Geesaintagape:
My ex demanded for financial upkeep after ''proposal'' I endede the relationship through WhatsApp chat.
Her father invited me to know what happened n possibly settle the issues but I turned down his invitation. Na so I moved on com marry my good wife

FeliciaOja:
If She Took Her 4 months to accept your Proposal
Then it means, She had other men who she was interested in and messing with
After experimenting with other suitors for 4 months, she probably got dumped and now she is looking for you to wife her up

Op, dump her and never look back

Skmoda:

just shu.t up already, your talk dey smell.

Soulmender:
Send her nice text messages and call her to wish her happy birthday, don't buy her anything yet to see her real intentions and reaction.... If she behaves positive , you can get her gift a week later.

Bellaqueee:
These are the problems we have with men that don't know what dey want

NEWBIN:
We have known each other for about six months now. I proposed to her in March 2020 and kept telling me she was thinking about it.

Just yesterday, she said yes to my proposal and I was so excited. When I met her yesterday evening, she told me Friday (June 26) is her birthday and that, she expects a lot of gifts and mobile money from me. My bowels became full instantly so left to go ease myself.

I have lost interest. Show me a way to outsmart this fraudster of a lady, thanks.

NEWBIN:
We have known each other for about six months now. I proposed to her in March 2020 and kept telling me she was thinking about it.

Just yesterday, she said yes to my proposal and I was so excited. When I met her yesterday evening, she told me Friday (June 26) is her birthday and that, she expects a lot of gifts and mobile money from me. My bowels became full instantly so left to go ease myself.

I have lost interest. Show me a way to outsmart this fraudster of a lady, thanks.

SarkinYarki:
Spell after me. G H O S T

NEWBIN:
We have known each other for about six months now. I proposed to her in March 2020 and kept telling me she was thinking about it.

Just yesterday, she said yes to my proposal and I was so excited. When I met her yesterday evening, she told me Friday (June 26) is her birthday and that, she expects a lot of gifts and mobile money from me. My bowels became full instantly so left to go ease myself.

I have lost interest. Show me a way to outsmart this fraudster of a lady, thanks.

Bellaqueee:
These are the problems we have with men that don't know what dey want

vickydevoka:
I jst love 9ja gals I swear. Oga jst do Small. My own be say I jst tell her say I go wan marry her, de next day she beg me 80k Make I borrow her.,v jst give her 40k. Till today de money don go

alexistaiwo:
Real men do not spend their productive time thinking of how to unpropose to leeches, they simply "ghost" them and move on to face more productive things in their life eg making money, making more money, making more than enough money etc.

NEWBIN:
We have known each other for about six months now. I proposed to her in March 2020 and kept telling me she was thinking about it.

Just yesterday, she said yes to my proposal and I was so excited. When I met her yesterday evening, she told me Friday (June 26) is her birthday and that, she expects a lot of gifts and mobile money from me. My bowels became full instantly so left to go ease myself.

I have lost interest. Show me a way to outsmart this fraudster of a lady, thanks.

Bellaqueee:
These are the problems we have with men that don't know what dey want

StrongandMighty:
Op if you give her anything wey pass "happy birthday" text God go punish you

K4daniel:
I still don't gerrit what is wrong with this generation. You've chosen to date a girl and you don't discuss and talk about all this issue, and you just wish to throw her away And move on. If you get another lady same issue, you will move again, until you see the one that does not express herself and killing. I will only support you moving on if this is a normal occurrence from her.Birthday is a special day baba.

So because she asked you for gift, That means you are not serious in the first place. Off course, a lady you love and that loves you will want something special from her man. Or she may joke about it if you don't have but that will not stop the flow.Na understanding matter..if it's a constant occurrence then you as a man draw the line.

It may be understandable if you don't have money but all these need to be put in explanation and discussion. You both supposed to have passed this level. Please don't leave that girl..discuss your level with her and educate her of your presence circumstance hoping for a bright future together. No perfect relationship start big..most great couples today start small let her know, don't just break a heart. Good luck.

Baffupdrizz:



STOP PROPOSING TO WOMEN.

NEWBIN:
We have known each other for about six months now. I proposed to her in March 2020 and kept telling me she was thinking about it.

Just yesterday, she said yes to my proposal and I was so excited. When I met her yesterday evening, she told me Friday (June 26) is her birthday and that, she expects a lot of gifts and mobile money from me. My bowels became full instantly so left to go ease myself.

I have lost interest. Show me a way to outsmart this fraudster of a lady, thanks.

Queenserah26:
This matter weak me, let the gurus talk

ityP:



Lol. So he shouldn't waste credit on SMS?

NEWBIN:
We have known each other for about six months now. I proposed to her in March 2020 and kept telling me she was thinking about it.

Just yesterday, she said yes to my proposal and I was so excited. When I met her yesterday evening, she told me Friday (June 26) is her birthday and that, she expects a lot of gifts and mobile money from me. My bowels became full instantly so left to go ease myself.

I have lost interest. Show me a way to outsmart this fraudster of a lady, thanks.

Kingpele:
Ok, it is important to be matured in your mind b4 u enter marriage life, so if u now marry her and she had to go through surgery to put to bed, considering the funds involved, u will just run off or disown your family... If u are not ready to foot the bill, why propose?... U better relax first and hustle, so that u won't bring children talk to this forum again...

espn:
Dont give her shishi except for HBD message. She will do auto reversal of her yes...

gambia:
Its none of our business, go and sort out yourself.