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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by holatin(m): 12:50pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
CanadaOrBust:I don yarn him big time |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by CanadaOrBust: 12:53pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Alore: You’d seem to have a point, except that in Nigeria those raised by single parents somehow consistently turn out more successful. I always wonder why that is. 1 Like |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Adasun(m): 1:05pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Youngpo413:marriage would kick start na |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Nobody: 2:02pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
CanadaOrBust: That is the main thing before every every . |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by kunkelhanspeter(m): 2:08pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Alore: That ur own point of view |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by stacyadams: 2:19pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Youngpo413: I just fall off from moving keke napepepe |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by CanadaOrBust: 2:22pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Eulalia: Badt girl 1 Like |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by nickvanilla(m): 2:26pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
CanadaOrBust: You're just a troll and I won't bother to dignify your stupidity with an answer to that question. Now get off my mention! 2 Likes |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Youngpo413: 2:38pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
stacyadams:Lmao,sorry boss. |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Alore: 3:01pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
CanadaOrBust: True that some turn out well in life, but not "consistently". I'll say Nigeria enjoys communal living. Even if there's a child being raised by a single parent, the extended family usually cover-up the lapses as we believe that children may be born by two people, but that it takes a community to raise him. If you take time to ask or research, the fact is that most delinquent kids roaming the streets are either from homes of single parents or a polygamous homes. 1 Like |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by sylve11: 3:09pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Baloranking: Lol |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by cooltola(m): 4:50pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
holatin: Lol i never said angel cannot marry demons. I only said such marriage do not last for more than 20 years top, it always end in divorce, seperation in the end . Who wants to be live forever with the enemy. Again to attract an angel you have to be an angel. Your Spirit attract what you are. That is why for men you study the woman personality, habits with God 'grace on your side while you are dating before you marry her. So you go know if she get craze or she is wife material. And you find such wife material woman, do not break her trust for you or else you are on your own. My bro sorry pray you do not date a woman demon again. |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by bodybuilder: 5:26pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
pansophist:Bookmarked. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by ibkonekt(m): 7:45pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Ugmama: you think married couple dont contract HIV from adultry...this guy is living in 1910 |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Ugmama(m): 8:16pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
ibkonekt: Uncle, whether married, single or double. As long as you're doing wrong either by committing adultery or fornication. HIV is real too |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by ibkonekt(m): 9:52pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Ugmama: if this is your new stance, then your previous comment in which you responded to "why buy the cow" comment is null because either way humans will do what they want. so dont preach HIV or STD when at the end of the day the result is the same. either you buy the cow or not, a person's choice is his own to bear |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Ugmama(m): 10:08pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
ibkonekt: I like your last statement. Those who have ears should hear |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by CanadaOrBust: 2:50am On Jun 25, 2020 |
Alore: Actually my comment is from direct observation. I have so many instances where the children from one parent family do better than children with both parents. How come communal living doesn’t help those children?? 1 Like |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by CanadaOrBust: 2:53am On Jun 25, 2020 |
nickvanilla: All the man contributes is money, yet u people begrudge contributing even that! |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by NotGej: 10:55am On Jun 25, 2020 |
Urchmahn: No be human being like you write bible? Abi you think say any body don meet God before? |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Acme45: 12:16pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
medolab90:I lives in the university environment 90% of girls here are something else. Only 10% are still good here based on tradition and home background. You will ask yourself if these are people's children fucking up and down with no regards. Girls walking naked and you will think they are spirits. Girls striping their fathers of honour. 1 Like |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by holatin(m): 3:22pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
cooltola:u are still treating the statement am disputing on. to attract an angel is luck not by been an angel. I ve another uncle a big piss of shit...he has the best loving wife in the world..and when I call him a piece of shit..that words doesn't do justice to who he really is. a big son of a bitch is an understatement. y I say luck it is |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by cooltola(m): 4:41pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
holatin: How long has your uncle married? That is what you see and i know someone too who has a loving wife , and he was not the kindest person on earth and guess what happened to their marriage after years. The woman left him because she had options to escape or leave. Most women in Nigeria cannot leave a sob of a husband because they have no where to run and the law do not favor women in naija . It is only in the western world that laws favor women. Since the man is the breadwinner, weitin madam wan do when the man is serial cheater or abusive. You do not expect to her to rent an apartment or start a divorce proceeding. The only thing she can do is to report her husband to the elders, and if he does not listen to the elders, then there is nothing that she can do. So most times, the WOMAN STAY NOT BY CHOICE and when she gets options, she go leave. |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by godwinjessica: 5:11pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by holatin(m): 6:42pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
cooltola:married for 11 years...she came from a rich family...trust me she has better options.....she has even more chance to leave him |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by cooltola(m): 7:11pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
holatin: Then she has her reasons for staying. Majority of the time, the marriage always end in divorce or separation or they stay for the sake of their children and when their children are matured adults, the couple split up. 1 Like |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by holatin(m): 8:22pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
cooltola:yeah u are right.... it takes luck in choosing partner this days...people are bad either boys or girls. infact the ladies has stollen the mantle of disloyalty and bad mannerism from guys...this world need to end already 2 Likes |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by darediamond(m): 8:22am On Jun 26, 2020 |
CanadaOrBust:You keep exposing yourself. Not all women are Golddiggers. Not at WoMEN sees the Manness in there gender name as Nothing. Real Women sit tight and work hard and smart to Make there own money to spend on any befitting Man. Do not be Lazy Girl. 1 Like |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Oratouch1: 1:31pm On Jun 26, 2020 |
holatin: MUST YOU BE KILLED TO EXIT ABUSIVE MARRIAGE? Abusive marriages are very common currently. It ranges from beating to treatment like a slave. A lot of guys, particularly in Africa, want to stay on in order not to be stigmatized as a "divorcee". But the question to be asked from such people is MUST YOU BE KILLED TO EXIT ABUSIVE MARRIAGE? Remember some exited into the grave in some abusive marriages. In recent times there are reports in the media of husband that stabbed wife to death, the wife that machetes husband to death. The most disturbing part of it is the fact that such couples are professionals- Lawyers, Bankers, Accountants, Engineers! etc. Some ignorantly allowed themselves to be killed as they are confused. They do not know what to do or action to take before it was late. There are bits of help if such a person opens up. There are religious organizations that counsel, there are Advocacy organizations that offer help, there are lawyers that help even pro bono and there will be some close and trusted relations that can give useful help. The starting point of an abusive marriage is raising voice by your spouse when discussions, followed by raising his/her hands and it progresses to slapping and finally beating to death. don't wait to be sent to an early grave before you borrow yourself senses. Click on this link for help https://g.co/kgs/uKc7h5 |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by CanadaOrBust: 5:20pm On Jun 26, 2020 |
darediamond: Make your own money all u like, u still would rather marry a rich guy, hypocrite |
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by emmaodet: 7:02am On Jun 27, 2020 |
madridsta007: Forget it bro, even in advanced countries with good economy, marriage is at an all time Low. Also, if the rise and fall of a country's economy (which can simply be termed as money) is a major factor in the direction marriage takes, then i think something is really wrong with the this thing called Marriage. What is the essence of marriage if a woman will only stay and be happy with me when i have but will become aggressive, uncultured, depressed, moody, untouchable for sex and in most cases pack out when i don't have anymore. Don't you think it looks somehow? Why owo epo? When a woman will only lick my hand with sugar and not a bitter one? Then it is safe for me to struggle a lone, enjoy my life when i have and drink my garri alone when i don't. 1 Like |
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