peterangelo:
the man can't stand another man eating his food

That man is not a real man cos he might 've married that lady not being a virgin...even if a virgin ..,a woman is not your property ....she is your partner ...if you don't like anything about her...pls move on

azmanaty02:
orangutan like your mother abi?

who is displaying a traits of an orangutan now? Youth with empty skull.

foleskay:
Igbo men are very emotional when it comes to marriage and relationship. They kill for love. Hv read many times here instances of where igbo men kill their wives and children all in d name of infidelity. Fear igbo men when it comes to relationship. Dem no dey joke oo. Our igbo girls shud think twice before dating or getting married to their fellow igbo men. Dem no dey play wth cheating partners oo

you are very right bro, am an igbo lady but i can never ever marry my fellow igbo man, never... not because am scared i will cheat on him, just that the average igbo man is proud and takes worldly things too seriously. He lives to brag about things to his peers and they are possessive of their women, many of their guys are possessive and loud... am not speaking for anyone here but myself. I dated a couple, and was thankful i heeded to my instinct... cases of igbo man brutality to wife or girlfriend either for money purposes or fit of anger is worrisome. Naturally the igbo society supports men to be hostile and mouthy, which to them is a trait of being a real man, and thats so archaic. Am not saying other tribes do not have their own issues, but as an igbo girl am in the best position to say this. Igbo guys are very nice and generous to a fault, but most lack anger control and they have strong mind to do anything. So if you are an igbo guy here. I wish u the very best.

cuteeme:

you are very right bro, am an igbo lady but i can never ever marry my fellow igbo man, never... not because am scared i will cheat on him, just that the average igbo man is proud and takes worldly things too seriously. He lives to brag about things to his peers and they are possessive of their women, many of their guys are possessive and loud... am not speaking for anyone here but myself. I dated a couple, and was thankful i heeded to my instinct... cases of igbo man brutality to wife or girlfriend either for money purposes or fit of anger is worrisome. Naturally the igbo society supports men to be hostile and mouthy, which to them is a trait of being a real man, and thats so archaic. Am not saying other tribes do not have their own issues, but as an igbo girl am in the best position to say this. Igbo guys are very nice and generous to a fault, but most lack anger control and they have strong mind to do anything. So if you are an igbo guy here. I wish u the very best.

Interesting. I think they really need to work on their self control and mental emotion. You've really said it all. Don't worry I'll recommend a Yoruba guy for you. Are you based in d south west??

authority2006:


Seemed like you didn't understand my perspective on this subject. They were never married before the first and second child came. Any man or even two different men could have been the fathers. It was irresponsibility on the part of any man to accept the pregnancy from a woman that you never marry just because she said it was yours.
An unmarried woman could be confused about who impregnate her but she would surely go for the man she prefers most. It is now left for the man to do the right thing as soon as the baby is born.
You get my drift?

I honestly didn't know them but I read they have been dating for couple of years .

Not all unmarried women get pregnant and give it to another.
Doesn't make sense .At all!

foleskay:

Interesting. I think they really need to work on their self control and mental emotion. You've really said it all. Don't worry I'll recommend a Yoruba guy for you. Are you based in d south west??

In a serious relationship now, thank you *blushing*

cuteeme:

In a serious relationship now, thank you *blushing*

Hope he's not igbo

foleskay:

Hope he's not igbo

oh no he is not oo..that am thankful for. Am ataurus and we are careful lovers. We love more with our head than our heart abeg.

cuteeme:

oh no he is not oo..that am thankful for. Am ataurus and we are careful lovers. We love more with our head than our heart abeg.

Which one is ataurus again?

foleskay:
Which one is ataurus again?

nawa oo, are you sullosed to be sleeping *smiles*

foleskay:

Which one is ataurus again?

nawa oo, are you not supposed to be sleeping *smiles*. i mean a taurus(zodiac)

cuteeme:

nawa oo, are you not supposed to be sleeping *smiles*. i mean a taurus(zodiac)

Lol. I tot I saw ataurus . Which state are you?

Sleekfingers:


who is displaying a traits of an orangutan now? Youth with empty skull.

Its your mother that is displaying it thru you.

southniyikaye:
like paternity fraud

A source, close to the family, on a blog, said he had a fetish for beating his women until they bleed and then he would have his way with them. This might just be another of such cases.

mii4u:

U are the one embarrassing ursef, I maintain my stand cos I know wat I am talking about

yinmu. If you like maintain your sit. All na embarassenent you be for here jo

Omo if na me an opportunity to dey single be that o, or marry a much more younger lady wey everywhere still tight � make I hear say I kill anybody talk more of myself �

IYANGBALI:
yinmu. If you like maintain your sit. All na embarassenent you be for here jo

Pls face front, I don't hv time for underage.

azmanaty02:


Zombie. Look how u re blabbing incoherently.. I pity ur mother. She should have aborted u..

Fool

poshestmina:



I honestly didn't know them but I read they have been dating for couple of years .

Not all unmarried women get pregnant and give it to another.
Doesn't make sense .At all!

I didn't claim otherwise. But you know for sure that this is the standard practice in Nigeria and the one that's totally wrong. A woman you never married say, hey
I'm pregnant for you and you start taking responsibilities and calling yourself a father. No way to be sure that she sleeping with you only before she became pregnant because you were not married.

azmanaty02:


Zombie. Look how u re blabbing incoherently.. I pity ur mother. She should have aborted u..

Calling you an idiot would be an insult to all the stupid people . You are a disgrace to the society , make your mother proud for once.

csamii:


You know one thing about cheating, marriage doesn't stop it. Either way married or not, she was a cheat.

marriage does not stop cheating but atleast it limits it . No right thinking guy out there will want to have sex or anything to do with a married woman .Even if it happens it might be by chance not what will lead to pregnancy .

authority2006:


I didn't claim otherwise. But you know for sure that this is the standard practice in Nigeria and the one that's totally wrong. A woman you never married say, hey
I'm pregnant for you and you start taking responsibilities and calling yourself a father. No way to be sure that she sleeping with you only before she became pregnant because you were not married.

but hey whats wrong with him going ahead to care for the child after the findout?, no be una dey talk say women are their worst enemies?, say man go love themselves till death, dem go quarrel for morning settle for night?, what happened to bro code for God sake?, it is you men that are ylur worst enemies not women... you men only claim one love when a woman or women come into the news negatively... una hate una sef abeg... so deal with it.

Dreciousoreva01:
Rip to the dead So sad

God help us

Alexaonfleek:
Why didn't he do the needful if he wanted her?
I'm not supporting the lady cheating,but truth to be told the guy is very sick in the head.
If he wanted her,he would have married her since instead of turning her to a baby mama.
She's not legally bounded to him,and the relationship was on and off.
Wasting her time instead of doing the needful.

And I won't tolerate you calling me names again.

So u be feminist.

chris was an idiot! Very stupid man.

cuteeme:

you are very right bro, am an igbo lady but i can never ever marry my fellow igbo man, never... not because am scared i will cheat on him, just that the average igbo man is proud and takes worldly things too seriously. He lives to brag about things to his peers and they are possessive of their women, many of their guys are possessive and loud... am not speaking for anyone here but myself. I dated a couple, and was thankful i heeded to my instinct... cases of igbo man brutality to wife or girlfriend either for money purposes or fit of anger is worrisome. Naturally the igbo society supports men to be hostile and mouthy, which to them is a trait of being a real man, and thats so archaic. Am not saying other tribes do not have their own issues, but as an igbo girl am in the best position to say this. Igbo guys are very nice and generous to a fault, but most lack anger control and they have strong mind to do anything. So if you are an igbo guy here. I wish u the very best.

It might be true that according to you, "you can never never marry an Igbo man," yes.

But it's because you probably grew up in a dysfunctional Igbo family that never really rated the culture.
You probably don't travel home, and more importantly, you probably don't speak the language.

Hausa:
They weren't even married.

Was it not a Redeem pastor that killed his wife some few years ago? Remind me, they were from the SW. No?
Did the same situation not happen when a woman from same extraction killed her husband recently?


Educate yourself so you don't spew stuffs like this outside.

Please educate me. So much bad and depressing news from Naija, I avoid news from that end for months. And, the moment I check it's all sad news again. So, gist me about the killer wife and pastor.

mii4u:

Yeah Bros, but all women are not the same sha.

Sweetheart na your belle you knw. You are reasonable dont mean others are. Shey you grab?. Na bad ones many pass.

cuteeme:

but hey whats wrong with him going ahead to care for the child after the findout?,

Find what out? He didn't find anything out, he only accepted what was told him which was a mistake. He just found now. There is a difference between acceptance and discovering.

no be una dey talk say women are their worst enemies?, say man go love themselves till death, dem go quarrel for morning settle for night?, what happened to bro code for God sake?, it is you men that are ylur worst enemies not women... you men only claim one love when a woman or women come into the news negatively... una hate una sef abeg... so deal with it.

Are you sure that you're not misunderstanding me? Can we clear that first because I don't understand where all these allegations and generalisation plus "deal with it" comment is coming from?
My point was that he had no reason killing that woman. He should have anticipated the paternity of the kids to turn out either way because he didn't marry her to begin with.

DoubleEngine007:
That torture was hell for that woman.. I think they never really loved each other.. Cux if they did,the woman won't cheat,the other won't have the mind to torture someone he loved like that.. I fear for marriages these days o..

Na wah o

Lol. It's naive for you to assume that Love provides cover for cheating.

A man or woman can love you and still cheat on you.
I'll even go as far as to say that it's in the nature of humans to cheat.
Monogamy is a social construct that's there to prevent us from being as 'uncultured' and randy as animals, in my opinion.