OP please don't send her an SMS, MTN will collect your airtime
I'd advise you use WhatsApp instead

After you don tire for puna

NEWBIN:
We have known each other for about six months now. I proposed to her in March 2020 and kept telling me she was thinking about it.

Just yesterday, she said yes to my proposal and I was so excited. When I met her yesterday evening, she told me Friday (June 26) is her birthday and that, she expects a lot of gifts and mobile money from me. My bowels became full instantly so left to go ease myself.

I have lost interest. Show me a way to outsmart this fraudster of a lady, thanks.

E ji m Chukwu yoo gi, abeg, dan Allah, GHOST this 419er. But try to collect your 10% first.

NEWBIN:
We have known each other for about six months now. I proposed to her in March 2020 and kept telling me she was thinking about it.

Just yesterday, she said yes to my proposal and I was so excited. When I met her yesterday evening, she told me Friday (June 26) is her birthday and that, she expects a lot of gifts and mobile money from me. My bowels became full instantly so left to go ease myself.

I have lost interest. Show me a way to outsmart this fraudster of a lady, thanks.

6months of dating and you didn't know she was a fraud until she asked you for gifts for her birthday? OP, you need 15 matchet drillings.

Fake affection everywhere

Why acting like a juvenile?
This the best time to prove what sort of material she's made off... Just ignore her requests, send her hand wishes. After a month check on her to know if she's still interested..
If she still say yes, then do some checks and balances, then forge ahead with her.

NEWBIN:
We have known each other for about six months now. I proposed to her in March 2020 and kept telling me she was thinking about it.

Just yesterday, she said yes to my proposal and I was so excited. When I met her yesterday evening, she told me Friday (June 26) is her birthday and that, she expects a lot of gifts and mobile money from me. My bowels became full instantly so left to go ease myself.

I have lost interest. Show me a way to outsmart this fraudster of a lady, thanks.

This is the kind of topic we read here everyday. . E go draw so much crowd soon.

Why would you keep proposing for 3 months in the first place?

Common guys stop acting needy

QuinModah:
Hmmm

I never been in any love kind of relationship with anyone so it may not be the answer which you were looking for.

Call off the marriage:

If you feel that reason is so strong that it will hinder the progress of your relationship, then it is better you call off the marriage.

Don't call off:

I can see that you have some concern for her. So if you think that the reason can be sorted, then don't call it off. Think of how to resolve it.

When I joined college, I had a bunch of people with whom I identified better (our likes and dislikes were same) and another bunch of friends who were just the opposite. But when by the time I was in final year, the people with whom I had differences become my best buddies. By that time, my likes and dislikes were similar to theirs.

Like opposite pole attracts. I believe a relationship gets strong when differences can be turned into likes.

P.S: If I was you, I would choose the second one Good luck with the choice making And happy married life bro

Good one, I like your write up. Same thing that is happening to me now.... (Stretches hands of friendship) if that's okay by you, can I send you a message via WhatsApp?

Tomide007:
She might not be a fraudster, some ladies actually see gifts as a sign of love....but it's obvious u don't love her, soo just break up for her sake and ur mental health.

just shu.t up already, your talk dey smell.

Knowledge is the first step to freedom
I am happy you know you are dealing with a fraudster
Like someone said, u don't need to outsmart her, just send her a birthday message...her reaction will do the outsmarting and lead to an amicable end of the relationship

Gold diggers everywhere

By the way, you met a girl less than six months and you have proposed marriage already?
Abi na me no understand you?

FeliciaOja:
If She Took Her 4 months to accept your Proposal
Then it means, She had other men who she was interested in and messing with
After experimenting with other suitors for 4 months, she probably got dumped and now she is looking for you to wife her up

Op, dump her and never look back

jeez, felicia jxt said sumtin sensible
jxt name ur price
anythin

NEWBIN:
We have known each other for about six months now. I proposed to her in March 2020 and kept telling me she was thinking about it.

Just yesterday, she said yes to my proposal and I was so excited. When I met her yesterday evening, she told me Friday (June 26) is her birthday and that, she expects a lot of gifts and mobile money from me. My bowels became full instantly so left to go ease myself.

Bowels of life!! The kinda bowels every man ought to have, hahaha.

Exmilitant:
6months of dating and you didn't know she was a fraud until she asked you for gifts for her birthday? OP, you need 15 matchet drillings.

ARE YOU JASON?

Bellaqueee:
These are the problems we have with men that don't know what dey want

1 leech spotted
[in Iron man's voice]

that's ok brother. if you can AFFORD any gift for her as a friend please go ahead and give, with a good call or text birthday expression on her birthday, that's a better way of showing love and care. But if you sincerely cannot afford anything, then call her on her birthday to express your love and wishes for her then explain to her that you are not financially buoyant now but since you guys are together now she can always have the best of gift any other time. IF HER REACTION IS VERY NEGATIVE OR SHE REVERSES HER "YES" PLEASE MOVE ON

Hed0nist:



E ji m Chukwu yoo gi, abeg, dan Allah, GHOST this 419er. But try to collect your 10% first.

What exactly is the lady's offence ..let's be realistic here

I am sure she does not know all your relatives. Tell her you are related to Bolt, Usain Bolt.

Send her ONLY a birthday text and avoid those restaurants and shopping frenzy; then watch how it pans out. You can just cook for her whenever she comes around or you visit her place - just to make her feel special.

NEWBIN:
We have known each other for about six months now. I proposed to her in March 2020 and kept telling me she was thinking about it.

Just yesterday, she said yes to my proposal and I was so excited. When I met her yesterday evening, she told me Friday (June 26) is her birthday and that, she expects a lot of gifts and mobile money from me. My bowels became full instantly so left to go ease myself.

I have lost interest. Show me a way to outsmart this fraudster of a lady, thanks.

You are on your own.

Lexusgs430:



Send her a WhatsApp message......

haba naw oga Lexus, not even normal 4naira message. Ko da o.

But she purposely waited till when her birthday is near to accept the proposal.
Op, you are a birthday boyfriend.
Your usefulness expires after the birthday

She use months to consider the job(YOU) fit pay for future, now she say yes to cash out, starting with the birthday gifts and mobile money.
Nor give her 1kobo for birthday.
Tell her happy birthday and buy her any softdrink.
Her reactions in subsequent weeks nai go tell you better.....nor forget to thank me.

The aspect where your bowel got full instantly got me cracking up so badly.

You know that still happens to me, like when unpleasant news hits me, immediately I want to crap.

Anyway nothing spoil yet, just wait till its June 26

NEWBIN:
We have known each other for about six months now. I proposed to her in March 2020 and kept telling me she was thinking about it.

Just yesterday, she said yes to my proposal and I was so excited. When I met her yesterday evening, she told me Friday (June 26) is her birthday and that, she expects a lot of gifts and mobile money from me. My bowels became full instantly so left to go ease myself.

I have lost interest. Show me a way to outsmart this fraudster of a lady, thanks.

The only reason she said yes is to chop your money for birthday celebration and use am show off for social media, because her main guys don disappoint am. later she go ghost you go back to dey chase the guys wey dey use am do chop and clean mouth . Don't even tell her HBD, just ignore the thief totally. If she call, no pick. If she WhatsApp you make sure you open it but don't reply, so she can see that you saw her message. Na she go carry her own problem for head go by herself. Useless thieves that see relationship as a ATM cash point . Make sure you don't message her any useless happy birthday message. If she sees you later and confronts you, tell her that you forget because you have important things to do. She go cry for one week, say this guy she wan scam na master oh

everybody you meet in life will either make u or break u, if I were u,
1. I would not wait 4months for a proposal to be accepted, even the Senate house signs budget in less than 1week
2. now that the birthday is at the corner, u have to buy a gift, abi u were not planning to spoil her small?
3.limit the way u show her so much love, if she too changes, baba, it is the ultimate green light to start moving to another destination... then probably make friend zone her

some kind things, if u no stop them early, you no fit stop am later

BIRTHDAY GENERATION.

Is now annoying to me. Very annoying.
A girl will be busy announcing her birthday for more than a month before the D-Day.

Bros. The girl is simply not resourceful. She can't eat her cake and have. Her birthday will be her cake. If u have money (I mean very bouyant) that the gifts won't affect u, I advice u buy them for her.
After the party, u announce to her that u don't need the marriage again.

She may have seen u as a nigga she has duped but the lesson she will learn from denouncing ur proposal after satisfying her material things will shape her life.
Good luck and don't think she loves u for one day. In fact I will include u in prayer to get out of her web.

It will end in premium tears

Bellaqueee:
These are the problems we have with men that don't know what dey want

Sharaaap

NEWBIN:
We have known each other for about six months now. I proposed to her in March 2020 and kept telling me she was thinking about it.

Just yesterday, she said yes to my proposal and I was so excited. When I met her yesterday evening, she told me Friday (June 26) is her birthday and that, she expects a lot of gifts and mobile money from me. My bowels became full instantly so left to go ease myself.

I have lost interest. Show me a way to outsmart this fraudster of a lady, thanks.

use covid 19 lie............

My ex demanded for financial upkeep after ''proposal'' I endede the relationship through WhatsApp chat.
Her father invited me to know what happened n possibly settle the issues but I turned down his invitation. Na so I moved on com marry my good wife

southniyikaye:
haba naw oga Lexus, not even normal 4naira message. Ko da o.

But she purposely waited till when her birthday is near to accept the proposal.
Op, you are a birthday boyfriend.
Your usefulness expires after the birthday

Nah hin buy market nah.........

StrongandMighty:
Op if you give her anything wey pass "happy birthday" text God go punish you

Guy your body dey hot ooh kikikikikikiki.