Stevengerd:
Gbogbo eleyi o necesstri

Walai kò necesstri

YangaBabe:
but some girls are truly crazy and the earlier you see that the better for you

True not every man or woman is created be in a relationship. Take tonto dike for example, no sane man will consider her a wife material

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright

We ain't closing no shit

Most of the time when we do that closure thing then ladies tend to move on

And as a result banging them again is difficult

But when we leave them in the dark
We can easily come up with stories to win their heart and bang them again

Increase the volume my brother.. Closure ko,Open ni..

Prayer is the key and not closure.

Prayer na when the match start.


As for this topic, am still doing forensics.

Ekejoestar:
So whats your point now? Closure is the key?

Is the master key

Yes sister women are crazy, nasty and crazy again, it’s inborn in them,,

Yes sister women are crazy, nasty and crazy again, it’s inborn in them..

Girls are a work in progress

Kk

PrecioussB:
Just like the title says.
I have noticed, when guys talk about some exs, they will kinda hint that the girls is an addict or crazy, but then after looking into it, I just realised that these guys can bring a lot of it on themselves, oh do they know how much torment not having closure brings on someone. Not knowing why your once beloved girlfriend or boyfriend refuses your calls, why they won't explain or even see you, why they just disappeared can leave you very confused.

The women aren't crazy because they call you all the time, they are probably really desperate to find out the truth, which guys often don't say (though I've noticed that Nigerian guys, tend to just let it out which can be good at times). This feeling is like being stood in front of a brick wall, the truth is on the other side and the ex is the wall who refuses to budge, to even hint what went wrong, so you're left guessing, you can't see the truth and the ex is barely interacting with you too.

WE NEED CLOSURE, EVERYBODY DOES > now that can drive a woman crazy. All the questions roaming through our heads, of 'why did he leave?', 'why didn't he even tell me what I did?', then you start thinking 'Am I that disgusting that he won't pick up my call?', 'was I that bad a girlfriend that he avoids me?' and worst of all 'I don't want to seem psycho or like a stalker, I'm sure one simple phone call to him will sort everything out.', when these get unbearable, you try and call, and he doesn't pick up because little did you know he's so over you and he doesn't have the time, even just a little time to let you get over him.

MAYBE you guys actually don't want us to get over you. Maybe that is why the mess made is left there. Surely if you want us to move on, you will meet up with us, tell us the deal and move on.

GUYS please understand the power of closure, and so what if you hurt our feelings, at least now we can move on and so can you, and you won't need to explain to your new girlfriend that your ex stalks you and such. Ok, ok, I think the stalking is a bit much, but it is just some women are so desperate to find the answers that they will go to some extents, think of it from your point of view.

Your girlfriend of 7 months, just tells you one day that it's all over. Ok, so in the past 2 months she's been slowly distancing herself from you, less phone calls, visits and barely any enthusiasm, so of course, she's prepared herself for the breakup, but you are completely unaware, you think everything is fabulous, you're even thinking about what to get her for her birthday. The birthday comes, and she's all fantastic, you think you two are a match made in heaven, then a week later, she breaks up with you, and of course you're stunned so you don't ask all the questions you want to ask and the questions just float around in your head, you sulk for ages and then after the initial stage of upset, you now want answers, but guess what, she's moved on, she's now got a new guy, your number's been deleted off her phone, and you're calling to ask her why she left you, because you deserve to know, and she just speaks to you like your wasting her time, she is uneasy to talk to you or acknowledge the good 5 months you spent as a close knit couple, and it hurts, in order to move on, you need to know where you went wrong, so it's not too personal, after all it could easily be her cheating ways or wandering eyes. Just knowing this would save so much soul-searching, further heartbreak and just confusion.

Now do you understand the power of closure?? If you don't I will gladly go on and on and on. .

This is just my plea, so you guys give us a break, stop dragging things along, we know you hate confrontation and hurting our feelings, but being left to our own thoughts could actually really affect us, and is far worse for our psyche than being told the truth.

CLOSURE is KEY!

Peace

I don't know what this long incoherent epistle is about Smtmes u can just say fvck closure and move on. Don't let anybody keep u hanging.

PrecioussB
Women too re always too quick to distrust every guy or insult us all by calling us names especially "all men are dogs". Very distasteful..... However, I've never had any crazy experience from any Lady so I Ve never called anyone crazy except the ones I've seen acting obviously so towards another.
Lemme give an example of one.
Right here in my estate (moved in Last year) I became friends with a guy who is supposed to be married.... Actually is.... Just one day, his wife came across a message that was sth like this

Guy : we got the contract
female colleague: I knew if anyone could pull it off it would be you
Guy: uses a wink emoji
*Chat ends*

This lady let all hell lose saying he was sleeping with the girl bla bla bla. Asked him to leave the house.. That she needed space (a house they both built in Nigeria o.. Not Yankee). He sha left the house... For 1year now, bros has never been allowed into the house. He comes and goes like a visitor... Everyday he comes from mainland to lekki just to come and beg his wife for sth he didn't do but she's a bitter 'CRAZY' Bish... When she's stranded at work or too tired, She'll call him to come take her home, oga will drop all he's doing and leave mainland where he works to go pick her up at her own office on the island. Everyone especially her family members have asked this guy to leave but its beginning to seem like jazz o. She doesn't even talk to her twin brother anymore because she says her twin is siding with her husband. Her parents have called the guy to say he should move on as they are all tired of her and her antiques. The house they both built together where they had the issue before moving here, she sold off with everything in it ten she rented the current house in her own name with their money. Bros is scared for life as he is now scared of women and the only one that he loves treats him like shit.... Lemme shock you.... In their long years of marriage (I think 10years or so) she's not been able to give birth... She actually knew she couldn't give birth but kept it from him and only told him after they were married but he loved her so much he decided to stay not withstanding which is why I said it might be jazz.... Who knows... Maybe she has carried her womb to the coven and used to tie him there(I ordinarily do not believe in witches or sh!t like that) cos she's behaving like a witch... Haba.... 10months+ and you have decided not to forgive a man for a harmless chat over a year ago.... Oh.... I forgot to add.... When she fancies a man, she literally tells him "I want to try n date this or that guy.... After all I'm single... All this and the man is still stuck on her... If this isn't crazy witch craft then tell me what it is..... SHE IS A CRAZY WOMAN.

I know say na this girl go write this thing PrecioussB

This is not applicable to a lady in her 30s and a man with the money

PrecioussB:
Just like the title says.
I have noticed, when guys talk about some exs, they will kinda hint that the girls is an addict or crazy, but then after looking into it, I just realised that these guys can bring a lot of it on themselves, oh do they know how much torment not having closure brings on someone. Not knowing why your once beloved girlfriend or boyfriend refuses your calls, why they won't explain or even see you, why they just disappeared can leave you very confused.

The women aren't crazy because they call you all the time, they are probably really desperate to find out the truth, which guys often don't say (though I've noticed that Nigerian guys, tend to just let it out which can be good at times). This feeling is like being stood in front of a brick wall, the truth is on the other side and the ex is the wall who refuses to budge, to even hint what went wrong, so you're left guessing, you can't see the truth and the ex is barely interacting with you too.

WE NEED CLOSURE, EVERYBODY DOES > now that can drive a woman crazy. All the questions roaming through our heads, of 'why did he leave?', 'why didn't he even tell me what I did?', then you start thinking 'Am I that disgusting that he won't pick up my call?', 'was I that bad a girlfriend that he avoids me?' and worst of all 'I don't want to seem psycho or like a stalker, I'm sure one simple phone call to him will sort everything out.', when these get unbearable, you try and call, and he doesn't pick up because little did you know he's so over you and he doesn't have the time, even just a little time to let you get over him.

MAYBE you guys actually don't want us to get over you. Maybe that is why the mess made is left there. Surely if you want us to move on, you will meet up with us, tell us the deal and move on.

GUYS please understand the power of closure, and so what if you hurt our feelings, at least now we can move on and so can you, and you won't need to explain to your new girlfriend that your ex stalks you and such. Ok, ok, I think the stalking is a bit much, but it is just some women are so desperate to find the answers that they will go to some extents, think of it from your point of view.

Your girlfriend of 7 months, just tells you one day that it's all over. Ok, so in the past 2 months she's been slowly distancing herself from you, less phone calls, visits and barely any enthusiasm, so of course, she's prepared herself for the breakup, but you are completely unaware, you think everything is fabulous, you're even thinking about what to get her for her birthday. The birthday comes, and she's all fantastic, you think you two are a match made in heaven, then a week later, she breaks up with you, and of course you're stunned so you don't ask all the questions you want to ask and the questions just float around in your head, you sulk for ages and then after the initial stage of upset, you now want answers, but guess what, she's moved on, she's now got a new guy, your number's been deleted off her phone, and you're calling to ask her why she left you, because you deserve to know, and she just speaks to you like your wasting her time, she is uneasy to talk to you or acknowledge the good 5 months you spent as a close knit couple, and it hurts, in order to move on, you need to know where you went wrong, so it's not too personal, after all it could easily be her cheating ways or wandering eyes. Just knowing this would save so much soul-searching, further heartbreak and just confusion.

Now do you understand the power of closure?? If you don't I will gladly go on and on and on. .

This is just my plea, so you guys give us a break, stop dragging things along, we know you hate confrontation and hurting our feelings, but being left to our own thoughts could actually really affect us, and is far worse for our psyche than being told the truth.

CLOSURE is KEY!

Peace

Damn. To wear my glasses reading this isn't easy. All being said, my daughter, why is this generation all about sex, fashion, body and sorts? Damn, I missed my time! When will you think about taking your future in your hands? When will you think of being a leader? Those that are still leading you now started leading you at your age then, they don't take all these as a priority then. Lemme say WE. Though, ain't a politician.
Come off these relationship talk, talk about POLITICS. Decide for your future or your posterity will curse you all. My daughter, and to all my children on NL, THE FUTURE IS YOURS TO DECIDE NOW. TAKE IT IN YOUR HANDS. We've failed u, Don't fail yourself. My 2cents. God bless you all my sons and daughters on NL. Stay safe

Ekejoestar:
So whats your point now? Closure is the key?

I thought it was prayer that was d key

look from my own part why will you with normal sense of humor no that you will not get along with the guy why let him put his trust in you .....in my case have been with her for 3 good yrs and she just wake up on day and said shes no more interested any longer .....to me ladies are crazy

PrecioussB:
Just like the title says.
I have !

Peace

If I say I understand anything here, na lie I lie.

I just wasted my precious time reading this disjointed epistles...

Real guys who have taken the red Pill never go into any relationship with all their hearts, especially if it's with most Nigerian girls...... CLOSURE KILL YOU THERE

How do you close when your parents and her own. Knows about the relationship.
Oga na to dey press break small small to avoid something more than confrontation

Oluromantic:
My dear, men and women no get same thinking pace o[b]. No mature wise man will ever tell a girl he's no more interested no matter the reason[/b]. Ask your big mommies who are also women, they'll confirm to you that it's true. The best way is still to fade off gradually from her life by not picking calls or acting busy or so. Not all women can handle bitter truth about themselves, girls are so used to sweet lies. Some have serious malice and grudge habit even upon hearing the truth about themselves.

u sabi die.. me, first I go dey ignore your calls.. u can call 20times I will only pick once.. then start giving you monosyllabic responses... nobody go tell you to stop calling..



Some of them might turn brutal if you tell them bluntly ... na only girls fit clear man once and for all

pcguru1:
Lol that's life, women need closure not men, because some of us are used to things going south without explanation and we just take it as a loss. It's very odd for a man to have issues with closure, unless that said person is a very emotional being.

And this is how men gradually turn to demons. We all need closure. It's normal to be a bit emotional as a guy.

pcguru1:
Lol that's life, women need closure not men, because some of us are used to things going south without explanation and we just take it as a loss. It's very odd for a man to have issues with closure, unless that said person is a very emotional being.

Exactly. We are so used to trying to make things work that we KNOW somethings just dont work.

Hmmn

woleabayo:
look from my own part why will you with normal sense of humor no that you will not get along with the guy why let him put his trust in you .....in my case have been with her for 3 good yrs and she just wake up on day and said shes no more interested any longer .....to me ladies are crazy

You see, everybody needs closure. You deserve to know why she left you. You deserve... Well, if she doesn't explain, just count your loss and move on. People need to know it's bad not to explain reasons for strange decisions regardless of the sex involved

AududuNine11:


If I say I understand anything here, na lie I lie.

I just wasted my precious time reading this disjointed epistles...

You don't see quoting me made you sound stupid?

BREYZ:
I know say na this girl go write this thing PrecioussB

Lol. You know me well then

jaxxy:


I don't know what this long incoherent epistle is about Smtmes u can just say fvck closure and move on. Don't let anybody keep u hanging.

I had to explain it to the best of my knowledge.

COdeGenesis:


Crazy post by a crazy girl. Only a crazy person would read all the crazy write up

Hahahaha you got me there.

PrecioussB:


Hahahaha this got me laughing this morning..

It may sound funny now...
Just know that abortion won't be an option... Otherwise...

PrecioussB:


You don't see quoting me made you sound stupid?

Now I believe the report which estimated that there are over 90 million Nigerians that have one form of mental disorder or the other.

You are a proof.

livebyday:
What is wrong with nairaland today ?

Is there a new memo saying push all the romance section filth to the front page ?

You can imagine...