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Thinking about the first point there, gays go plenty for Nairaland, cos 70% of guys there dey fear women.

In fact, they hate women. Fools.

Thunder fire this masturbator.

Update 2:

In this thread we keep religion out of the whole thing. I am a convinced atheist and I believe most men struggling with homosexuality and wondering why God remains indifferent about their addiction have also questioned their faith.

Even if there was a God, leaving the homosexuality lifestyle is not something only christians and muslims can accomplish since religious faith is not a prerequisite to pursue change.

Ok, so to begin, a lifestory

One unusual afternoon after I had watched homosexual pornography of two men (satisfying?) themselves and I ejaculated sensually on my bed, I went out To get some air and voilà I saw the male lizard running after the female with all his will power - I broke down right there and the journey to heal my abnormal lust began.

Note
This thread is not about me, I just shared this story of mine as a sort of entrée, I will be giving advice, tips, articles, books that have helped me start my journey out of homosexuality. And lets do this Together.

SenorFax:
Thinking about the first point there, gays go plenty for Nairaland, cos 70% of guys there dey fear women.

In fact, they hate women. Fools.

Shut ur ignorant ass up negha.

Misogyny has nothing to do with being gay. Get yourself a fuckin book or use the internet! It's 2020!

Durentt:
Welcome everyone, this thread is for homosexual men who refuse to succumb to "the born this way" notion and give themselves a better lifestyle.

As at 2020 no gay gene has yet been linked To homosexuality, so it is definitely not innate. And also taking an objective look at it shows that homosexuality is as a result of the way someone decides to live his life, it might look like a small aspect but affects nearly everything, from career choices to hobby, family, children, relationship with both sexes.

Before I continue I want To make it clear that there is nothing wrong with being a homosexual, I mean look at Marc Jacobs (Louis Vuitton guy), Tim Cooks, Late Gianni Versace, late Karl Lagerfeld, Tom Ford, Peter Thiel (Paypal guy),Anderson Cooper, Neil Patrick Harris, Christian Dior, Dolce & Gabbana guys, Giorgio Armani and many more. We wear them, use their phones, get entertained by them etc
But you have To accept it is a lifestyle choice that is perfectly Ok, but continue reading if you want To change To heterosexuality,

After trying To understand my homosexuality I came up with 3 conclusions (and consulting Google and other recovering homosexuals).
1. Male Homosexuality is caused by fear of women. Yes, you heard me right. Scared of rejection, approaching women, scared of something we want so bad but couldnt get (the attention men give To women). We loved feminity, adored it, adorned it but refused To be sexually attracted To it.

2. Male homosexuals are hooked on homosexual pornography. Argue with yourself, stop watching gay pornography and you get back to your normal self.

3. To overcome homosexuality, a complete lifestyle overhaul is required. No crying, therapy, prayers would do anything until you decide to change the trajectory of your life BY TAKING THAT FIRST STEP.

And that is what this thread is for, to overcome this fear of women, addiction To homosexual pornography etc.

be ready To be slightly uncomfortable for a better life.

Next update soon

Hey Mr Durrent, if you truly feel you're now heterosexual, I'm perfectly fine with it....but what I'll never entertain is misinformation about my sexuality!

1. I dunno if you had a problem approaching females don't connect it with ur supposed Ex sexuality. There are straight guys here who have difficulty in approaching ladies but that hasn't made then resort to chasing men has it?? Infact it'll never cross their minds!

What's the meaning of "we love and adore feminity but refused to be attracted to it?" How do u refuse something you love? Are you not countering your first point then? Read that and see if it makes any sense to you sir. Infact gay men make perfect friends for women, Misogyny is a common among some straight males, it's a toxic masculine exhibition. Do you even know what the fear and hatred for women is called??

2. Every gay male started out with straight porn, we liked boys even before the advent of gay porn. Why do straight males find it disgusting but you did not?? You think sexuality is solely about sexual intercourse or porn changes one sexuality?? I watch heterosexual porn alot of times but it's just what it is... "PLEASURE"

Sex is just pleasure, nothing else, being homosexual is a sexuality like being heterosexual and bi. That is why most gay men and women can still have heterosexual sex and still be GAY!

I'll never have any emotional attachment or feel how a straight man feels for a lady!

3. If you wanna blend in and have nothing to do with your sexuality maybe cos of the society or fear of rejection... it's fine with me. But it doesn't change what u feel and that's it.

My candid advice, you're having a serious pornographic addiction and it's messing u up! Never try this miseducation nonsense again!

To every gay man reading this, YOU NEVER MADE A CHOICE TO BE GAY, YOU'RE YOU AND YOU'RE NOT ALONE, YOU'RE LOVED!

don't let this internalized homophobia ranting get to you.

Durentt:
In this thread we keep religion out of the whole thing. I am a convinced atheist and I believe most men struggling with homosexuality and wondering why God remains indifferent about their addiction have also questioned their faith.

Even if there was a God, leaving the homosexuality lifestylr is not something only christians and muslims can accomplish since religious faith is not a prerequisite to pursue change.

Ok, so to begin, a lifestory

One unusual afternoon after I had watched homosexual pornography of two men (satisfying?) themselves and I ejaculated sensually on my bed, I went out To get some air and voilà I saw the male lizard running after the female with all his will power - I broke down right there and the journey to heal my abnormal lust began.

Note
This thread is not about me, I just shared this story of mine as a sort of entrée, I will be giving advice, tips, articles, books that have helped me start my journey out of homosexuality. And lets do this Together.

If you were a straight man truly, homo porn should have disgusted you sir!

Journey out of homosexuality next month now... he's back to hot ebony gay bleeped hard on pornbub

Palehair, RichiMichie, augustab comman carry your brother from here oo

HuntSon:


If you were a straight man truly, homo porn should have disgusted you sir!

Journey out of homosexuality next month now... he's back to hot ebony gay bleeped hard on pornbub

Palehair, RichiMichie, augustab comman carry your brother from here oo

I don't know her

augustab:


I don't know her

Durentt:
Welcome everyone, this thread is for homosexual men who refuse to succumb to "the born this way" notion and give themselves a better lifestyle.

As at 2020 no gay gene has yet been linked To homosexuality, so it is definitely not innate. And also taking an objective look at it shows that homosexuality is as a result of the way someone decides to live his life, it might look like a small aspect but affects nearly everything, from career choices to hobby, family, children, relationship with both sexes.

Before I continue I want To make it clear that there is nothing wrong with being a homosexual, I mean look at Marc Jacobs (Louis Vuitton guy), Tim Cooks, Late Gianni Versace, late Karl Lagerfeld, Tom Ford, Peter Thiel (Paypal guy),Anderson Cooper, Neil Patrick Harris, Christian Dior, Dolce & Gabbana guys, Giorgio Armani and many more. We wear them, use their phones, get entertained by them etc
But you have To accept it is a lifestyle choice that is perfectly Ok, but continue reading if you want To change To heterosexuality,

After trying To understand my homosexuality I came up with 3 conclusions (and consulting Google and other recovering homosexuals).
1. Male Homosexuality is caused by fear of women. Yes, you heard me right. Scared of rejection, approaching women, scared of something we want so bad but couldnt get (the attention men give To women). We loved feminity, adored it, adorned it but refused To be sexually attracted To it.

2. Male homosexuals are hooked on homosexual pornography. Argue with yourself, stop watching gay pornography and you get back to your normal self.

3. To overcome homosexuality, a complete lifestyle overhaul is required. No crying, therapy, prayers would do anything until you decide to change the trajectory of your life BY TAKING THAT FIRST STEP.

And that is what this thread is for, to overcome this fear of women, addiction To homosexual pornography etc.

be ready To be slightly uncomfortable for a better life.

Next update soon

Now this right here is all the reasons I so dislike you. The misinformation you keep selling, promoting homophobia here on Nairaland. For Pete's sake get a live already

HuntSon:


If you were a straight man truly, homo porn should have disgusted you sir!

Journey out of homosexuality next month now... he's back to hot ebony gay bleeped hard on pornbub

Palehair, RichiMichie, augustab comman carry your brother from here oo

I can't with the self hate anymore. I wanted to tag y'all not to even comment

RichieMichie:

Now this right here is all the reasons I so dislike you. The misinformation you keep selling, promoting homophobia here on Nairaland. For Pete's sake get a live already

I so badly wanted to comment on his baseless theories but I just decided not to. His self hate level is really at an all time high
Homophobia is terrible but internalized homophobia is a billion times worse. Let's just live him to wallow in his self hate

Wrong!


Homosexuality is very natural but evolution just don't support it. Just like intelligence. It's good to be intelligent but evolution don't support it.

A305:
Wrong!


Homosexuality is very natural but evolution just don't support it. Just like intelligence. It's good to be intelligent but evolution don't support it.

Scientists never proved it natural.

Homosexuality is abnormal something is wrong psycho

ForestHill:
Scientists never proved it natural.

this isn't medicine - No scientist is needed to prove this phenomenon.

This is sexual psychology mixed with geographical evolution. Simple.

A305:
this isn't medicine - No scientist is needed to prove this phenomenon.

This is sexual psychology mixed with geographical evolution. Simple.

Science covers all you mentioned.

Who the hell feels the same sex attractive WTH??

Who the hell wanna fvck his/her same gender?? OMG, this is seriously irritating!

It's a serious psychological downgrade, don't tell me this is normal

Well as for NL, this is a forum for gaddamn sake, people here are 90% of what they're not!

Durentt:
Welcome everyone, this thread is for homosexual men who refuse to succumb to "the born this way" notion and give themselves a better lifestyle.

As at 2020 no gay gene has yet been linked To homosexuality, so it is definitely not innate. And also taking an objective look at it shows that homosexuality is as a result of the way someone decides to live his life, it might look like a small aspect but affects nearly everything, from career choices to hobby, family, children, relationship with both sexes.

Before I continue I want To make it clear that there is nothing wrong with being a homosexual, I mean look at Marc Jacobs (Louis Vuitton guy), Tim Cooks, Late Gianni Versace, late Karl Lagerfeld, Tom Ford, Peter Thiel (Paypal guy),Anderson Cooper, Neil Patrick Harris, Christian Dior, Dolce & Gabbana guys, Giorgio Armani and many more. We wear them, use their phones, get entertained by them etc
But you have To accept it is a lifestyle choice that is perfectly Ok, but continue reading if you want To change To heterosexuality,

After trying To understand my homosexuality I came up with 3 conclusions (and consulting Google and other recovering homosexuals).
1. Male Homosexuality is caused by fear of women. Yes, you heard me right. Scared of rejection, approaching women, scared of something we want so bad but couldnt get (the attention men give To women). We loved feminity, adored it, adorned it but refused To be sexually attracted To it.

2. Male homosexuals are hooked on homosexual pornography. Argue with yourself, stop watching gay pornography and you get back to your normal self.

3. To overcome homosexuality, a complete lifestyle overhaul is required. No crying, therapy, prayers would do anything until you decide to change the trajectory of your life BY TAKING THAT FIRST STEP.

And that is what this thread is for, to overcome this fear of women, addiction To homosexual pornography etc.

be ready To be slightly uncomfortable for a better life.

Next update soon

Honey, firstly keep Karl's and Neil's name out of your internalized homophobic cavity you call mouth. Secondly, what does point 1 mean even. Do you listen to yourself sometimes? Like when you type do you read it before posting? I didn't even know what porn was till in my jss1 but before then I was already having adventures with boys. Also I didn't start watching porn till my jss3 holiday. But before then I was already the schools poster boy for everything homo.

Ok

[quote author=Durentt post=91030547]Welcome everyone, this thread is for homosexual men who refuse to succumb to "the born this way" notion and give themselves a better lifestyle.

As at 2020 no gay gene has yet been linked To homosexuality, so it is definitely not innate. And also taking an objective look at it shows that homosexuality is as a result of the way someone decides to live his life, it might look like a small aspect but affects nearly everything, from career choices to hobby, family, children, relationship with both sexes.

Before I continue I want To make it clear that there is nothing wrong with being a homosexual, I mean look at Marc Jacobs (Louis Vuitton guy), Tim Cooks, Late Gianni Versace, late Karl Lagerfeld, Tom Ford, Peter Thiel (Paypal guy),Anderson Cooper, Neil Patrick Harris, Christian Dior, Dolce & Gabbana guys, Giorgio Armani and many more. We wear them, use their phones, get entertained by them etc
But you have To accept it is a lifestyle choice that is perfectly Ok, but continue reading if you want To change To heterosexuality,

After trying To understand my homosexuality I came up with 3 conclusions (and consulting Google and other recovering homosexuals).
1. Male Homosexuality is caused by fear of women. Yes, you heard me right. Scared of rejection, approaching women, scared of something we want so bad but couldnt get (the attention men give To women). We loved feminity, adored it, adorned it but refused To be sexually attracted To it.

2. Male homosexuals are hooked on homosexual pornography. Argue with yourself, stop watching gay pornography and you get back to your normal self.

3. To overcome homosexuality, a complete lifestyle overhaul is required. No crying, therapy, prayers would do anything until you decide to change the trajectory of your life BY TAKING THAT FIRST STEP.

And that is what this thread is for, to overcome this fear of women, addiction To homosexual pornography etc.

be ready To be slightly uncomfortable for a better life.

Next update soon
this write-up is smelling

callmeRichie:
Who the hell feels the same sex attractive WTH??

Who the hell wanna fvck his/her same gender?? OMG, this is seriously irritating!

It's a serious psychological downgrade, don't tell me this is normal

Well as for NL, this is a forum for gaddamn sake, people here are 90% of what they're not!

Why do y'all keep proving me right? Y'all have destroyed heterosexuality by turning it into a mere sexual adventure.

First thing that comes to mind when you see a lady is sex sex sex, how won't u think this way?

Yes gays feel attracted to the same gender and you can't get the slightest understand same way we're don't understand how Heteros feel for women except you start studying if you're so interested in us no one is gonna start lecturing u for free!

You think being gay is a joke and a lie to you? Just shut up already!

Update 3:

Overcoming fear of women and approaching women for romantic and sexual relationships. Remember the fact that approaching women is about messing around with them. So stop worryong about the result, period.

Before I start, I want To call attention to some questions from some nairaland militant homosexuals like "you are suffering from internalised homophobia, do you think it would be long before you run back to gayism?" and "sex is not sexuality, dont you know you can sleep with any sex and not be attracted to that sex?" And i would answer these at the end of this update.

While reading the book "How to approach and attract women anywhere anytime by Bryan Berry", I came with principals points directed To male homosexuals.

1. Stop seeing women as "just friends", "pals" homosexuality is in your mind and what you think influences you immensely.
2. Think about what you believe, your standards, your values, your goals, your priorities, your ideas, your opinions. Start to have a strong sense of who you are and what you are all about. Women crave socially powerful men.
Homosexual men feel inferior and that they cant give To a woman what other men can.
3. Observe and relax, women dont bite. Dont Ask yourself "what do I want from the beginning?". The basic goal is always to get to know her on a personal level and, if you like her, to move things forward (in the form of getting her number, isolation, escalation, an instant date or making plans for a future meeting).
4. Micro-approaches that acclimate you to speaking to women you don’t know. You walk up, you smile and say she has a cool coat, and you keep walking. Her response positive, negative or neutral is irrelevant.
5. You are the prize. Instead of wondering if you are good enough for her, ask yourself if she is good enough for you. She is not the prize she can’t be, because you don’t know anything about her yet.
6. If she cannot feel you on an emotional level, she will never be comfortable enough to open up physically. Therefore express your true self and when you express your real self, she will feel comfortable letting her guard down and expressing her real self too.
7. Your life is already interesting, you just need to start thinking that way and presenting it as such. Whatever you say, whether direct or indirect, it is true for you in that moment, and you are expressing what you really feel.
8. Be in a fun, playful, happy state mentally so as not to take things serious when they start talking to you, just laugh it off because women tend to do stuff To see how you will react.
9. Excessive rejection has driven so many bright Young men To homosexuality. Whenever a girl says "no thanks" to. Just you smile, say "Have a nice day" and move on to the next girl. DONT run back to gayism.

START TO PRACTICE: Guys that do well with women are guys that go out & talk to them. At some point after you learn all there is to learn, you will have to go out there and start talking to them. And you will make some mistakes and learn from them so you can become better.

1. Pick a quiet, private place and sit down comfortably
2. Close your eyes, take a few breaths to relax your body and mind.
3. Visualise yourself walking to a beautiful woman To initiate a conversation.
4. Visualise her becoming instantly attracted to you and intéressés in talking more to you as you continue the conversation.
5. Go through the entire scenario from where you walk up to her to close when you collect her number, and kiss her or whatever.
6. Open your eyes

Response to questions above

1. you are suffering from internalised homophobia, do you think it would be long before you run back to gayism?
Response: I dont know what internalised homophia, I am a Young man in search of a better life after realising sexuality is a choice seeing there is no really no much difference between a man and woman.

2. sex is not sexuality, dont you know you can sleep with any sex and not be attracted to that sex?
Response: I love To assume the "asker" of this question is a guy that just loves the idea of homosexuality sweet and electrifying, congrats.
If I find a woman and have a satisfying sex life, why should I still desire To be a homosexual?
Some would love To also include that sexuality is who YOU CAN FALL IN LOVE WITH, NOT HAVE SEX WITH.
Bonne chance à tous

HuntSon:


Shut ur ignorant ass up negha.

Misogyny has nothing to do with being gay. Get yourself a fuckin book or use the internet! It's 2020!

You are scared of women, get yourself a guy instead. Azzhole