Hear my story. I am Igala by tribe. When i was in the village this thing happen more than 12 years ago.

A lady i was dating then got pregnant and she told me about it, then i asked her what's the next step, she told me that she will abort the baby. One month later, another story that she will not give me the baby because my mother doesn't like her.

Before she gave birth to the baby, i traveled to town and got work in one of the federal universities. I spent two years without going back to the village. The last time i traveled to village, i noticed that she is married to another man with two children o. I asked her of my baby, she told me to divorce my wife and marry her before she can give my baby or if i try any thing funy she is going to charm me.

I told my uncle about it, he told me to forget about the baby that God has already given me a good wife and three children.

This whole thing is giving me sleepless night. I can't sleep. I am always thinking of my baby and my wife is noticing some changes in me.

Please what will i do? Should i take legal action on her? pls advice me ooooo. The woman is my first love, i will continue to love her till i die. She is the only woman i ever loved, even more than my wife. I love this woman but she cost me pain.

hmm

I think you need to talk to her more.

i no ppl with charm

Better Op just created another thread, while some are doing bull fight on the other. Lol


Well Op, i will advise you let that child be. But even if you must take her away from her mother, be certain that your wife will take and treat her like her daughter. Sometimes we all have to put our egos aside and decide on what's best for the children. That child's welfare should the your priority and not your ego.

i no my ppl with charm even her parent surport her and my mother did not want to bring the issue out all my sister my brother my village ppl no dat baby s my but sometime i think woman are heartless

she might have lied to her husband about the baby. why did you also left her and your baby for a long time.

should i take legal action

Just relax blood always connect,when it's time ur child will come to U

I think you should move on...

, let's your family go to her family to beg

Let me wait for Babyteejay to comment first

ukpahu:
i no my ppl with charm even her parent surport her and my mother did not want to bring the issue out all my sister my brother my village ppl no dat baby s my but sometime i think woman are heartless

Omaye,i know it will be a hard decision
But just don't force things
Your child will always be your child
For the sake of your children,wife,parents and loved ones,just don't put your life at risk.
People are wicked in this world

do DNA test
no b ur baby

ukpahu:
[color=#006600][/color]hear my story i am igala by tribe when i was in the village this thing happen more dan 12year ago a lady i was datting then got pregnant and she told me about it,then i ask her what s the nextstep she told me dat she will abort the baby one mounth later s another story dat she will not give me d baby becoures of my mother no like her before she give to the baby i travel to tawn and get work in one of the federal university i spend two year without go back to village the last time i travel to village i notice dat she s marry to another man with two children o ask her of my baby she told to divorce my wife n marry her before she can give my baby or if i try any thing funy she s going to charm me i told my uncle about it he told to forget about d baby dat God hv already give a good wife and three children, this hole thing s giving me sleepless night i cant sleep i alway thinking of my baby and my wife s noticing some change in me pls wat will i do should i take legal action on her pls advice me ooooo

I want to advise you, Op, I really do but I can't comprehend your write up. Add a paragraph or two to increase legibility. Thank you

Sixfeetbelle:


I want to advise you, Op, I really do but I can't comprehend your write up. Add a paragraph or two to increase legibility. Thank you

The write-up get as e be. What a turnoff!

Bros ..relax first.

So far say the pikin dey alright, sooner or later... positive stuffs go give you greenlight via his end(s)

Sixfeetbelle:


I want to advise you, Op, I really do but I can't comprehend your write up. Add a paragraph or two to increase legibility. Thank you

Bro....it's not hard to comprehend ....just reread again.

Funny enough,the OP might be a lecturer in that university he claims to be working with,his english is superb

Sixfeetbelle:


I want to advise you, Op, I really do but I can't comprehend your write up. Add a paragraph or two to increase legibility. Thank you

And a lot of fullstops and commas, this write-up has no punctuation.

DrFunmisticGlow:
And a lot of fullstops and commas, this write-up has no punctuation.

no time for dat bross

ukpahu:
[color=#006600][/color]hear my story i am igala by tribe when i was in the village this thing happen more dan 12year ago a lady i was datting then got pregnant and she told me about it,then i ask her what s the nextstep she told me dat she will abort the baby one mounth later s another story dat she will not give me d baby becoures of my mother no like her before she give to the baby i travel to tawn and get work in one of the federal university i spend two year without go back to village the last time i travel to village i notice dat she s marry to another man with two children o ask her of my baby she told to divorce my wife n marry her before she can give my baby or if i try any thing funy she s going to charm me i told my uncle about it he told to forget about d baby dat God hv already give a good wife and three children, this hole thing s giving me sleepless night i cant sleep i alway thinking of my baby and my wife s noticing some change in me pls wat will i do should i take legal action on her pls advice me ooooo the woman is my first love i will continue love her till i die she s the only woman i ever love even my wife i love this woman but she cost me pain

How old is this "baby" now?

ukpahu:
no time for dat bross

Then no time to advice that Trainwreck of a writeup.

Go back and insert punctuations, let us understand what you are saying. Then maybe we can help you.

I'm beginning to question your educational qualifications

What are meant for you will b for you. Calm down let God do his things in wonder later or sooner, she will be the one begging you.

Sixfeetbelle:


I want to advise you, Op, I really do but I can't comprehend your write up. Add a paragraph or two to increase legibility. Thank you

Everybody cannot speak, or write like Harvard graduates, others have read, understood and given their advice..obviously he can't express himself well, Nairaland is not only for the brilliant.

I'm beginning to question your educational qualifications[/quote]


No need for this na

It shall be well with all of you reading this,

from today you all shall be blessed without measures!

Your cups shall flow unimaniginably well!

Op you shall live a ripe fruitfull old age,
your life is blessed

peace!

Oga tell us d Truth! u want ur baby or u missed d woman n u still crave for her?
What were u thinking in d last 12years? u hated her dis while cos she married another man when u r away, now u r seeing her frequently and she has apologies right? Then Gbam d old feelings is back.
Oga forget, u want to start digging ur grave by urself n for urself,
U better come off those feelings n face ur wife n kid.
trouble dey sleep yanga go wake am
pikin wey u no miss for over 12years. YEYE MAN

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