Ekejoestar:
Lets wait for the married men

decatalyst:
You expect the man to keep the discovered amorous affair from the children and the neighbors and friends abi?

How possible is that? If a married woman or man is not shameless to engage in dirty relationship, he/she should not be ashamed to walk the walk of shame.
[b]
I beg let the ancestors know about it [/b]and end the damn relationship to avoid heartaches or possible poisoning!

Rozz:
And what about the damaging effect on the children?

Rozz:
they are asleep already, I so much want to know their views.Which moderator can move this to front page

Fountainofyouth:
I think it is wise to expose a cheating partner, so that;

1) If there is a threat to life, people will be aware of it

2) The world will know who the cheat is and prevent further spread of STDs or HIV

3) The kids will know why papa and mama want to separate or divorce, if the kids tell their friends in the process, good and fine, it won't hurt the faithful partner

4) In the future, hopefully after the divorce, the cheat won't come with a pity face to come back, shame and disgrace will let the cheat forever go underground or oblivion, as the case may be

Even the bible says that "he that covereth his sin will be exposed and put to shame", so exposing the disgusting cheat is your way of helping God speed up the process, and you will be rewarded for it.

yanabasee1:



The man is right.....


I've come to realize overtime that, if you must take action over something, you must be very brave and mustn't let out your plans....


If you have a cheating wife or partner and you want to end the marriage or relationship, you must act foolish and smart, else, you'd end up the victim.


Women are most taken by surprise in everything and they like to give up of it comes by surprise....

Rozz:
you are somehow right but so much damage comes along with it even the husband will experience a permanent damage,he will never get over the fact that people are aware of his wife's bad habits,he will be so bruised and feel small before people(low self esteem sets in) .He will heal faster if he conceal the wife's affair

Rozz:
[s]Thank you, in this case the woman even threatened the man for disgracing her.The man even said a married woman can go to any length to conceal her affairs even if it means killing her husband [/s]

Katier00:
I think this should be a personal decision considering who is involved and the reason for cheating. I don't think I will want everybody to know my partner is a cheat especially my children if they are young. I will quietly leave or desist from any sexual activities from my partner.

Rozz:
you are right and there's so much wisdom in concealing it, you may decide to quietly leave the person but not a good thing to make it public.

Romangalactic:

If you dare cheat on me,I will make sure everyone knows including your great grand parents wherever they were buried

Rozz:
your fiancee abi,how is she doing

CardiNice:
Lol absolute Nonsense.
There Is a saying that says:
If you do the crime, be ready to do the time.

I think that saying applies to all aspects of our lives.

As a man or woman that is legally married, if you want to cheat on your partner, then you should be ready for exposure when your cheating eventually comes out to the public, Friends and family.

There is no point cheating on your partner in secret if you know you are doing the right thing.

Now let me ask this question.

Will doing the right thing makes you fear of public exposure?

If No is your answer which makes doing the wrong thing brings public humiliation when caught.
Then why get angry when you get caught doing the wrong thing?

The law, both religious, traditional and government laws are for the man and against the cheating wife, so therefore there is absolutely nothing the woman can do.

As for the children, they will eventually find out either now or later.

Katier00:
I think this should be a personal decision considering who is involved and the reason for cheating. I don't think I will want everybody to know my partner is a cheat especially my children if they are young. I will quietly leave or desist from any sexual activities from my partner.

CardiNice:
It's not like we are all perfect but i believe that if eventually you want to cheat on your partner.

Make sure you do it discreetly and don't get caught, do it with that person that don't kiss and tell.

There are people even married couples that have been cheating on thier partners for like more than 10 years and above and their partners don't even know and will never ever know forever.

Yeah I'm talking from experience.

I know of a guy that has been sleeping with a very rich married woman for 10 years now and counting and they will likely take the secret to their graves.

Some people are professionals in the game.

So if you can't play the game, don't enter the field of play else you will get a rough tackle.

I am not trying to promote cheating, all I'm saying is that, don't smoke weed if you have a heart disease.

Everybody has a secret.