Swtbabyvee:
@bold you should keep decieving urself . With this thread ? Extrovert hv no problem expressing their feelings, to friends and family. And we get solution or atleast get encouraging words or atleast get it off our chest . But u all die in slience . Telling urselves I am special but you all mentally unhealthy. It’s not okay or normal to be in isolation . It’s not Normal . With this thread u honestly think introverts deal with depression more than extroverts? Ain’t u funny .

0neal:
I need help

So, I have been trying to buy the "Anybooks" app on google play store, but get a message that my card details incorrect at several attempts.

I have used the same card to buy audio books from audible.com and even pay for goods online.

Could it be the zip code? Who else has encountered the same challenge?

purplecoco:
I can be needy and crave for attention.

devafire:



Attention craving.
I don't look like it at all, but my man gotta have eyes on me always. It makes me feel vulnerable, so I haven't really been lucky with relationships

Theundertaker:
ain’t we all ,,,, kindly follow back

purplecoco:
So I wanna know. Am I the only introvert who gets kinda mad when invited to hang out or for an event last minute? . I'm the type that likes to be told a day or two about the invitation, so as to prepare myself mentally. Am I the only one?

Theundertaker:
would hv a hard heartbeat during the invitation , and may not go

purplecoco:
Like Anxiety? I mean for me personally, I would not go if I'm not mentally prepared for it, but sometimes I'd change my mind depending on the individual that invited me.

purplecoco:
So I wanna know. Am I the only introvert who gets kinda mad when invited to hang out or for an event last minute? . I'm the type that likes to be told a day or two about the invitation, so as to prepare myself mentally. Am I the only one?

madbuk:
Samehere, back in the university my friends would call me out of the blues for a hangout, I'll mentally play out the scene in my head and voila..I AIN'T GOING!!!
But i had to work on that overtime, still a work in progress.

Theundertaker:
not anxiety per say but maybe stress , like which kind Wahala be this. Often times I don’t attend but when it’s an important event, i don’t hv s choice

maeola:

Aswear,I cringe whenever this happens.. like I have to be informed at least a week or two before.

maeola:

Aswear,I cringe whenever this happens.. like I have to be informed at least a week or two before.

Olarewajub:
@ Liamm . Do you have hard time starting a conversation with strangers and asking questions?

Djtm:
Well, being an introvert aint easy, more difficult when you're a nerd. People think you're proud and full of yourself. I rarely talk to people in my class and I don't think I'll know their names till I graduate. When I first got to my hostel, people didn't even know the room was occupied. I can stay in our house for four days without opening the front door. Did I forget to say many people will hate you because they think you're proud and will tell their friends about your "evil deeds" so don't be suprised if someone you've not met hates you without any reason. I'm kinda shy and find it difficult relating with people I just met. However, I talk and joke a lot when I'm in the midst of my very close friends. So people who know only my silent side (course mates for example) are surprised when they see me talking in my inner caucus and they'll be like "so this dude can talk?". As a nerd, I'm on my pc or mobile most times and that increases my "introvertility" and you'll see people praying all kinds of evil prayers like "I pray you lose your laptop" etc. Being an introvert can be interesting especially if you don't give a damn about people or their opinions.

blackmarya:



It's not easy at all especially the emboldened

Slimtuns:
guys am I the only one who experiences this? people always question me whenever they see me that why don't I come out or why don't they usually See Me in the street or why am I always indoor? is it a crime to live one's life the way one pleases? I'm the type that don't see going out as a necessity unless I've got an important thing to do outdoors... I even feel disturbed sometimes if my friends come visiting. why don't people realize not everyone can be like them?

Slimtuns:
guys am I the only one who experiences this? people always question me whenever they see me that why don't I come out or why don't they usually See Me in the street or why am I always indoor? is it a crime to live one's life the way one pleases? I'm the type that don't see going out as a necessity unless I've got an important thing to do outdoors... I even feel disturbed sometimes if my friends come visiting. why don't people realize not everyone can be like them?

Theundertaker:
it’s normal , but don’t be rude about it, don’t feel offended by it either, just laugh it out , say something like “I just Dey relax” anyone who exaggerate about it , you just smile . When people care or like you and can’t hv u around often that’s what they say. They will get used to it, why don’t you like your friends visiting , I feel like if u hv friends willing to cm around knowing you would hardly reciprocate such actions , u should appreciate them.

Hakeem12:
That's society for you. "The mind is sharper and keener in seclusion and uninterrupted solitude. Originality thrives in seclusion free of outside influences beating upon us to cripple the creative mind." - Nikola Tesla.

Society is robbing people, especially young people of a lot of things.
1. Choice:The choice to be single, to not be on social media, to be a nerd, to get high and marvel Diotima's ladder of love or to be an atheist. Society robs the youth from thinking, from questioning women at the bus stops who are passing out Jesus flyers or who want you to attend NASFAT about them briefly explaining platonism and via Socrates dialectic method, opening their eyes. Faith is the new lust. Society wants everyone, not just the youths, not just introverts alone, to bow down, to give in to their demands.

2. Being ourselves. We are scared to have an opinion because if you are a Trump supporter for example, you are automatically a racist bigot. We are scared to end up on the losing side. We are scared to take opportunity because being an opportunist is bad and it is better to be unnoticed according to society. To be the majority, to be like everyone else is safer. We must have a label on our head. She is a lesbian, he is gay, he is too feminine, she is too masculine. We judge and are afraid to be judged. We are passive aggressive. We are afraid to speak up. We are afraid of "no" and failure. We are afraid of living, just crossing off the days in the calendar, in anticipation of what? Death? Don't live like that bro.

3. Love. Our society is now fast food everywhere. In each aspect of it, food. It has to be fast. It has to be a drive thru. Love? Screw that. Who wants a mortgage, a commitment, and old wrinkly wife with a tummy that's already pushed out four kids. It's better to have a fling, to have a moment of lust, to say "I love you" just after four weeks of dating. Dating is the new marriage, you dont believe me? Look around you. We stopped caring and acknowledging true beauty. We are even dumb to not know that all bodies are similar, we are contaminated with short term gratification. I was raised a muslim, mum's a Christian though, catholic, I can speak Arabic almost like a mother's tongue, also went to catholic school, but religion wasn't it for me. That was a choice, you make yours.

ekitimanalways:
You commented like a demented witch on crack.

Hakeem12:
That's society for you. "The mind is sharper and keener in seclusion and uninterrupted solitude. Originality thrives in seclusion free of outside influences beating upon us to cripple the creative mind." - Nikola Tesla.

Society is robbing people, especially young people of a lot of things.
1. Choice:The choice to be single, to not be on social media, to be a nerd, to get high and marvel Diotima's ladder of love or to be an atheist. Society robs the youth from thinking, from questioning women at the bus stops who are passing out Jesus flyers or who want you to attend NASFAT about them briefly explaining platonism and via Socrates dialectic method, opening their eyes. Faith is the new lust. Society wants everyone, not just the youths, not just introverts alone, to bow down, to give in to their demands.

2. Being ourselves. We are scared to have an opinion because if you are a Trump supporter for example, you are automatically a racist bigot. We are scared to end up on the losing side. We are scared to take opportunity because being an opportunist is bad and it is better to be unnoticed according to society. To be the majority, to be like everyone else is safer. We must have a label on our head. She is a lesbian, he is gay, he is too feminine, she is too masculine. We judge and are afraid to be judged. We are passive aggressive. We are afraid to speak up. We are afraid of "no" and failure. We are afraid of living, just crossing off the days in the calendar, in anticipation of what? Death? Don't live like that bro.

3. Love. Our society is now fast food everywhere. In each aspect of it, food. It has to be fast. It has to be a drive thru. Love? Screw that. Who wants a mortgage, a commitment, and old wrinkly wife with a tummy that's already pushed out four kids. It's better to have a fling, to have a moment of lust, to say "I love you" just after four weeks of dating. Dating is the new marriage, you dont believe me? Look around you. We stopped caring and acknowledging true beauty. We are even dumb to not know that all bodies are similar, we are contaminated with short term gratification. I was raised a muslim, mum's a Christian though, catholic, I can speak Arabic almost like a mother's tongue, also went to catholic school, but religion wasn't it for me. That was a choice, you make yours.

oyetpel:



Did you write this?