I would love to thank everyone here . I welcome every criticism as well.

I recently met a girl whom i tried having good relationship with. She seems to be nice and lovely in her conversation. Though one thing led to another that made me started talking with her on phone but we haven't seen each other. She is so keen to meet me since we began to speak only on phone. Long story short;
I noticed she doesn't call at all. All she does is to flash me. She always say that she is broke. She even recently told me that she borrowed airtime from her network provider and yet to payback.
My concern is that am not comfortable to begin dating her as a broke girl because i sense that it may turn a normal beg beg relationship if i key in to it. She turn out to always be apologetic in everything even wen I breathe.
Guys pls , do i begin funding her or do I just back off. My intention isn't to bleep her but to start something serious.
What do u say?

Baba back off...but if u want help her ministry as a friend,you can do.

Relationship this day supposed be 50/50 after all na them they clamor for gender equality.

Be careful...... You have to know that, no matter how broke a woman is...If she truly loves you....She will break protocols to make you happy....

Warlord2012:
Baba back off...but if u want help her ministry as a friend,you can do.

Relationship this day supposed be 50/50 after all na them they clamor for gender equality.

Thanks Man. The thinking has kept me awake. God bless

yanabasee1:
Be careful...... You have to know that, no matter how broke a woman is...If she truly loves you....She will break protocols to make you happy....

Thank u plenty... I so much appreciate

Is she a student, is she working or totally dependent on her parents? You can't be expecting a girl totally dependent on her parents and not really milking men to always have call card to call you. If she is owing, why not clear the bill first then add her more card to see how long she calls you with it. The fact you are bothered shows that you yourself is broke. Enough of all those stories of if she truly love you ,she will find a way to call you. The only woman that will do that just weeks into a relationship is your mother.

Chidonc:
Is she a student, is she working or totally dependent on her parents? You can't be expecting a girl totally dependent on her parents and not really milking men to always have call card to call you. If she is owing, why not clear the bill first then add her more card to see how long she calls you with it. The fact you are bothered shows that you yourself is broke. Enough of all those stories of if she truly love you ,she will find a way to call you. The only woman that will do that just weeks into a relationship is your mother.

simp

okay

mmars:

simp

Stupidity is when you ask a jobless young girl out yet you expect her to behave like a working class lady. Fool.

Chidonc:
Is she a student, is she working or totally dependent on her parents? You can't be expecting a girl totally dependent on her parents and not really milking men to always have call card to call you. If she is owing, why not clear the bill first then add her more card to see how long she calls you with it. The fact you are bothered shows that you yourself is broke. Enough of all those stories of if she truly love you ,she will find a way to call you. The only woman that will do that just weeks into a relationship is your mother.

I noticed that the way u begin a relationship tells how it may be. She works and has been working for years. That's y am worried.

Chidonc:

Stupidity is when you ask a jobless young girl out yet you expect her to behave like a working class lady. Fool.

You are a very big idiot.
Relationship should be a thing of mutual benefits to both man and woman, not send card to me today recharge for me tomorrow. it is girls like this that have nothing but sex to offer in a relationship
but what do i expect from A female asslicking simp

mmars:

You are a very big idiot.
Relationship should be a thing of mutual benefits to both man and woman, not send card to me today recharge for me tomorrow. it is girls like this that have nothing but sex to offer in a relationship
but what do i expect from A female asslicking simp

It's obvious you are more stupid. Do I blame you, no, since the only thing your mother contributed to your Dad's life is sex and the reason why your sisters are still at home is because the only thing they can offer to a man is sex. Why should I be surprised at your frustrations.

Chidonc:
Is she a student, is she working or totally dependent on her parents? You can't be expecting a girl totally dependent on her parents and not really milking men to always have call card to call you. If she is owing, why not clear the bill first then add her more card to see how long she calls you with it. The fact you are bothered shows that you yourself is broke. Enough of all those stories of if she truly love you ,she will find a way to call you. The only woman that will do that just weeks into a relationship is your mother.

On the other note bro, am not broke. A guy who is planning on settling down and owns his car and even lives in a two bedroom apartment in Amuwo Odofin Festac Lagos State isn't broke. No hard feelings

Chidonc:

It's obvious you are more stupid. Do I blame you, no, since the only thing my mother contributed to my Dad's life is sex and the reason why my sisters are still at home is because the only thing they can offer to a man is sex. Why should you be surprised at my frustrations.

Well you just mentioned your moms and siblings hustle to the whole nairaland pm me when they are available i will make there contribution to the world worthwhile

fuwaski:

I noticed that the way u begin a relationship tells how it may be. She works and has been working for years. That's y am worried.

Ask her how much she's owing and clear it. Atmost is 1k. Add #200 card then observe if she calls you or not. From there, draw your conclusion, remember different people and different experiences. The current lady am dating, when we started, she was working. But she do flash and most times her phone is on minus. I cleared her debt, and started sending her airtime occasionally, I realize, if for instance I sent MTN #200, she do call me over 30mins, which u know that she used all the card on me. Gradually her confidence came back and she started recharging just to talk to me. The day I lie I don't have card, she recharges me. Don't be in a haste to call her broke. Let her fall for you also.

fuwaski:

On the other note bro, am not broke. A guy who is planning on settling down and owns his car and even lives in a two bedroom apartment in Amuwo Odofin Festac Lagos State isn't broke. No hard feelings

If you think planning to settle down and own a car makes you rich. You are still upcoming. Besides been broke is bijective. If the only asset you can boast of is a car probably less than a million naira, living in a rented apartment paying probably #200k and planning to settle down. You are still broke, no hard feeling.

Chidonc:
Is she a student, is she working or totally dependent on her parents? You can't be expecting a girl totally dependent on her parents and not really milking men to always have call card to call you. If she is owing, why not clear the bill first then add her more card to see how long she calls you with it. The fact you are bothered shows that you yourself is broke. Enough of all those stories of if she truly love you ,she will find a way to call you. The only woman that will do that just weeks into a relationship is your mother.

Simperman

Bro ex the hoe

She is sincere. If you truly love her, then do all the callings, when she reach the level of sufficiency, she will pay you back.

Chidonc:
Is she a student, is she working or totally dependent on her parents? You can't be expecting a girl totally dependent on her parents and not really milking men to always have call card to call you. If she is owing, why not clear the bill first then add her more card to see how long she calls you with it. The fact you are bothered shows that you yourself is broke. Enough of all those stories of if she truly love you ,she will find a way to call you. The only woman that will do that just weeks into a relationship is your mother.

Why would she just come out and ask for airtime? That's just plane stupid.

How is she owing

Who is she calling with the borrowed card



One chance

Chidonc:


If you think planning to settle down and own a car makes you rich. You are still upcoming. Besides been broke is bijective. If the only asset you can boast of is a car probably less than a million naira, living in a rented apartment paying probably #200k and planning to settle down. You are still broke, no hard feeling.

U are just changing the goal post.. He is nit broke!!

Chidonc:


If you think planning to settle down and own a car makes you rich. You are still upcoming. Besides been broke is bijective. If the only asset you can boast of is a car probably less than a million naira, living in a rented apartment paying probably #200k and planning to settle down. You are still broke, no hard feeling.

No surprises. An unfortunate human speaking. GTFOH bitch!!

OP, you never start relationship, she don dey use style bill you. I pity for you if you enter the relationship.

what exactly do you want us to do or says in regards?



if you're hustling abeg stay away from broke girls, they will make you regret and take you from Grace to Grass

All these things wey una dey write here.... It will end in customized tears

This one is an example of a poor/broke girl. She wan use you pay her bills. Op free this girl before it ends in premium and total tears.

The experts have spoken up there, so I have nothing else to say about this matter, other than good luck. Anyway,

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Chidonc:

Ask her how much she's owing and clear it. Atmost is 1k. Add #200 card then observe if she calls you or not. From there, draw your conclusion, remember different people and different experiences. The current lady am dating, when we started, she was working. But she do flash and most times her phone is on minus. I cleared her debt, and started sending her airtime occasionally, I realize, if for instance I sent MTN #200, she do call me over 30mins, which u know that she used all the card on me. Gradually her confidence came back and she started recharging just to talk to me. The day I lie I don't have card, she recharges me. Don't be in a haste to call her broke. Let her fall for you also.

Damm nigga. U are not representing the real niggars well. U dey fall guys hand. Stop behaving like an ass-licker.Ahhh for ur mind ur girl don love you. Y must u clear a girl debt ist to make her get confidence in loving you. If a girl loves u truly she will be calling u without flashing u and also she will not start by saying she has problem with money to buy cards.

.

Chidonc:

It's obvious you are more stupid. Do I blame you, no, since the only thing your mother contributed to your Dad's life is sex and the reason why your sisters are still at home is because the only thing they can offer to a man is sex. Why should I be surprised at your frustrations.

Dont worry u will learn from experience. They say experience is d best teacher.

It is up to you to decide, she seem financially down and I can't say it's her fault. If you like her you may keep her. It is tough time for her, if you are not interested in her due to her financial situation; you may leave her or just be friends with her.