thanks for your response.

May I get your own personal view too.

you must be a psychologically stable person And make sure your partner is psychologically stable if not na real troubles you go see

Support base system.

Ugmama:


My dear, thanks for your response.

May I get your own personal view too.

No view yet on the subject.

Kriss216:

The OP is asking us not our parents.

You don't mean it. Everybody got their own time o.

Redoil:
you must be a psychologically stable person And make sure your partner is psychologically stable if not na real troubles you go see

Thank you so much. Please are you married, how old were you then?

SweetCunt97:
No view yet on the subject.

OK. If you're not married, what age would you like to get married?

SweetCunt97:
You don't mean it. Everybody got their own time o.

Everybody should also have a plan and work to achieve any set goal.

Ugmama:


Thanks for the invite.

Can you share your view please.

Someone may learn from It.

am not yet married, I guess I need to change my mentality that a man that would love u enof to call once a day, generous enof to be dere for u wen u are in trouble, take God seriously and say NO to pre-marital sex are a rare find

Ugmama:


OK. If you're not married, what age would you like to get married?

Mid 30s

SweetCunt97:
You don't mean it. Everybody got their own time o.

Exactly. Time also waits for no one.

Let's marry next weekend. It's our time.

HRHQueenPhil:
am not yet married, I guess I need to change my mentality that a man that would love u enof to call once a day, generous enof to be dere for u wen u are in trouble, take God seriously and say NO to pre-marital sex are a rare find

My dear, good men still exist.

I have not slept with my fiance for once and I won't till she say I do.

I am not too churchious but I love God.

I hate long calls, and I'm generous to a fault.

So now score me

Ugmama:


Everybody should also have a plan and work to achieve any set goal.

When it comes to marriage, that can be said for a man. So Yes.

Kriss216:

Exactly. Time also waits for no one.

Let's marry next weekend. It's our time.

Chooooo! Shoot that shot!!

Kriss216:

Exactly. Time also waits for no one.

Let's marry next weekend. It's our time.

Indeed. But that shouldn't mean one should agree to marry an asshole because there's no time. Simply live ur life as it comes. No pressure jarey

SweetCunt97:
When it comes to marriage, that can be said for a man. So Yes.

But I still don't get it when one even has money job, house etc... Still not married.

Is it that they don't see anyone they love... Till 45yrs o

Ugmama:


My dear, good men still exist.

I have not slept with my fiance for once and I won't till she say I do.

I am not too churchious but I love God.

I hate long calls, and I'm generous to a fault.

So now score me

congratulations. May GOD continue to give u grace and strength to uphold his values. Rare find indeed

SweetCunt97:
Indeed. But that shouldn't mean one should agree to marry an asshole because there's no time. Simply live ur life as it comes. No pressure jarey

Night newspapers shouldn't have the luxury to select.

SweetCunt97:
Indeed. But that shouldn't mean one should agree to marry an asshole because there's no time. Simply live ur life as it comes. No pressure jarey

I support you, I know people that made such mistake.

We should pray while we work towards something.

NB: don't be in a hurry

HRHQueenPhil:
congratulations. May GOD continue to give u grace and strength to uphold his values. Rare find indeed

Thanks dear and God bless you

Kriss216:

Night newspapers shouldn't have the luxury to select.

Lol... Repentance and forgiveness should work together

SweetCunt97:
Mid 30s

Ok
If that's your wish, may God grant it.

Ugmama:


Ok
If that's your wish, may God grant it.

Ok ok, early 30s is fine. Mid is a stretch.

Ugmama:


I support you, I know people that made such mistake.

We should pray while we work towards something.

NB: don't be in a hurry

You enlightened.

Kriss216:

Night newspapers shouldn't have the luxury to select.

So one should marry someone who will torment their souls and probably lead to an early grave because they "night newspapers"? Hope you see the senselessness in ur post