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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Rilwayne001: 8:20am On Jun 23, 2020
Tozic:


does she have such money to even mandate you on the amount of money she'd manage? these gold diggers shouldn't see men as a catalyst and as a stepping stone to their poverty alleviation scheme.

E go soon clear for their eye grin

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by emmaodet: 8:21am On Jun 23, 2020
purplecoco:
I’m not pained or anguished whatsoever. It's just that is a norm to stereotype females on this platform. It goes both ways for both genders when it comes to marriage. The male counterpart should not be left out. I mean I should have it on the back of my head, that if I wanna get married, I shouldn't marry a man from Nigeria and bring him to the states.

Lol
How many nigerian ladies will be so foolish to bring in nigerian men? It is tge nigerian men doing that foolish thing.
Likewise putting a gf on monthly allowance in school or sponsoring a lady to school.

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by stacyadams: 8:22am On Jun 23, 2020
Eileene:

You've said it all, i attended a wedding last Saturday and I have another one to attend next month,so who are these getting married spirits or aliens.
Don't believe everything u hear on net cos majority of us are hypocrites


Weddings wey no go last grin grin. Attending wedding no be d issue..


Shebi yesterday one husband kill him wife ,kill himself grin

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by oglalasioux(m): 8:27am On Jun 23, 2020
GODPUNISHUNA:


If you want to marry you are free to do so. Most guys have found out it's not what it's cut to be. Most times in all ramifications the man loses.

Wisdom
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Eileene(f): 8:28am On Jun 23, 2020
stacyadams:



Weddings wey no go last grin grin. Attending wedding no be d issue..


Shebi yesterday one husband kill him wife ,kill himself grin
Days lyk 1 in 10 marriages, there are many good ones,u only hear abt the bad ones cos only bad news make headlines.

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Gerrard59(m): 8:28am On Jun 23, 2020
cooltola:


You can look at the person's character and see how she behaves. You attract what your spirit is. If you want an angel, you have to be an angel first. If you want a hardworking and a hustling woman, then you must be a diligent and good hustler. What if i told you that some women in naija will rather starve than twerk their dignity away for such federal civil service Job. It is up to you attract such women. What if i told you that there are nongovernment jobs, other legit hustle and honest way of earning a living for a woman without doing ashewo , twerking on the gram, snapchat and so on.

Thank you so much. Most of these men are damn irresponsible but believe they are entitled to responsible ladies. Things don't work out in such ways. Irresponsible men will continue to attract irresponsible women and vice versa. Both parties deserve each other.

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by MrNipplesLover(m): 8:28am On Jun 23, 2020
stacyadams:
grin grin

U won't see them,,they think they are doing men they don't know they RE doing themselves
grin..let them continue

Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by stacyadams: 8:32am On Jun 23, 2020
Eileene:

Days lyk 1 in 10 marriages, there are many good ones,u only hear abt the bad ones cos only bad news make headlines.
grin angry grin

Interesting grin grin
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by rash47(m): 8:35am On Jun 23, 2020
SmartPolician:


No be FG job be the koko

The key question is, "How much is your salary?"

Let's face it, there are thousands of hustlers on the street making money you guys can only wish you could get. What mostly give federal workers too much money is tips from fraud. You will know this if you live in Abuja.

You see, those hustlers keep calling you 'sir' and your head go dey swell up. grin You don't know that they are only interested in your money.

However, the best part of your job is pension and gratuity - something that happens when a man cannot hustle anymore. It's awesome!

Again, I must not rule out that people in oil and gas sector of government ministries, antigraft agencies (like the EFCC), finance (like CBN) and health sector are well paid.

If a lady has dated one contractor or small-scale seller, her orientation about guys may not be the same. The fact is, one supply or contract those guys do can fetch what a federal worker earns in 6 months (I know people like that). It even gets more interesting if he is a big-time spender. A government employee is NEVER extravagant.

I personally quit from my salaried job to enter the street when I realized this. And I consider that my best career decision. While most of us weren't taught entrepreneurship in school, nothing compares to working for oneself.

Interesting sir, there are government jobs and government jobs...atimes i see no chance of equity amongst them

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by purplecoco(f): 8:35am On Jun 23, 2020
emmaodet:


Lol
How many nigerian ladies will be so foolish to bring in nigerian men? It is tge nigerian men doing that foolish thing.
Likewise putting a gf on monthly allowance in school or sponsoring a lady to school.
Yeah most won't have good intentions if you fly their ass out. They will want to experiment and make you look like a fool. There are so many cases of divorce, and it's usually coming from them

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Kfaaji(m): 8:36am On Jun 23, 2020
People don't want to rush into marriage again. If one doesn't plan before rushing into marriage there is high probability that such person will rush out from such marriage or die trying to save it. The beauty of marriage is when you are able to take care of yourself self. Take good care of your wife and children. Then, extend help to members of the family. This will make you feel fullfilled in your marriage. If you are not ready psychologically and financially don't go into marriage. You'll regret it.
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by emmaodet: 8:37am On Jun 23, 2020
simplepee:
Irresponsible men everywhere. Tueh!

Fact is, after spilling rubbish on Nl, they still get married every sayurday abi all the suitors we are getting falls from heaven. undecided undecided

There can only high rise of irresponsible men due to high number of irresponsible women.
About people still getting married - people will still always do but the question is the percentage.
What is the percentage of men getting married to singles?
Whether we like it or not too, graduates will always get good jobs but what is the percentage of graduates getting good jobs to unemployed or underemployed?

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by MANDIPUTIN: 8:39am On Jun 23, 2020
1 Timothy 4 v 1- 4

1.The Spirit says clearly that some people will abandon the faith in later times; they will obey lying spirits and follow the teachings of demons. 
2.Such teachings are spread by deceitful liars, whose consciences are dead, as if burnt with a hot iron.
 3.Such people teach that it is wrong to marry and to eat certain foods. But God created those foods to be eaten, after a prayer of thanks, by those who are believers and have come to know the truth. 
4.Everything that God has created is good; nothing is to be rejected, but everything is to be received with a prayer of thanks,
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Joshmuch: 8:45am On Jun 23, 2020
MaziIgwe007:


baba right now sef I don't know which one to chosen again whether Naija babe or white babe.

Everyone just mad
highest risk, better return( white), highest risk, low return ( naija), highest risk, no return (naija)
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Nobody: 8:46am On Jun 23, 2020
Women are not settling for less!
every woman want a flamboyant events....if men gat no much capital there would rather remain single.

On like me now, am planning pregnanting a woman, from her I get a child mbok

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by monfizzy(m): 8:49am On Jun 23, 2020
I think marriage is incongruous to today’s contemporary lifestyle. The society and general way of today’s world is conflicting with marriage. Let’s face it humans were born free and marriage restrict that freedom, no one want to be caged by an individual for the rest of their lives. Humans are social beings who want to meet and interact with people of opposite sex and such interaction helps one keep sanity. To be blunt, humans are polygamous in nature and that innate habits comes in direct collision with the marital institution.

Then the issue of finance, poor Nigerian families who are in the majority see marrying off their daughter as a path to financial freedom. In fact, there are many Nigerian families especially in south east Nigeria where I come from who have tremendous hope of their girl child marrying a rich man who’ll elevate the family from poverty more than they hope on their male child to succeed. And when a man marries from such family it’ll only take God’s grace to still stand on his feet after a few years of being financially drained. Ask many men and they’ll tell you they want to have kids more than they want to get married.

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Nobody: 8:51am On Jun 23, 2020
Otiv:
[Sometimes I marvel at how the world has been shaped through so many self taught and self believed ideas passed round the internet these days . Who says the man loses? Why not just say our generation has lost the ability to do the right thing.. we just want everything to always work at all times when we need them. We dont believe God anymore and we have lacked or lost the stamina to endure .. we live fast lives and it reflects in everything we do. Our parents got married, they never told us it was always rosy! They endured and worked to make these marriages work, can we ?

If you want to marry you are free to do so. Most guys have found out it's not what it's cut to be. Most times in all ramifications the man loses.
Same parents that turned the society to what it is today?
See this country for instance...

Guy, forget that nonsense!
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Nobody: 8:55am On Jun 23, 2020
alexsoftwork:



But no be all them be like DAT na.

You can try your luck. I done talk my own oh.
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Doyou2019: 8:56am On Jun 23, 2020
simplepee:
Irresponsible men everywhere. Tueh!

Fact is, after spilling rubbish on Nl, they still get married every sayurday abi all the suitors we are getting falls from heaven. undecided undecided

You're in denial if you believe what you just typed. Take a good look around you and quit burying your head in the sand. You're not a frigging peacock.

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Nobody: 8:59am On Jun 23, 2020
Gerrard59:


This is a horrible take, honestly it is. Are you saying there are no females you know who graduated, are working using the skills and certificates they acquire to advance in life?

Them dey, and many dey sleep with their bosses for office and cheat on their husbands. I know many of them that are working but still cheating.

Naija guys when dey their 20s, if you dey advise them, them nor dey hear. I'm in my 30s and i graduated from uni back in 2008. All the girls when graduate then with me when dey work for companies and banks now, all dey sleep around while working.

Unless you go marry ugly shapeless graduate before you fit get peace oh.

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Nobody: 8:59am On Jun 23, 2020
Youngpo413:
All of them are the same joor...graduate or not,they all fuçk like dogs...show me a faithful lady and I will show you a dual sim iphone.

You fit still see faithful virgo or Taurus lady sha.
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by femijck(m): 9:00am On Jun 23, 2020
MaziIgwe007:


baba right now sef I don't know which one to chosen again whether Naija babe or white babe.

Everyone just mad
lol....I feel ur pain bro
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Nobody: 9:01am On Jun 23, 2020
SmartPolician:


I will not forget this moniker


grin grin

I dey nairaland before oh, but one babe chased me away from one astrology thread because my truth was too blunt for her to accept. I'm an astrologist.

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by luminouz(m): 9:06am On Jun 23, 2020
purplecoco:
who is me? Is there a problem as to who I am? undecided That's a lie! I'm not even an active member

Lol...I know u ain't active but the key word is 'lately'


You intrigued me... and after skipping through your diary...I get the 'meeeeeeehhhhh' feeling.
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by crazyjean: 9:06am On Jun 23, 2020
michaelpop50:


In today's Nigeria, marrying a female graduate is not advisable. Girls dey fucck anyhow for university. Once a man marry a graduate, there is a high probability that the girl will cheat in marriage with her exes from her uni days.

If you are a guy and you are seeing this message, abeg nor marry graduate oh. Them done damage their body for uni
your right to some extent,I'm in my finals,and I can attest to this statement, uni girls dey Bleep like hell,God knows I don't see myself getting married, even if someone gives me one billion, God forbid, I'm 28 no girlfriend no problem, I cherish my peace,baby mama things cheesy
michaelpop50:


In today's Nigeria, marrying a female graduate is not advisable. Girls dey fucck anyhow for university. Once a man marry a graduate, there is a high probability that the girl will cheat in marriage with her exes from her uni days.

If you are a guy and you are seeing this message, abeg nor marry graduate oh. Them done damage their body for uni
your right to some extent,I'm in my finals,and I can attest to this statement, uni girls dey Bleep like hell,God knows I don't see myself getting married, even if someone gives me one billion, God forbid, I'm 28 no girlfriend no problem, I cherish my peace,baby mama things

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Skmoda360(m): 9:18am On Jun 23, 2020
MaziIgwe007:


baba right now sef I don't know which one to chosen again whether Naija babe or white babe.

Everyone just mad
Na to dey observe from far distance......
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Baloranking(m): 9:25am On Jun 23, 2020
frowland:


Your last statement if full of ignorance.

Full of ignorance indeed, don't be a hypocrite what I wrote is my opinion,feel free to drop yours.
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by freesoul12: 9:28am On Jun 23, 2020
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Mom, so u think men can't be responsible without marriage. Na which kind mentality be that. There are many men out there that can easily cater for more than 2 wfs. For the fact we prefer our peace of mind than so called love scam doesnt mean we are irresponsible. Till this generation get it right. You girls are on a long thing.
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Ajixegun: 9:32am On Jun 23, 2020
michaelpop50:


I nor dey look for virgin oh. I'm talking from experience. If you marry girl when done sleep with 21 guys, she must cheat on you.

Don't play yourself.
During my undergraduate days, one of my friends told me he was surprised to see his name at number 21 on a list of those whom his so called girlfriend had slept in her dairy.
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by vickydevoka(m): 9:35am On Jun 23, 2020
I once told a very fine buh intolerant lady dat I wan to marry her, she told me that doesn't en to get marry , all she wants is to get pregnant n remain single for the rest of her life.
#dats her choice

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by vickydevoka(m): 9:37am On Jun 23, 2020
bigpicture001:
The cost of getting a wife is too much to bear on a dieing economy

1. You move away from one self con to a 2bedroom or rm ND palour self con

2. U start to furnish it
3.you get a car
4.you continue saving for bride prize and wedding and honey moon all at once...
While doing this you will renew your rent twice.
5.b4 life of man and wife begins with daily expenses on your head......

Guy! Load is too heavy
Cut ur cloth according to your coat

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