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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by cooltola(m): 3:26pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
CanadaOrBust: Only exception the man is a rich Muslim, or his culture is polygamous or he is rich or famous like 2face , Davido or wizkid I have a lot e.g donald trump, tiger wood all cheated on their wives and their wives left them in the long run, both rich men. Mko abiola who had a lot of money and was a Muslim so he could afford have more 1 wife . Make an average person try that and see how far the marriage last. I lived long enough to see how many marriages crashed due to cheating husband.The wife go siddon look for awhile even years then one day you just hear that they break up or the husband was killed or the wife left the husband. Or the man discovered one of his children was from another man. |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Nobody: 3:38pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
CanadaOrBust: I believe in it oh abeg. I'm an astrologist myself |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by CanadaOrBust: 3:50pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
michaelpop50: If u knew enough about astrology you’d know it is virtually useless as a predictor - about the same as flipping a coin. Google James Randi experiment on it 1 Like |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by CanadaOrBust: 3:54pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
ImaIma1: There are always exceptions. But think about it - how and where would a last child learn self-sacrifice?? |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by CanadaOrBust: 3:59pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
cooltola: There are 200 countries in the world. U gave TWO examples from the same country, and none from your country! How about all the the thousands of serial philanderers from JFK to Bill Clinton from same country?? |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Youngzedd(m): 4:07pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
CanadaOrBust: How many Linda Ikeji do we have in Nigeria? We have plenty of the below. Q: Who are we? Ans: Nigerian Girls! Q: Who are we? Ans: Nigerian Girls!! Q: What's our slogan? Ans: Buy for me naa Hahahahaha � � � � 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by cooltola(m): 4:26pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
CanadaOrBust: I gave 2face , and wizkid , Davido. You think that if Wizkid or Davido were not popular or rich if the women will stay around. Even cheaters know that their marriage do not last long. That is why some folks have baby mama |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by CanadaOrBust: 4:26pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Youngzedd: Not true. Most Nigerian girls are not like that. Besides, his question is how can marrying possibly benefit any man |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by ImaIma1(f): 4:26pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
CanadaOrBust: Not exceptions. But many selfless ones depending on the kind of family you grew up in. Families differ. While some last children are pampered and treated with utmost care, some are the official househelps of the house. |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Jaspaman: 4:29pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
bigpicture001: Broda man you made it more scary... But you spoke facts. |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by emmaodet: 4:32pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
CanadaOrBust: Of course. On rear occasions when he marry up |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Lily1993: 4:35pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
The replies on this thread is hilarious. |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by CanadaOrBust: 4:35pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
cooltola: Let’s agree on this: a marriage is more likely to last if only one partner is sleeping around, than if both partners are sleeping around. Look around u - even poor men stay married to same woman for life, despite being womanizers |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by madridsta007(m): 4:47pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
profilemessages: Many reasons, the primary one being the economy situation of the country. Research has shown that when the economy improves, weddings pick up. When the economy crashes, weddings falls. This is very simple, I think. |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Nobody: 4:51pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
CanadaOrBust: Abeg leave me alone.
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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by djon78(m): 5:13pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
ImaIma1: Love that Whatever you give same thing you get back in multiple times!! At least you want your union to work It's a plus and positive reinforcement for your union Keep it up!!!! |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Ugmama(m): 5:13pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Xeeex: HIV is free too |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by cooltola(m): 5:17pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
CanadaOrBust: I am telling you it does not last and even though it lasts. It always end in divorce ,separation or death or a child with another man. If one is going to cheat, then one should not get married. |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by CanadaOrBust: 5:19pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
ImaIma1: Like I said, exceptions. The vast majority of lastborns are babied without ever having to baby any sibling |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Ajsmart(m): 5:22pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
So true. Nigerians have copied western marriage system to their own detriments which has now led to trust issues between both sexes. Copy copy kill my culture and ways of life, smh GODPUNISHUNA: 1 Like |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by CanadaOrBust: 5:25pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
cooltola: U r talking in theory. Look around you, marriages in Nigeria rarely end because the man has a concubine. It ends if the wife is also doing same |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by ImaIma1(f): 5:44pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
CanadaOrBust: What you say is not the gospel. It's just your opinion based on your own exposure. The last child in your family doesn't mirror last children in all families. As soon as I could reach the sink, I started doing dishes and I did most of the cooking when I was old enough. And it's not peculiar to me. I know last children like me. So all that "last children are spoilt and pampered" has always been a fallacy to me. |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by okoroemeka(m): 6:28pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
CanadaOrBust:yes,many marriages last even when the woman or man is cheating,the problems starts when the man or woman will ignore his responsibility and foolishly fall in love with their cheating partner,I have seen many examples of husband's that love their wife and family but has a sexmate for casual or one night stand,such men or women don't have permanent cheating partner but can cheat occasionally when the opportunity to presents itself,for many individuals sex is just a reflex action and any small gesture or action can turn them on,I have seen situations when perfect strangers spontaneously have sex without even knowing their names ,many perfectly normal people don't even attach any big deal to sex,to them it is as natural as going to the toilet or urinating. 1 Like |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by cooltola(m): 6:29pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
CanadaOrBust: a perfect example of my theory, keeping playing the man is a player game and see what will happens at the end. a concubine does not count because Madam self know say the marriage is polygamous from the beginning and money dey . But for a one man and one woman type of marriage Madam go vex one day then eye go opens and people go wonder ,just saw this tread today https://www.nairaland.com/5945952/osun-wife-damages-husbands-genitals#90987957 1 Like |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Nobody: 6:35pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Blackmoran:Are we monogamous by tradition? |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by BackToLife: 6:38pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Satanic programming has happened here for long. Everyone shall surely reap... 1 Like |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by kumulus(m): 7:07pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Fidelismaria: It hasn't outlived it's usefulness imo, I'd say just like the many other institutions...it has been grossly abused, hence the understanding of it's sacred purpose/use lost. Consider this scenario; Marriage = Corporation/Investment/Company/Institution Couples = Partners/Investors/Associates Child/Children = Raw material/Gift/Talent/Human resources Family/Friends/Neighbours = Support structures Society/Globe/Universe = Marketplace With the above structure, we can see clearly that 'the marriage' is an institution divinely established to "discover/nurture/refine" these talents/gifts (kids) so they can become established and be a blessing (value) to the world around them and beyond. Family is an essential unit in the construct of any social environment (society) and to achieve results in the above enterprise, it's expected that two become one (Bible has it that except two be agreed, they can't walk together). Instance1: It's breakfast and you and I have a loaf and an egg only, I want scrambled eggs but you earnestly desire to have your bread with boiled egg. How do we settle this matter and don't end up eating breakfast at noonday? Instance2: Mr F and Sir Q have a production company, if their ethics and work attitude don't align....how can they meet their goals and objectives without missing their targets while still producing quality products? Bet your response is for all to come to be in AGREEMENT. Marriage is a great enterprise, both parties involved have to realize that they are both entrepreneurs (Partners) who should strive to see that the REASON why they are partnering up (marriage) is achieved. -Lloyd 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Blackmoran(m): 7:14pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
francisgodstime:no especially guys, but girls then majority of them are virtuous, meaning they are loyal... But now we are competing.. |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by mubrix(m): 7:40pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
daewoorazer:wish I could like this reply more than once 2 Likes |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by CanadaOrBust: 7:43pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
cooltola: U obviously don’t know the mordern definition of concubine - it means same as girlfriend, mistress. I’m glad u said THEORY. Because in practice, in our country, marriages rarely crash because the man has an outside fling. Of course there are exceptions, and it’s not ideal, but it is the truth |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Nobody: 7:52pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Youngpo413: Lol... Not exactly but Ive leant to be civil overtime cos its only a mad fellow that goes about insulting people you dont know for airing their own views. Not worth it. 1 Like |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Nobody: 7:58pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Alfather: I won't tell cos you are not the right one. When HE comes, he'll be in a better position to assert that. . 1 Like |
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