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My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by gamblering: 3:41pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
she is just not enthusiastic about anything. She waits for life to hand her something instead of going after it. I don't know if I can go ahead with this arrangement any more. |
Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by Eketem: 4:01pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Well they said cooking, submission,cleaning and giving sex are the only qualifications of being a good wife in Nigeria so enjoy what your brothers have created. 7 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by Ladylite: 4:01pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
gamblering: Thats because you were never her friend. You went ahead to date her without knowing who she is and without being ready to help her first before dating her. You too were hasty. Now you are stuck and no one can help you. 6 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by bukatyne(f): 4:42pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
gamblering: If she is like this with her friends and family, she might be battling depression. Also check if she believes men should be the goal getters while women should wait for life to happen to them. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by Romangalactic(m): 4:44pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Are you a rehabilitation center for broken women? 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by Nobody: 5:00pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
I bet you got with her because she is very curvy and looks fertile. What is her story? Maybe she is tired of trying and now depressed. Try and find out before you discontinue with the arrangement 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by Temitopemo6e6(m): 5:04pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
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Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by Romangalactic(m): 5:16pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Ladylite:What do u mean by he's stuck,even married people are not stuck. There is always an out |
Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by gamblering: 5:53pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Ladylite:I knew the kind of person she is before I moved to date her. I guess I thought she would change. or that I could change her. Or that her circumstance would change things. |
Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by gamblering: 5:54pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
bukatyne:No, she is not battling depression. But yes, she believes men should go out and get things. She is preparing to be a housewife, though she knows that doesn't go down well with me. |
Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by gamblering: 5:55pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
albertatrina:She is not depressed |
Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by Kobojunkie: 7:05pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
gamblering: Your story is missinh the fillings necessary to help us here. What is her backstory? Was she always like this or did she only recently become this way? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by Kobojunkie: 7:05pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
gamblering:how do you know for sure that she is not depressed? |
Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by Kobojunkie: 7:06pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
gamblering:was she raised to believe it is the way it ought to be because is female? Or is she a woman who believes herself a queen to be taken care of? |
Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by Kobojunkie: 7:07pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
gamblering:Oh! You have known of this all along but you wanted to change her with your magical charms anyway? So she is not the problem. Why are you here making it seem the woman is to blame then? She didn't lie to you. You lied to her that you were ok with who she is. 11 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by Munzy14(m): 7:15pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Romangalactic: comedy forum... 3 Likes
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Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by Mariangeles(f): 7:28pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
gamblering: If that is what she wants and you don't, then leave. You're not the man for her simple. How do you inspire her if I may ask? What is she passionate about? 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by missimelda01(f): 9:46pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
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Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by missimelda01(f): 9:49pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Never go into a relationship with the mindset of changing anyone! If things are not working between the two of you, take a break and find out what you really want in a relationship, there are lots of women out there that can fit in. Don't ruin things for yourself even before you start. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by bukatyne(f): 10:21pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
gamblering: The lady you want to marry wants to be an housewife. You don't like it; on what basis are you progressing the relationship? |
Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by tobechi20(m): 10:52pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
is she ethuastic about you? |
Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by tobechi20(m): 10:53pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
such women make best faithful housewife. she will stick by u evenbif u cheat on her |
Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by bukatyne(f): 10:55pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
tobechi20: Na wa o You are already making contingency plans for adultery. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:05pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
tobechi20: You are obviously a mistake of a man, because you just said exactly what you'd do when married. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:09pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
gamblering: gamblering: Her goal in life is to be a housewife, it obviously doesnt align with yours so let her be, go look for someone that will share bills with you. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by cococandy(f): 11:35pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
gamblering: So why are you engaged to someone who doesn’t believe in the same things you do and what do you want us to do about it? Worse still, you knew all this and went ahead to get engaged to her. Let me guess, she meets the physical criteria that got you attracted, probably wowed you with her ‘homely and wifely’ skills but the thought of providing for the specifications you want is daunting to you. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by Acidosis(m): 5:15am On Jun 23, 2020 |
What's wrong with preparing to be a housewife? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by bukatyne(f): 6:13am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Acidosis: They can't walk together if there is no agreement on the type of roles they should have in the home. |
Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by Acidosis(m): 6:27am On Jun 23, 2020 |
bukatyne: That's true sha |
Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by zed7: 6:49am On Jun 23, 2020 |
What is wrong with waiting for life to hand you things? We can't all be goal getters. If she is supportive of you and not a leech then I see no problem. People should realise that we are all very different. Is she a good person? Does she have strong values? If she isn't what you want then leave. Don't give her a bad name. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by MrCanceller: 10:26am On Jun 23, 2020 |
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Re: My Fiancee Is Unenthusiastic About Anything by MrCanceller: 10:27am On Jun 23, 2020 |
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