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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by knowhowk: 5:32am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Raydos:. A Diamond Medal for U . 10 Likes |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by DoubleEngine007: 5:32am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Prestonvic:There must be a way out.. When d time cone,we'll cross the bridge brother.. |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Geesaintagape: 5:34am On Jun 23, 2020 |
I don find wife for 4 yes n I never see all I keep seeing are gf 2 Likes |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by humilitypays(m): 5:34am On Jun 23, 2020 |
profilemessages:The reasons most single guys are still single and not even thinking of getting married at 35yrs above are: Mass unemployment, underemployment, poverty - how many single guys can afford a comfortable marriage & family life Very few Cost of getting married has become high today Married women infidelity of today is discouraging Fear of losing their single man freedom Fear of commitment to one lady; definitely the sex drive must die when u guys start living together, this is scary! When a guy starts to live with one lady for years, no matter how sexy or pretty she is, she won't be sexually attractive to him again like before, social media and other life of today have made this situation worst cos the guy will be seeing hotter, younger girls daily making him lose interest in the one time hottest chick he died to get! Single ladies attitude towards guys; to even find or get your kind of girl that will inspire u to marry is like Gulder Ultimate Search! Hiphop Music Life & Social Media Influence 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Oldoinyolengai(m): 5:38am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Gbogbowa:If it's working for you we should be glad, just know marriage is not for everyone. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by SmartPolician: 5:39am On Jun 23, 2020 |
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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Nobody: 5:40am On Jun 23, 2020 |
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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by humilitypays(m): 5:42am On Jun 23, 2020 |
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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Billygee2u: 5:46am On Jun 23, 2020 |
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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by encryptjay(m): 5:47am On Jun 23, 2020 |
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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Nobody: 5:49am On Jun 23, 2020 |
stevups:Thank God for your life... |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by SmartPolician: 5:50am On Jun 23, 2020 |
vic17: What's Okafor's law? I don too hear am |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by humilitypays(m): 5:50am On Jun 23, 2020 |
simplepee:People are sure getting married but the rate is very low compared to what it ought to be. If things were normal as it ought to be, with the population of Nigeria and youths being the greater number of Nigeria's population, the number of marriages we ought to be seeing weekly ought to be so high and we shouldn't have been seeing lots of mature single guys and ladies above 32yrs not even planning to marry any time sooner. Some things are wrong accept it. Our today unemployment & underemployment rates are just too high, are u aware that majority of Nigerian youth graduates work a whole month and earn NGN50,000 despite increased living cost of today; how can a man take good care of marriage and family with such meagre income without stealing or compronising Also our culture, lifestyle and social media influence, and sudden increase in the number of married women cheating today are really affecting marriages negatively. Yes ladies would say men cheat too, but married women used to be epitome of pious and virtuous life in the past, they held the key to happy marriages and homes, and that is how nature made it but today, it has gone crazy, married ladies want to test more dicks than single ladies Even the people getting married, how blissful is their marriage Is it as it ought to be Many guys meet a pretty girl, they feel she is an angel they ought not to miss, they hurry and marry her, and along the line they discover it was a mistake, they start to complain to their close male friends and also complain codedly on faceless forums like this based on their predicament, don't take such things for granted, all is not well with today marriage institution. What you should do is to make a decision to make a difference in your own marriage if you are married or to be a wonderful wife to your future husband if you are single, not arguing that are people not getting married. Even during war, during world war, during Nigeria Biafra civil war people were getting married, Gowon married during the war and so many other Nigerians but does that mean all was well with Nigeria then Think it sis 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Billygee2u: 5:52am On Jun 23, 2020 |
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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by redroom: 5:54am On Jun 23, 2020 |
profilemessages: females too dont want to get married anymore Marriage is over rated and stressful and ages a woman So no point , if they get older they will just adopt or get a surrogate 2 Likes |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Ola2plenty: 5:55am On Jun 23, 2020 |
God that instituted marriage knows what he is doing ,although I know many people here do not believe in God but tell them to go and touch a diabolic material that can have serious spiritual implications they will shiver yet they will claim there is nothing spiritual in this world let us leave that for another day. When you get old and you can't do certain things by yourself again especially guys you will know whether a good marriage is good for you or not. So if you're believer please work hard and you know and that you are man enough to marry , pray to God for a good Wife that have a destiny she want to accomplish in life and vise-versa. Shalom 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Obidiugwu: 5:59am On Jun 23, 2020 |
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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by SmartPolician: 6:00am On Jun 23, 2020 |
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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by SmartPolician: 6:02am On Jun 23, 2020 |
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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Mcreloaded(m): 6:05am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Even pastors are tired of forcing guys to get married because the complaints about how women missbehave and how easily the marriage crashes with divorce on the increase have tired pastors. Churches before the covid issue was over flooded with lots of single women looking up to the pastor to deceive some unsuspecting guys to get married. Guys don wise. 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by ubcandid(m): 6:07am On Jun 23, 2020 |
MaziIgwe007: There are thousands of low key marriages going on across the country. 2 Likes |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Nobody: 6:12am On Jun 23, 2020 |
SmartPolician:Is that not enough reason? Abi na until e happen to me? 1 Like |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Nobody: 6:15am On Jun 23, 2020 |
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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by knowhowk: 6:17am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Almighty God Instituted Marriage according to the Bible .If you look Naturally at Marriage ,Man living together with a Woman ,Doing things together as one ,Helping , supporting each other is quite Amazing and great No Doubt .However what we Notice in this Present Generation of Marriage are not encouraging or Pleasing anymore ,Yes I quite agree that there are other good side of Marriage but we must realise that the bad side which were not Obvious before are becoming more obvious and Alarming . Gender Equality Claim ,Lack of Respect between Couple ,Pride,Social Media Influence ,In-contentments ,Finances ,Lack of God's Fear ,Pretence ,Immorality ,Bad Friends Influence , Immaturity ,Lack of Forgiveness etc are contributing immensely to travails of Marriage .Marriage I learnt is two Forgivers living together .To me I think Marriage is not by force ,It's a Personal thing ,People should just stop the bullshit of trying to Condemn anyone that says No To Marriage .Some may call a man who is not interested in Marriage as Irresponsible ,If been Irresponsible is what would give one peace of Mind so be it ,What the sense in Responsibility that create Hell of Shit ,Trouble , Anxiety , Hypertension,Stress and Untimely Death .Name all the Things to do to achieve a good marriage and long lasting relationship , Remember some would keep it ,Some may not be able to .Some couple must have Attended the whole Marriage counseling in the Nation ,Yet the Marriage hit the rock ,I know of a couple that does not miss Late Bimbo Odukoya Marriage counseling Teachings ,Bought lots of her books ,Men the day they Fought and separate was like a WAR ." Sad News of " Husband mudered Wife in cold blood then killed Himself " Husband Stabbed wife to Death and ran away ,Husband discovers Child is not His Own ,Suspect Wife of Sleeping arround then Kills wife ,the Child and drank Sniper .You also hear "Wife caught husband with side chick ,Stabbed Husband to Death ,Etc ,You go to Court ,There is no single day you don't hear cases of Divorce not even early Marriage ,You hear 20 Years ,30 Years of Marriage Dissolved ,Those are Lucky ones anyway that does not result to Death .Those are couple that once said Sweetheart,Honey ,My Love,My life ,My Everything bla bla bla before fire started to burn on the Mountain.Many are still in Relationship not because the Love is still there but for the sake of there Children ,For the sake of OH! I have suffered with this man ,I won't let another woman come and Enjoy all my labour ,Yes am fedup of the Marriage but I will stay put ,That is just the truth .Off course there are no Perfect Being anywhere .Only God is .The Present Generation , Especially the Youth take it or U leave it ,Most are not finding Marriage interesting anymore ,Talk about Household work they are not lazy ,Cooking ,there are restaurant , Some guys cook very well ,Talk about clothes washing ,it's some boys hobby ,Dry cleaner are everywhere also ,Talk about been lonely while staying alone there are numerous activities to catch fun .Talk about Kids ,The option of Baby mama is available .Some ladies even want to be baby mama so guys that wants that can easily have baby mama ,So what else are we talking about .In My own final Opinion Keep all the Preaching of Marriage aside joor ,Go for it if U want it ,Run for your life if U don't want it .Marriage or No Marriage Life goes on .If U highlight reason why One must Marry , Remember there are so many reasons why one too must run away from Marriage . 4 Likes |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by edunaragold(f): 6:18am On Jun 23, 2020 |
i had a good job working with FG and for 4 good yes I kept on loving one useless lady planing and saving to get married, but she told me she don't want to suffer oo, and marriage is not a bed of roses, she told me she don't want to settle for less, am like wait so even with FG work am still less. 15 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by SmartPolician: 6:18am On Jun 23, 2020 |
0KNM: It can only happen in a shameless family. You see, when one of my elder sisters got married, she gave us guys her husband's phone number to call him once in a while to keep up with him. However, he specifically warned that no one should ask him for a favour. If you need a favour from him, it must pass through her. That way, she will weigh it to know if she will do it for you without getting him involved, pass it on to her husband herself or drop it at once. That's common sense Again, the story you read, if it ever happened, can only happen in a shameless family. 6 Likes |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Cj4charles(m): 6:23am On Jun 23, 2020 |
a friend of mine with 4 children who just died last 2week Friday due to some illness, his wife drove to my office yesterday why we where discussing she saw my caretaker going out and she was asking me to help link her up with him, i was shocked 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Fastlinkpro: 6:23am On Jun 23, 2020 |
just yesterday a girl still surprised i turned her down financially, she has been asking and getting . of what benefit smh 2 Likes |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Nobody: 6:24am On Jun 23, 2020 |
profilemessages:Because there's free sex, immorality on the rise. Parents want their children to have a job paying 2 milli per month before he/she settles down. |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Yankee101: 6:24am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Oyinbo divorce rate is 50% You watch too much TV tydi: 1 Like |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Facidio: 6:31am On Jun 23, 2020 |
UdyOgwoUde: Urhobo man. I sight you |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by knowhowk: 6:33am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Cj4charles:. |
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