Mariangeles:


You see? Now that you've learned new words from him and how to use them in a sentence, aren't you better off?


Remember the thread about woman who lost interest in her partner of 9years yes? That is what happens eventually when a man relaxes and let his wife take on most of his responsibilities.

If you dig deep, a woman like no.bone takes on all that responsibilities either [b]because she's out to prove a point out of spite(at her own detriment) [/b]or has no option.
What woman would ask to fully take on her husband's role when he's capable and willing?
She will not tell you the whole story. Women like that end up being resentful and are easily irritated by their so-called husbands.
As a man, if your wife offers to do that much, do not allow it.
Don't let her overexert herself. It'll drain her out and she'll end up cursing you under her breath
You really need to learn how to love a woman. How to bring out the best in her for your sake.

A wife's duty is to support her husband and not to fully take on the responsibilities meant for a man. She does not have the strength to do that.
Don't be deceived by all that you read...there are always more sides to the story.

Most of those women do not trust or believe in their man's ability to provide or make anything happen - the men are there to donate sperm and fulfill societal demands of "I am a married woman". They know they married low par men and if they leave it to these men nothing will get done.

If those men win the lottery - they leave the woman 2 hours after winning - she is a placeholder wife. Her usefulness is paying bills.

How can a woman be paying school fees and the father of her child is employed and living under the same roof with her - and these lazy no good men are cheering that.

Shameful!!!

Let’s agree to disagree

Ybaby:


Donkey!

No real man collects money from his woman.

I wonder which woman is financially supporting Dangote/ Otedola etc .... it is low par men that collect money from women

Overwork?? The bible says man should toil!!! No real man is happy without his toil! No real man is happy without a job, No real man is happy without his sweat. Even lazy low par men like to pretend as if they are looking for work.


Man is happiest when he is working - when he gets home from work, run a warm bath, scrub his back, massage his lower brain and let him release his stress inside you, give him vitamins, pray for him, make sure the kids are well looked after and house is clean, delicious food and lots of peace.

Giving a man money emasculates him! Wanting him to succeed is very different from emasculating him, the above makes a man feel strong and masculine but giving him money makes him lazy and unmotivated.



He is not your son! He is your leader, your oga, your man..... but eh no concern me...

I have just one request - any time she buys him a car - she should advertise it on Instablog like Emoney does when he buys his wife a car.

Beta men and Builder women - Feminine men and Masculine women - 6 and 7



New International Version Genesis 3:17
To Adam he said, "Because you listened to your wife and ate fruit from the tree about which I commanded you, 'You must not eat from it,' "Cursed is the ground because of you; through painful toil you will eat food from it all the days of your life.

cococandy:
Let’s agree to disagree

Sweetie I never disagreed or agreed with you. You asked a question and I answered.

"when he gets home from work, run a warm bath, scrub his back, massage his lower brain and let him release his stress inside you, give him vitamins, pray for him, make sure the kids are well looked after and house is clean, delicious food and lots of peace"

And you wonder why they are so easy to replace, sent packing,kicked out and maltreated?. Lol. When you importance ends at being a intimacy gadget and house cleaner don't cry when you are treated as such.

"Do women support Dangote or Otedola? " The question should be How many Dangotes or Otedola do we have in Nigeria?

"How can a woman pay a child's school?" Is the child not hers too? What sane woman will have her child sent out of school because she is waiting for the husband to provide.?

So many jargons in one post! Just imagine!

Heiterkeit:


No, I am not a harlot. It's only a harlot who can deem a man good enough once he has money and can provide for her. It takes something more than a man's money to attract someone like me to him. In this part of the world I come from money is the least of our worry. Well, I don't like harlots who pretend not to be, I have nothing against harlots who own up their profession, so you can look elsewhere for another person to exchange words.

I have only one customer ......

The day you stop giving that man money - it is the same day he will leave you. He does not want you!!!!!!! You need to pay to keep him!!!! He is your harlot. I am my husband's harlot.

Nairaland never gets old

nobone:
Hubby is into biz, while I did a bank job.
I pay the nanny monthly. 90% of times, i paid the kids school fees before hubby would even know.I make sure I stock the house with toiletries and some groceries every month. I buy clothes for my kids, when I see their uniforms/ school bags, shoes and food flasks/lunch bags aren't good enough, I change them straight without looking back. I buy my clothes. Sometimes hubby does. As I do all these, I wasn't ever compelled. I wasn't either asked to. Out of my church mind I do these even more.
On Hubby's side, he stocks the house with foodstuffs every time. He doesn't give me money as most times I don't need it. I have access to all his accounts and most times we run his little business together. When I lost my job, I didn't have need for a nanny again, I paid her off cos she was a nice lady. Hubby took every responsibility 100%, but I still feel bad cos I don't want the biz money to run down.
As for your question, it depends on understanding. Be sincere to each other and in that way, you won't mind who pays what.

Meanwhile, I'm an applicant o! I can do any genuine job.

Sensible answer. Keep it up and ensure you hold that man tight

Mariangeles:


You see? Now that you've learned new words from him and how to use them in a sentence, aren't you better off?


Remember the thread about woman who lost interest in her partner of 9years yes? That is what happens eventually when a man relaxes and let his wife take on most of his responsibilities.

If you dig deep, a woman like no.bone takes on all that responsibilities either because she's out to prove a point out of spite(at her own detriment) or has no option.
What woman would ask to fully take on her husband's role when he's capable and willing?
She will not tell you the whole story. Women like that end up being resentful and are easily irritated by their so-called husbands.
As a man, if your wife offers to do that much, do not allow it.
Don't let her overexert herself. It'll drain her out and she'll end up cursing you under her breath
You really need to learn how to love a woman. How to bring out the best in her for your sake.

A wife's duty is to support her husband and not to fully take on the responsibilities meant for a man. She does not have the strength to do that.
Don't be deceived by all that you read...there are always more sides to the story.

Tell all this story to @nobone and her hubby. No go get runny stomach because of someone else's happy family o

cococandy:
How about if you support each other financially? You know like two people who want each other to succeed and not to over work themselves.

What category does that place the woman?
Queen or donkey?

Asking for a friend!

The mumu is either a single mother or having a bad marriage. Stop asking a frustrated person a question.

Ybaby (mumu), learn from her post and make your own marriage work. That's if you know what marriage means.

Cowbell521:
Sorry to say, you be Mumu. The fact that yours isn't so sweet as hers doesn't mean you should pound your frustration on her beautiful post. Go sit down jare.

I donot give money to a man neither do I pay bills

A capable man of valor sorts it all out on my behalf.

I am proud of that and it is sweet.

Cowbell521:
The mumu is either a single mother or having a bad marriage. Stop asking a frustrated person a question.

Ybaby (mumu), learn from her post and make your own marriage work. That's if you know what marriage means.

Lol

What does marriage mean? Marrying your mummy?

Ybaby:


I donot give money to a man neither do I pay bills

A capable man of valor sorts it all out on my behalf.

I am proud of that and it is sweet.

Mr Nice guy or Mr Mumu guy that you be able to kick like soccer. God save men from different version of females in the world these days.

Ybaby:


Lol

What does marriage mean? Marrying your mummy?

Yes, that Woman up there is like my Mum. She married a wealthy husband and still applied sense

I pity you. Are you even married? Because you are starting to annoy me

Cowbell521:
Yes, that Woman up there is like my Mum. She married a wealthy husband and still applied sense

I pity you. Are you even married? Because you are starting to annoy me

Who are you that I can annoy ?? Donot impregnate anyone until you can pay fees.

I am annoying to lazy men

Cowbell521:
Mr Nice guy or Mr Mumu guy that you be able to kick like soccer. God save men from different version of females in the world these days.

Paying Bill's and your kids school fees is not Mr mumu it is Mr responsible

Ybaby:


Who are you that I can annoy ?? Donot impregnate anyone until you can pay fees.

I am annoying to lazy men

An handicap calling me lazy? I'm not where I wish to be though, but if you are as hard working/responsible as I am, you won't need a man to meet your needs.


I pity the guy that will marry you

Heiterkeit:


No, I am not a harlot. It's only a harlot who can deem a man good enough once he has money and can provide for her. It takes something more than a man's money to attract someone like me to him. In this part of the world I come from money is the least of our worry. Well, I don't like harlots who pretend not to be, I have nothing against harlots who own up their profession, so you can look elsewhere for another person to exchange words.

Leave the Mumu alone, Madam
You are making sense

Romangalactic:

Tell all this story to @nobone and her hubby. No go get runny stomach because of someone else's happy family o

Seriously?? Do I come across to you as that?

Guy, you too fall hand aswear!

To think that I took you serious enough to try to engage in a conversation with you, you went ahead to disappoint me.

To me, you come across as a weak man who's been deeply hurt by a female, and is on a mission to take it out on every female he comes across.
Don't be blinded by vengeance, it'll only consume you.
Forget about whatsoever has been done to you and move on.
Let go of anger so that you can meet good people.

Poco insists you're Donstan18, but you know what? You're not him and I am very sure of that because you're not half as intelligent as he is.

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Fountainofyouth:
Nairaland never gets old

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Mariangeles:

[s]Seriously?? Do I come across to you as that?

Guy, you too fall hand aswear!

To think that I took you serious enough to try to engage in a conversation with you, you went ahead to disappoint me.

To me, you come across as a weak man who's been deeply hurt by a female, and is on a mission to take it out on every female he comes across.
Don't be blinded by vengeance, it'll only consume you.
Forget about whatsoever has been done to you and move on.
Let go of anger so that you can meet good people.

Poco insists you're Donstan18, but you know what? You're not him and I am very sure of that because you're not half as intelligent as he is.[/s]

Lmao,so in your mind you're the good people?
Good people with happiness & clear mind don't wish this much negativity on another woman who is simply taking charge of her life.
Who are you kidneying? You are hateful

Mariangeles:

If you dig deep, a woman like nobone takes on all that responsibilities either because she's out to prove a point out of spite(at her own detriment) or has no option.
What woman would ask to fully take on her husband's role when he's capable and willing?
She will not tell you the whole story. Women like that end up being resentful and are easily irritated by their so-called husbands.

Cowbell521:
Sorry to say, you be Mumu. The fact that yours isn't so sweet as hers doesn't mean you should pound your frustration on her beautiful post. Go sit down jare.

I wonder what is sweet in beeing so lazy as not to know when your children's school fees are up but rather choose to feign ignorance till your wife hustles like a donkey to pay bills.
God forbid I have such a sweet man as a hubby.