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Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by ume1000: 2:01pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
femmoy:pride of fools |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by ariklawani(f): 2:33pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
Amen.. I am a woman |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by ariklawani(f): 2:36pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
Maybe you don't understand me.. You u should never and ever use sex to punish your husband or wife... Sex can also settle any fight bw you and your husband.... 1 Like |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by ibkonekt(m): 2:37pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
Biodun1929: yeah i agree with you, when i said all women it was a generalization but they are the few exceptions to the rule which you have put numbers to . however to answer your second paragraph i think women even have more sex drive than men but women lie alot, the same woman (married or single) that we all claim has lower sex drive(old ladies or fat ladies or mothers) is busy sleeping with very attractive, six packs men. its all about who she wants to sleep with against who she is actually sleeping with 2 Likes |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by AJORE(m): 2:48pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
The most sensible comment since morning. Kudos to u � J111333: 2 Likes |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by AJORE(m): 2:51pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
Wa gbayi �. My uncle have 3 wifes na him head safe him d day I was to be killed in his concubine house. phemmyfour: |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by BalogunIdowu(m): 2:56pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
Tadeknkeepcalm: No, it's an archaic way. But some women prefers to still use another landline outside the house that the one available at home. |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by spiralwedge(m): 3:03pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
Faithful4real: That's sexist. In this generation, you don't take care of anybody but the kids. Any other thing or person is 50-50 or as agreed |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by spiralwedge(m): 3:04pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
bigcasava1: You are off topic, abeg. |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by fashionale(m): 3:39pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
akaahs: Hmmmm... This is serious, my advice for you is if she's someone that listens to you, you can teach her about love making. Nobody born of woman that doesn't love sex, just that the person hasn't met someone that will bring out the freaky side of sex life in him or her. but if she doesn't listen to you, my brother run for your life. Problems fit start from there enter your marriage. And if you're not a sex freaking person, you two can work. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by JBoss25(m): 4:01pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
phemmyfour:lol you're spot on |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by mrkia(m): 4:04pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
Thank God I'm a Muslim |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by femmoy(m): 4:15pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
ume1000:no need exchanging words with an unfortunate mad dog. Go and die. |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by abiolaoladipupo(m): 4:58pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
0rion: NO MATTER HOW MANY TIMES YOU ENGAGE THEM IN SUCH DISCUSSION THEY'LL STILL CHANGE AFTER MARRIAGE, BUT I THINK THE REASON FOR THIS IS BECAUSE THEY FELT LIKE THEY'VE GOTTEN WHAT THEY WANTED SO THEY COULD DO AS THEY LIKE... MOST LADIES GIVE THEIR PARTNER BACK TO BACK WHILE DATING. BUT THE WHOLE THING CHANGE IMMEDIATELY AFTER MARRIAGE. |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Nobody: 5:06pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
steveekeoma: I honestly used to judge married men that cheat, before I got into the same boat, and trust me - no matter how resolved you are not to, sex deprivation would make you start looking out - its pure biology. Women would do anything in the bedroom to get hooked, and once they get married, they relax cos they know they don't have to hustle anymore, as they have found a beast of burden to provide, protect and shelter her and her children. That's the God-honest truth. If your wife knows you are not really the womanizing type, she would rest easy in knowing you aren't going anywhere, and would occasionally gas-light you with talking about how having sex outside is immoral. B.S!!! Sex for most women (whether they admit it or not) is currency, the same way a man's strength and ability to provide is also currency. The problem is once a woman gets what she wants (the stability, provision, and protection marriage offers), she really isn't under any compulsion to put out anymore. Sex is the direct equivalent for men to the feminine need for validation through conversation and processing. When Men ask for sex, they are seeking connection with the love of their life. They are seeking confirmation that they are good husbands and fulfilling partners. They are seeking validation that they are appreciated for all the hard work they do for their families and the things above that I do solely for their wives. Men need to feel attractive and desirable too. And, most importantly, they are seeking the most effective and real way she can say, “I Love you, thank you.” As a man, not having enough sex harms your health by impairing your testosterone levels, as well as puts you at higher risk for prostate cancer. Healthy testosterone levels assure you of a healthy cardiovascular system, stronger bones, muscle growth, reduced fat, improved mood, and better verbal memory, spatial abilities, or mathematical reasoning. Your testosterone also affects your drive, and hence might be providing a psychological barrier to how you push your goals; every single fit and successful man I know is very active in the bedroom. So get this, by your wife denying you sex, she is slowly endangering your health. So my advice? Don't substitute sex for jerking off (its only temporary relief, and messes with you in the long run); if your partner does not see the need to fulfill your carnal desires, then get a mistress of FWB (I don't subscribe to patronizing prostitutes). A lot of present-day morality like monogamy are a western invention that do not take into account how nature actually designed men to function. Men in different cultures across the world for several millennia have sought regular sex cos that's how they are wired, and if your partner won't budge, then your conscience should be free. Don't be a victim of a sexless marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Nobody: 5:09pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
1972xy: There is nowhere in the bible that advocates monogamy; its a western invention. |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Nobody: 5:51pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
UjuJoan2: Is it not more honourable for her to quit? |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by lozanni(m): 6:09pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
VULCAN: You are quite wrong as it has value to some middle class and upper class citizens. The very poor ones might not be able to solve such problem as, sadly, the daily rigours of searching for means to fend for their families, might leave both husband and wife completely exhausted at the end of the day. However, provision of modern transport facilities, like the light rail, can reduce travel time to one hour, to and from the office; also provision of Hi-Tech internet and communication facilities that ensures you do not spend the night at the office ( especially Bankers), will give couples more time for themselves and their children. |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Corporate2020: 6:24pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
dodelight: Yes, Christianity demonized Polygamy but allows serial Monogamy. You can be married as many times as possible but you can have only one wife at a time, you can also have numerous side chicks, but do not be caught red handed. |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Hathor5(f): 6:27pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
cococandy: If I tell you why Nairaland will run out of space. 1 Like |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Hathor5(f): 6:41pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
pocohantas: You are not normal. |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Frvncis(m): 6:50pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
lefulefu:Then wait for you to cheat for them to play their victim card |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Nobody: 6:55pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
Frvncis:one thing is women are very smart in that angle..they hardly get caught .na only man no dey hide im own.if a man is cheating he does it in the open |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Hathor5(f): 6:57pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
DrLiveLogic: I can't tell you what makes women click because we are all different. In fact, some women are so different from me, they could be from a different planet. Some women don't want to have sex because they feel unattractive after child birth, some women don't want sex because oga has mouth odor and refuses to see the dentist, some women don't want to have sex because they are tired, some women don't want to have sex because oga doesn't know what he is doing in the bedroom, some women suffer from vaginal dryness. There are countless possible reasons why a woman would not enjoy sex and since every situation is unique individual solutions must be sought. 2 Likes |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by capnies: 8:03pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
Most of the story about sex deprivation is because men have refused to take their position in leadership. Sex with your wife is call duty, which means your wife should pay you for performing the duty on her. Which she does by keeping the home clean cooking and washing, so if she refuses you to pay her for her own duty please keep your energy and converted it to other profitable venture |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by seanjy4konji: 8:34pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
lefulefu:baba your head is very Mich there.. How to know when your wife has just cheated. She might come in and start unnecessary argument..guilty conscience.. YOU MIGHT COME AND AND SHE START PREPPARING ROOD SHE CAN NOT OREPARE ROR JESUS CHRIST FOR YOU AND OVER PKAY FUL . She will always tell you I am tired when you initiate sex and the phone locking and flight mode starts. I am tired just know one stupid boy is sexing her behind you. |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Nobody: 8:41pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
seanjy4konji:gbam! any smart husband is quick to pick on these symptoms..though some husbands are naive and the only time they find out their wife is cheating is when a hotel staff tells him that his wife come to lodge in the hotel he is working with a strange man .refusing her husband sex is one of the symptoms she is getting it elsewhere.she could be getting it with a fellow woman(lesbian) or another man. 1 Like |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Nobody: 8:48pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
0rion:there are women who feel shy or embarrased discussing sex with their husbands.they are more relaxed when they discuss sex with their boyfriends or ex.for example if the husband is straight laced or old fashioned she wouldnt want to discuss sex with him in order for him not to tag her a harlot. |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Funkyswagzz(m): 8:51pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
PEREZPERECTUS: Yah very much.. that is if u pet her and use sweet names she will always love u |
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