post=91093051:
Please read to understand not to give a mention.

Thegamingorca:



Its a pity what society has failed to teach these ones

ost = 91098046:
There is something you fail to teach yourself and it's Decorum. If you so much thirst for argument or fight,face the closest wall next to you.

This will be my last response to you here.

Klass99:
@ Hathor5 & Fieryy,

Bukatyne shared a sentiment I feel as well about working in a traditional 9 - 5 job. She shared that at my request and on my thread, when I specifically sought her opinion and help with my own dilemma. Hathor you were there too.

I think it's grossly unfair of both of you, to take her words so out of context and use it to mock her, like you're doing. It's not nice and I don'tlike it either, because if she hadn't shared her thoughts on my thread you (Hathor) won't have that piece of intel to use against her here or for others to pick up on it and continue with the cattiness.

We can disagree with each other, without being catty, petty or bitchy. I'm speaking to every sane woman here, including men too.

Nastiness towards each other is very unnecessary. If it causes you your peace of mind, it's not worth it.

Klass99:
@ Hathor5 & Fieryy,

Bukatyne shared a sentiment I feel as well about working in a traditional 9 - 5 job. She shared that at my request and on my thread, when I specifically sought her opinion and help with my own dilemma. Hathor you were there too.

I think it's grossly unfair of both of you, to take her words so out of context and use it to mock her, like you're doing. It's not nice and I don'tlike it either, because if she hadn't shared her thoughts on my thread you (Hathor) won't have that piece of intel to use against her here or for others to pick up on it and continue with the cattiness.

We can disagree with each other, without being catty, petty or bitchy. I'm speaking to every sane woman here, including men too.

Nastiness towards each other is very unnecessary. If it causes you your peace of mind, it's not worth it.

fieryy:


Dear Klass99,

How about you cut off the sentimental bullsh*t?

First of all, what you feel and what buka feels is none of my business.

Secondly, my post isn't based on how buka 'feels' about the traditional 9 to 5 job. Unlike her, I don't try to impose my beliefs on others. So if she's not a fan of traditional jobs, then fine...As long as she's happy

Thirdly, I'm not taking her words out of context. She said it herself 'I don't like my job/ working 9 - 5. I am tired of it' . How do you take that out of context?

Also, I'm not going to come here and pretend I'm not petty. I am petty as heeeeelll. In fact honey, I'm the Queen of Pettiness, lmaoooooooo However, this time around I wasn't even trying to be petty! Tf?!

Lastly, I had an epiphany. It finally occurred to why Buka is always so hell bent on imposing the traditional house wife lifestyle on young ladies. It's not only because she loves that role, but it is also because she hates her job!

Let me enjoy my epiphany moment, will you? And if my moment is what you define as nastiness, lmaoooooooo

It is what it is

bukatyne:


I impose house wife styles on young girls from my laptop and phone?

Hahahahahahahaha!

Another person on this thread still accused me of encouraging women to be spend too much in the home?

Una never start.

[b]Don't have epiphany in how to progress in life, [/b]be having epiphany on top my matter on how/why I am forcing young girls on internet to be housewives.

bukatyne:


I impose house wife styles on young girls from my laptop and phone?

Hahahahahahahaha!

Another person on this thread still accused me of encouraging women to be spend too much in the home?

Una never start.

Don't have epiphany in how to progress in life, be having epiphany on top my matter on how/why I am forcing young girls on internet to be housewives.

Klass99:
@ Hathor5 & Fieryy,

Bukatyne shared a sentiment I feel as well about working in a traditional 9 - 5 job. She shared that at my request and on my thread, when I specifically sought her opinion and help with my own dilemma. Hathor you were there too.

I think it's grossly unfair of both of you, to take her words so out of context and use it to mock her, like you're doing. It's not nice and I don'tlike it either, because if she hadn't shared her thoughts on my thread you (Hathor) won't have that piece of intel to use against her here or for others to pick up on it and continue with the cattiness.

We can disagree with each other, without being catty, petty or bitchy. I'm speaking to every sane woman here, including men too.

Nastiness towards each other is very unnecessary. If it causes you your peace of mind, it's not worth it.

bukatyne:


You are very right.

Paying bills is easier than catering to your man (wouldn't say family because a mother would traditionally do anything for her kids)

Yep, typical black community hypes B above A.

Hence the tags 'Strong Independent Black Woman' If you are not going to rely on your husband (Spiritually, Physically, Emotionally, Financially etc.) why marry?

And this goes both ways.

Funny enough, men never do this independent sh*t. The moment they are in a relationship, they leverage on the woman's strengths to make a formidable team.

I wonder why I have never heard 'Strong Independent White Woman'

bukatyne:

Hahahahaahhahahaha

I don't like my job/ working 9 - 5. I am tired of it I said it myself so you did not discover or unearth the 8th wonder of the world.

You cannot effectively work out of the home and run the home as it should be.

Well, maybe you can be at two places at the same time, I can't and I concede to that.

nobone:
Hubby is into biz, while I did a bank job.
I pay the nanny monthly. 90% of times, i paid the kids school fees before hubby would even know.I make sure I stock the house with toiletries and some groceries every month. I buy clothes for my kids, when I see their uniforms/ school bags, shoes and food flasks/lunch bags aren't good enough, I change them straight without looking back. I buy my clothes. Sometimes hubby does. As I do all these, I wasn't ever compelled. I wasn't either asked to. Out of my church mind I do these even more.
On Hubby's side, he stocks the house with foodstuffs every time. He doesn't give me money as most times I don't need it. I have access to all his accounts and most times we run his little business together. When I lost my job, I didn't have need for a nanny again, I paid her off cos she was a nice lady. Hubby took every responsibility 100%, but I still feel bad cos I don't want the biz money to run down.
As for your question, it depends on understanding. Be sincere to each other and in that way, you won't mind who pays what.

Meanwhile, I'm an applicant o! I can do any genuine job.

pocohantas:
Read Nobone’s comment and I was smiling...

Then the thread went boom!!!

Ahnahn. That escalated too fast.

Mariangeles:


Where were you that day?

pocohantas:


I just didn’t to through my following. My energy level was low I think.

Mariangeles:

It happens
...but ehn, that crazy Roman dude stalked the hell out me that day
I swear, for some moment, I desperately needed you to help me kick an ass but you were nowhere to be seen

yettymuse:





But always remember say only your own hands would never disappoint you as a woman. Your own money is your shock absorber. You need to make your own money to avoid nonsense!


.... But you see Man money...na goldmine... na him sweet pass! Pray to chop am, no be noise.. Your life go soft!

woman wey man dey spoil no get two heads abeg

Romangalactic:

She was on a ban,who would have thunk
And u ladybug, stop talking abt me behind my back. You know u can handle me, I'm not too big there

Mariangeles:


I know.


My favourite nairaland leech.

Romangalactic:

Who no like better thing

Mariangeles:


You?
Iffa hear...

Romangalactic:

Well I like u, unless you're saying you no be better thing

Ask me why I like you

Mariangeles:


Why?

Romangalactic:

Cos you eat a lot of fruits and will have very sweet smelling breath. Kissing u will be life

Mariangeles:



Chai!

gugus1:
Hello dear Nairalanders. I hope all is well with all otherwise continue to struggle positively and time would make things heal.

This topic is actually raised to address the issue of average families where both spouse earn little, but also when the man is taking care of the basic responsibility of house rent,school fees, PHCN bills, DStv, security and lawma. Etc.

My question is since the woman is also a working class, especially when she earns more than the man. Is it proper for the man to hire a house help for the domestic work.

Please only genuine opinions and no childish contributions.
Thanks

bukatyne:


This post is extremely disrespectful to the woman that posted it and family.

Ybaby:


Joker!

bukatyne:


How have you been?

Klass99:
@ Mariangeles, Bukatyne, Hathor5 you ladies are falling my hand with all this subtle jabs you are throwing at each other. Please cut it out. Usually it's male monikers attacking female ones, unnecessarily and without provocation.

Ybaby, na you fall hand pass. What happened to communicating in a civil manner, without insults and with basic respect for other people's opinions? Your comments were extremely rude and uncalled for. Like seriously, how do you get off calling another woman a donkey because she does right by her family, in her own way? How?