A lot of things can change the woman's sexual urge especially Child birth and such drastic change takes the partner unawares. I think this should be handled during pre-marital classes so that our men would not be building castles in the air..

Lack of sexual urge in marriage especially after child birth is real and should be handled with care.

Thank you

Ningen:
Married men cheat 70% of the time because of sex deprivation. So they don't have a choice but to venture outside for satisfaction.

This is why the sexual compatibility should not be undermine or taken for granted when dating.

70%? Lmao statistics according to who? See, regardless of how much sex you offer, a man that will cheat will cheat o! There's this pleasure associated with "chiking" a lady and eventually getting down with her that men miss when they are married. Some are already used to having different women.

0rion:



THEY WON'T TALK BECAUSE THEY KNOW THEY DO IT.


WOMEN LIKE POWER, AND LIKE TO CONTROL. THEY FEEL THAT DENYING THE SPOUSE SEX HAS GIVEN THEM THE POWER OVER HIM.

And men hand them that power by Begging. Simply buy a good sex doll and you'll b good.

Well if I'm to say anything, I'll say his wife is up to something. Any woman who use sex as a bargaining chip has something up her sleeve and she shouldn't be trusted.

Still I'm surprise he didn't discover this when they were dating. Things like this is what the man is suppose to know while dating/courting his wife to be.

Forget all this nonsense talk of no sex before marriage. It's all a lie from the pit of religion.

Cheap excuse to cheat .


He should keep making excused untill he gets infected with HIV/AIDS in

Maslow's hierarchy of need, Food , Sex , Affection, fulfillment etc, out of all the human needs Sex and Food are involuntary, whether you like it or not you get hungry, whether you like it or not you get Hooorrrnny

Most rich men have concubines and oloshos that's why you see all those flashy girls on Instagram


See women have unstable hormones, coupled with stress , genital mutilation, and complexity of their orgasm , it's very hard for a man to be happy sexually with just a woman, and having a relationship would ruin your marriage, so do like politicians and carry disposable use and pay pvssy aka olosho


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ibkonekt:
all women are like that

Gbam

lefulefu:
99 percent of women who deprive their husbands of sex are actually having active sex with other men.its because of the guilty concience they refuse having sex with their husbands

The way you guys drop statistics here ba... Someone would think you did an official survey or handed out questionaires to gather data.

Dangrace01:
If you are a married woman and you are here please say something. Why are married men complaining of this

Well, I didn't want to talk before, though I'm not married, but with this thread, Nigerian men are so unreasonable, all they think about is sex. When their mates are making money, rubbish thread with comments

lefulefu:
99 percent of women who deprive their husbands of sex are actually having active sex with other men.its because of the guilty concience they refuse having sex with their husbands

Not really ,but some cheat.some women are naturally not sexuslly active therefore it doesn't interest them, that is why their men cheat on them.

4ckz:


Some people had this mindset, got married yet faced the same problem.
Don't you know that most women do not deprive their guys of sex during courtship, yet the same women change after marriage.

Some people actually experience the opposite - once married she wants sex all the time!

ModestGal:

Well, I didn't want to talk before, though I'm not married, but with this thread, Nigerian men are so unreasonable, all they think about is sex. When their mates are making money, rubbish thread with comments

pardon me, what stops you from making money? Or is making money now the sole responsibility of a man?

From what you said, I won't be surprise you're the type of woman who wants to get married to a rich man and feel entitled to his money because you have the title of wife.

Eddie18:
Not really ,but some cheat.some women are naturally not sexuslly active therefore it doesn't interest them, that is why their men cheat on them.

well it doesnt make sense for a man who loves sex to just go and marry a woman who hates sex.

CanadaOrBust:


Some people actually experience the opposite - once married she wants sex all the time!

Now that's something. Could still be a great deal of problem though.

A married woman that denies sex when it's not based on health or injury is a manipulator.

From the post alone and experience the op wrote he picked the wrong woman.

I will personally throw you out if you try to manipulate me with anything, it's toxic behaviour and I'd rather be left to myself than glued to anyone like that in marriage.

ModestGal:

Well, I didn't want to talk before, though I'm not married, but with this thread, Nigerian men are so unreasonable, all they think about is sex. When their mates are making money, rubbish thread with comments

According to you men should not seek pleasure and deprive themselves, all they should live their life for is making money right? Then why blame hushpuppi and politicians

ModestGal:

Well, I didn't want to talk before, though I'm not married, but with this thread, Nigerian men are so unreasonable, all they think about is sex. When their mates are making money, rubbish thread with comments

it would have been ok if u didn't say anything,your comment expose u to b low in that side

No sensible woman should deny her husband sex. A woman must never weaponise sex in marriage. Any woman who does that is asking for trouble.

etrange:


70%? Lmao statistics according to who? See, regardless of how much sex you offer, a man that will cheat will cheat o! There's this pleasure associated with "chiking" a lady and eventually getting down with her that men miss when they are married. Some are already used to having different women.

Correct.

4ckz:


Some people had this mindset, got married yet faced the same problem.
Don't you know that most women do not deprive their guys of sex during courtship, yet the same women change after marriage.

Hmmm

I had u say 3times a week,u will likely xperience d man's life xperience.

My neighbor own,him dey aboundon him wife and children go another city after flexin him go land.

davien:
A married woman that denies sex when it's not based on health or injury is a manipulator.

From the post alone and experience the op wrote he picked the wrong woman.

I will personally throw you out if you try to manipulate me with anything, it's toxic behaviour and I'd rather be left to myself than glued to anyone like that in marriage.

aptly put bro.

The man should be given a slight blame for not telling the family his reason for cheating when he was caught cheating.

They will become professional script writers when they want to find an excuse to cheat.

I won't delve into the marital Crisis but every man must learn to be a good man for Himself.There are men who don't Cheat so it's very possible to keep to ur spouses.
There are men who are very successful in marriage,who have mastered the art of looking away.
You can always get all that negative thoughts outta your head by first Kicking alcohol outta life and think Straight thereby eventually Kicking Sin away from your Life.
The body will not be where the Legs does not take it to,So learn to Control thyself and thy movements.
No man is truly Independent If He can not control Himself.

The more you look; the less you see.

Dangrace01:
If you are a married woman and you are here please say something. Why are married men complaining of this

There are so many things men don't put into consideration. Sex for men is different for woman. A man can easily be aroused for anything, anytime and anywhere. Sex for women involves emotion excepts prostitutes who money is their motivations. MArriage comes with challenges that weigh women down. Find ways to make your wife always look forward to making love instead of rushing in and out, cos it becomes burden. Marry a seemly perfect hot side chick, if you don't do things right you will have same complain.

Another thing us child birth and pregnancy usually have effect on some women which if you understand, you will work it out together.

SweetCunt97:
And men hand them that power by Begging. Simply buy a good sex doll and you'll b good.

Sex with a Greedy olosho is cheaper

Ok

After marriage, some men no longer make effort to satisfy their women sexually. Ask a lot of married women, they'll tell you their husband is a one minute man. But this same man will put in more effort to sexually satisfy a concubine.

J111333:
Some women actually find sex boring but after certain experiences, that can be reversed. Some of them are even bisexual without knowing it.
I've met quite a few, the man needs to spice up their bed sessions a bit and with time, na the woman go begin dey pull down his pants sef.

Visiting ashawo joint is an irresponsible thing to do as a man.

better than rape or manipulation


Guy dont Judge ooo......all man4his own
Life is deep

Hmmm

Clinghton:
Social media has made every private discussion public

I dey tell u