haweezii:
With the level of promiscuity, waywardness, high body count, peace of mind sef no dey and so on what's the usefulness of marriage then.
I'll rather have a baby mama and live my life stress free. marriage na scam

Gbam.

ImaIma1:


I think it's plain common sense. Most people here are busy shifting blame and citing a million and one reasons why marriage is a scam.

But the truth is that none of them is ready to take responsibility. They don't want to adjust their ways to accommodate their spouses. They still want to carry their excess baggage around and expect the spouse to live with it.

Marriage takes work from both parties.

Marriage takes work
But how many are even willing to do the work?
People are tired, giving up
No strength to do it
it's not even easy again
Plenty wahala everywhere.

You feel you want to do the work
But your partner is not willing

Like Timaya said I no go kill myself

profilemessages:
To me its seems people don't want to end up in divorce or on any other problems and issues related with marriage any longer.
All that is usually seen are single guys still remaining single for along time.

Or am I dreaming or something

What do you think?

I think the marital status of others doesn't;

Concern you,
Determine if they are responsible or not,
Determine the progress of Nigeria,
Help the economy,
Make them good or evil,
Make such a big deal.

djon78:



Marriage takes work
But how many are even willing to do the work?
People are tired, giving up
No strength to do it
it's not even easy again
Plenty wahala everywhere.

You feel you want to do the work
But your partner is not willing

Like Timaya said I no go kill myself

People get tired when one person is being irresponsible and not working on the marriage.

More people should realize that it's not a must to get married especially if they are not selfless enough to put their own wants behind.

Karlifate:

What's your Rising Sign/Ascendant?

Honestly, I haven't checked that oh. Do you know how i can check it to know?

I've never bothered about it but I'd like to know and also I'd like to know the importance of it.

Edit: I just googled it and there is a discription on how to know my rising sign and ascendant. But of what use is it? Do you know?

michaelpop50:


Honestly, I haven't checked that oh. Do you know how i can check it to know?

I've never bothered about it but I'd like to know and also I'd like to know the importance of it.

Edit: I just googled it and there is a discription on how to know my rising sign and ascendant. But of what use is it? Do you know?

The Rising Sign or Ascendant is how people percieve you, your approach to life or the 'face' you show to the world.
To calculate your Ascendant, try horoscopes(dot)astroseek(dot)com or cafeastrology.
The 3 most important aspects of the NATAL CHART for an individual is the Sun Sign, the Moon Sign & the Ascendant or Rising Sign.

Economic, spiritual and other reasons!

ImaIma1:


People get tired when one person is being irresponsible and not working on the marriage.

More people should realize that it's not a must to get married especially if they are not selfless enough to put their own wants behind.

Selfless to put there own wants behind?

In this our selfish and self centered generation. Anyone with that outlook is taken as a mugu/simp/weakling.
The person will end up eating all manner of shi.ts

Youngpo413:
ladies are the reason why most men are single,no wife materials anymore...men are ALWAYS sincere and straight forward unlike ladies of nowadays.

Not true. There are still a few faithful wife materials that exist and I seem to be one of them. That I can say for facts.
And it goes both ways as there are still a few faithful men out there who are husband materials.
God will help us.

cooltola:


What if i told u that it is true. If you mean opposite in personality attract. Yes it is true an introvert can marry an extrovert that is what people mean by opposite attract . A serious woman can marry a go happy husband or vice versa. Opposite in moral compass or work ethnic do not attract and if they do, it end up in divorce or death. A serial cheater marrying a faithful wife or vice versa. A hardworking man marrying a lazy wife or vice versa It works if the other party tolerate it until the other party cannot take it no more. In most cases, it hardly last or end in divorce or seperation in the future. I am sure you heard about tales how a woman pour hot water on her cheating husband or stab an abusive husband or how a man leaves a cheating spouse. Again marriage is sweet if you marry the right person.

Like I said, this is only in theory. Look around you, some of the randiest, philandering men have some of the most beyond-reproach wives. Besides, opposites mean opposites, wether character, personality, or something else

tydi:


You are truly a king. Don't marry anybody that you know you know someone who has bleeped her, I'm not saying we haven't been used and dumped by another person but its not advisable.

In my case, my distant cousin has slept with my ex wife which I saw the evidence but was blinded for what I had for her then and proceeded, but anytime I want to really push forward and show her that I loved her for real that picture keeps playing in my head and everything i had to prove my love for her will just go flat like a flaccid d!ck. But she keeps thinking I hated her but I don't, but we men does a lot of thinking and the pic must always come to our mind. So its not encouraging at all.

Modified ;

The best union is interracial union. Marry a white lady and enjoy a true genuine love. Haven't you asked your self why the whites marry at a very young age cus they love for real.

Here where I base you will see a young white lady of prolly 19 to 21 already married putting on her wedding ring and with her very young husband too and prolly a kid of theirs. Cus their love is genuine and when dey fall out of love which is very rare at atmost 0.001per dey divorce than pretending for their selfish gain.

Oga I don't know who reveal everything you write here to you o especially your first and last paragraph because everything you said is absolutely right. Maybe you talking out of experience.

djon78:



Selfless to put there own wants behind?

In this our selfish and self centered generation. Anyone with that outlook is taken as a mugu/simp/weakling.
The person will end up eating all manner of shi.ts

Well...that has helped me for the past 5yrs. It's not all about me. If there's one meat left in the pot, I will make sure he has it...lol

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khalids:


Story...it will not benefit him...she will just turn him to an houseboy.....that what women like to do

That marriage will be torture ....he will be no more than a sperm donor

Story... I don’t know about u, but as for me, I won’t mind marrying Linda and becoming father to her son. Let me see her turn me into a houseboy

Eulalia:


There are still a few faithful wife materials that exist and I seem to be one of them. That I can say for facts.

.

are you sure you are a wife materia?

emmaodet:


But will she?

That’s not the question. The question is wether a man can possibly benefit by marrying

Alfather:
are you sure you are a wife materia?

Alfather Alfather... You still searching? I know you from way back ( on here) but never mind though.

Well, by the grace of God I am. Why did you ask though?

darediamond:

And does He says he is after a Rich woman like Linda??

Your Prasitic/Entitlement Mentality no be here!!I

Nooonsense!

What’s wrong with being after a rich woman like Linda?? See how u r the one with a stewpid mentality?

Karlifate:

The Rising Sign or Ascendant is how people percieve you, your approach to life or the 'face' you show to the world.
To calculate your Ascendant, try horoscopes(dot)astroseek(dot)com or cafeastrology.
The 3 most important aspects of the NATAL CHART for an individual is the Sun Sign, the Moon Sign & the Ascendant or Rising Sign.

Okay i will do it now nd see what it says about mine

Eulalia:


Alfather Alfather... You still searching? I know you from way back ( on here) but never mind though.

Well, by the grace of God I am. Why did you ask though?

you might change my orientation.
so, what make's you a wife material?

Antichristus:


Hello, who was your English teacher in school? Just asking.

see killing

michaelpop50:


All my married exes, na only 1 nai never fit sleep with another man because the guy when she marry, the guy use juju tie her during the marriage ceremony and they made it obvious to her.

Pastors, Politicians, top musicians, business men, Kings and Oba, all of them when you dey see when get successful marriage, there is a spiritual undertone to it oh, who nor go nor know.

You fit marry oh, but you must marry her physically and spiritually. By spiritually i hope you know what i mean.

sure thing, that's just the fact.

ImaIma1:


Well...that has helped me for the past 5yrs. It's not all about me. If there's one meat left in the pot, I will make sure he has it...lol

Doormat spotted. They say it is hard to truly love a doormat. How true? This world sef - be a doormat, problem, don’t be a doormat, still problem!

CanadaOrBust:


Like I said, this is only in theory. Look around you, some of the randiest, philandering men have some of the most beyond-reproach wives. Besides, opposites mean opposites, wether character or something else

Then you live in a fantasy world. It is either the randiest or philandering men have a lot of money so their wives can tolerate such behavior. Try that as a average person , see how far in 5 or 10 years or 20 years in marriage.

michaelpop50:


Honestly, I haven't checked that oh. Do you know how i can check it to know?

I've never bothered about it but I'd like to know and also I'd like to know the importance of it.

Edit: I just googled it and there is a discription on how to know my rising sign and ascendant. But of what use is it? Do you know?

Don’t listen to them. This is hogwash. Pseudoscience of highest order

michaelpop50:

Okay i will do it now nd see what it says about mine

OK.

CanadaOrBust:


Doormat spotted. They say it is hard to truly love a doormat. How true? This world sef - be a doormat, problem, don’t be a doormat, still problem!

Nope. It's what I would also do for my family too. Maybe it is as a result of being the last child.

Also, it's because he makes as much sacrifices as I. I can't condone a selfish person.

cooltola:

Then you live in a fantasy world. It is either the randiest or philandering men have a lot of money so their wives can tolerate such behavior. Try that as a average person , see how far in 10 years or 20 years in marriage.

U can’t give real life examples - because it is only in theory. How many of these people with 4 wives or all sorts of girlfriends do u hear of their wives sleeping around? It is when they are NOT opposites - when BOTH are sleeping around that the marriage crashes

ImaIma1:


Nope. It's what I would also do for my family too. Maybe it is as a result of being the last child.

Also, it's because he makes as much sacrifices as I. I can't condone a selfish person.

Hard to picture a last child being self-sacrificing. They’d THINK they are self-sacrificing, when all they are doing is what others do everyday

Your matter and our matter no be the same, so just rush marry no wahala

CanadaOrBust:


Hard to picture a last child being self-sacrificing. They’d THINK they are self-sacrificing, when all they are doing is what others do everyday

That's the picture you have in your head and that's actually your problem. You cannot claim to know how every last child in every family should be. So, do well to keep your conclusions to yourself.

Eulalia:


Not true. There are still a few faithful wife materials that exist and I seem to be one of them. That I can say for facts.
And it goes both ways as there are still a few faithful men out there who are husband materials even in the religious settings.

God will help us.

I was expecting an insult...you must be new here...keep it up.