NEWBIN:
We have known each other for about six months now. I proposed to her in March 2020 and kept telling me she was thinking about it.

Just yesterday, she said yes to my proposal and I was so excited. When I met her yesterday evening, she told me Friday (June 26) is her birthday and that, she expects a lot of gifts and mobile money from me. My bowels became full instantly so left to go ease myself.

I have lost interest. Show me a way to outsmart this fraudster of a lady, thanks.

Lol...you guys are funny. Just don't give her anything for her birthday and she will call off the engagement.

Tell her you have lost interest. Be bold she will learn her lesson for future suitors... But tell her so she knows

NEWBIN:
We have known each other for about six months now. I proposed to her in March 2020 and kept telling me she was thinking about it.

Just yesterday, she said yes to my proposal and I was so excited. When I met her yesterday evening, she told me Friday (June 26) is her birthday and that, she expects a lot of gifts and mobile money from me. My bowels became full instantly so left to go ease myself.

I have lost interest. Show me a way to outsmart this fraudster of a lady, thanks.

Tomide007:

Lol, i know ur type...U obvs can't communicate intelligently that's why ure resulting to verbal abuse.

you cannot 'read and comprehend' you don't seem intelligent that's why i go red on you, if you don't know how to comment on a post, why not keep it to yourself. If the dude is your brother, will you give him this your 'dirty' advise..kid don't mention me after this.

Don't buy anything for her bro !

God have mercy

NEWBIN:
We have known each other for about six months now. I proposed to her in March 2020 and kept telling me she was thinking about it.

Just yesterday, she said yes to my proposal and I was so excited. When I met her yesterday evening, she told me Friday (June 26) is her birthday and that, she expects a lot of gifts and mobile money from me. My bowels became full instantly so left to go ease myself.

I have lost interest. Show me a way to outsmart this fraudster of a lady, thanks.

Do not lose interest yet, bro. It's also possible that she wants to see your reaction.
My advice: Try to also see her reaction by just calling her on her day, sending sweet messages, and praying for her. Do not give any material gift.
Do this,then wait to see her reaction.
What you do next depends on her reaction. Pray to God for a good wife,bro.

Richieniit:
If you truly love her pls do the little you can and make her happy on her birthday. Try and play a card called "PATIENCE" and her attitude thereafter.

She's ur girl right? You have to appreciate her on her day only with the little you can.

Mature men aren't too quick with decisions.

You are not serious with this your stupid advise

Why do young men keep making the same mistakes that they've seen other men make over and over

Marriage proposal is not something to be taken lightly. It's not a decision you take simply because "the girl is fine" or because you're sexually attracted to her, or because she likes you. It is a conclusion that you reach as a man, aside from physical attraction, after keen/thorough observations of her personality, temperament, life style, family background, friends/association, & high maintenance capacity; e.g. you need to experience at least one birthday celebration of hers (or a Valentine period together) to give you a practical experience of how high maintenance she may or may not be before you ever propose.

Never let physical attraction blind you to the more important aspects of the person you're looking to marry because those other things are the things that can either make a marriage work or fail: they determine whether you're going into a marriage or into hell

Street wisdom &common sense should tell you at this point that her "yes" to your proposal is most likely that she's taking advantage of your proposal to get someone to lavish her with gifts on her birthday, and girls like her are not worried about the sincerity of their "yes" as long as it gets you to buy them all they desire. For someone who waited that long before giving you an answer, & it had to coincide with her birthday in a few days, don't be surprised if in a few weeks after her birthday has come and gone, and you've spent heaven and earth on her birthday, she suddenly informs you that she doesn't want to marry you anymore: after all, there's no law that says she must just because she said yes to a proposal. Even if that's not the case, you'd be stuck with a wife who is high maintenance and a constant leak on your purse

Whatever you decide to do, I can only wish you the best of luck, cos bro, you'll be needing plenty of it.

Odoctor:


Listen bro, don't dump her. Ladies atimes reason that way. She may love you truly but imature in going about her material needs.

Just test her faithfulness and love by sending this msg:

"happy birthday sweetheart. May God grant you long life and prosperity, good health and more knowledge of him. How I wish I can get you Te best of gifts today, but financial constraints cannot allow me. But surely, the future is bright. Pls manage this 400 airtime"

Then u send her the 400 airtime. Her words, body language, attitude and reactions onwards will tell alot about her marriageability.

Pls quote me, and give me feedback.

Thank you.

love or no love, her mentality is a total turn off!

NEWBIN:
We have known each other for about six months now. I proposed to her in March 2020 and kept telling me she was thinking about it.

Just yesterday, she said yes to my proposal and I was so excited. When I met her yesterday evening, she told me Friday (June 26) is her birthday and that, she expects a lot of gifts and mobile money from me. My bowels became full instantly so left to go ease myself.

I have lost interest. Show me a way to outsmart this fraudster of a lady, thanks.

She is out to show her true color to you. Don't give her anything on her b'day except text message then seat back and allow the scammer show her real self. She is probably expecting gifts from about 5 guys.

Op abeg update us on what will happen after Friday.

Soulmender:
Send her nice text messages and call her to wish her happy birthday, don't buy her anything yet to see her real intentions and reaction.... If she behaves positive , you can get her gift a week later.

did you know weda the girl is also on dis trend?

Tell her the plain truth and move on, Live is too short to waste with low esteem people

NEWBIN:
We have known each other for about six months now. I proposed to her in March 2020 and kept telling me she was thinking about it.

Just yesterday, she said yes to my proposal and I was so excited. When I met her yesterday evening, she told me Friday (June 26) is her birthday and that, she expects a lot of gifts and mobile money from me. My bowels became full instantly so left to go ease myself.

I have lost interest. Show me a way to outsmart this fraudster of a lady, thanks.

tell her simple you change your mind

she can go no with her life

Ogun idile at work

This is what happens when you don’t get to know someone well enough to propose..
Just six months and you’ve already proposed, what’s the rush

Op, that lady isn’t your wife! She seems like one of the entitled Nigerian youths.

Hed0nist:


So according to you, depending on how the scammer presents it, it is alright to fall for a scam. Aye bruh.

Lol..this is funny..so hasn't your babe ever demanded from you in any way? The way it is presented here isn't bad enough to be honest bru
I hate demanding gals too but on a birthday isn't bad enough

NEWBIN:
We have known each other for about six months now. I proposed to her in March 2020 and kept telling me she was thinking about it.

Just yesterday, she said yes to my proposal and I was so excited. When I met her yesterday evening, she told me Friday (June 26) is her birthday and that, she expects a lot of gifts and mobile money from me. My bowels became full instantly so left to go ease myself.

I have lost interest. Show me a way to outsmart this fraudster of a lady, thanks.

Tell her you are saving up for the wedding and you can't afford to do heavy spending at the moment then request to take her out on her birthday then hear what she will say, what ever she says will determine the future of that relationship.

Tomide007:
She might not be a fraudster, some ladies actually see gifts as a sign of love....but it's obvious u don't love her, soo just break up for her sake and ur mental health. This is one advice I can't give my brother.

U already did

StrongandMighty:
Op if you give her anything wey pass "happy birthday" text God go punish you

Smile. .....
Why na.? Una dey vex ooo


Jah gat moi back

Skmoda:

you cannot 'read and comprehend' you don't seem intelligent that's why i go red on you, if you don't know how to comment on a post, why not keep it to yourself. If the dude is your brother, will you give him this your 'dirty' advise..kid don't mention me after this.

Lol....."why I go red on you"

Oga, you must be a stingy person.. Girl you want to.marry asked for ordinary birthday gifts and you lose interest..

NEWBIN:
We have known each other for about six months now. I proposed to her in March 2020 and kept telling me she was thinking about it.

Just yesterday, she said yes to my proposal and I was so excited. When I met her yesterday evening, she told me Friday (June 26) is her birthday and that, she expects a lot of gifts and mobile money from me. My bowels became full instantly so left to go ease myself.

I have lost interest. Show me a way to outsmart this fraudster of a lady, thanks.

6 months? Guy u Bleep up shaa!

Simply send her a heartwarming text message. Dont fall 4 the trick.

@OP, Think well b4 u become the new ATM ooo. Av u never met her b4 yesterday? Kinda confuse.

Wedda marriage or rich man or not a lady who is serous to marry won't ask of any gift from u, she said yes because its her b day,

StrongandMighty:
Op if you give her anything wey pass "happy birthday" text God go punish you

Na fight? Why are cursing the OP in advance?

Don't give her shi shi and see if she will still marry u, so make she no go leave u in future

NEWBIN:
We have known each other for about six months now. I proposed to her in March 2020 and kept telling me she was thinking about it.

Just yesterday, she said yes to my proposal and I was so excited. When I met her yesterday evening, she told me Friday (June 26) is her birthday and that, she expects a lot of gifts and mobile money from me. My bowels became full instantly so left to go ease myself.

I have lost interest. Show me a way to outsmart this fraudster of a lady, thanks.

Bros you're about to invest your money in a hole bank ooo

How do you even mean sef?

Bellaqueee:
These are the problems we have with men that don't know what dey want

I am a lady, but it's very wrong telling a man just because you just accepted his marriage proposal after dilly dallying what you expect from him on your birthday, gifts should be from the heart