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Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Ybaby: 5:02pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
ogunboy: Get money! I hope all this huffing and puffing - you are not getting energy from the food your female donkey puts on your table. I am a woman, someone is feeding me.... you are a man you should be feeding someone. I expect to see you in business section not at the backyard here with me. Men are discussing business in property section. As a sheman grab a mop...... mope the shamelessness off your face. 10 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by ogunboy(m): 5:10pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Ogunboy |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Romangalactic(m): 5:18pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Lol, na wah |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Somodooo: 5:20pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
DreadedTerrorist:stop cancelling people's comments 2 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by bukatyne(f): 5:50pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Mariangeles: Is money the only thing a husband is to provide? Is money the only way a husband shows his love? 4 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by bukatyne(f): 5:53pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Mariangeles: You know the bold is a very nasty thing to say right? ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by bukatyne(f): 5:54pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Ybaby: This post is extremely disrespectful to the woman that posted it and family. 9 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by sisisioge: 6:04pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Wowzerful! The title of the thread was confusing for so long that I didn't bother to open it ![]() Meanwhile, honestly, the wife should pay for the maid in this instance or do the chores herself. Thankfully, the going rate is between 30-50k...everyone is a winner here. The husband does his part while the wife does hers. No one wants to die young biko...let's reduce the stress level as much as can be managed. I was watching Celine Dion' husband funeral yesterday and couldn't help feeling for her. Poor girl, she said her bestie is gone. Whew, biko husbands and wives should support each other while they still can. It is well. 2 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Romangalactic(m): 6:10pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
bukatyne:Nasty & hateful,and she busy preaching to me abt anger and hurt. lol 3 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by bukatyne(f): 6:11pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Palema007: You think a man would easily 'replace' a wife who does the above for him in addition to other things? It is easier to get a wife that will pay bills et all than one who would do the above for him. You need to understand that the above bar the kids is the allure a mistress has. 1 Like |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by bukatyne(f): 6:13pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Romangalactic: You also had an agenda inviting Y.baby to this thread with that post. 2 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Mariangeles(f): 6:14pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
bukatyne:No. It is the truth nobody wants to say. 7 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Romangalactic(m): 6:15pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
bukatyne:Of course,I wanted her to embarrass herself as usual & she dint fail. Dat is not my fault 5 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Nobody: 6:18pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
bukatyne:The bolded? Say no more. It is easier to get a wife that will pay bills ? Really? Now tell me more 3 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by bukatyne(f): 6:22pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Palema007: Even without the bolded. Such a wife is gold even if the bolded doesn't involve money. |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Mariangeles(f): 6:22pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
bukatyne: How else can a man show his love for his family if not by working hard to provide for them? On fathers' day, a man uploaded a picture of him with his children on his whatsapp status and captioned it " You make the hustle worth it" those words have deep meanings. Let us tell ourselves the truth. It is what it is. I'll keep saying God's truth no matter what. Stop deceiving men like Romangalactic to appear "better" than other women. If you doubt, study your bible. God hath made it so. 10 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Mariangeles(f): 6:25pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Romangalactic: No, I am not hateful. I am being truthful. 1 Like |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Romangalactic(m): 6:32pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Mariangeles:Keep telling yourself that if it will make u sleep well 3 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Nobody: 6:35pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
bukatyne:Well I believe it's all about preference/choice some Men love to cater for everything and have thropy wives, some don't. But reality is with the economy situation and Men realizing there's more to life than sex , Men are beginning to demand more or look for someone who would at least ease financial burden a bit. It's easier when two come together to decide and take care of family fiances. I don't see anything wrong in a woman supporting her husband financially. I don't see anything wrong with a woman paying "whatever" bills so long she has and it takes nothing from her Man either ( his esteem). Life is best enjoyed when both couples grow grey hair together and not when one of the couple's life is cut short with work because he was trying to cater for his family. I modified my former post, how is it easy for a man to find a woman who will share bills? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Mariangeles(f): 6:35pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Romangalactic:OK. ![]() Make I go watch Arsenal match...I dey come ![]() My boys them need me... In the meantime, you fit just drop all your bile, when I watch match finish, I go address them one by one |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Romangalactic(m): 6:39pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Mariangeles:Enough bile for u to address all written by your own hand ![]() Mariangeles: 4 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Vyolet(f): 7:03pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Ybaby:It is ok to have a contrary view about how others live their lives but such views can be stated without all the name callings. It is just like insulting another woman for choosing to be a full time housewife rather than someone that contributes financially to the home. What works for you may not work for another woman, marriage has no manual, what is most important is self respect, respect for matrimony and respect for each other. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Hathor5(f): 7:53pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Mariangeles: He can show love by making out quality time with his family. He can show love by telling his children bedtime stories. He can show love by praying for his family, attending church service with them. He can show love by cooking for his family. He can show love by being there on the first day of school and other important days. He can show love by teaching his children how to do things around the house. He can show love by telling his children stories about life. He can cuddle his children. He can encourage them, help with their school work in the subjects he is better at than his wife. He can go and watch his children play a match, visit a school event or a teacher-parents-conference. He can show love by listening and simply paying attention. He can soothe them when they cry or are scared. He can show them that he is there to protect them. Money is necessary. Everyone works unless they are lazy so it is a duty/responsibility, nothing extraordinary. Single people work too. "You make the hustle worth it." sounds like the man is struggling or at least not enjoying what he does. What about those men who have jobs they enjoy and to whom money comes easy? What about those men who inherited fortunes? If it is only money they have that can show their love, do they deserve a trophy for sharing with their loved one what came easily? What about poor men, they don't love their family? Do children from poor families doubt their fathers' love? 9 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Hathor5(f): 7:54pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Ybaby was Cinderella yesterday and a lady from a rich background today. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Hathor5(f): 7:56pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
bukatyne: Is it? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Drfernandez(m): 7:59pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Hathor5: They've finally hacked this account. The "Hathor5" I encountered the other day cannot be the same person who made this sensible post. As for @Mariangeles, sorry is your name. |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Hathor5(f): 8:01pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Drfernandez: I am a sweetheart until NL boys start living out their fantasies on NL. ![]() Which post did rub you the wrong way? 1 Like |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by bukatyne(f): 8:08pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Hathor5: You obviously do not understand her philosophy. She has said severally that women should earn money HOWEVER solely depend on their husbands financially while they (wives) provide the emotional needs of a home. 1 Like |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by bukatyne(f): 8:11pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Hathor5: Yes. The first part is acts of service which if done joyfully is heartwarming. While a lot of Nigerian women might WANT a husband who doesn't require them to pay Bills, the average Nigerian woman NEEDS to jointly (perhaps not in same ratio) pay the bills of the home. Cc: Palema007 |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Hathor5(f): 8:14pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Palema007: Not all men who want a working wife want her for financial reasons. Even some men who can afford to take care of all financial expenses alone are not satisfied with a woman who does not work. There are many men who want an ambitious, educated woman who has things going for herself, who is driven, who has a vision, who is influential and passionate about her profession or whatever she chooses to do outside. It's only on NL that men have two requirements, youth and beauty. In the world out there many men have higher standards. They want their wives to be and do more than just look pretty. 5 Likes |
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