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Monogamy Is A Scam by bodybuilder: 4:51pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
The thought of a man fucking one pusssy his whole life or a woman being stuck with one diick is unrealistic. I really don't think it's in our nature to monogamous. Let us stop deceiving ourselves. Monogamy is based on love. But in reality love doesn't exist. Romantic relationships in reality are not based on love but on batter of utility. Utilities such as financial provision, sexual prowess, looks, emotional availability etc. All pusssies ain't the same. All dick ain't the same too. Some feel better than the others Let us burry the thought of expecting our partners to be loyal Bury the thought of expecting your husband resisting that hot sexy young girl, who can provide better sexually utility than you. Also bury the expectation of your wife resisting that handsome fit man that can fvck better than you. We all have fantasies In a nutshell, monogamy is not natural. Stop forcing humans to go against their natural desires and needs. You're fool if you believe in one man one woman relationships. Don't get all crazy when you find out your girlfriend/wife/boyfriend/husband cheating. Stop murdering your partner for cheating. 1 Like |
Re: Monogamy Is A Scam by bodybuilder: 4:56pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
There is no love, only human needs meant to be satisfied. |
Re: Monogamy Is A Scam by Stephenomozzy(m): 4:58pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
When people with trust issues and problem with commitment turn to philosophers, this is the shiit you get. Monogamy thrives on Self-discipline. Forget natural orders (which I'm sure you're making reference to animals) 5 Likes |
Re: Monogamy Is A Scam by bodybuilder: 5:18pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Stephenomozzy: But it's not compulsory 2 Likes |
Re: Monogamy Is A Scam by Stephenomozzy(m): 5:39pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Of course it is not compulsory! Whether or not any aspect of human endeavors is compulsory or not can be contested But whether or not it is acceptable depends wholly on the society where one is. Polygamy is seen as an aberration in the western societies, but it is actually not a big deal here in Africa and some other regions. Albeit, polygamy has never been about having a variety of sex partners. 1 Like |
Re: Monogamy Is A Scam by Ladylite: 5:42pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
bodybuilder: Psychologically you forget that Jealousy is also a human nature. If we are not animals then we can not condescend to the animalistic hormonal demands that lacks intelligence and control. I would rather that you build your mind than your body. If monogamy was a scam then Sons will fvcc mothers, daughters would be intimacy gadgets in the home, strangers will be entertained by sex and procreation will loose its meaning. Just because you don't have self control does not mean you should claim monogamy is scam just to feel comfortable with your lack of discipline. Imagine living in such a world, then sex will be as cheap as 'good morning' & it will loose its sacredness and value. Monogamy is the control given to sex because it has the tendency to make anyone go crazy. True Love is when a person chooses monogamy. Pls reconsider this and stop thinking the wrong way. Any society without laws is a cannibalistic zoo 2 Likes |
Re: Monogamy Is A Scam by Oldoinyolengai(m): 6:06pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Here is where I come to appreciate Maasai tribe. To them monogamous relationship is an alien thing and cheating occurring only when someone goes outside of the tribe. Married Maasai man or woman is free to bed anybody at anytime as long as the other person is a Maasai too. I was shocked with the data showing the lowest rate of STDs nearly to none in their community. I asked one man about the issue of pregnancy and he replied "If your wife get pregnant from another man, ain't it a good thing as it will add another kid with (foreign talent) in your family?". NB; Despite all that freedom based on their strong kinship, sexual selection rules everything. |
Re: Monogamy Is A Scam by Liposure: 6:27pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
One of the benefits of monogamy is it helps 2 curtails the promiscous excesses of man. Now, man as we know is naturally insatiable lets be honest. Now u calling monogany a scam is uncouth. As a matter of fact, the world would be worse than sodom n gomorah without the practice of one man, one woman |
Re: Monogamy Is A Scam by SweetCunt97(f): 6:29pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Well, there are Open Marriages but Nigerians are very closed minded for such. |
Re: Monogamy Is A Scam by bukatyne(f): 6:40pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Ladylite: @bold: Please come to 2020 There is nothing sacred about sex anymore. People will share bodily fluids and spirits faster than they will share a plate. |
Re: Monogamy Is A Scam by Liposure: 11:09pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
bukatyne:however, only few societies uphold the sanctity of sex. Especially in most conservative muslim countries where their women are thought 2 be chaste b4 marriage |
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